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Believe In Yourself

“Suc­cess means hav­ing the courage, the deter­mi­na­tion, and the will to become the per­son you believe you were meant to be” ~ George Sheehan

Today I’m shar­ing a video of Nick Vuji­cic, a real exam­ple of believ­ing in your­self, and of not giv­ing up.  If you do only one thing today, watch this video — take five min­utes from your day.  You will come away inspired by what is pos­si­ble, by what can be if you keep on try­ing, by what truly liv­ing life is all about!

Believe In Yourself

Some­times life has a way of giv­ing us some­thing we don’t nec­es­sar­ily want.  And that “some­thing” might knock us down.  What do you do when this hap­pens?  When you’re knocked down, beat up, and feel like you’ve tried everything?

Keep on try­ing.  You CAN get back up.  Maybe it won’t be up in the same direc­tion you were orig­i­nally going.  But then, maybe it will be a new way to of get­ting up alto­gether.  Who knows what you will dis­cover about your­self and what you are capa­ble of if , when you fail and when you get knocked down in life, you keep work­ing at get­ting back up.

Amaz­ing abil­i­ties are within each of us!  If we can just believe in our­selves, even when it seems like things just aren’t going our way.  Even when we’ve tried so many times, and keep on fail­ing.  Even when life seems unfair.

Even with all of this, you all have awe­some tal­ents and trea­sures within, wait­ing to come out.  Let them free!  Let your true col­ors shine, let your spirit say “I will”, let your life be an exam­ple of what is possible!

Believe!  In your­self.  In oth­ers.  In hope for our world.

Nick is a shin­ing exam­ple of a true belief in him­self, and of a real love for life.  Be that shin­ing exam­ple in your world today!

I want to extend spe­cial thanks to a cou­ple of peo­ple.  First off to my good friend and reg­u­lar com­menter here, Lau­rie, for point­ing me in the direc­tion of this inspir­ing video.  And sec­ondly, to Jamie, from Blue Duck Copy, who shared another video of Nick recently in her post enti­tled “The Cure for Depres­sion: Nick Vuji­cic” — one more pow­er­ful and inspir­ing exam­ple of Nick in action.

You can learn more about Nick and the amaz­ing work he is doing through­out the world, at his Life With­out Limbs website.

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. MizFit says:

    off to read the sites you linked as I know if YOU LIKE THEM then I shall as well.

    this believ­ing in our­selves can be a tough road some days…

    MizFit´s last blog post..Quaker Oats, Work­outs, & Miz Flashes the Windy City (not nec­es­sar­ily in that order).

  2. Hi Lance,
    Thank you so much for this. I have seen a shorter video of Nick before but this one truly is even more amaz­ing. What a won­der­ful way to start the day — filled with inspi­ra­tion! I have been hav­ing my own doubts with my inven­tion that I have spent the last 5 years on and this is JUST what I needed to see to con­vince me to hang in there and to real­ize I should be embrac­ing each fail­ure because I have learned so much along the way. I know things will work out the way they are meant to and will relax and just be grate­ful for the oppor­tu­nity and jour­ney. Thank you Lance! I send you a big vir­tual hug for the inspi­ra­tion and for help­ing me begin my day with a HUGE smile on my face and new deter­mi­na­tion! Love, Jenny

    Jenny Mannion´s last blog post..The “Pag­ing Me Sys­tem” — A Method to Heal Pain Naturally

  3. Julie says:

    Oh, Lance, this is so timely for me. A dear loved one is strug­gling (and alter­nately hid­ing and lash­ing out in her strug­gle) and I just didn’t know what to do. Although I couldn’t access your video, I did read Nick’s site and then went to Laurie’s. Her words jumped out at me: “I am a firm believer that love from oth­ers, and a gen­uine love for oth­ers is the best treat­ment for depres­sion.” Now, thanks to you and Nick and Lau­rie, I know what to do to help (of course, deep inside, I always did know) and I have the courage to do it. Thank you, Lance.

    Julie´s last blog post..Been There, Done That

  4. Isn’t Nick the most amaz­ing?!? How­ever, you really should put up a KLEENEX ALERT — after I for­warded one of Nick’s videos I got a lot of return emails sug­gest­ing the warn­ing. Being other directed, as Julie pointed out, gets our focus off our own pity party. Thanks for pass­ing this on.

