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Money Does Grow On Trees

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“You can only become truly accom­plished at some­thing you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead, pur­sue the things you love doing, and then do them so well that peo­ple can’t take their eyes off you.” ~ Maya Angelou

See that tree?  Majes­tic, isn’t it!  From years of growth and care, it’s grown into a large and and very spe­cial tree.

“Money doesn’t grow on trees” ~ Proverb

You’ve prob­a­bly heard that say­ing before.  Money’s not just going to fall off a tree, like leaves in the autumn sea­son. Today, we’re going to look at this with a slightly dif­fer­ent lens.  Maybe, just maybe…money DOES grow on trees.  Maybe this tree we’re see­ing up above can pro­vide us with some lessons, some insight into riches, and what that means to us. These are chal­leng­ing times we’re in today.  Maybe you’ve lost a job, or had hours cut back.  Maybe you’ve taken a pay cut.  Maybe you work on your own, and find­ing new clients is dif­fi­cult. Then again, maybe it’s all good right now.  Maybe you’ve recently taken a new job you really love, or been pro­moted where you cur­rently are at.  Maybe you’ve just landed a lucra­tive con­tract in some­thing you believe strongly in.  Maybe you’ve just ven­tured out onto your own, and are steadily adding clients and increas­ing your con­fi­dence. All of this is hap­pen­ing today, just as this hap­pens on any given day — irre­gard­less of the econ­omy around us.  In the ebb and flow of life, there are ups and there are downs.   Let’s look at this in rela­tion to the trees we have in our life, and see if we can’t under­stand it a lit­tle bit bet­ter. The Trees In The For­est Of Our Life

  • Seeds: Trees start out as seeds (or maybe some­times from a nut).  This seed is planted in the soil, is watered, and begins to grow.  In nature, sev­eral seeds get planted nat­u­rally, and many grow, although not all of them do.  Life Les­son: Seeds.  The ideas we have.  The things we go about doing.  That which we try.  We might plant one, or we might plant sev­eral seeds.  Some may grow, and some may not.  Some things we do won’t con­tinue to res­onate with us, and we’ll move on.  Oth­ers will.  The bot­tom line in all of it, though, is this tree will never grow if we don’t at least plant the seed — if we don’t at least try this thing we’ve been think­ing about.
  • Saplings: We’ve planted our seed.  And our tree is begin­ning to grow.  We have a sapling.  A small tree.  Not fully able to pro­tect itself from the world around it.  It might take a lit­tle more care on our part to nur­ture it as it con­tin­ues to grow.  And some­times growth might seem slow, espe­cially above the sur­face, in what we see.  Life Les­son: Our ideas begin to grow, or the work we’re doing starts to pro­duce results.  Or the col­lege classes we’re tak­ing begin to make sense.  What started as a seed, as a thought — is begin­ning to grow into some­thing.  A sapling.  Still small, although we’re see­ing growth.
  • Roots: While above the sur­face, our tree is slowly get­ting big­ger and stronger — under the sur­face it’s the roots that are really doing the grow­ing.  They’re spread­ing out in many direc­tions, giv­ing our tree a strong base on which to stand.  Life Les­son: We have this idea that is grow­ing into some­thing.  Or we have a job that we’re get­ting bet­ter at and see­ing results.  Or a myr­iad of other pos­si­bil­i­ties.  Slowly we’re see­ing that sapling grow a bit big­ger.  Under the sur­face, though, is where we can make the biggest impact.  What are we cre­at­ing as roots for our­selves?  These roots can be many things.  Con­tin­u­ing edu­ca­tion, cre­at­ing an emer­gency fund, sav­ing for retire­ment, invest­ing in stocks or mutual funds, devel­op­ing rela­tion­ships with oth­ers, learn­ing new skills — just a few of the many pos­si­bil­i­ties we can have as roots in this tree, which is part of the for­est of our life we’re cre­at­ing.  The key is that we cre­ate sev­eral roots, to give us a strong base on which to sup­port our tree.
  • Storms: Life might not always be easy for our tree.  Wind. Hail.  Light­ning.  Tor­na­does.  Ani­mals.  Man.  All of these could harm our trees.  Storms of nature, ani­mals chew­ing off part of the tree, or man cut­ting the tree down.  Any of this hap­pen­ing could cause our tree to either be slowed in its growth, or to cease being com­pletely.  That’s why hav­ing sev­eral trees gives us more oppor­tu­nity to have a few of the large majes­tic trees in the end.  Life Les­son: We will have storms in our life.  The wind will blow.  Other peo­ple may chal­lenge what we’re doing.  Some of our trees may not sur­vive — much like a busi­ness clos­ing or a com­pany down­siz­ing — some things in our life just might not work out how we’d planned they would.  The stock mar­ket might crash just before you’re get­ting ready to take your money out.  We might sus­tain some ill­ness or injury that cre­ates large med­ical bills.  We might decide there’s a tree in our life that isn’t healthy, and cut it down.  Storms in our life.  They will be there.  If we’ve planted sev­eral trees, and cre­ated roots in many direc­tions — then we are pre­pared to face these storms.  If every­thing is invested in one tree — then you may face real and seri­ous prob­lems.  Hav­ing sev­eral trees in our for­est of life gives us more options should some storm cause dam­age on one of our trees.  And with roots in many direc­tions through­out the trees in our for­est, we are ready when the storms come.
  • Growth: The storms also bring rain.  And fol­lowed with sun­shine, and good soil, our trees will grow.  Life Les­son: We’ll have storms, as we’ve seen.  These storms also bring us growth oppor­tu­ni­ties.  And when the sun comes back out in our life, which it will, our trees will grow.  In growth that we’ll see, above the sur­face.  We’ll be reach­ing new heights, and mak­ing wiser deci­sions.  And this sapling in our for­est of life will begin to become a tree which starts to pro­vide much, whose branches are filled with leaves — leaves of opportunity!
  • Majes­tic Tree: We’ve went through the life cycle of our trees.  Many have now grown to great heights.  It hasn’t hap­pened overnight.  It’s taken time and effort to get here.  And now that we are, we have this won­der­ful tree, large, pro­vid­ing much  beauty in our world.  Life Les­son: Grow­ing these trees in the for­est of our life will not hap­pen overnight.  It will take our time and effort.  How­ever, as we keep at it, as we con­tinue to nur­ture and grow what mat­ters in our life, these trees will become large and majes­tic in our for­est — our for­est of life.

