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What Makes It All Worth It?

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“Only a life lived for oth­ers is worth liv­ing” — Albert Einstein

Today was the end of our children’s soc­cer sea­son. I coached my younger son’s team. We had a year of ups and downs, but really fin­ished the year on a high note. It was a fun year (we have a sea­son in the fall and spring) and I had a lot of fun coach­ing. We cel­e­brated the end of the sea­son, not because we won, but because we improved and grew as a team. So, the ques­tion is, was coach­ing this team all worth the time and effort that went into it?

It’s all worth it because at the end of the sea­son I feel like I have helped some­one else (the kids on the team), I have devel­oped rela­tion­ships, and I feel appre­ci­ated. Am I always reminded of this? No. And I’m sure you’re not either all the time. Some­times will be dif­fi­cult, and some will be eas­ier. Some­times the dif­fi­cult times lead to great lessons. In the end, what you put in is what you get out. And, I believe that if you feel work work is appre­ci­ated, and you feel you are help­ing some­one else — that is what makes it worth it to you too.

So, think about those times in your life where you have all this in har­mony. And be thank­ful for the moments you have like this that really make it all worth it.

The Challenges We Embrace, It’s All Good

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“The last three or four reps is what makes the mus­cle grow. This area of pain divides the cham­pion from some­one else who is not a cham­pion. That’s what most peo­ple lack, hav­ing the guts to go on and just say they’ll go through the pain no mat­ter what hap­pens.” — Arnold Schwarzenegger

Delayed Onset Mus­cle Sore­ness (DOMS) is the pain or dis­com­fort felt sev­eral hours (24 to 48 typ­i­cally) after exer­cis­ing. I’m cur­rently suf­fer­ing from this.

After a break from resis­tance train­ing, I got back at it this week. Today I am feel­ing the effects (DOMS) from the lower body exer­cises I did on Tues­day night. Some at my house think it’s funny as I strug­gle to sit down, stand up, or go up and down stairs.

But I’m ok with all of it. I’m ok because I see this as progress. Progress because I’m work­ing to improve my body. It’s adjust­ing to these changes, and that’s the mus­cle sore­ness I’m feeling.

This is not unlike how your head may hurt after absorb­ing a lot of new infor­ma­tion, or heart might be pound­ing after tak­ing on some chal­leng­ing project. In all these cases, we are grow­ing. Grow­ing stretches us and chal­lenges us. In the case of my resis­tance train­ing exer­cises, I have chal­lenged the mus­cles in my legs. In so doing this, they have responded by grow­ing, and in the grow­ing process the mus­cles that were stag­nant have been forced to change. In this change, I feel soreness.

As we grow and change in what­ever we are doing, this can cre­ate new chal­lenges (for me, it was chal­lenges to my mus­cles). But it is in this growth process that we change who we are. The key, then, would be that we make changes that are for the better.

I chal­lenge you to go out there and grow your­self in some new area of your life. And embrace the changes that this brings, even though it may not be easy along the way. In the end, if you are true to your self and goals you desire, the chal­lenges you face along the way will all be worth it. You’ll come out a changed per­son, and stronger because of the growth you went through.

It’s all good.

The High Cost of Being Overweight

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“For the first time ever, over­weight peo­ple out­num­ber aver­age peo­ple in Amer­ica. Doesn’t that make over­weight the aver­age then? Last month you were fat, now you’re aver­age — hey, let’s get a pizza! — Jay Leno

Have you ever thought about it? How much it costs to be over­weight, that is.

Accord­ing to this arti­cle on MSN — the cost is $487 bil­lion. See the arti­cle for the specifics on how they came up with this figure.

For here, we’ll just talk about what this means. It means that if you are in good health and not over­weight, you ben­e­fit from lower gas costs in your car, less mate­r­ial used in your clothes, less vis­its to the doc­tor, and increased pro­duc­tiv­ity — to name a few of the ben­e­fits. Quan­ti­fy­ing some of these can be dif­fi­cult, but the end point is that we do save money by being healthy.

On a short term out­look, it could be easy to dis­agree with this. For instance, it’s a lot cheaper to buy a loaf of cheap white bread, some candy, and a jar of Jif peanut but­ter that it would be to buy qual­ity whole wheat bread, nat­ural peanut but­ter, and some fresh broc­coli. Or going to McDon­alds and order­ing a Big Mac and fries is quicker (and some­time cheaper) than prepar­ing a meal at home.