    Betsy Wuebker´s last blog post..DESTINATIONS

  5. Laurie says:

    One of the things Nick says in one of his videos is that we should not com­pare suf­fer­ings. I believe he is right. Pain is pain, strug­gle is strug­gle. He might be just at inspired by some of the per­se­ver­ance through strug­gle with the peo­ple in this com­mu­nity. So never for­get that you can per­se­vere. As long as you have breath you have hope. You never know who you will inspire or what life you will gift.

    I tend to get over­whelmed with the strug­gles of my past. Watch­ing Nick reminds me not to dwell in the pains of the past put to per­se­vere and believe in myself to make my present and my future all I want it to be. I am, after all, “fear­fully and won­der­fully made”. I am not a mis­take. I have been given the abil­ity, with God’s help and strength, to live a life full or pas­sion and bless­ings. So have you all. Peace and grace.

  6. Wow…what a pow­er­ful video and an amaz­ing guy. I am speechless!

    Dave Jones, CPA´s last blog post..Death and Taxes

  7. Won­der­fully writ­ten post, Lance. For me, Nick is a moti­va­tor beyond all oth­ers. I think, “If that man can get out of bed and face another day, so can I.”

    His addi­tion to the One Month to Live series was phe­nom­e­nal. I hear he was in my area a few months back. I’m hop­ing I’ll catch hm on his next visit to Ohio. I want one of those infa­mous hugs. :)

    Jamie Simmerman´s last blog post..The Unseen Struggle

  8. Writer Dad says:

    I’ve seen a cou­ple videos of Nick. This is the most amaz­ing. Noth­ing should ever hold us back, at least not with permanence.

    Writer Dad´s last blog post..Bright Ideas

  9. This is awe inspiring!

    Thank you for the post.

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  10. rummuser says:

    This is a won­der­ful video that needs much wider dis­tri­b­u­tion. I am doing my bit. I have known some cases of sim­i­lar nature, not quite with­out limbs, but peo­ple with MS who have han­dled their adver­si­ties with courage and dig­nity — much more so than nor­mal peo­ple do with their day to day petty prob­lems. I have always thought that such adver­sity brings out some­thing quite unlike any­thing that we so called nor­mal peo­ple are capa­ble of.

    rummuser´s last blog post..A Poignant Story.

  11. bobbi says:

    Hi Lance! I was intro­duced to Nick about a month ago in our ONE MONTH TO LIVE STUDY, wow…I am so inspired, and just amazed.…

    bobbi´s last blog post..Press­ing On.…

  12. What a fan­tas­tic 5 minute video. Nick has no arms and no legs, but man­ages to moti­vate peo­ple to be their best.

    There are days that I get down on myself, feel­ing sorry for where I’m at in life. This doesn’t usu­ally last long and it’s sto­ries like Nick’s that inspire me to be stronger. I know that I have a lot of give back to this world and I’m deter­mined to give it my all.

    Thanks for an awe­some boost of inspiration.

    Karl — Work Happy Now´s last blog post..55 Tips to Make Work More Fun

  13. Amaz­ing abil­i­ties are within each of us! If we can just believe in our­selves, even when it seems like things just aren’t going our way”

    I am RUNNING with that advice.

    meleah rebeccah´s last blog post..A Book? So…You Want To Write A Book?

  14. Ross says:

    Yeah, really great.. really inspir­ing… Lost for words actu­ally. It really puts our own “prob­lems” into per­spec­tive doesn’t it.

    Ross´s last blog post..Par­ent­ing: some things money can’t buy

  15. Maya says:

    Lance,

    I took 5 min­utes and I am more than inspired.
    Thank you so much.

    I hope to have the strength to get up when I fall. I hope to keep try­ing.
    I am com­mit­ting to my startup as I type this — I am scared but I think I will suc­ceed, no mat­ter what. I believe in myself. Thank you.

    Maya´s last blog post..Slideshow: Dogs Lessons for Life and Work

  16. Mindful Mimi says:

    Wow Lance, that video just moved me to tears. I hope you meant to spread the word of hope and don’t mind me putting on my blog as well. Thanks.
    I do feel inspired and pushed now. I was a bit down for silly, unim­por­tant rea­sons. I know they are not worth fret­ting about. And yet, once in every while one gets devi­ated from the course and just sits there moan­ing. These kind of peo­ple bring you to get up again indeed.
    Thanks for shar­ing.
    Mimi

    Mind­ful Mimi´s last blog post..The per­sonal life deeply lived always expands into truths beyond itself — Anais Nin

  17. Mark says:

    Keep on try­ing. You CAN get back up. Maybe it won’t be up in the same direc­tion you were orig­i­nally going. But then, maybe it will be a new way to of get­ting up alto­gether.” Such a truth­ful statement.…tghis one hits home. Check­ing out the links. Thanks Lance!

