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And Why Do We Laugh?

“Laugh­ter is the sun that dri­ves win­ter from the human face.” ~ Vic­tor Hugo

Do you ever have one of those moments where you maybe ques­tion if some­thing is the right thing to do?

You hear what your heart is say­ing, and yet — it can still feel like you’re putting your­self out there.  Or maybe it feels like “will this be weird?”.  Per­haps it costs too much.  Or a mil­lion other excuses.  Does this ever hap­pen to you?  

It hap­pens to me.

Some­times I fight it, and I DON’T do what sings and dances in my heart.  (have you ever been there?)

Some­times, though.…sometimes.…

I really lis­ten to that voice that speaks deeply from my heart.

Fly halfway across the coun­try (New York City).  Get hotel.  To laugh.

Couldn’t I just step out­side my back­door, and do the same thing?

In real­ity, it was much more than that.

It was a won­der­ful oppor­tu­nity to con­nect up with sweet friends from here at the Jun­gle (Hi Amy!  Hi Katie!  Hi Ina!).  Make new friends (Hi EVERYONE!).  And…perhaps the best of all…precious time with my daugh­ter (who, for the record, is grow­ing up way too fast).

Be a part of this moment.  The Lev­ity Project — NYC.  And a cel­e­bra­tion of World Laugh­ter Day.

It was all right, and it was all good.

Except there was this lit­tle thing.  Or maybe it wasn’t lit­tle at all.   

Pic­ture this:  My daugh­ter and I explor­ing the sights and sounds of this great city (read:  shop­ping).  Now, pic­ture this:  bomb threat in Times Square.  And we are there.  

Well, not as this threat was dis­cov­ered.  We wan­dered into the Time Square area a cou­ple of hours after the ini­tial dis­cov­ery of this.  For a thir­teen year old girl, hear­ing the words “bomb threat” set off feel­ings of alarm.  (and why didn’t I feel that way?  Have I become indif­fer­ent to all the “noise” out there?)

Laugh­ter event planned for the very next morning.

Includ­ing in a visit to that very spot of the bomb threat.

Would laugh­ter feel triv­ial in the face of what had just happened?  

Or.

Or, would laugh­ter heal?

Laugh­ter for no rea­son at all, except to bring an extra sense of peace and joy to the world (or — at least the peo­ple around us).
 

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Laugh­ter as the balm for our souls.

And we laughed.   

Some who looked the other way…pretending we weren’t there.  Strange looks.

And we laughed.

And there was joy.  Energy.  Smiles.  Gig­gles.  Belly laughs.  Excitement.

And for a moment, there was this real sense that the strangers pass­ing in that day were more than strangers.  They were united as part of humankind. 

Broth­ers and sis­ters of this species we call human. 

Per­haps that moment lasted no longer than a few min­utes that we were together.  Or perhaps…some of those took that feel­ing that had touched them…took that with them through their day.  Or maybe even beyond.

It was good.  Mean­ing­ful.  And the right thing on that day, in that moment, and at that place.

Laugh!

For no rea­son at all!   And feel your soul smil­ing back at you…

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. What a neat project, Lance! I wish I could have been there. I did get your notice about it, but it wasn’t fea­si­ble that week­end :( Any­way, I’m so glad you went and it was more than you expected.

    I love to laugh! I do it all the time ; mostly at myself ;)
    .-= Marisa (Loser for Life)´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..A Trip On The Wagon =-.

  2. Natalia says:

    Hey Lance!

    :) I love that you and your daugh­ter went to NYC together. What a won­der­ful mem­ory for her to have. As for the laugh­ter, I think that it’s truly the best medicine!

    Natalia :)

  3. Joy Tanksley says:

    THANK YOU for this awe­some start to my Wednes­day! Laugh­ter comes about in dif­fer­ent ways — some­times it’s because some­thing is so crazy funny that you can’t con­trol your­self (you know, Lance, the church gig­gles!). But some­times, it’s not about any­thing being funny. Some­times it’s clean, pure, joy that bub­bles up from your essen­tial self. I think that’s my favorite kind of laugh­ter — it’s val­i­da­tion that we are fol­low­ing the heart’s path. I expe­ri­enced that feel­ing this morn­ing as I read your words and watched this video. I was laugh­ing right along with the beau­ti­ful souls in the video. Not because any­thing was funny, but because it was so real.

  4. Lynn says:

    How lovely that in spite of ter­ror­ist threats there were still peo­ple there laugh­ing. I am so glad you got to do that with your daugh­ter, Lance, and that it was such a won­der­ful expe­ri­ence.
    .-= Lynn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Cheer­ful, nice neigh­bors and drop­ping by =-.