But think about it, over time, these short term choices we make have a large impact on our lives. I went through this a few years ago. I drank reg­u­lar soda every­day, ate at fast food restau­rants regualarly, and didn’t spend the time or money to exer­cise. Slowly I went from being thin and in rea­son­ably good health, to hav­ing very poor health and being bor­der­line obese. Since that low point, I have worked hard to live a healthy lifestyle, includ­ing eat­ing right and exer­cis­ing reg­u­larly. Has it been worth it? Absolutely! It’s one of the best deci­sions I have ever made. It’s not always easy, and some­times I slip up a bit. But in the long haul, I have decided to make exer­cise and nutri­tion impor­tant ele­ments of my life.

So, whether your in great shape, or have some work to do — make a plan, set some goals, and then get out there and make it hap­pen! You’ll improve your life, and in the long term view, save your­self some money. But the money sav­ings are really just a side ben­e­fit, the real deal is you feel­ing great about your­self and improv­ing the qual­ity of your life!

What’s Your Money Worth to You?

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“The safe way to dou­ble your money is to fold it over once and put it in your pocket.” ~ Frank Hubbard

Today was a great day, thanks in part to our fine gov­ern­ment. We received our eco­nomic stim­u­lus check from the US Trea­sury. Thanks to being mar­ried and hav­ing three kids, our check totaled $2100. What will we use it for? To start with, it will be going into our sav­ings account. We will even­tu­ally use this money for a planned fam­ily vaca­tion this sum­mer, where we will be vis­it­ing the north­west United States, and going on a 4 day white­wa­ter raft­ing trip, among other things. Was this trip planned because of the gov­ern­ment issued stim­u­lus check? No. We had this trip planned since Christ­mas. This check is just a nice help to assist in pay­ing for the fun week-long trip we’ll have this sum­mer.

I tend to look at “unplanned” money as invest­ment oppor­tu­ni­ties. Oppor­tu­ni­ties for me to increase and grow my net wealth. What’s the right strat­egy for you? I believe you should look for ways to save and increase this as well. Of course, in the case of the eco­nomic stim­u­lus check from the gov­ern­ment, they want you to spend it, in an effort to boost the econ­omy. Should you?

My take on this is that we shouldn’t spend just because we can. Do you have some­thing you really need? Then con­sider it, but really give it some thought before you pur­chase. Ask your­self if this “what­ever” is some­thing that will pro­vide some value to you. How many times have we bought some­thing, only to have it sit in the closet, end up on a base­ment shelf, or just sim­ply get for­got­ten. Don’t spend just because you can. Spend because you will be get­ting value.

For me, a fam­ily vaca­tion is a great value. It’s an oppor­tu­nity to recon­nect with my fam­ily, and spend some qual­ity time together. We’ll be doing things together that many of us have never done. We’ll be cre­at­ing mem­o­ries that will last a long time It is worth it! This is some­thing that is very valu­able to me. In the end, I won’t have some­thing I can phys­i­cally hold on to. But greater than that, I’ll have some­thing that our fam­ily will cher­ish for years to come.

So, think about it. The money you earn, the money you make off of exist­ing invest­ments, the money that mag­i­cally appears in your lap… What’s your money worth to you?

Camping — Fun and Frugal

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“Camp­ing: The art of get­ting closer to nature while get­ting far­ther away from the near­est cold bev­er­age, hot shower and flush toi­let.” ~ Author Unknown

I’ll be camp­ing this week­end with my fam­ily. Camp­ing is a great way to get out, expe­ri­ence nature, and really get to spend some time with those you love. It also ends up being a pretty rea­son­able option for get­ting away for a few days. We’ll be pretty close to home, about an hour away. Gas prices can be an issue, but if you can find some­thing close, then, again, it’s not going to break the bank. Food costs usu­ally aren’t too bad as you bring most of your items along. If you haven’t camped before, then there are some startup costs to deal with (tent, sleep­ing bags, grill, etc.). But these items can be used many times over.

We camp with a pop up camper, and bought it used sev­eral years ago. It has served us well.

As we quickly approach the sum­mer sea­son (here in the United States), let’s all try to find ways to have some fun with those we love. If you can do it at a rea­son­able cost, then there is an added ben­e­fit. I believe that vaca­tion time is impor­tant, and am will­ing to spend a bit extra to make this indul­gence memorable.

Have a great weekend!