  18. Nap Warden says:

    Well, that was inspi­ra­tional! I wasn’t going to watch, came back, and I’m glad I did:)

    Nap Warden´s last blog post..Princess Peach

  19. Davina says:

    Hi Lance. Thanks for shar­ing this. I real­ized that I am doing it (not giv­ing up) and have been for­get­ting to pat myself on the back for that. This video goes to show that we can choose our per­spec­tives out­side of what our cir­cum­stances are. What struck me the most was real­iz­ing what it would be like to never be able to wrap my arms around another human being and hug them. One of the sim­ple things in life that I’d taken for granted.

    Davina´s last blog post..Akemi Gaines On Intu­ition, Dreams And Spir­i­tual Guidance–Interview Part 2

  20. Jennifer says:

    Thank you so much Lance for this video. It is def­i­nitely worth the 5 min­utes I took to watch it. I’ve never heard of Nick before so thank you for this won­der­ful introduction.

    You might not believe this, but this song, “Don’t worry. Be happy.” either popped in my head last night or this morn­ing, just from nowhere. I just started singing it. Maybe it came into my head because of Chris’ grandma. After attend­ing her funeral I was reminded of how happy she always was. The empha­sis is on the word always. And she always signed all of her cards with “Be happy.”

    This video was such a moti­va­tion to keep on keep­ing on. 90% of fail­ure comes from quit­ting. It’s up to us whether we give up or not. We all do have great­ness within us. We only have to let it out.

    Thank you Lance. You are such an inspiration!

    Jennifer´s last blog post..Come and Share in My Misery

  21. Audra Krell says:

    I think we spend a lot of time wish­ing, hop­ing and deny­ing that we have been handed some things we don’t want. What a waste of time and energy. We must stop fight­ing real­ity and see how we can learn and grow from the oppor­tu­ni­ties given to us.

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  22. I have always believed that belief in one­self is the raw ingre­di­ent of suc­cess. Your actions stem from your belief.

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  23. Rachel says:

    Man, that guy is awe­some. Brought some tears to my eyes today. Makes all of our lifes mis­eries seem ridicu­lous doesn’t it?

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  24. Vered says:

    Thank you, Lance. I am cry­ing right now in a good, cleans­ing, empow­er­ing way.

  25. That video did two things for me — brought tears to my eyes and made me angry. Angry because many of us have the abil­ity to walk and move our arms, to get up every­day and hug our loved ones, feed our­selves, make our cof­fee, and get to work with­out strug­gle. And yet, we get up and head to work or start our day doing noth­ing but com­plain­ing. We even com­plain about peo­ple who teach us about the power of pos­i­tive think­ing! Stop the mad­ness, I say (there has been a post stir­ring in me about that). We only have this one life (that we know of!), why not make the best of it. Nick cer­tainly is.

    Thank you for shar­ing I had not heard of Nick.

    Stacey Shipman´s last blog post..Get­ting Back to Your Senses

  26. Lance says:

    @MizFit — Yes…some days…believing in our­selves can be dif­fi­cult — and then we’re reminded of the obsta­cles oth­ers, like Nick, have over­come — and real­ize just how much we “don’t” have to over­come… Enjoy your visit over to see Jamie, she is awesome!

    @Jenny Man­nion — Your wel­come Jenny, but the thanks really go to the two super ladies I men­tioned in the post — Lau­rie and Jamie. Do hang in there Jenny, do con­tinue to believe… Embrac­ing our fail­ures — and learn­ing along the way — it’s easy to say this, and another thing alto­gether to really “do” this. I know you can Jenny! And, thank you for the great big vir­tual hug…I’m tak­ing it all in right now!

    @Julie — I’m so glad this is help­ing you with your loved one Julie. Those are very mean­ing­ful words that Jamie has on her site about giv­ing and receiv­ing love — and how this can help to deal with depres­sion. Love is so powerful…

    @Betsy — Nick is incred­i­bly amaz­ing — to have over­come what he has, and con­tinue to have such a pos­i­tive out­look on life — this really is a won­der­ful story Betsy! Kleenex alert — I guess I missed that! Being other directed — yes, this really does get us to for­get about our own prob­lems, no mat­ter what they are — as Nick has so beau­ti­fully shown.

