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“Fun is good.” ~ Dr. Seuss

Memo­r­ial Day, 2008

It was a cool, yet sunny, spring week­end.  Late May.  We packed our sleep­ing bags.  S’mores  were secured.  Wood for the evening camp­fires packed.  Swim­suit — check!

We were on our way — a week­end away, with friends.  Off to a spot where our cell phones didn’t work.  Into small town Amer­ica.  And then, beyond…

Sur­rounded by corn fields and cows.

Ahhh…

It was a nice camp­ground, out there away from every­thing.  Snack bar.  River.  Pool.  Bas­ket­ball court.  Big bouncy pillow.

Big bouncy pillow?

What is this thing that seems as big as a foot­ball field?  And draw­ing all the kids to it, like a mag­net find­ing spilled nails..

Day 1 and day 2, relax­ing days.  Kids wan­der­ing off (pre­sum­ably to the big bouncy pil­low).  Adults hang­ing out.  Yet, by the third day — what was the draw of this big ‘thing’ that had all the kids want­ing more, all the laugh­ing, all the screaming?

Big bouncy pillow!

Why do the chil­dren get to have all the fun?

And with that…we joined in!  A cou­ple of adults amongst hun­dreds of kids (well, not hundreds…lots, though!).  And it WAS fun!  And ALL the kids loved it!  Loved us out there, with them.  Kids we didn’t even know — drawn to us.  And we jumped.  And we bounced.  And we fell (with­out com­pletely squash­ing some of the smaller vari­ety out there).  And we had FUN!  Big, crazy, kid-type fun!  Care­free fun!

Sure, we were tired when we fin­ished.  We needed water (and oxy­gen! — almost!).  Our legs ached the next day.  Was it worth all this?

YES!

“I think of life itself now as a won­der­ful play that I’ve writ­ten for myself, and so my pur­pose is to have the utmost fun play­ing my part.” ~ Shirley MacLaine

As we get older, as we leave the days of our child­hood, and move toward the days of adult­hood — we some­times leave also the care­free fun that being a child means.  It doesn’t have to be that way.  Just because we’re no longer a child, doesn’t mean fun has to leave our vocabulary.

Go out.  Have some fun!  Be goofy!  Act silly!  Do some­thing that makes oth­ers smile or chuckle!  Be a lit­tle weird!  Act a lit­tle strange! Get out of your com­fort zone of typ­i­cal adulthood!

Look­ing for ideas?  Check out the Escape Adult­hood blog, where Kim and Jason make being more child-like a top pri­or­ity!  It’s the cure for adul­ti­tis!

Have some fun today.  YOU deserve it!

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. MizFit says:

    I do this daily. I may LOOK my age in the face but shall never act it with my bod :)

    MizFit´s last blog post..If I had a mil­lion dol­lars. I’d snag a non­mo­tor­ized tread­mill and…

  2. Hey Lance,
    Hav­ing kids def­i­nitely makes this eas­ier to be aware of! I love get­ting silly with my kids and will DEFINITELY check out the Escape Adult­hood Blog — thanks for the rec­om­men­da­tion! Wow — that big bouncy pil­low looks like fun! We have an in-ground tram­po­line that the pre­vi­ous own­ers put in that is sim­i­lar and WHAT a work­out — but to be able to have tons of peo­ple on at a time looks GREAT! :-) Thanks Lance for the reminder — in an often “seri­ous” world it is NECESSARY to just have fun and be silly again and reclaim that child­hood gid­di­ness! Love, Jenny

    Jenny Mannion´s last blog post..“What If?” The Movie — A Must see! Clip 2

  3. Hey Lance! Great post! Great advice. :) I love being silly. It’s who I am!

    Natalia Burleson´s last blog post..Today.

  4. Laurie says:

    I wanna play on that pil­low! It looks like a wild time! I am all about fun and being crazy (prob­a­bly why my last job with the stiff necked peo­ple didn’t work out). I feel more authen­tic when I am cut­ting loose and feel­ing free to have fun. I think we all need to do more fun stuff like this just to feed our souls. We let life get to seri­ous ( I know I do) and it spoils the adven­ture avail­able to us.

    I pledge to cut loose today and do some­thing just for the fun of it. I hope oth­ers will to. It would also be fun if every­one reported back as to what they did just for the fun of it and how it impacted their day! I will. Lance will you do some­thing crazy fun today and report back? It doesn’t have to be a big­gie, just fun!
    It’s a good day. It’s a big bouncy pil­low day!