  5. Shannon says:

    Lance what you did was take con­trol back. You did not let some­thing try­ing to con­trol every­one win. Good for you!!!!
    What a great exam­ple you are for your daugh­ter. I just love the Lev­ity Project I think it is amaz­ing!
    Keep laugh­ing, smil­ing and being HAPPY!

  6. Evelyn Lim says:

    Sounds like you folks had a great deal of fun! Wish I had been there! I would have enjoyed the shop­ping for sure :-) It’s great that you took the oppor­tu­nity to not only spend pre­cious time with your daugh­ter but to involve her in a mean­ing­ful and inspir­ing cel­e­bra­tion. She is lucky to have a great role model in you!
    .-= Eve­lyn Lim´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What Does Your Inner Money Script Say? =-.

  7. Farnoosh says:

    Lance, I knew you were in NY of course and all about your daughter’s shop­ping (good for her ;) )! But I had no idea about the bomb threat.…back in Iran, we lived and breathed not just bomb threats but real bomb­ing dur­ing the 8 year Iran-Iraq war. No not try­ing to put a damper on the happy mood. I will end by say­ing that Ira­ni­ans found a way through all that REAL agony by laugh­ing at life, at them­selves and at their own piti­ful sit­u­a­tion and really, it was a sur­vival mech­a­nism so go laugh­ter! It’s a pow­er­ful tool to get us by. Thank you :) !

  8. Evita says:

    Hi Lance!

    NICE! What an event, and what an adven­ture to take in all things that occurred!
    But you went and did it, and how won­der­ful that you fol­lowed your heart.

    I think the best part to see is how con­ta­gious the laugh­ter is in the video, or wher­ever. I can­not imag­ine peo­ple giv­ing strange looks and not burst­ing into at least a smile them­selves. Oh well, I guess to each their own…

    Woo-hoo for you guys!
    .-= Evita´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Unfold­ing Your Path To Joy In the Dark =-.

  9. Hi Lance,
    Fantstic. Funa­li­cious. Laugh­ter crazy fun. I couldn’t opent the video here so I went to you tube and then of course had to watch some oth­ers as well. Laughin’ away the morning.

    I think you guys were there that day because you had a mis­sion to bring in heal­ing energy to a place that was very fearful.

    You just didn’t know that would be the case…but the Uni­verse did;)

    There is noth­ing to fear. If your project would have been planned for the day of the bomb threat maye the bomb threat would have never hap­pened. Because when peo­ple who have a high vibra­tion of energy come to a spot they heal things.

    Maybe the rea­son it was planned the day after was because it was such a dichotomy to the expe­ri­ence the day before.

    You showed what could hap­pen when we play and laugh vs live in fear.

    The Uni­verse works in amaz­ing ways and what a spe­cial day it was to be there the fol­low­ing day. You turned it into sacred ground if you ask me.

    You guys rock. Let me know if I can help the Lev­ity project along in any way!
    Tess xox­oxo to all peo­ple who are involved in the project and xxoo to all peo­ple who put their power and energy into laugh­ter vs bombs and bomb threats.

    Becca will always remem­ber this day!

  10. Colleen says:

    Well, the video suc­ceeded in get­ting me to laugh! Wouldn’t it be cool for some­thing like this to hap­pen as a sort of improv some­where. Folks sim­ply show up some­where pub­lic and start laugh­ing. That would be funny to watch.
    .-= Colleen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..West Pasco Wash­ing­ton Homes For Sale =-.

  11. What a beau­ti­ful scene. Peo­ple need more laugh­ter in their lives, espe­cially New York­ers. They can get very seri­ous at times.

    I loved watch­ing strangers join in on the laugh­ter. They were lucky to be in the right place at the right time. Great job!

  12. Tim says:

    Lance: I’ve got to say that I am moved by the words and thoughts in your post. You bring up some very impor­tant thoughts here. I chose laugh­ter as my word for the year…yes I have made an extra effort to laugh at every oppor­tu­nity. But, as you put it so well, some­times laugh­ter can seem weird when seri­ous things are happening…that has been my chal­lenge. But as your video shows, laugh­ing any­way is prob­a­bly the per­fect solu­tion. So good to see the group at Grand Cen­tral Station…one of my favorite stops in New York. Thanks for shar­ing your thoughts, and more impor­tantly, your laugh­ter.
    .-= Tim´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Class of 2010 Com­mence­ment Rap Song =-.