    @Laurie — Thank you so much, Lau­rie, for point­ing me to this video. Nick is such a great exam­ple of over­com­ing obsta­cles in our lives — what an amaz­ing story! Wow, not com­pare suf­fer­ings! He is also such a hum­ble per­son — I have a hard time even con­sid­er­ing this, and yet — I see his point. Suf­fer­ing is suf­fer­ing — no mat­ter what it is. And, yes — when I think of the strug­gles that I have — and then think of this story of hope — I am hard-pressed to think that my strug­gles are really strug­gles at all. What a reminder he is that we “can” get beyond what our strug­gle are, we can over­come obsta­cle that life throws at us, we can believe in our­selves! Thanks Lau­rie, for inspir­ing so many with this story you’ve shared today!

    @Dave Jones — This is such a pow­er­ful exam­ple of believ­ing in our­selves, and of over­com­ing obsta­cles — such an inspir­ing story!

    @Jamie Sim­mer­man — Jamie, thank you, as well — for first intro­duc­ing me to Nick, through your site. I was in awe when I first saw the video you have up. It was my first intro­duc­tion to this fine human being. Yes, if he can face each day, and with a smile on his face — what, at all, do we have to even com­plain about? You started this Jamie, thank you for spread­ing the word on all this man is doing!

  27. Lance says:

    @Writer Dad — This is a very mov­ing video, and one that really brings me down to where I really tell myself I need to strip away the lay­ers of “woe is me” — and live my life the way I desire. And believe that all “is” poss­si­ble — that I can over­come. Thanks Sean.

    @Tim Rosanelli — Your wel­come, it really is an inspir­ing and mov­ing story like no other!

    @Rummuser — Yes, this is a story that can only ben­e­fit all those who see it. Con­tinue to share the sto­ries you know, Ramana. Nick is but one exam­ple of many who are doing great things under what would seem like insur­mount­able odds. And, I love your other point — about how these peo­ple, who seem­ing suf­fer from much, do great works with dig­nity and courage. We can all learn so much from this atti­tude — really an atti­tude of gratitude!

    @Bobbi — That is so neat, you are already famil­iar with Nick — he is so amaz­ing! I believe that Jamie, who orig­i­nally intro­duced me to Nick, also learned of him through the “One Month to Live” study. I don’t really know much about that pro­gram, but just by it’s name, and the con­nec­tion to Nick — it has to have been a very mov­ing experience.

    @Karl — I think this just goes to show, moti­va­tion comes from within. There are days when I feel down too (I think we all have them…) — and yes, sto­ries like this we hear from Nick — really do moti­vate us to believe in our­selves, to lift us up, and to help us to soar like we were meant to! And, I’ll say that Lau­rie was glad to pro­vide the moti­va­tion today — I was just a con­duit to get the infor­ma­tion out…

    @Meleah — It’s there, Meleah — within you — many very amaz­ing abilities!

    @Ross — Yes, it really does put our so-called prob­lems into per­spec­tive. If Nick can over­come what he has, we can over­come all the smaller stuff we con­sider issues in our lives can’t we! And this really is a great reminder of that…

  28. Lance says:

    @Maya — I think it’s hard not to be inspired after watch­ing this — it’s just such a pow­er­ful story of hope! You believe in “you” Maya — and that’s really the first step in much suc­cess in all your endeav­ors! You will do well. And you will get back up when you fall. And you’ll reach great heights!

    @Mindful Mimi — Yes, please share this — spread the word Mimi! The more peo­ple that see this, the bet­ter. I hear you loud and clear about our prob­lems seem­ing silly and unim­por­tant. After see­ing this video, it’s just really hard to think of the minor “things” in our lives as being some­thing we can’t over­come. Nick’s story is a great reminder that, no mat­ter what our sit­u­a­tion, there is much good that can come from it — if we have the right attitude.

    @Mark — Yes, check out the links — it’s all great stuff. A big plug for Lau­rie and Jamie here again — they really made this post hap­pen! Keep at it Mark!!

    @Nap War­den — It is such an inspi­ra­tional story. I, too, find myself skip­ping over some­times if there is a video, think­ing it will take too long to watch — that is not the case here. This is worth every minute of viewing.

    @Davina — Keep at it Davina (the not giv­ing up)! The pat on the back is well-deserved! And, never being able to wrap our arms around some­one — I hadn’t thought about that — but I bet Nick still loves receiv­ing all the hugs he gets, even if he can’t wrap arms around some­one else… we do take many things for granted…

    @Jennifer — It is SO worth the five min­utes! Nick was new to me until recently, too, when I was intro­duced on Jamie’s site. Check her stuff out, I think you’ll like it very much! The song “Don’t Worry, Be Happy” — coin­ci­dence (reminds me of some­thing Jamie said to me recently)? I don’t think so. It’s all part of how this day is play­ing out for you Jen­nifer — and that song — and remem­ber­ing Chris’ grand­mother — are an impor­tant part of this day. Be happy. I think that describes you pretty well too! Fail­ure from quit­ting — how true. If we just “get up” one more time. If we just try again. The great­ness is there in all of us! Yes it is!! And thank you, Jen­nifer for your kind words, once again. I’m pass­ing them on, though — to Lau­rie and Jamie — the real inspi­ra­tion to this story today!