  5. Hav­ing chil­dren def­i­nitely has a way of keep­ing us younger (and mak­ing us older).

    We’re car­ing for 10 month old nephew right now and he’s a com­plete joy — I find myself crawl­ing around on the floor with him, chas­ing each other from room to room. Is it a bit silly for a 35 year old man to be crawl­ing around the house? Sure, but it’s sim­ple fun with a baby.

    Great topic, Lance!

    Jamie | WiredParentPad´s last blog post..A Teen Tex­ting Trend All Par­ents Should Be Aware Of

  6. rummuser says:

    My wife and I are right now the stuff­ing in a sand­wich. My 91 year old father on one side, and our 37 year old son on the other, three volatile gen­er­a­tions under one roof! All three are child­ish beyond imag­i­na­tion. You are wel­come to hop in and have some hilar­i­ous time!

    rummuser´s last blog post..India Wins Cricket Match Against England.

  7. Hi Lance

    Cheers to hav­ing fun! And cheers to get­ting involved in kid­dies activities!

    The first time I got myself out of adult­hood (whilst in adult­hood) was when I started belly-dancing. Veils and tamborines…too glo­ri­ous. Smiles and gig­gles all round.

    I’m gonna check out that website!

    Juliet

    Life­Made­Great | Juliet´s last blog post..What To Do When Some­one Is Unpleas­ant Towards You

  8. Sagan says:

    Why should kids have all the fun, right? :)

    Being silly means we’re living!

  9. Caroline says:

    I totally smiled when watch­ing that video! How fun(and cool!). I agree that adults don’t let thier “inner child” play enough. I know I need to laugh more. I am find­ing more ways to laugh, which is good! Now, where can I get one of those bouncy pil­low things???

    Caroline´s last blog post..Is it time to let go?

  10. Julie says:

    Was that guy in the mid­dle you? ;) You know what really struck me about the video was the SOUND. The squeals and shrieks—such a beau­ti­ful thing! You know, at my youngest niece’s birth­day party a cou­ple years ago, I was the only adult who went into the back­yard ver­sion of one of these bouncy pil­lows. It’s a WORKOUT! …and exhil­a­rat­ing! Try as I could, I wasn’t able to talk another adult into it. Why is that? I sup­pose we’re too afraid to have any­one see us act any way other than we’re “sup­posed to”? Or, we’re afraid of get­ting hurt? Life’s just way too short for that think­ing; we miss out on so much! Lance, thanks for point­ing this out!

    Julie´s last blog post..Our World in a Christ­mas Tree

  11. I really needed this post today. Some­one recently told me that my life looked like 95% respon­si­bil­ity and 5% fun. I’ve been in shock ever since. I have been want­ing to blog about it…but it’s still too raw. Can it be true? No! Please tell me I do not have a hor­ri­ble case of adul­ti­tis (my new favorite word).

    Stacey / Cre­ate a Balance´s last blog post..What’s Stop­ping You?

  12. Marelisa says:

    Hi Lance: That bouncy pil­low thingy looks like so much fun :-) When I go to the play­ground with my two lit­tle nephews I get on every­thing with them, and they love it, as do I. My brother-in-law (their father) looks at me and says: “tía Mare está ponchi”, which basi­cally means that he thinks I’m nuts. But I don’t care, life’s too short not to have fun just because you’ve reached adulthood.

    Marelisa´s last blog post..Five Ways to Keep Your Spir­its Up Dur­ing the Holidays

  13. Liara Covert says:

    I love how you remind peo­ple how easy it is to have fun, regard­less of age. Peo­ple are often con­di­tioned to grow up and get so seri­ous. Corn fields and cows sound mar­velous. Great to hear how mem­o­rable your expe­ri­ence was with those friends. You inspire oth­ers to recon­nect with their inner child, wher­ever it takes them.

    Liara Covert´s last blog post..8 Ways to pre­pare to explore your Akashic Record

  14. That bounc­ing pil­low looks like a lot of fun. I find it funny when adults think that laugh­ing and scream­ing is just for kids. Adults can join in on the fun too. I’m glad you did just that.

    As for the sore legs. That’s just good exercise.