  13. Chania Girl says:

    Lance, thank you for shar­ing this event with us … even if only for a lit­tle snip­pet. :)

    You know, G and I were lying down for our after­noon siesta the other day (yes, we actu­ally HAVE those in Greece! :D ), and he got a fit of the gig­gles … for no rea­son at all. The next thing we knew, both of us were in tears laugh­ing. It was the best thing ever!
    .-= Cha­nia Girl´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What a Dif­fer­ence a Year Makes: The Lessons I’ve Learned =-.

  14. Chris Edgar says:

    Hi Lance — that sounds like a great exer­cise — to go out into Grand Cen­tral Sta­tion and other big pub­lic places and laugh or do some other kind of strange behav­ior — notic­ing all the places where we need to put on a sober, upstand­ing image for the world, and let­ting those places relax and pass away. I did it once as part of a work­shop and I def­i­nitely enjoyed it.

  15. Sara says:

    Lance — I have always admired you very much for your will­ing­ness to take action on so many human projects:~) If some­thing needs to be done, said or even laughed, you will be there!!!

    I loved that you trav­eled to NY to be part of the laugh­ter and took your child with you. I also love that you brought it back home to share with us, those who will read this post, watch the video and laugh.

    I know I watched it and the laugh­ter just bub­bled up and it felt wonderful.

    Thanks:~)
    .-= Sara´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Story Photo: What’s To See? =-.

  16. Hi Lance — I hon­estly can’t think of a bet­ter place than my for­mer home town of NYC for a laugh­ter project! It’s the diver­sity that lends itself to the rich­ness of the humor. So glad you attended and love the fact that you took your daugh­ter. And thanks for bring­ing read­ers atten­tion to this. Every work­place should have a des­ig­nated laugh­ter break — at least sev­eral times a day. We did a post on laugh­ter awhile back and one of the great things I learned was the research on the phys­i­o­log­i­cal ben­e­fits of laugh­ter — even if you fake it!! Must be the body lan­guage sig­nals to the brain.
    Thx — enjoyed it!

  17. How won­der­ful Lance. What a way to take a bad sit­u­a­tion & show oth­ers that despite all this, we can still live & enjoy & love life! Thx!
    .-= Jody — Fit at 52´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Stay­ing Fit at Many Ages! =-.

  18. I love this! What a great video to watch. Laugh­ter is the best med­i­cine. I love how you took con­trol of the sit­u­a­tion here. Thank you so much for shar­ing, this bright­ened my day!

  19. Lance says:

    @Marisa — Hey Marisa!! It was GREAT!! And — hey, there WILL be another time! And that COULD be our time to meet (and laugh together!!)!! In the mean­time, keep doing what you do so well (LAUGH!!)!!

    @Natalia — Hey Natalia!! It was so fun to take my daugh­ter along on this! (well…except for ALL the shop­ping!!!!) (HA!!!) And the whole laugh­ing expe­ri­ence was one that really does make one feel so good!!! (just like you did ear­lier today for ME!!!)

    @Joy Tanksley — Joy!! Yes, I DO remem­ber those church gig­gles (that we seem to share!!)!! And — I just love your thoughts here today! That sense of pure­ness and whole­ness that can come from laugh­ter — not because some­thing is inher­ently funny, just because… And, that all leaves me with a great big smile right now!! (thank YOU!)

    @Lynn — Hi Lynn!!! It WAS a won­der­ful expe­ri­ence — and truth­fully, once we started laugh­ing — I was really think­ing about noth­ing else other than that very moment. And there’s some­thing about that right there — being in the moment — that laugh­ter also brings about. So, so good…

    @Shannon — Hey Shan­non!! The whole con­cept of The Lev­ity Project is really one focused around bring­ing joy to our world — in fun and play­ful ways! I pretty much LOVE it too!!! And — I’ll keep on laugh­ing and smiling…and long as you do TOO!!

    @Evelyn — Hey Eve­lyn!! You know…someday we HAVE to meet!! Just think how fun that would be!! (well…or at least I could send my daugh­ter with YOU for a while!!) (HA!!) It really was a won­der­ful expe­ri­ence for both my daugh­ter and I — the whole week­end! Thanks so much Evelyn!!

    @Farnoosh — Hey Farnoosh!! Ha!! Yes, you sure did know about our trip (and espe­cially the shop­ping!!!)! So, it’s hard for me to even imag­ine what you are describ­ing. Farnoosh, you are NOT putting a damper at all on this. You are really val­i­dat­ing that what felt “right” to me, is really what can do so much heal­ing in our world. It’s not about laugh­ing about the bad things that have hap­pened. It is all about laugh­ing to bring joy into our hearts…especially in those moments of real chal­lenge. So…thank YOU, dear friend, for shar­ing all that you have. Your words are so good to read today.