  29. Lance says:

    @Audra — Great point Audra — some­times we just need to get over the cards we’ve been dealt, and just play with what we have. Nick is just a per­fect exam­ple of this. Many would say that life has treated him unfairly — but just look at the atti­tude he has! If we can all be just a lit­tle bit closer to this “ok” when we have issues in our life, just think how much more won­der­ful our world would be! Thanks Audra!

    @Bamboo For­est — Believ­ing in ones self — exactly what Nick is demon­strat­ing, isn’t it! If we all did this more…

    @Rachel — This guy is way awe­some! And yes…when we think of the “mis­eries” in our lives — they pale in com­par­i­son. What, really, do we have to com­plain about? When this gen­tle­men is deal­ing with no limbs at all, and really liv­ing a life of abundance…

    @Vered — Nick, and the pow­er­ful mes­sage he shares — has a way of cleans­ing us…He is an amaz­ing and inspir­ing exam­ple of what IS possible!

    @Stacey Ship­man — I love what you’ve shared today Stacey. Well, I love it, and it sad­dens me. I love that this made you angry — angry about a world where we let our petty con­cerns dom­i­nate way too much of our thoughts and actions. I love that you’ve brought this point up — that we should be aware that there are many less for­tu­nate than us (all the Nick’s of the world) who live a life with a far bet­ter atti­tude than us who have so much. And yet, this all sad­dens me too. Sad in the fact that what you say is true. Sad­dened by the fact, that, while watch­ing this video may change a few peo­ple for the bet­ter — a vast major­ity of peo­ple will never see this, nor want to see it. Or that peo­ple will see it, and then for­get about it as they go about their days — deal­ing with traf­fic, or scream­ing kids, or an upset cus­tomer, or a bro­ken nail, or a spilled cup of cof­fee… Stacey, thank you again for this com­ment. If you get a chance, check out what Jamie has to say, in the links I’ve included — she has been a real sup­porter of Nick, and my first intro­duc­tion to him.

  30. Evelyn Lim says:

    I watched this video a cou­ple of days ago. Nick is so amaz­ing!! Yes…he sure can teach us a lot about believ­ing in our­selves. I’m going to show the video to my kids too!! Thanks for fea­tur­ing it here!

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  31. Hi Lance — I watched the video with tears in my eyes, but what I noticed is Nick’s eyes sparkle. He loves life, lives life and teaches oth­ers to do the same. He’s amaz­ing. It was great to see him teach­ing the young that any­thing is pos­si­ble. I pray they take the lessons they learned from him into their adult lives.

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  32. francisonline says:

    astound­ing!

  33. Liara Covert says:

    I like how you remind your vis­i­tors to ‘read between the lines.’ After all, there is no such thing as fail­ure until you put that label on some feel­ing you have yet to truly under­stand. You can choose to reframe, rebuild, re-evaluate all that you are. It is a sim­ple deci­sion that comes from you. Nobody is liv­ing your life for you. If some­one hap­pens to believe that is the case, then this is an oppor­tu­nity to redis­cover the power each human being exerts over his or her life. To take respon­si­bil­ity for your role in every­thing you expe­ri­ence is a major step forward.

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  34. Lance says:

    @Evelyn — Yes, Nick is really an amaz­ing indi­vid­ual! We can all learn from it, kids and adults alike — I’m sure your chil­dren will get much from this. Espe­cially if they are any­thing like their mother (which I know they are)!

    @Barbara — He does sparkle, doesn’t he! Yes, hope­fully the young adults in the video come away with some­thing very spe­cial from this — it’s such a mes­sage of hope that is so good for every­one to hear!

    @Francisonline — Thank you!

    @Liara Covert — Right, we have to live our lives, no one else will do that for us. And we can decide how to live that life — no mat­ter what our con­di­tion in life. Yes, we all must take respon­si­bil­ity for how we expe­ri­ence life — and it should be no other way — that is the way to true liv­ing. And to do this with a can-do atti­tude, like Nick rep­re­sents, just makes life that much grander! Thank you Liara for this.