Where’s the Money? If we do all this, and espe­cially if we do all this while lis­ten­ing to our heart — then the money is the fruit on these trees we’ve grown and nur­tured in our for­est of life.  This fruit, this money, will come if we con­tinue to care for the trees in our life and if we give them a strong base upon which to grow.  And if we have many trees in our for­est, then we are pre­pared should a storm come and dam­age any of them.  Money indeed CAN grow on trees, the trees in the for­est of our life.  And what we get from these trees, what they pro­duce, is a direct result of the time and effort we put in to grow­ing and nur­tur­ing them.

In the for­est of your life, do you have a lush for­est with many trees?  Do you need to plant some new ones?  Or maybe even get rid of some that you have?  This is your for­est, your life — take care of it and riches will come.  And remem­ber also that not all riches come in the form of money…

Do what makes you happy, be it going back to school to become a phar­macy tech or just fol­low­ing your dream!

Sunday Thought For The Day

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“When I look upon the tombs of the great, every emo­tion of envy dies in me; when I read the epi­taphs of the beau­ti­ful, every inor­di­nate desire goes out; when I meet with the grief of par­ents upon a tomb­stone, my heart melts with com­pas­sion; when I see the tombs of the par­ents them­selves, I con­sider the van­ity of griev­ing for those whom we must quickly fol­low; when I see kings lying by those who deposed them, when I con­sider rival wits placed side by side, or the men that divided the world with their con­tests and dis­putes, I reflect with sor­row and aston­ish­ment on the lit­tle com­pe­ti­tions, fac­tions, and debates of mankind. When I read the sev­eral dates of the tombs, of some that died yes­ter­day, and some six hun­dred years ago, I con­sider that great Day when we shall all of us be con­tem­po­raries, and make our appear­ance together” ~ Joseph Addison

Sunday Thought For The Day

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“I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark would burn out in a bril­liant blaze than it should be sti­fled by dry rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in mag­nif­i­cent glow, than a sleepy and per­ma­nent planet. The proper func­tion of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in try­ing to pro­long them. I shall use my time.” ~ Jack London