  20. Lance,
    When I saw the title I thought, “oh, this is easy, I laugh for one rea­son, because I want to for no rea­son at all.” :)
    What a great event… I wish I could have been there, shar­ing the laughs and smiles with every­one around me.
    Laugh­ing along with you,
    Dar­ren Sproat
    .-= Dar­ren Sproat´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..To look at the Sunny-side of Every­thing and Make my Opti­mism Come True =-.

  21. Oh, I LOVED it, LOVED it, LOVED it!!! Was so laugh­ing right along with you all too. The grey-haired suited man on the sub­way really made me smile — he was enjoy­ing it, I could tell.

    And the lady in the yel­low cap — she is a hoot. Is she a blogger??

    I’d been won­der­ing about you and NY with the bomb threat, and just SO glad to hear your fest went on as planned!

    Thanks for sharing!!

    xo
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Jazzer­cise Advice & Some­thing I Can Only Con­fess In A Poem =-.

  22. Audra Krell says:

    Really great video, awe­some post and so very wor­thy project!!! God gave us laugh­ter to heal, no mat­ter what the sit­u­a­tion. He brought you all together to that very spot to replace sor­row and anx­i­ety with joy. You all chose to answer the call and made a dif­fer­ence in the world! Way to go as always Lance!

  23. Wilma Ham says:

    Hi Lance. I love how you process your own objec­tions, “Couldn’t I just step out­side my back­door, and do the same thing?” and you must have laughed them away. Step­ping out like that is coura­geous even if it doesn’t seem that way. Doing it with oth­ers helps so much, there is safety and power in num­bers.
    Laugh­ing is bring­ing joy, is heal­ing and totally dis­man­tles the ego, don’t you think? It dis­man­tles the ego in other peo­ple as well, Eck­hart Tolle will be very proud of all of you.
    The laugh­ter will have gone up and will have cir­cled the earth, how awe­some is that and I felt it rain­ing down here in New Zealand.
    Much love to all of you, xox Wilma

  24. Yum Yucky says:

    haha­ha­ha­ha­ha­ha­haha! …so can I get that chick’s tee-shirt with “free laughs”?
    .-= Yum Yucky´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Elec­tric Col­lar Shock Ther­apy For Weight Loss =-.

  25. Megan Zuniga says:

    LoL! That looks like fun! The whole World needs a laugh­ter day. And it’s amaz­ing you gone ahead and did it despite the bomb threat.

  26. Davina says:

    Laugh­ter cer­tainly changes the atmos­phere. I’ve been out and about on tran­sit and some­times there is a heav­i­ness, whether it’s a Mon­day morn­ing, or the weather is hor­ri­ble, etc. All it takes is for one per­son to make a joke and every­one gets a lit­tle lighter. Great fun, Lance.

  27. Joychristin says:

    Hi Lance,
    I smile watch­ing the video. Pure gen­uine mirth in that video. And in NY! For the record, I hap­pen to love NY it’s my home­s­tate but I think laugh­ter may not be preva­lent in the city:)
    I’m glad your daugh­ter got to shop–awesome place to shop. Sorry about the bomb threat–glad you took it in stride– I think it means you tend to become so engrossed in the good that you auto­mat­i­cally deflect the neg­a­tive….
    I think laugh­ter is the ulti­mate balm for any wound. A full heart is able to laugh…so laugh away…life cer­tainly gives us many oppor­tun­ties to laugh…And laugh­ter shared is absolutely amaz­ingly fun! As your video cap­tured. Thank you for sharing:)

  28. Greg says:

    I’m amazed that you could main­tain your lev­ity in the face of the events of the day — it’s great. Everyone’s right here. Some­times, laugh­ter is truly the best med­i­cine.
    .-= Greg´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Effort vs Tal­ent – Teach­ing Your Kids To Be Suc­cess­ful =-.

  29. Lance, if only we could spread that mes­sage even fur­ther. Com­edy and laugh­ter is such a gift. I hope I can bring laugh­ter to those I do com­edy for, for years to come. Com­edy and laugh­ter is such a pre­cious gift and for as long I can I will con­tinue to make peo­ple laugh!! By that quote by Vic­tor Hugo is KICK ASS!
    .-= Amit Sodha — The Power Of Choice´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Video – How To Be A Great Men­tor =-.