    Karl — Work Happy Now´s last blog post..Day 16 of 30 — No Complaining

  15. chris says:

    You being silly and play­ful with your chil­dren will add miles to your rela­tion­ship later on. It’s also great for your health!

    chris´s last blog post..I Shall Return

  16. Davina says:

    Hi Lance. I’m a HUGE fan of Shirley MacLaine! Thanks for quot­ing her. Be silly. Prac­tice non­sense I always say. Thanks for the reminder here because it’s easy to for­get and get all serious.

    Davina´s last blog post..A Pos­i­tively Dys­func­tional Christmas

  17. Mindful Mimi says:

    Ha, is that you in the mid­dle jump­ing up and down with unco­or­di­nated limbs :-)
    I agree with Jenny, hav­ing kids helps to have fun. You get to become one your­self some­times. We don’t do it often enough though. Kids have this won­der­ful imag­i­na­tion and nat­ural way to have fun that gets edu­cated out of them at some stage. Too bad.
    Some­times I turn on any music and just start jump­ing and danc­ing around. My son looks at me, laughs and just joins in. An adult would look at me funny, laugh at me not with me and prob­a­bly sit uncom­fort­ably on the couch try­ing not to watch.
    One should at least laugh until your belly hurts once a day.
    Have a great day.
    Mimi

    Mind­ful Mimi´s last blog post..10 ideas, 10 con­vic­tions — part 2

  18. Ian Peatey says:

    I’m think­ing of start­ing a cam­paign to get one of these bouncy things in every neigh­bour­hood of the world. Think how much more relaxed and less uptight the world would be if every­one jumped on these at least every day! It’s a shame that this child­like qual­ity in all of us gets pushed away in many of us (myself included). I often find myself play­ing with my kids, wel­com­ing the ‘excuse’ to do so .. but why do I need an excuse??? Thanks for bright­en­ing my day with this reminder that there’s a place in all of us free from inhi­bi­tion! Ian

    Ian Peatey´s last blog post..Plan B for World peace

  19. Scott says:

    Lance, are you say­ing, to take some of our busy time, time we could be doing some­thing pro­duc­tive, or worry about noth­ing, and user THAT time to have FUN? Your not nor­mal, man. :)

    I’m only kid­ding, obvi­ously, but in real­ity maybe that is part of us adults prob­lem. I want to have FUN. I would LOVE to have fun, and I do…sometimes. Most likely not often enough. Why? Because I just feel bad “wast­ing” that much time and energy. Soci­ety I think tells us, trains us, brain­washes us into this mode of pro­duc­tiv­ity and the say­ing “All work and no play makes insert name here a dull per­son” goes out the window.

    I think what you have done here is won­der­ful! To see so many oth­ers hav­ing fun or hav­ing the desire to have fun helps us all (me any­way) feel a lit­tle bit more at ease with the idea of hav­ing fun, I think.

    Scott´s last blog post..Things Are Not Always As They Seem

  20. Wow! That looks like fun. Good for you not to leave all the fun to the kids. Fun is a neces­sity in our lives, but some­times we for­get that!

    Amanda Linehan´s last blog post..The Joy of Desire

  21. Lance says:

    @MizFit — Awe­some Miz! Keep on being a kid at heart — life’s more fun that way!!

    @Jenny Man­nion — Hav­ing kids, I think puts us in more “oppor­tu­ni­ties” to be kid-like. Yet, any­one can do it, there’s cer­tainly no pre­req­ui­site that you have kids. I’m not even sure of what the “real” name for this thing was — big bouncy pil­low seemed to fit! And, it was a lot of fun with every­one on there (as long as I didn’t fall and take out a kid in the process!!). Def­i­nitely check out the “Escape Adult­hood” blog — very cool stuff they’re doing!

    @Natalia — Thanks Natalia! And, keep on being silly — it makes life so much more fun, doesn’t it!

    @Laurie — That “pil­low” was so much fun, Lau­rie! It brought out the kid in every­one who went on it. Sadly, it was almost com­pletely kids on there — I’m not sure if we saw any other adults besides us. Maybe one or two, at the most. I, too, let life get seri­ous, and for­get some­times to just goof off — I need to do that more too! And, I’m look­ing for­ward to what you did to have some extra fun today! Me…well, I have been in a train­ing ses­sion all day, and am just get­ting home — no crazy fun today! So, I pledge to do some­thing tomorrow!