  35. ru4real says:

    Thanks SO much for shar­ing this video. I watched it with my teenage daugh­ter, who some­times feels over­whelmed with her cir­cum­stances. I think it spoke vol­umes that I could never have spo­ken to her.

  36. Suzie says:

    Great thoughts. Ill keep it in mind today

    Suzie´s last blog post..Santa Free Zone

  37. Thanks for the lift Lance. I’m feel­ing pretty good these days and watch­ing Nick really got me to a place of even greater inspi­ra­tion and grat­i­tude. He may not have lin mbs but that guy sure gets more hugs than most of us do.

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  38. Very inspir­ing, thank you!

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  39. Cath Lawson says:

    Hi Lance — I first saw one of Nick’s videos at the week­end. He is so inspir­ing. And as you say, see­ing what he has achieved against the odds makes you realise that any­thing is possible.

  40. Hi Lance,

    I have not heard of Nick before. Thank you so much for shar­ing this. I really needed it today.

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  41. Ian says:

    Thank you for shar­ing that. I had never seen Nick before this post. Truly inspi­ra­tional and a tes­ta­ment to the power of believ­ing in your­self and life.

    Ian´s last blog post..New ‘Up’ Trailer Released

  42. Marelisa says:

    Hi Lance: Nick is unbe­liev­able, and it’s great to watch how he affects kids. In many ways he’s more blessed than a lot of peo­ple because he’s found a way to be happy and find true mean­ing in life. He’s devot­ing his life to teach oth­ers to get back up again each time they fall, and that’s a truly valu­able lesson.

    Marelisa´s last blog post..Solve Every­day Prob­lems Creatively

  43. Lance says:

    @ru4real — This is the true power of some­thing like this, thank you for shar­ing your expe­ri­ence! How awe­some if this gets through to some­one in a way we cannot!

    @Suzie — Thanks!

    @Tom — Yep, that’s what Nick sure does — takes us to a bet­ter place, no mat­ter where we are — in des­per­a­tion, in good times, in great times — he has a real way of tak­ing us to that next level!

    @Munchkins and Music — Your welcome!

    @Cath — Yes, if he can do what he has done, with the odds he has had to face — what is stop­ping us from get­ting up again, from believ­ing in our­selves, and really going after what we want! He is very inspiring!

    @Kim — I’m so glad this was help­ful for you Kim! I think it is for most who see it, no mat­ter what their cur­rent sit­u­a­tion. He shares such a pow­er­ful mes­sage of hope!

    @Ian — Yes, it really is so moti­va­tional, and shows what IS pos­si­ble if we believe!

    @Marelisa — Yes, a great point about kids Mare. Some­times, par­ents don’t get through to them, or teach­ers don’t get through — and then some­one like Nick comes along — and it’s just a whole dif­fer­ent approach from the kids view­point — and can have such a pow­er­ful affect on them. Such great lessons, and such an indomitable attitude…

  44. Jannie says:

    You know, pretty much all the neg­a­tive life events (except for peo­ple up and dying on me,) have actu­ally turned out to be pos­i­tives, altho at the time they seemed like disasters!

    (P.S. No, I am no longer into you-know-what fling­ing (from my post today) due to a bizarre knit­ting acci­dent but I am start­ing to fill up all that extra time with Madlibs ;) )

    Jannie´s last blog post..To flounce or not to flounce

  45. Crap. the video is gone. I’ll have to go check out his site.

    I liked the gist of the post though. Belief is a pow­er­ful thing. Add that to per­se­ver­ance and a never say die atti­tude and you’ll always be one of life’s winners.

    Kelly

  46. @Lance: Nick inspired me. Period! I mean it’s easy to make excuses about ‘this’ or ‘that’ and say that things are hard. But did you see the out­look that he has given all cir­cum­stances? Noth­ing to com­plain about because life is just great. And it is! Or at least it could be if you have just the right outlook.

    Part of that comes with embrac­ing the good (some­thing Nick does so well). Find­ing that one thing, the joy, that makes you pas­sion­ate about every­thing else. I’m mak­ing it a goal of mine to embrace the good every­day. No excuses, no com­plain­ing… Just act­ing on what I want my life to be.

    Thank you Lance for shar­ing this bit of inspiration!

  47. scott says:

    Is it wrong when a dudes post makes another dude tear up? :) I was com­pletely amazed by the video. It truly is a tes­ta­ment to what we mere humans can do, regard­less of what life deals us.