  30. Farnoosh says:

    Lance, thanks for the response. I do feel com­fort­able shar­ing a lot here, don’t I? :) Blog­ging com­mu­nity is becom­ing my fam­ily (sniff sniff :) ).
    Hey Amit, I sec­ond that on Vic­tor Hugo. He was and still is one of the best writ­ers of all time. Such bril­liance. Such imag­i­na­tion. Such genius.…!

  31. Lance says:

    @Evita — Hi Evita!! It Was so great to be there AND do this…in spite of every­thing that had occurred. And — yes, the laugh­ter in the video IS con­ta­gious!!! It does seem hard to think some peo­ple might not make a con­nec­tion with this. And yet — per­haps it’s hard to break out of what we are accus­tomed to…even in a group set­ting?? Maybe…just maybe…those peo­ple walked away from there, and it affected them in some pos­i­tive way later on. And I’ll take that.…

    @Tess — Hey Tess!! Funa­li­cious!! (what a GREAT word!) And…your morn­ing of laugh­ter sounds most excel­lent!! So, the idea of heal­ing… I know for me, there really was this sense of “all is okay” while we were in that moment…living the laugh­ter. Tess, you are such a pos­i­tive and uplift­ing cheer­leader for this!!! Thank YOU!!! Bekah will def­i­nitely remem­ber this trip — what a great oppor­tu­nity for both of us to be together!

    @Colleen — Hey Colleen!! Woo-Hoo!!! (for laugh­ter!) In a way, this was kind of like an improv any­where event. The laugh­ter for this started when we all moved toward the Laugh­ter Party sign. We also did another event where we all froze in place for three min­utes. Very fun!!!

    @Karl — Hi Karl!! The scene was filled with so much energy — what a fun moment to be involved in! And yes — there is a seri­ous­ness which some can dis­play. I know that I too can get that way some­times. Yet — see­ing this laugh­ter party in Grand Cen­tral Sta­tion — it just really brought out the smiles, the laughs, and the “I want to be a part of this” atti­tude!! So fun!!!

    @Tim — Hey Tim!! Yes, I remem­ber you chose the word “laugh­ter” for your word of the year. I LOVE that word!!! And — yes — are there times when laugh­ter might seem like the inap­pro­pri­ate response? And the more I think about it — as long as that laugh­ter isn’t done in some mali­cious way (i.e. to make fun of some­one else) — then per­haps it really is about lis­ten­ing to your heart. Thanks much for the thoughts, Tim!! And…enjoy all the laugh­ter this year will bring for you!

    @Chania Girl — Hey Carla!! An after­noon siesta!!! (have I men­tioned I want to visit you two!?!?) (ohh…I think I HAVE men­tioned that!) That is THE BEST — those laugh­ing fits that we can’t con­trol — and the con­ta­gious­ness of them!! Woo-Hoo!!!

    @Chris Edgar — Hi Chris!! You know what — laugh­ing really IS exer­cise (FUN exer­cise!!)!! Strange??? Hmmmm.…my wife has said that about me, too!!! Katie and Ina have a way of mak­ing STRANGE into FUN!! Your work­shop — and break­ing the norm — that sounds awesome!!

  32. Lance says:

    @Sara — Hey Sara!! You are sweet. Thank you, very much, for all of this. And if this all in some way just bright­ens someone’s day — then it has been so worth it (and truth­fully — it ALWAYS bright­ens my day!!). When Bekah heard NYC — she was all over this!! And — it was so fun — both to explore the city together — and to laugh together. Keep on laugh­ing, sweet friend…

    @Louise — Hi Louise!! This was a won­der­ful place to bring laugh­ter to! And — it was for a cou­ple of rea­sons. Katie first had the idea for The Lev­ity Project while vis­it­ing New York City last year, and there was also another cel­e­bra­tion of laugh­ter going on that same day (of which many peo­ple did both events). Hav­ing Bekah with on this was a com­plete joy! And — laugh­ter breaks at work — I AGREE!!! So many ben­e­fits from laugh­ing — whether it’s real or fake. And fake laugh­ter usu­ally very quickly turns into real laugh­ter, anyway!!

    @Jody — Hey Jody!! It WAS won­der­ful!! And — in those moments of laugh­ter — it was so pow­er­fully mov­ing to just really be in those moments…and to see oth­ers so fully into those moments too!

    @Jarrod — Hey Jar­rod!! Thanks!! Laugh­ter is amaz­ing med­i­cine!! And — to wit­ness this — wow!!! It really was such a great moment!!