    @Jamie | Wired­Par­ent­Pad — True — hav­ing kids can keep us younger, as it some­times doesn’t seem as “fool­ish” if we’re doing somet­ing silly while there are kids around. And yet, why not goof off and be silly once in a while — no mat­ter who is around! I say go for it! Have fun with your nephew — babies really have a way of mak­ing us be silly (and being fully ok with being silly!). So, con­tinue to crawl around, and make baby sounds Jamie!

    @Rummuser — Three gen­er­a­tions of silli­ness — very cool Ramana! And it goes to show you that age doesn’t have to limit you from hav­ing fun — even at 91 years old!!

    @LifeMadeGreat | Juliet — It was a lot of fun to jump in there and just start bounc­ing around! Belly-dancing, Juliet — very cool! We need to get you, Stacey Ship­man, and Maya together — all three of you do this, I’m pretty sure. Isn’t that cool — I’ve never known any­one who belly-dances up until a cou­ple of weeks ago, and now I know three of you!! Awe­some! And, def­i­nitely check out Kim and Jason — they are doing some pretty cool stuff!

    @Sagan — That’s right Sagan — kids aren’t the only ones who can have fun! Let’s all be a lit­tle more goofy!

    @Caroline — Thank you, Car­o­line! I think I laughed the whole time I was on that pil­low! We thought we should get one of these, too — all sorts of fun could be had! And it really was huge (although not quite as big as a foot­ball field!). Here’s to laugh­ing, gig­gling, and just plain hav­ing lots of fun!

    @Julie — I’m the guy in the yel­low shirt! The other guy is the friend we were there with. My wife made it out there too — although not for the video — she was the cam­era­man! I lis­tened again, and this time really paid atten­tion to the sounds — and it really is a beau­ti­ful sound — the sound of real joy! Good for you, Julie, get­ting out in the back­yard and being one of the kids! I think you’ve hit it exactly right — adults may want to do this, but fear look­ing not as they’re “sup­posed” to. Keep on hav­ing fun Julie! Enjoy all the moments of your life!!

  22. Lance says:

    @Stacey/Create A Bal­ance — I think we all get in a modes some­times, that really pull us away from focus­ing on “fun” in our lives. I’ve been there. A case of adul­ti­tis (I love that word too!)… And what’s the cure? Doing. Doing some­thing fun and goofy!! I’m sure hear­ing what some­one said to you — it can sting. And yet, remem­ber — that’s one person’s view. So, while they see that, it doesn’t mean it’s real­ity. And, even if it is, you know that you can change that (some­times we just need to hear it from some­one else to real­ize what mode we’ve slipped into). Stacey, thank you for your real hon­esty here today. This helps me, and I’m sure oth­ers — in where they’re at with this whole con­cept of “fun” in their lives also. Know that.

    @Marelisa — That big ol’ pil­low was a blast — I can’t believe more adults weren’t on there (it was just us, I believe, and about 50 kids). That’s very cool (and not nuts at all — I say!!)! So, keep on being “tía Mare está ponchi” (a lit­tle nuts!) and hav­ing fun! And enjoy all the moments you get to expe­ri­ence with your nephews…

    @Liara — Age doesn’t mat­ter, fun can be had any­time! I’m all for bring­ing out our inner child, and really just hav­ing fun! Thank you, Liara!

    @Karl — That bounc­ing pil­low was so much fun! And, I’d never saw any­thing like it before — very cool! I’m glad we joined in, too! Let’s all get out and laugh and scream a lit­tle more. The sore legs, yep, good exer­cise (or, at least proof that I need to work­out more!!)…

    @Chris — The kids were hav­ing so much fun with us on there, great point Chris. If we would get off, one of them would be over, beg­ging us to get back on there (I think it was our extra weight that would help to cat­a­pult them higher!). And, it wasn’t only our own kids — other kids, too, would come up to us, want­ing us to jump by them! So, yes, it was great for our rela­tion­ships with our kids, excel­lent point. And a good work­out too…

    @Davina — Glad you liked the quote — Shirley’s quote just seemed to really fit so well! Non­sense — I like that word Davina! Yes, prac­tice nonsense!