It’s Time For Class

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“We learn by teach­ing.” ~ James Howell

Today I’ve been called in to sub­sti­tute teach over at the Blog­ging With­out A Blog Uni­ver­sity.  Well, it sure seems like a uni­ver­sity, headed up by the one of the best teach­ers around — Bar­bara Swaf­ford.  She’s out today, and I’m the sub­sti­tute.  Stop on over as we dis­cuss The Snow­ball Effect of the Social Web.  And not to worry, no one will be sent to the principal’s office for being late!

I’ve had the honor of know­ing Bar­bara for quite a while, and owe a great debt of grat­i­tude to her — she’s been a reg­u­lar vis­i­tor and avid sup­porter going back to my early days.  I can’t think of any­one more uplift­ing and car­ing toward those around her!

Be sure to check out some of her recent arti­cles, including:

If We Knew Then What We Know Now

Where Or Where Do The Blog­gers Go

Keep up with Bar­bara, by sub­scrib­ing to her blog, and fol­low­ing her in Twit­ter.

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Going Local

fun0001“Home, the spot of earth supremely blest, A dearer, sweeter spot than all the rest” ~ Robert Montgomery

Today I’m traveling…well, Trav­elin’ Local, as I spend the day with Lisa New­ton — shar­ing some pic­tures of what “trav­el­ing local” means to me.  Stop over and take a look at  some pho­tos from my neigh­bor­hood.

Lisa has cre­ated a site that really show­cases all the beauty and unique­ness that exists right around her neigh­bor­hood of south­ern Cal­i­for­nia.  Be sure to check out some of her other fan­tas­tic works, including:

Inde­pen­dence Day, Para­mount Stu­dios, and a Con­test (includ­ing the chance to win a book!)

A Los Ange­les Scav­enger Hunt

Lisa is cre­at­ing a won­der­ful col­lec­tion of sto­ries the com­mu­ni­ties around her have to tell — as told through pic­tures.  To keep up with these sto­ries as they unfold, be sure to sub­scribe to her blog, and fol­low her on Twit­ter.

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Sunday Thought For The Day

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From the day we arrive on the planet
And blink­ing, step into the sun
There’s more to be seen than can ever be seen
More to do than can ever be done

Some say eat or be eaten
Some say live and let live
But all are agreed as they join the stam­pede
You should never take more than you give

(Cho­rus)
In the Cir­cle of Life
It’s the wheel of for­tune
It’s the leap of faith
It’s the band of hope
Till we find our place
On the path unwind­ing
In the Cir­cle, the Cir­cle of Life

Some of us fall by the way­side
And some of us soar to the stars
And some of us sail through our trou­bles
And some have to live with the scars

There’s far too much to take in here
More to find than can ever be found
But the sun rolling high
Through the sap­phire sky
Keeps the great and small on the end­less round

(Cho­rus repeats)

On the path unwind­ing
In the Cir­cle, the Cir­cle of Life.

~ Music by Elton John, lyrics by Tim Rice

Finding Balance In The Jungle

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“Work, love and play are the great bal­ance wheels of man’s being” ~ Ori­son Swett Marden

Bal­ance — that thing which some­times seems so elu­sive in our lives.  How do we find it?  And how do we focus on the things that really mat­ter to us?

Today, I’m sit­ting down with Stacey Ship­man, who writes very hon­est and authen­tic arti­cles, over at the Let It Flow web­site.   Stacey asks the ques­tions, and I attempt to answer them — in pod­cast for­mat!   This idea of a pod­cast is tak­ing me into an area I haven’t been before.  So, this is again a step out­side of my com­fort zone.  How did it go?  Check it out over at: Pod­cast Inter­view True Sto­ries from Real Peo­ple: Find­ing Bal­ance in the Jun­gle.

And while you’re there, be sure to check out some of Stacey’s other inspir­ing arti­cles, including:

Expe­ri­ence a Per­sonal Evolution

Being Present

This is all tak­ing me back to the start of 2009, and to the con­cept of a word to define the year.  Courage.  I’m feel­ing that as I step into new ter­ri­tory.  And for that, Stacey, I appre­ci­ate you very much.