    @Darren — Hey Dar­ren!! Laugh­ing for no rea­son — isn’t it GREAT!! Keep on doing that — it’s con­ta­gious!!! And that is some­thing so worth catch­ing! Thanks so much for all your support!

    @Jannie — Hey Jan­nie!! I KNOW you were laugh­ing with us…from afar! Jan­nie, this whole idea is so right up your alley!! (do you have an alley???) And I know — see­ing the faces and expres­sions of every­one was so FUN!!! The lady in the yel­low cap — no, not that I’m aware (I don’t think she is a blog­ger). And yes — she really was a hoot!! Jan­nie, the bomb threat could have really put a damper on this all — and yet, it didn’t!! And that really does shine as to the power of laugh­ter! Thank you, sweet friend, for being here…

    @Audra — Hey Audra!! This ended up being such an amaz­ing day! And heal­ing was def­i­nitely a part of this laughter…as per­haps it always is (to some degree). Being united with laughter…it made for a very joy-filled morn­ing! And for a few moments…everything in the world seemed right… Audra, thank you so much…

  33. Lance says:

    @Wilma — Hi Wilma!! Ha!!! Yes, I DID laugh these thoughts away! And — what I’ve found is that there was this real energy within NYC — some­thing much dif­fer­ent than I would have expe­ri­enced right out­side my back­door. Now, I still think that step­ping out that door — and laugh­ing is good, too. It’s just that it’s dif­fer­ent. And all of it’s good! And you are so right about the ego — and how laugh­ing just puts that aside. It really does! And it’s won­der­ful!! And…now your laugh­ter from New Zealand is now laugh­ing down on me, here in Wis­con­sin! How cool to see it keep spread­ing (thank YOU!)!!

    @Yum Yucky — Hey Josie!! Isn’t that a com­pletely awe­some t-shirt!!! I want one too!!!!

    @Megan Zuniga — Hi Megan! It was sooo much fun!! Doing this, even with all that had hap­pened the day before…such a con­nect­ing feel­ing of peace.…

    @Davina — Hey Davina!! Doing this on the sub­ways in New York (which we did also) — this was a harder crowd to engage. There were def­i­nitely peo­ple who joined in, and some who smiled to them­selves. Still, there were also many to just tried to “not see” what was going on. And — the goal on the sub­way was slightly dif­fer­ent — more of light laugh­ter and smil­ing — and just really show­ing a peace about our­selves (in a non-obtrusive way). Great stuff, too, though! Because even if just one per­son was some­how pos­i­tively impacted, it was so worth it!

    @Joychristin — Hi Joy!! There is cer­tainly what can feel like a seri­ous­ness around NYC. Per­haps it’s the size, and just the sheer num­ber of peo­ple? In any rate, being able to bring a bit of laugh­ter into this place — so great! And it was great for me per­son­ally as much as for those around us — as the laugh­ter touched my soul in won­der­ful ways. The shop­ping for my daugh­ter (*ahem* — and Katie was NO help here…encouraging her and plant­ing more shop­ping ideas into her head!!! Yikes!!) And yes — see­ing the laugh­ter in oth­ers just really even brought it out more in me!! What a great day it was!!

    @Greg — Hey Greg!! Per­haps it helped that our start­ing point was NOT Times Square (that was our end­ing point). So, in that place we started, there was very much a sense of calm. It was a good place to start — away from where the night’s bomb threat had hap­pened. By the time we reached that spot (our third and final stop), our group was very much in a spirit of joy and excitement.

    @Amit — Hey Amit!! Com­edy is a great way to bring laugh­ter to the world. Just last night I was at a com­edy show, and it really felt so good to laugh (we did a LOT of it!!). So, keep on doing that, and pro­vid­ing much-needed gig­gles and smiles into our world! And I am a big fan of Vic­tor Hugo — and this quote doesn’t disappoint!

    @Farnoosh — Hi Farnoosh!!!!! I am really glad that you are com­fort­able in shar­ing here. Your words from yes­ter­day, espe­cially — are ones that touch upon this need for laugh­ter much more deeply than I have been able to express here. Farnoosh, you are def­i­nitely a part of my fam­ily here…and a very dear and car­ing friend. And — I’m with you on Vic­tor Hugo, too. What brilliance!!

  34. scheng1 says:

    World Laugh­ing Day? Is there such a Day? I think when we gather a few kindgarten classes together, we can see the effect of such a day.
    .-= scheng1´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What is rheuma­toid arthri­tis? =-.

  35. Cheryl Paris says:

    Hi Lance,

    For sure Laugh­ter is the best med­i­cine. I am glad that noth­ing hap­pened in NY. You and your daugh­ter liked NY. I am sure she liked as she got to SHOP.
    When we are sit­ting in a room and one per­son who smiles brings cheers to many faces in that room.