    @Mindful Mimi — I do tend to be a bit unco­or­di­nated (just ask my wife!). I’m the one in the yel­low shirt. The other gen­tle­man was our friend we were there with. So, it’s one of us (or both) who were the unco­or­di­nated ones in the bunch!! Hav­ing kids, does lend to being more kid-like. And yet, we shouldn’t let not hav­ing kids around deter us from let­ting adul­ti­tis sneak in. Good for you, Mimi — for instill­ing “fun” into your son’s life! Sad, but true — too often other adults would be uncom­fort­able in this set­ting… Thanks, Mimi, for shar­ing this experience!

    @Ian — Hey, if you get this cam­paign going, make sure my neigh­bor­hood is included! That would be so much fun! Five min­utes on there after a dif­fi­cult day, and our wor­ries and con­cerns would be gone! Think how good that would be for the soul! I push these child-like qual­i­ties to the side too — way too often. So, putting this up is also a real reminder for me — to be goofy and have fun. No excuse needed — play away!

    @Scott — I think I’ve heard that before — that I’m not nor­mal!! And…I’m tak­ing it as a com­pli­ment! Wast­ing time — great point Scott. We DO some­times think that goof­ing off is wast­ing time, yet, is it? I say NO! This big pil­low was a blast — and it did remind me, too, that fun, is, well…fun! And that’s good for us, in so many dif­fer­ent way! Here’s to mak­ing “fun” a big­ger part of our daily lives!

    @Amanda — This was a blast Amanda! And that’s right — the kids don’t get to have all the fun! I do for­get, some­times, how much fun…fun can be. This was a real reminder on how good it feels to just be care­free and act like a kid!

  23. OK, I’m drag­ging out my big bouncy pil­low this week­end. I could use some giggle-till-you-pee-your-pants time. :) Thanks Lance!

    Jamie Simmerman´s last blog post..Hello, Remem­ber Me?

  24. Evita says:

    That DID look like so much fun!

    Oh Lance you are so right about the grow­ing up and leav­ing the child­hood fun behind and it is such shame that we do this, as there are no rules or laws telling us we have to do this. So many of us just seem to get so caught up with life that we for­get what it means to really have fun, to really LIVE!

    Great reminder for all to get back to those roots of inno­cence and just be free to have some fun!

    Evita´s last blog post..Movie Review: A Del­i­cate Balance

  25. Carla says:

    I love this reminder! Fri­day night, I had a firm hol­i­day party on the 52nd floor of one of the build­ings in the San Fran­cisco Finan­cial Dis­trict with a breath­tak­ing view. After din­ner, the dance floor opened up and the DJ started tak­ing requests and I think I danced until they had to kick me out! Its been so long since I’ve done some­thing like that. I felt so.…free.

    Carla´s last blog post..Where’s the Beef? | Healthy bod­ies and Earth

  26. I agree! I think one of the best things about hav­ing kids is that they often inspire me to be a lit­tle more child-like myself.

  27. Robin says:

    Adul­ti­tis! I like that one, Lance! Fun­nily, I’ve learned to be sil­lier, in a phys­i­cal way, as I’ve got older — I was not a very phys­i­cal kid (I prob­a­bly would have been scared of the bouncy pillow).

    Robin´s last blog post..What If? The Movie — Clip 2

  28. Linda Abbit says:

    That looks like so much fun, Lance!

    One of my favorite orig­i­nal say­ings to friends is that “The kids are get­ting older, but we’re get­ting younger!” And we remem­ber to behave that way.

    We love to laugh and have fun in our fam­ily — even under the worst of circumstances.

    An excel­lent reminder to everyone!

    Linda Abbit´s last blog post..Inspir­ing Quotes for Care­givers: On Hope — 12÷17÷08

  29. Daphne says:

    Like Robin, I like the term ‘adul­ti­tis’. Accord­ing to Men­cius, “Great is the man who has not lost his child­like heart.” That makes you great, Lance! ;)

    Daphne´s last blog post..Plan­ning For The Year Ahead (Part 2)

  30. Lance says:

    @Jamie Sim­mer­man — I’m com­ing over Jamie — we’ll bounce until our legs turn to jello!

    @Evita — Get­ting caught up in life — that’s it — and we just let “fun” fall by the way­side. “Inno­cence”, I like that word here Evit — it does con­note being child-like, just for the sake of hav­ing fun — with­out any ulte­rior motives. And what bet­ter way to really live!