Sunday Thought For The Day

In Search Of Lost Time
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“It’s only when we truly know and under­stand that we have a lim­ited time on earth — and that we have no way of know­ing when our time is up, we will then begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had.” ~ Eliz­a­beth Kubler-Ross

Be Yourself, Share Freely

Today I have another spe­cial guest with us.  Please help me wel­come Amanda Line­han from Look Far — Using Self Aware­ness To Cre­ate The Life You Want.  Amanda and I go way back.  Well, at least way back in our blog­ging years (or months, more appro­pri­ately)!  She was one of the early com­menters on my site when I was just get­ting started, and I’ve also had the oppor­tu­nity to watch her blog grow and blos­som.  Amanda writes much about becom­ing more aware of self, an impor­tant aspect in each of us truly under­stand­ing who we are.  One of her recent arti­cles, How To Con­quer Self Doubt, pro­vides well thought-out approaches to help in those times when doubt starts to seep in.

Amanda is a fan­tas­tic writer!  Get reg­u­lar updates by sub­scrib­ing to her blog, and fol­low­ing her on Twit­ter.

Sit back and enjoy…

Be Your­self, Share Freely


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“In every com­mu­nity there is work to be done. In every nation, there are wounds to heal.  In every heart there is the power to do it.” ~ Mar­i­anne Williamson

Being your­self and shar­ing with your com­mu­nity are often per­ceived to be at odds.  Being your­self is an indi­vid­ual pur­suit, where you may have to sac­ri­fice what peo­ple think of you in order to pur­sue some­thing you want.  While shar­ing with the com­mu­nity is about sac­ri­fic­ing what you want as an indi­vid­ual and doing what needs to be done for the group.

How­ever, there is another way to think about this.  Being your­self and devel­op­ing your unique gifts allows you to share those gifts with your com­mu­nity.  When you are doing some­thing that is uniquely you and ful­fill­ing a need in your com­mu­nity, it is a win-win sit­u­a­tion.  Your com­mu­nity is look­ing for you to share your gifts, so spend some time get­ting to know what those are and develop them.

We All Have Dif­fer­ent Gifts
The won­der­ful thing about being part of a com­mu­nity is that what­ever you don’t have, some­one else does.  We don’t all need to do the same things, in fact, it would be bet­ter if we didn’t.  Adding your gift to your com­mu­nity means you are con­tribut­ing in a way that some­one else can­not.  In essence, you are tak­ing respon­si­bil­ity for some­thing that needs to get done in a way that you are uniquely pre­pared for.  When peo­ple share freely with each other, all the parts are there in a way that they can’t be with just an indi­vid­ual.

Give Joy­fully

It wouldn’t make any sense to have a tal­ent or a skill to express and then not express it!  When you do some­thing well, give it away with joy.  You don’t have to worry about get­ting some­thing back.  The joy is in the giv­ing itself.  When you see your gift being used within your com­mu­nity that is reward enough.

Com­mu­nity

The word “com­mu­nity” essen­tially means “com­ing together to share our gifts” (thanks Daphne!).   A com­mu­nity is not just a ran­dom group of indi­vid­u­als shar­ing the same space, but a group of indi­vid­u­als each con­tribut­ing their part so that the whole means some­thing.   A com­mu­nity is vibrant, sup­port­ive, dynamic and func­tional only because of the indi­vid­u­als who bring some­thing to it.  But those indi­vid­u­als need to know what they have to give and give it joy­fully for the com­mu­nity to exist.  Know what you have to give and be proud of it.  Your com­mu­nity needs you.

Be Your­self.  Share Freely.

Lessons From The Mountain

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“It is not the moun­tain we con­quer but our­selves.” ~ Edmund Hillary

Mount Rainier, Sum­mer 2008

This morn­ing I was trans­ported back to a moment in time last sum­mer, from our visit to Mount Rainier, in Wash­ing­ton state.  This pic­ture, my desk­top back­ground, jumped out at me.  A reminder of our sum­mer vaca­tion, and even more than that — what this moun­tain, what all the moun­tains of our world, can teach us.  Today we’ll look at the wis­dom which resides deep within these mag­nif­i­cent beacons.