    Bye for now,
    Cheryl
    .-= Cheryl Paris´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Top 10 Inspi­ra­tional Say­ings You Need To Know =-.

  36. Just Be Real says:

    Inspir­ing post Lance. Thank you for shar­ing. Blessings.

  37. Angelia Sims says:

    I would say Times Square needed a whole lotta laugh­ter energy and you guys deliv­ered.
    Loved the leis! This was won­der­ful and just what I needed this morn­ing.
    .-= Angelia Sims´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Word-ish Wednes­day =-.

  38. Hilary says:

    Hi Lance, Katie et al .. that was so much fun to lis­ten to .. and you obvi­ously had a blast .. loved see­ing the loca­tions .. the metro peo­ple .. must have thought you were bonkers .. but bet they laughed too ..

    Great to see what can be done .. if we all relax, take off our masks and laugh our way on the road ahead .. won­der­ful — thank — Hilary
    .-= Hilary ´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Stir­ling Cas­tle – with all its his­tory, defences, wall paint­ings and tapes­tries .. and the Museum of Mod­ern Art, NYC =-.

  39. Great post Lance! Laugh­ter is the best! :)
    .-= Mary (A Merry Life)´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Change I Need =-.

  40. terie says:

    This is such an awe­some adven­ture and so much fun too. I wish I could have been there. I think laugh­ing is such a stress reliever. I noticed that no mat­ter how angry I am at a sit­u­a­tion or a per­son, laugh­ter will just make it all go away. I love to laugh and make oth­ers laugh, but laugh­ing with my kids is the ulti­mate. Some of the best mem­o­ries were made laugh­ing at sto­ries from our past. This is such a great way to enjoy life.

    Thanks for the reminder, because some­times we forget!!

    Terie

  41. Lance says:

    @scheng1 — There IS such a day!! It was started by the Laugh­ter Yoga com­mu­nity, and what a won­der­ful way to pro­mote the joy of laugh­ing!! And — yes, kinder­garten kids just do this automatically…EVERY DAY!

    @Cheryl — Hi Cheryl!! Guess what?? You ARE CORRECT — my daugh­ter LOVED the shop­ping!! (me?? what was I think­ing!!) (ha!!) And that’s a great point — it only takes one to turn a somber mood into some­thing much more cheer­ful! And that means we can all go out and do this…every day!

    @Just Be Real — Thank you so much!! It was such a fun event to be a part of!

    @Angelia — Hi Angelia!!! You know what? It was so fun hand­ing out the Hawa­ian leis to peo­ple wan­der­ing through Grand Cen­tral Sta­tion! See­ing the smiles on their faces (mostly…some peo­ple are hard cases to crack!), and the sheer joy of get­ting to wear that lei — wow!! Now…about you.…I pretty much think you walk around with a smile and a laugh always!! (cheery friend!!)

    @Hilary — Hey Hilary!! My fam­ily thinks I’m bonkers!! Ha!!! And…they have to live with me! I’m all for being a lit­tle on the “not nor­mal” side, though! It’s a great way to mean­der through life! Thanks so much for the sup­port, Hilary!!

    @Mary — Hi Mary!! Laugh­ter is way awesome!!!

  42. Karla Bond says:

    National Laugh­ter Day really?!? How did I not know this?!? I think it’s fan­tas­tic. More peo­ple need to laugh in the world and lighten up and enjoy life. What a great idea to do.
    .-= Karla Bond´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Dig­i­tal Cam­eras =-.

  43. Lance,

    I just found your site, neat stuff here. Some­times, I laugh for some­thing so silly and lit­tle, my preschooler always cracks me up! laugh­ter is good for us, so I try :-) but hav­ing funny and fun peo­ple around me helps a lot.
    .-= Zen­girl @ Heart and Mind´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..10 sim­ple things that make me happy! =-.

  44. Lance says:

    @Terie — Terie!!!! (sorry I missed you ear­lier…) I KNOW you are filled with laugh­ter and joy! And it really does cut back so much on stress. (shouldn’t we all be doing more of it!!) And — I have to agree: laugh­ing with my kids is such a blast, too! And it just con­nects us even more as a fam­ily! Any­way — great to see you here today, sweet friend!!!

    @Karla — Hi Karla!! Yes, isn’t the idea of a WORLD Laugh­ter Day pretty awe­some!! And — doing this as a group — really pow­er­ful (and fun!)!!

    @Zengirl — Hey Zen­girl!! It’s great to have you here! Kids have a beau­ti­ful way of bring­ing laugh­ter and light into the world — and just think if we could con­tinue to carry that with us into adult­hood. Keep laughing…and keep on being that laugh for oth­ers, too.…

  45. I love how you say “fly halfway across coun­try…” to laugh…sometimes we just get so com­fort­able. Love that you did this with your daugh­ter! Love laughing!!!

  46. HI Sweet Lance,
    Youre such a dear for shar­ing this video and your expe­ri­ence with us here. I so so wanted to be there for world laugh­ter day.…but i knew you guys would have fun…and see…you did! WOW!
    All the laugh­ter the giggles…the smil­ing hearts.…isn’t that what life is all about…just supreme bliss watch­ing that video.
    Laugh­ter does heal.….makes all the pain go away…and only brings forth such a hearty soul­ful bliss.
    Thank you once again lance for being who you are.….You know you are loved for it :)
    Much Love,
    Z~

  47. Jenn says:

    Lance, this was enchant­ing to be a part of here, today! ;) I loved it. I am so cap­ti­vated by these projects!!! and it is so inspir­ing to really encour­age one another to shine!! thank you… for this gift.. and for shar­ing … The Lev­ity Project is such a won­der­ful move­ment! hugs, Jenn
    .-= Jenn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Truth: I am Scared (to Death) to Shine!!!! =-.

  48. Mama Zen says:

    We must laugh! Oth­er­wise …
    .-= Mama Zen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..A Wish Upon A Dan­de­lion =-.

  49. Lance says:

    @Stacey Ship­man — You know what, Stacey…it was soooo worth that flight halfway across the coun­try! And that’s it — it took us out of our com­fort zone.…literally! And in that — it also expanded our own hori­zons, our view of the world, and what we see as pos­si­ble! And that’s all GREAT stuff! Keep on laugh­ing, sweet friend…

    @Zeenat — While I was halfway across the country…you were halfway across the WORLD!! And yet — you were so with us in spirit (and what a beau­ti­ful spirit that is!)!! The laugh­ter in the video — so much of it is just from the peo­ple pass­ing through Grand Cen­tral Sta­tion — truly music to the ears! Zeenat, your sweet and car­ing sup­port is so appreciated!!

    @Jenn — Hey Jenn!! These Lev­ity Projects really touch upon some­thing much deeper than just laugh­ter (or danc­ing, or what­ever). It’s really about releas­ing that joy that is within each of us…and in that, allow­ing oth­ers to do the same! And it’s been a beau­ti­ful expe­ri­ence!! Big hugs right back atcha!!

    @Mama Zen — Hey Kelli!! Yes.…laughter most cer­tainly beats the opposite!!

  50. Robin Easton says:

    THIS IS PRICELESS!!!!
    I would have LOVED LOVED LOVED doing this.
    I am so proud of you all for just DOING IT!!!
    Even in the face of bombers.
    We all need to laugh more.
    Thank you so MUCH for encour­ag­ing this part of me.
    I love it and you!!
    Robin
    .-= Robin Easton´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..You-Shaped Hole =-.

  51. J.D. Meier says:

    > For no rea­son at all! And feel your soul smil­ing back at you…
    That’s a pow­er­ful line. It says a lot too. As if, it’s sim­ply a deci­sion to feel and reflect fun.
    .-= J.D. Meier´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..More Spring Cleanup on Sources of Insight – Sim­pli­fy­ing the Expe­ri­ence =-.

  52. Lance says:

    @Robin — Hi Robin!! Hav­ing watched some of your videos, I know very much that laugh­ter is just part of who you are!! And — you help to bring that out in me! It’s con­ta­gious!! NYC was such a won­der­ful event — and it was because in that moment — there really was this sense of peace and unity…through laugh­ter. Much love to you, sweet friend.…

    @J.D. Meier — Thanks!!! It really did feel just like that — feel­ing the “fun” within.…and let­ting it shine outward!

  53. Keith Davis says:

    Hi lance
    I started read­ing but had to stop when I got to this line.…
    “And…perhaps the best of all…precious time with my daugh­ter (who, for the record, is grow­ing up way too fast).“
    The rea­son I stopped is that my daugh­ter fin­ished school today.
    She’s 18 and has been at the same school since she was 3.
    Next year she will be off to uni­ver­sity!
    Don’t miss out on time with your daugh­ter Lance… the time goes so quickly.

    I’ll read the rest of the post now.
    .-= Keith Davis´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Laugh and the world… =-.

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