    @Carla — very awe­some Carla! Sounds like you had a grand time! I’m guess­ing it really was good for your soul — and what a way to cel­e­brate the hol­i­day sea­son. Thanks, Carla, for shar­ing your story!

    @Vered — Kids do have a way of help­ing us be more child-like. And yet, kids aren’t a require­ment for us to act like a kid… although I feel more com­fort­able doing these things with my kids around. I think that’s a per­cep­tion prob­lem. We per­ceive that with kids, it’s okay to act like a kid. I think we need to get over that per­cep­tion, and know that it’s very okay for any­one to be more child-like, and just to have fun!

    @Robin — Isn’t that a great word, adul­ti­tis! And very cool, Robin, that you’ve become more open to being “silly” as you’ve got­ten older — that’s awe­some! And, I think you’d have a blast on one of these big bouncy pillows!!

    @Linda — It was a riot, Linda! We had so much fun! I love your say­ing, too. That is so awe­some that you keep get­ting “younger”! Some­day, we’re going to meet, AND it’s going to be FUN!!

    @Daphne — Cool word, isn’t it — adul­ti­tis!! And, I love the quote you’ve shared, it fits per­fectly with this story! Thank you, Daphne!!

  31. Annette says:

    this reminds me of me when I get a lit­tle goofy! I dance around the liv­ing room.….…..sometimes the kid­dos say…Mommy, shake your booty!!! It’s so fun to just let go :)

    Annette´s last blog post..Check­ing In :)

  32. Lance — Have you and my hus­band been chat­ting? LOL! I am the QUEEN of “life’s too busy to play… I have things to do on my “to-do” list… I’ve got to get them done RIGHT now! I’ll play later!” Oh man, I really needed to hear this! Thank you once again for your bright and won­der­ful wis­dom! :)

    Liz Rosenbaum´s last blog post..Health Too Complicated?

  33. Hmm, not sure I have any prob­lem being silly and child-like, except maybe when I occa­sion­ally get too caught up in daily fam­ily respon­si­bil­i­ties. Mostly though I would have been one of the first adults on that bouncy thing. I like adven­ture and new expe­ri­ences and I like to get silly and some­times even a lit­tle irre­spon­si­ble *gasp*. I don’t know if I have a child within as much as a teenager within, but I hope I always feel this youth­ful. I don’t think aging in years means you have to get old and slow in your mind and your heart. I do believe in that sense you can stay young for­ever, espe­cially if you are able to laugh at your­self and not take life so seri­ously. Most things are tran­si­tory, even if they seem hugely impor­tant right now, chances are they’re just a blip on the radar of your life, so why not make time for some fun and games.

    Loved this post, Lance and will check out the Escape Adult­hood Blog.

    If I don’t catch you again before the 25th, Merry Christmas!!!!!!!

    Kelly x

  34. Great Advice. I could cer­tainly use some FUN right about now!!

    meleah rebeccah´s last blog post..How Do You Do Christmas?

  35. brandi says:

    omg so fun!!! thank you for shar­ing the video and message-in times like this when the media is hell bent on telling us the bad news, it is a won­der­ful reminder.

    many bless­ings~

    brandi´s last blog post..ran­dom loveliness

  36. Hi Lance — The pil­low looks like a blast. As I was read­ing this, I thought, here they were, truly on vaca­tion — no cell phones, no tie to the inter­net. Just relax­ing, bond­ing and join­ing the kids in fun. Sounds fabulous!

    Hav­ing days that are filled to the brim, this has been a great reminder to take a breather and kick up my heels.…

    Bar­bara Swaf­ford — Blog­ging With­out A Blog´s last blog post..BTW Your BFF Is ROTFL @ Your SERPs

  37. Jannie says:

    Hey, how did Shirley McClaine beat me to such a great line as that?!

    When I first saw the big bouncy pil­low clip I thought it was going to explode or some­thing, like you’d see in a Fun­ni­est Home Video. Glad it didn’t.

    I skipped all the way from my car to door of the gro­cery store yes­ter­day. Of course I was hand in hand with Kelly, but hope­fully it still counts.

    Jannie´s last blog post..Yeah, Cindy Lou Who?

  38. Cool post, Lance. Thanks for the link!

    Jason of Kim & Jason´s last blog post..iPhone: The Offi­cial Tool of Fatherhood

  39. Lance says:

    @Annette — Nice job Annette, keep right on danc­ing!! Your kids are learn­ing, also, that fun is okay — and that a great lesson!