Our visit was but a day to this  moun­tain, yet it’s an awe-filled moment that will live on for­ever in my soul.

Lessons From The Mountain

  • A moun­tain rep­re­sents both a high point and a low point.  And even climb­ing a moun­tain, there will be spots where you are going up, and then need to change direc­tion and go down in order to con­tinue to the peak.  Life Les­son: Life is like this.  There will be ups and there will be downs.  The impor­tant thing to remem­ber is that through it all, we remem­ber where we’re headed on our life jour­ney.  Have we thought about the peak we’re aim­ing for?
  • Go out on a hike, and depend­ing on where you are — there may or may not be a trail to fol­low.  Along the eas­ier parts of the moun­tain, those which are trav­eled reg­u­larly by many — trails are plen­ti­ful and in good con­di­tion.  The closer you get to the peak, or the far­ther away you get from places that are most pop­u­lar — the less likely you are to have an easy trail to fol­low.  Life Les­son: Along those paths in life we travel, some­times we’ll be on well-traveled roads.  These roads — the roads of com­fort, famil­iar­ity,  medi­oc­rity — they are roads trav­eled by many.  And they are not nec­es­sar­ily good or bad.  They just are.  And they are roads we will travel on.  All of us.  And some­times, that is good.  Other times, though, if we really desire to reach our moun­tain­top, we’re going to have to get off the main paths.  We’re going to have to blaze our own trails.  Ven­ture out into unknown territory.
  • As we climb those moun­tains of our world, or even just head­ing out into the wilder­ness near us — there will be times when we fall down. When we slip on a rock.  When there’s a stream to cross, and no bridge.  When there are boul­ders in front of us that seem insur­mount­able.  And we might get hurt.  We might have to turn around.  Or we might look for another way.  Life Les­son: Obsta­cles.  They are out there in our lives.  And we’ll most cer­tainly encounter them as we go through life.  Will they be there on the new trails we’re forg­ing toward our peak?  Most def­i­nitely.  We’ll stum­ble along the way in life.  Our ego’s will be bruised.  We might be bro­ken finan­cially or emo­tion­ally.  Yet, that doesn’t mean we’re fin­ished, or that our moun­tain peak isnt’ attain­able.  Maybe it means we have to retreat and regroup.  Or look for a dif­fer­ent way to the top.  Or take a break.  Maybe it even means this isn’t the moun­tain for us.  This can be a good time for reflec­tion, to really eval­u­ate where we’re at.  And if we come out of that say­ing it’s the wrong moun­tain, that’s fine.  As we jour­ney through life, what mat­ters to us may change.  Rec­og­niz­ing this is an impor­tant step — so that we can be climb­ing the right moun­tain for us.  And if that means retreat­ing because we’re now on the wrong moun­tain, that’s per­fectly okay.  Just as is tak­ing a break, or retreat­ing and regroup­ing before con­quer­ing the moun­tain again.
  • Our moun­tain is there to climb, and we do.  We take paths part of the way.  We forge our own paths part of the way.  We go up, down, side­ways, stall, and repeat.  Even­tu­ally we reach that peak.  And the view from the peak is an awe­some one, filled with the vast­ness of what we can see from here.  And then we real­ize, this is a moment in time.  We’re not going to stay on this peak.  We’ll retreat back down the moun­tain.  And while we’ll remem­ber the peak, it’s the path taken up the moun­tain that made it all worth it.  Life Les­son: With effort, our moun­tain peaks in life are reach­able.  The thing to remem­ber, though, is that this peak is a moment in time.  The peak is not a place we stay at.  It’s a place to savor, for hav­ing reached it.  And in reach­ing this life peak, we also remem­ber that’s it’s the jour­ney of get­ting there that has made it all so worth it.  And then we move on.  To the next moun­tain in our life.

Your Turn

The moun­tains of your life are out there.  You are climb­ing them right now.  Are they the moun­tains you want to be climb­ing?  Have you taken the time to really know, deep within, if this moun­tain of life you’re on — if it’s the one you’re meant to be climb­ing at this moment?  Find that moun­tain that has mean­ing to you, and climb!

“Today is your day! Your moun­tain is wait­ing. So… get on your way.” ~ Dr. Seuss