    I don’t know Nick’s com­plete his­tory, but I’m going to make a guess at some­thing. Some­thing that we should all do. I don’t think the impor­tance of being “knocked down” is just get­ting back up. I’m sure he was knocked down on more occa­sions than I care to take a stab at. I bet, though, he got up very quickly. It’s what he did NEXT that was the key. Again, just a guess.

    So many times I’ve been knocked down, popped up right away, and took off imme­di­ately. Not even stop­ping to take the time to shake the dust off. Only to get knocked back down a very short time later.

    So, yes, for heav­ens sake get up. Get up quickly even. But just take some time to shake the dust off, fig­ure out what just tripped you up, and even deter­mine if what you were going for was even worth the trip. Then con­tinue your journey.

    Your post was awe inspir­ing. Thanks so much!

  48. Blake says:

    great video. Thanks for your words of inspi­ra­tion as well.

    Blake´s last blog post..How do You Teach Kids to be Healthy?

  49. Grace says:

    Lance,
    Thanks for the reminder. I believe fully in the power of inten­tional thought. I have seen it work so well with young­sters and those who are in a Blue Funk. Some­times you don’t even have to say any­thing, just project pos­i­tive thoughts their direction.

    Now, belief in one­self? THAT takes a lit­tle more effort! G.

    Grace´s last blog post..Best quo­ta­tion sources on the Internet

  50. Caroline says:

    I am not sure what to say… That was amaz­ing and inspiring…beyond words. Thank you so much for post­ing this today!

    Caroline´s last blog post..Day 12– Do NOTHING today

  51. Biz says:

    That’s for that post — I needed that today! It’s so easy to get wrapped up in the minu­tia of life — that video makes me thank­ful for what I do have, not what I don’t.

    A lov­ing hus­band, healthy kids, a roof over my head and food on my table. Life is grand!

    Biz´s last blog post..I love coffee!

  52. Tabitha says:

    You have made such a HUGE impact in the life of a woman liv­ing with dis­abil­ity (I dis­like that word). Thank you for intro­duc­ing me to Nick!

    Tabitha´s last blog post..An Answered Prayer

  53. Lance says:

    @Jannie — That’s an excel­lent point Jan­nie, what seems “neg­a­tive” often­times ends up being a pos­i­tive — espe­cially if we have the right atti­tude! Bizarre knit­ting acci­dent??? And, I know what you fling (and it’s not knit­ting needles…)…what’s the story here??

    @Kelly — Video is fixed now (with a slightly dif­fer­ent one, but basi­cally the same) — sorry about that. If you get back, check it out now…Nick is a true exam­ple of com­ing out a win­ner in life — an amaz­ing individual!

    @Ricardo — No kid­ding Ricardo — this guy’s got an unbe­liev­able atti­tude — makes any­thing we “com­plain” about seem pretty small. Nick really does embrace the good in his life, and because of that he just con­tin­ues to spread good every­where he goes. I think you’re already there Ricardo, embrac­ing the good — you sure come across that way. Thanks, as always, for stop­ping by!

    @Scott — I think, in this case, no — not at all — tears are per­fectly ok. It’s hard not to… And, Scott, thanks for shar­ing that excel­lent point. Some­times when we fall down, we get back up and just keep doing the same thing — or end up falling down as we go down a path that’s not “right” for us. It IS impor­tant that we take the time to “shake the dust off” as you say — and really see if we’re going in the direc­tion we desire. Thanks much for that view­point — it really adds to this story!

    @Blake — Your wel­come, this is truly an inspi­ra­tional story of hope!

    @Grace — Yes, some­times believ­ing in our­selves isn’t always the eas­i­est thing to do, is it Grace…and then we see sto­ries like this, and it’s just so uplift­ing. I wish you well on your journey…

    @Caroline — Your wel­come Car­o­line. There is so much inspi­ra­tion in what this man is doing with his life!

    @Biz — Glad this helped you today Biz! We are blessed with so much — even if, at times, it seems like we’re not. Nick really dri­ves this point home with how he has embraced life in spite of the many hard­ships life has dealt him…

    @Tabitha — Your wel­come Tabitha, and thank you so much for your kind words — I am hum­bled by them, and am hon­ored to have shared this intro­duc­tion to one amaz­ing person.

  54. Diana Rupert says:

    Thanks for the post. I saw a video of Nick before. It was really inspir­ing and moti­vat­ing. Like what i have read believe in your­self. Over­come your weak­nesses and always focus in your goals.