    @Liz — I don’t think we’ve been talk­ing (your hus­band and I)…or have we???? Hmmm.… Some­times we get wrapped up in every­thing we have to do — and fun, unless it’s planned, doesn’t hap­pen. I’ve been there too, Liz. And yet, this is prob­a­bly when we need some­thing fun the most. A break to reju­ve­nate us before we con­tinue on. I needed to hear this too…

    @Kelly — Good for you Kelly, being silly!! Gasp…you’ve been irre­spon­si­ble!! I think that is com­pletely awe­some Kelly! Keep on doing that, mak­ing oth­ers *gasp* at what you do. I love your state­ment about most things being tran­si­tory, more of a small blip than some­thing big. Thought of this way, let’s not take all this “stuff” too seri­ously! Thank you, Kelly, for a won­der­ful per­spec­tive on this whole con­cept of hav­ing fun! And, Merry Christ­mas to you and your fam­ily, as well!

    @Meleah — Here’s to hav­ing fun this hol­i­day sea­son, and beyond, Meleah!

    @Brandi — It was loads of fun! I try not to watch a lot of news on tv, because it is usu­ally focused on the “bad” going on out there. Depress­ing. So, let’s change that up, right Brandi! Make fun up instead. Be a lit­tle weird, and maybe give peo­ple some­thing else to talk about (your silli­ness) instead of the sad, depress­ing news stories…

    @Barbara — It was great to get away from all the elec­tronic giz­mos (well, we kept the radio!) and just relax, hang out, and gen­er­ally have fun! It WAS fab­u­lous! And yet, we don’t have to wait until we have a planned get away, to add some fun and relax­ation in. Let’s do it more often, lit­tle bits of it here and there! (I need to remem­ber this too…)

    @Jannie — It was all luck on Shirley’s part! Hmmm…I think I’m glad it didn’t explode, too!! (although that prob­a­bly would have been fun for some…) You’ve got an active imag­i­na­tion, Jan­nie! I’d say skip­ping counts and fun! I tried to con­vince my daugh­ter I should do that with her as I dropped her off at school (she’s almost 12) — she didn’t see the “fun” in that at all! I think we’d have every­one talk­ing (I guess for an early teen, that’s not such a good thing…). I’ll keep on trying…

    @Jason — Thanks Jason! And your wel­come on the link — the stuff you and Kim have is great — it fits per­fectly with what this post talked about! I’m all for putting an end to adultitis!!

  40. Arswino says:

    Lance, you have reminded me. It seems that I have to take some refresh­ing and be fun. Thanks for the advice.

    Arswino´s last blog post..Bend, but Don’t Break

  41. Great advice.

    Hope­fully that inner child never goes up in any of us.

    Bunny got Blog´s last blog post..Oat­meal: The Trick To Make It Actu­ally Taste Like Something

  42. Hey Lance! You def­i­nitely sounded like you had lots of fun!! There’s always a child in all of us, isn’t there? ;)

    Celes | EmbraceLiving.Net´s last blog post..Two Impor­tant Things that Led to My Dis­cov­ery of My Real Purpose

  43. Lance says:

    @Arswino — It’s a reminder for me, too — to make sure I’m hav­ing “fun” going on in my life! Go out and have a GREAT time!!

    @Bunny got Blog — Right on bunny! Let’s keep that inner child going strong! Here’s to hav­ing buck­ets of fun!!

    @Celes — That pil­low was a blast! There were no wor­ries, no stresses (except for think­ing I could squash a kid if I fell!!) — and it really just felt so great to laugh and have fun. Not a feel­ing any of us should lose…

  44. Kelly Turner says:

    i want to escape adult­hood! I work 10–13 hours a day at my day job and have lit­tle energy for much else. Im only 22! i do alot of it to myself, but this man­age­ment crap is wear­ing me down– i think its time for a switch.

    I get antsy every few months and need to do some­thing new. I just need to make sure I can keep a roof over my head as well.

    BUT! that doesnt mean i cant go play on the play­ground for a few hours, does it?

    Kelly Turner
    http://www.everygymsnightmare.com

    Kelly Turner´s last blog post..Snowed In: Day 2

  45. LisaNewton says:

    This post is so timely. