This was a magnificent post, it really makes you think about what you should say or do NOW.

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@Linda – Very sad, what you bring up Linda – the words and deeds unsaid by young people who die too early. What they could have said, what they could have done… Thank you for giving this quote a different perspective. And still, it reminds me, maybe even more, of the importance of saying and doing what we desire – because we never know how long we will be here…

@Glee Girl – Petty stuff, yes – the things we get so concerned about sometimes, and yet it’s the things that matter the least. Good reminder to focus on what’s important…

@Sharon – I think the picture really drives the quote home. I feel a finality when I see the two in combination. And with finality, there is a sense of urgency – that this really is important.

@Brionne – Yes, they are powerful words, and a thought which is important to remember.

@Stacey – It’s difficult when you lose someone you’re close to, especially when it is unexpected. It’s difficult when it’s unexpected because – did we say the things we wanted to say? Probably not. When someone is nearing the end of their life, and it is expected, that gives us an opportunity to say the things we need to say (like Laurie above). But when it’s unexpected – that’s not the case. And this can leave a real hole in our hearts. And its’ a real reminder of why we shouldn’t wait to say or do the things that are important – we may never get that chance again. Stacey, thank you for sharing your story here today – and really showing us what this means to you. It helps many to hear these stories…

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I try to tell my loved ones each day how much I appreciate and love them. We never know what tomorrow will bring.

I think we’ve been looking at this quote from the survivors’ perspective of having missed opportunities with the dead. How about when a young child dies, and the bitter tears are for THEIR unsaid words and unfinished lives. Too sad to contemplate.

I think your spooky photo is getting us in the Halloween spirit, eh?

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@MizFit – That’s a great reason to say it!

@BC Doan – Thanks!

@Julie – Saying instead of just thinking — thanks for sharing that Julie — that’s all it takes many times — just saying what we are already thinking…

@Ask The Dietitian – I’m sorry for the loss of your brother. Losing someone close really makes this hit home, I’m sure. Your sharing that here with others is really a way to let others know just how important “unsaid” things can be. Thank you.

@Amanda – Yes, what we don’t do – is what we usually regret the most.

@Writer Dad – Your welcome.

@Dave – Well, Dave – that’s an interesting look at this – and one that does make sense, after a deeper look. Some things, some thoughts, shouldn’t be said – those which might be hurtful, mean, or done in revenge. I guess the other take away is that if we have something we think we should say, that if we think about if it’s something we would like that person to know, then it is best if it’s said. But much to think about on this now, where that line is, what should be said and what shouldn’t…

@Cath – It is a quote that makes us think. And the picture being spooky, or “dark” – I thought went well with the idea of death and the finality we associate with it. And with finality, the importance of saying the things we want to say…

@Marelisa – You are correct, this is a sad quote today. And in the sadness, I hope we can realize what you have stated so well – the importance of being grateful and sharing that with those we are grateful for. While we still can…

@Rebecca – Yes, very true…

@Laurie – I’m glad you had the opportunity to say the things you needed to your Mom while you still could. I’m sure it brought comfort to both you and her. You have a very strong faith Laurie, thanks for sharing your story here. Through your words, we can all learn a bit more about why this is so important…

@Jean – The pictures really are eerily similar. Getting to the point where we don’t take relationships for granted – such a great point Jean. That is what leads to these things that get left unsaid or deeds undone – because we’ve taken some relationship for granted. Thanks for the reminder that it’s about the relationships…

@Kelly – Thanks so much for sharing your own personal story here on why this is so important. Through real-life examples, we all gain a better understanding of what this truly means. Your sharing helps me, and others, to better grasp what this really means – how important this really is. Again, thank you for sharing your personal journey here today.

@Davina – This really gets down to what we each, individually believe, whether those that have went before us – if they look down on us from above, if they are angels in the sky, if they are brought back in some other form, if they can hear our words after death – but no matter what we each believe, we can always still say the things in our minds and hearts, even after death. It may not be the same as when the person is still with us, but we can find some comfort in sharing even after death. That is a good point to remember, especially as we grieve, that still saying what we need to say can be a freeing experience for us still…

@Love-ely – Thank you.

@Stacey/CreateaBalance – It rings loud and clear for me too, especially upon reading the comments from others here. It’s in real experiences being shared that bring this quote to life. And, while we all hope to not have a new grave to visit anytime soon – we also know that life can change at any moment – there are no guarantees of what the futures holds for any of us. And when I think like that, it makes life seem more precious, and relationships more important…

@Maya – It can be the simple things in life, the moments just spent together, that make all the difference. Treating others like that, Maya, is a powerful example of not leaving anything undone. Rewording of the quote does give it a more “positive” spin – and does make for a brighter picture…a bit different from the version above…

@Jamie – You figured me out!! Secretly I’m a blog hacker (I wonder where that’ll take me???). So, now I’m curious — what will you have tomorrow?? (because as much as I dream of being a hacker, I’m just not there yet….)

Yes, the quote is nothing to be happy about, but flip it around and think of it as “treating every moment with our loved ones as if it could be the last” makes it sound a little better, doesn’t it? And it makes life a lot brighter

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