When You Fall Down, Get Back Up

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“Be mis­er­able. Or moti­vate your­self. What­ever has to be done, it’s always your choice.” — Wayne Dyer

We all have moments when we fall down (and not just phys­i­cally). Men­tally, we can fall too. Or we might stop doing some­thing that is good for us. Phys­i­cal exer­cise is one area that can be easy to let “fall by the way­side”. And pretty soon, we’re eat­ing poorly, sit­ting in front of the tele­vi­sion, and not get much phys­i­cal exer­cise. This hap­pened to me over the last cou­ple of weeks. I had taken a planned break from my resis­tance train­ing sched­ule after just com­plet­ing the cur­rent exer­cise pro­gram I had been doing. And, due to school sched­ules, I also wasn’t bik­ing to work (my car­dio cur­rently). What started as a planned week off quickly turned into well over two weeks of very lit­tle phys­i­cal activity.

This can hap­pen so easy. The key is what we do when this does hap­pen. We all have the power to choose. We can choose to get up an hour ear­lier, or choose to stay up later, or choose to make exer­cise (in this case) a priority.

For me, I made the choice this morn­ing. I woke up an hour ear­lier (and didn’t actu­ally go back to bed) and made my way down to our base­ment work­out room. Once I got going, I felt exhil­er­ated, and by the time I fin­ished, I was pumped. What a great way to start the day! Now I must just con­tinue to make the choice of exer­cise as a priority.

This is a choice we can all make, and I encour­age you all to get out there and do it (no mat­ter what “it” is to you).

Today I will __________. Fill in the blank, and then choose to get out there and do it!

When Bad = Good (or Great)

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Some­times things don’t go as planned, or some­thing sim­ple becomes much more dif­fi­cult. This hap­pens to every­one. It hap­pened to me this week­end. Let me share with you. I work in the infor­ma­tion tech­nol­ogy field for a small man­u­fac­tur­ing com­pany. This past week­end, we upgraded a key piece of soft­ware that is used com­pany wide. After the upgrade, sev­eral of the key reports we used no longer worked. We’re still work­ing through the issues. How­ever, this is end­ing up to be a great time to update these reports and improve their effi­ciency. And, a great oppor­tu­nity to bet­ter under­stand how the soft­ware works. Of course, there are peo­ple who are opposed to mak­ing the changes, instead look­ing for some short­cut. In the end, though, the short­cut is not going to work as nicely as re-doing the reports.

This is a great exam­ple of how some­thing that seems bad on the sur­face is just an oppor­tu­nity to become bet­ter, and maybe even great.

When you encounter what seems like a bad sit­u­a­tion, look for the sil­ver lin­ing. Some­times (often, really) the sil­ver lin­ing will be hid­den under­neath that thing we call work. But it is through work that we add value to our life and to oth­ers as well. Our lives are enhanced by many things, one of which is the job(s) that we do. Some jobs are those in which we are paid monies for our ser­vices. Oth­ers we vol­un­teer to do. They all help to define us and add to our life (if we let them).

So, embrace those bad sit­u­a­tions as oppor­tu­ni­ties to turn some­thing into great­ness! One of the most impor­tant val­ues we all have is that of being val­ued as a human being. What an awe­some way to help you feel val­ued it is when you can turn bad into great!

Sunday Thought for the Day

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“Every­thing can be taken from a man but … the last of the human free­doms — to choose one’s atti­tude in any given set of cir­cum­stances, to choose one’s own way.” — Vic­tor Frankl

Does Money Buy Happiness?

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“We all live with the objec­tive of being happy; our lives are all dif­fer­ent and yet the same.” — Anne Frank

Ques­tion of the Day: Does Money Buy Happiness?

My answer: Money does not buy hap­pi­ness. Hap­pi­ness comes from the things that truly bring you joy in your life. Hav­ing lots of money might seem like it will make you happy, but really it’s not the actual money that makes you happy. Now maybe you like to sail out in the ocean, or visit far-away lands (your hap­pi­ness). Then the money becomes a con­duit to your hap­pi­ness, as it funds these expe­di­tions. But in and of itself, money really isn’t what makes peo­ple happy.

Prob­a­bly your great­est joy comes from the rela­tion­ships you have with oth­ers. This is not some­thing that money can buy (you can buy friends, but they are not “true” friends). I recently heard a story about the peo­ple of Haiti, one of the poor­est coun­tries in the world. There, where peo­ple have very lit­tle, and live with dis­ease and sick­ness every day, peo­ple are gen­uinely happy. So, think about this. Peo­ple who have vir­tu­ally noth­ing (except each other) can have more “real” hap­pi­ness than those with tons of money.

I am not say­ing money is not impor­tant. In fact, I believe highly in sav­ing for the future. Just remem­ber that it’s not the money that makes you happy. So, use your money wisely, in ways that fit with you goals, and be true to yourself.

Make it a great life!

Bike to Work Week — Supplies Edition

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Think of bicy­cles as ride­able art that can just about save the world. ~ Grant Petersen

Yes­ter­day we cov­ered some of the pos­i­tive affects of bik­ing, con­cen­trat­ing on the eco­nomic por­tion. Today we’ll look at what “stuff” you’ll need to bike to work.

The fol­low­ing list are the items I would con­sider nec­es­sary and essen­tial for bik­ing to work.

  • Bike. If you’re going to bike, you’re going to need one. This will likely be your most expen­sive item. There are sev­eral sources for bikes. If you’re new to bik­ing, I would sug­gest a visit to a local bike shop. They’ll be able to help you deter­mine what type of bike will best suit you. And they can help fit your new bike to you. How­ever, there are other sources worth con­sid­er­ing. Check garage sales, your local craigslist , friends, etc. You may find a good used bike through one of these sources, and at a con­sid­er­able dis­count from the bike shop. How­ever, be aware that buy­ing used is at your dis­cre­tion, and you’ll not be get­ting the ser­vice you’d get from a bike shop. The other option is one of the large dis­count stores (Wal Mart, Tar­get, etc). I rec­om­mend not buy­ing a bike at these stores, as they are sell­ing cheap bikes, and not a bike fit­ted for you. Also worth not­ing in the bike thought process, is what kind of bike you want — road bike, moun­tain bike, com­fort bike, or some sort of hybrid. Road bikes tend to be the most expen­sive, but lack com­fort, or the abil­ity to be taken off paved roads. The other bikes are more ver­sa­tile, but will tend to be slower bikes. How­ever, they are much more able to go wher­ever you want them to go.
  • Bike hel­met. As a kid, I never wore a hel­met. What was I think­ing? If you’re going to be out bik­ing on roads (and for that mat­ter — bik­ing at all), a hel­met should be con­sid­ered a neces­sity. Your head is impor­tant, pro­tect it! With this, you’ll want to buy new — no telling where a used hel­met has been or how much abuse it has had. The large dis­count stores will have these, and they will work fine. If you want a nicer one, or to see more options, check your local bike store.
  • Bike lock. Unless you really work some­place where you can trust every­body (even the peo­ple pass­ing by), I highly rec­om­mend a bike lock. Many dif­fer­ent styles exist, so choose one that you like.
  • Stor­age. Some sort of pack you can attach to your bike to hold small items — keys, bike sup­plies, etc. Get this wher­ever you find some­thing that you like.
  • Spare tube. Carry a spare tube in case you have a flat. These fold up very small, and will eas­ily fit into your stor­age case.
  • Tire levers. Tire levers are used to remove the tire of your bike from the rim. A great assis­tance if you have to replace a tube due to a flat.
  • Tire pump. Get a small tire pump that can be mounted on your bike. Now you’re all set if you have a flat and need to air up a tire.
  • Mul­ti­tool. Get a small bike mul­ti­tool. Most bike shops will have these. These are great if some­thing comes loose, or for minor repairs.

That’s what I rec­om­mend as your need items for bik­ing. Option­ally, I’d recommend:

  • Patch kit. Used for repair­ing a flat tire as an option instead of replac­ing the tube. Note: not rec­om­mended on road bikes due to the high air pres­sure on these tubes. How­ever, on other bikes this should work fine.
  • Back­pack. Some­thing to carry any of the items you need for work. Maybe a change of clothes, lunch, etc.
  • Mir­ror. If you want a lit­tle assur­ance that you can more eas­ily see what is behind you, a mir­ror is a great addition
  • What­ever else you think you might need. Get what works for you.

So there you have it. My list of what you need to start out bik­ing. If some of these things sound daunt­ing, just remem­ber that you are just prepar­ing your­self in the event that you’ll need some of these things (i.e. flat tire). Remem­ber that these things don’t hap­pen very often. I’ve had a flat once in well over one year of bik­ing, and that can be con­tributed to a prob­lem with the wheel. Once I fixed that, I have had no prob­lems at all.

Costs to pur­chase these items can be any­where from a few dol­lars (espe­cially if you already have a bike and hel­met) to sev­eral hun­dred dol­lars (depend­ing upon the type of bike you buy — prices can vary sub­stan­tially). But just think of all the ben­e­fits bik­ing can pro­vide , and you’ll see that it really is worth it!

Have fun out there!