Comments on: Through The Eyes of Truth

By: JenX

JenX — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 15:09:14 +0000

@NATALIA – Thank you for taking the time to read the story.

@ANGIE – Oh, to have had the wisdom THEN that I do NOW. I’m glad to know I am not the only one who has witnessed women not standing up for women. In fact, even when I posted this on my blog, most of the comments the post received were from men. And, it’s not lost on me that the one person who chose to carry this forward was a man – Lance. Silence about these things stun me, until I remember how long I didn’t say anything.

@LIARA – So true! Thank you for this precious comment.

@LILLIAN – Thank you for the feedback. I hate putting out something that is difficult to watch, and am grateful just the same that people like you receive it so well. I keep wondering how the character trait of courage develops. Maybe the tide turns at the moment being weak becomes too much to bear. Thank you, again, for taking the time to read this story.
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By: Lance

Lance — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 02:56:35 +0000

@NATALIA – Jen’s story is such an important one to spread, and I’m just grateful for her sharing this, and being open to spread the message about sexual harassment here as well. This was a very courageous thing to share, and one I hope will help many…

@ANGIE – Jen has really offered a gift here, in her words and telling of this story. While it’s sad that this happened, what’s important now is that it’s being shared. I can’t fully imagine how dealing with any sort of harassment at a young age could be like, let alone being a young girl in this position. Angie, know that you’re valued here, that you matter, and that whatever wrongs were done to you – it was not your fault. Your honesty here, while hard to read, is also an important part of this whole message – one that it’s not just an isolated event on some playground. This happens much more that we’re often willing to realize. You’re helping to make others aware by sharing here. Thank you, so much, for being open here…

@LIARA – Life IS meaningful. How true this is Liara. And how unfair of some to try and strip that of others. Although, deep down, know matter what happens to us – we still are beautiful and meaningful – each and every one of us. Liara, thank you for this thought.

@LILLIAN B – This slideshow is so difficult to watch, especially when you really let sink in what is happening. As Liara mentioned, life is meaningful. And as difficult as this thought can seem to the victims, life still IS meaningful and they are still beautiful souls here on this earth. My heart, as well, goes out to all who have suffered in some way. Thanks so much for stopping here and sharing today…

By: LillianB - FatBlastZone

LillianB - FatBlastZone — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 05:33:03 +0000

Thank you for taking the time to educate others on something that occurs more often then we’d all care to admit. It was pretty tough watching this but sharing this story was extremely necessary. My heart goes out to all victims of this form of violation and I hope they embrace one universal truth – with courage and strength, anyone can be triumphant in the face of adversity.
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By: Liara Covert

Liara Covert — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 12:59:50 +0000

Every moment, your thoughts and feelings reveal your perception of truth. As awareness grows, your consciousness shifts and prioirities change. Life is as meaningful as you choose.
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By: Angie

Angie — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 17:49:29 +0000

Thank you for sharing this, it was moving and amazing.
I wish I would have had this available in my early years….
I was afraid to ‘make a big deal’ because as the message states- even women would not stand up for you, this often goes for other types of abuse as well- especially if it is from an authority figure that happens to pay the bills.
Thank you…

By: Natalia Burleson

Natalia Burleson — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 14:39:55 +0000

Lance, thanks for sharing Jen’s story! Jen, thanks for telling it! Very powerful!

By: JenX

JenX — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:06:44 +0000

@FatFighterTV – Thank you!

By: FatFighterTV

FatFighterTV — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 15:00:16 +0000

Wow – so powerful and true. Thanks very much for sharing this about an issue that often goes ignored.
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By: JenX

JenX — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 13:44:00 +0000

@JANICE – Thanks for the tip about VERED. I’ll visit. I want to visit all these sites from people commenting, which I plan to do this weekend. Every time I click through the slides and I get to the part where I run, I sink all over again – and, I know it’s coming. And, I know what made me run. But, over the years, it just kept happening. And, running now is not a choice, because one day I woke up and the person I was running away from was me. And, now I see the pain caused from running away is actually worse than the pain involved in holding my position in the face of assault, harassment, abuse, etc. I hope I can teach my children this. It’s interesting how this post on Lance’s blog has helped me further process things. Who knew? =)

By: janice

janice — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 11:55:50 +0000

Lance and Jen,
I visited yesterday but guessed from the intro and comments that I needed to be in a strong place before viewing. I was right. All I can add to the wonderful comments above is a thank you and a well done to both of you for this heart breaking but uplifting piece. Our children will be braver because we have learned from the pain, have shared it and are stronger.

One PS Jen; there’s a comment above from someone called Vered. I really think you’d enjoy her posts on the abuse of women in advertising.

By: JenX

JenX — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 11:37:04 +0000

@DAPHNE – I think this story received about 10 comments when I published it on my blog, so you can imagine I was floored when Lance popped up practically out of nowhere and pursued this. Thank you for your comment.

@TIM – Thanks for checking out my blog. I enjoy writing about Generation X very much. It has become a passion for me, and even with the Mary DuBueno story there was an overlay. We were all hanging out on the playground after school that day. The bell had rung, everyone scattered. Those of us who remained – all of our parents worked. There was nobody waiting for us at home except maybe older siblings. I don’t blame my parents. They were just providing for us, but this is part of the Gen X persona – a very unprotected childhood. (Not like working coal mines, mind you, but you understand…) There is an AP article by Ted Anthony about Gen X losing childhood icons. I highly recommend it!!! Sorry this reply got so long. =/

@EVELYN LIM – I am blown away by Lance’s blog community. Can I have it? LOL! He needs to guest post on problogger and share his secrets. Of course, I know it’s more than tactics, and comes from inside him. Thank you for our comment and bless your daughters as they learn to be brave.

@DARREN – Thank you!

@MIZ – OK, that comment made ME cry!! Thank you…

By: Miz

Miz — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 10:33:16 +0000

wow.

*runs and hugs her daughter tight*

By: Darren Sproat

Darren Sproat — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 08:45:44 +0000

@JenX – Thanks again Jen, this is a special post and certainly deserves the attention it is getting. Thanks again for providing that trigger a “Daddy on the fence” needed to initiate this discussion with his little girl!

Darren
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By: Evelyn Lim

Evelyn Lim — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:37:53 +0000

JenX, thank you for having the courage to put up the slideshow and tell your story. It’s also great that you have received the most amazing support from Lance and all here on this forum.

I have got two girls. I hope that they will grow up with courage to stand up for themselves, should they ever be bullied or harassed. You have just reminded me. I need to teach my girls to learn how to shield themselves. Thanks!
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By: Tim

Tim — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 04:16:22 +0000

Jen:

Thank you for sharing this powerful story. I know it had to be difficult for you to tell. But it is a reminder that, as human beings, we need to take care of each other and be vigilant so that people who harass others do not get away with it.

BTW, your blog looks very interesting. As a Gen Xer, and former latchkey kid myself, I can identify with a great deal that you’ve written (especially your thoughts on Michael Jackson).

Lance, thank you as well, for sharing this story.