    Diana Rupert´s last blog post..Eas­i­est Way to Lose Love Han­dles and Rapidly Burn Fat

  55. This is the 2nd video I’ve seen with Nick in it. I had posted one of his ear­lier videos on my blog — it showed him going about doing his daily activ­i­ties that most of us take for granted.

    I wish I knew what he was say­ing because he obvi­ously had a pow­er­ful impact on the kids, mak­ing them laugh and cry. Do you know of a tran­script some­where? I am an inspi­ra­tional speaker too so I’m very inter­ested in know­ing exactly what he’s say­ing to pro­voke such a strong emo­tional response.

    Any­one?

    Stephen Hopson´s last blog post..How Mak­ing an Irra­tional, Last-Minute Deci­sion Can Change Your Life

  56. Thank you for the intro­duc­tion to this remark­able man. We are all gor­geous and have so much to share with the world. Game On! Thank Lance.

    Stacey / Cre­ate a Balance´s last blog post..21 Rea­sons to Sched­ule a Weekly Night Out for Yourself

  57. Dali Burgado says:

    What a true inspiration!

    It is true that so many of us don’t think to be grate­ful for all the bless­ings we have because we want more.

    Love the “Atti­tude of Grat­i­tude” and zest for life that Nick has.

    I had to fight back a tear.

    Won­der­ful inspi­ra­tion! I appre­ci­ate you shar­ing his story.

    Dali Bur­gado

    Dali Burgado´s last blog post..Cre­at­ing Clar­ity in Blogging

  58. AverageGal says:

    How amaz­ing! What a great way to bring some­one back to earth — I’m so blessed and many times get caught up in the “lit­tle things”. What an inspir­ing story. Thanks for sharing!

    AverageGal´s last blog post..Frozen Fin­gers Syndrome?

  59. Lance says:

    @Diana — His story is so inspir­ing, because of the obsta­cles he has over­come, and his atti­tude through it all! He is an amaz­ing individual!

    @Stephen — I’ll see if I can find a tran­script of what was being said — it is really pow­er­ful, his mes­sage. If I find some­thing, I’ll send it over. Even just in pic­tures, see­ing what he has over­come — it really some­thing what he has accom­plished, and a won­der­ful exam­ple of fac­ing adver­sity and remain­ing pos­i­tive in all that life throws at you. I see you as that exam­ple, too, Stephen. You are a light for many, includ­ing me!

    @Stacey/Create A Bal­ance — Isn’t he amaz­ing, Stacey! He gives me so much hope for what is pos­si­ble, for over­com­ing the daily “issues” that come up. Game on!!

    @Dali — “What a true inspi­ra­tion!” — you’ve said it so well, Dali! Nick is incred­i­bly well adjusted con­sid­er­ing all of the obsta­cles life has thrown at him. It’s a plea­sure to share this amaz­ing story!

    @AverageGal — We all are so blessed, but too often don’t real­ize it. Until we see some­thing like this — some­one who seem­ingly has much less in life than us to be thank­ful for — and yet he is thriv­ing, he is mak­ing a dif­fer­ence every day, he is lov­ing the life he has! An amaz­ing story of hope!

  60. This post is a great reminder for me as a per­son who is in the pur­sue of her dream..thank you

    sud­denly slimmer´s last blog post..Crav­ing for Comfort

  61. Lance says:

    Sud­denly Slim­mer — Yes, it’s a great reminder for all of us — of what really is pos­si­ble if we just believe in our­selves! Good luck to you as you con­tinue to believe in “you”, and pur­sue all the dreams you have!

  62. Kevin Touhey says:

    Very mov­ing post. I just want to add that we should pur­sue excel­lence. Being excel­lent in what­ever we under­take has a “greater” value than suc­cess because suc­cess is tem­po­rary. Excel­lence is not. Does that make sense?

    Kevin Touhey´s last blog post..Cre­at­ing High Per­sonal Standards

  63. Lance says:

    Kevin, thanks much for stop­ping by! Pur­sue excel­lence — a great addi­tion! It does make sense — in that excel­lence is some­thing we choose, and it can become part of our being — suc­cess is what is typ­i­cally what we’re aim­ing for. In that way, yes, it does. And in pur­su­ing excel­lence, we are being all that we were meant to be — and that’s pretty awesome!

  64. This is a nice re-collection

  65. Ruth says:

    Wow… what a wakeup call for me, and I’m sure I’m not the only one. Com­ing hard on the heels of my read­ing of Wrestling With the God­dess by Azeem Kayum, it was a dou­ble whammy of a mes­sage of the power of the human spirit and just how far believ­ing in your­self can take you.

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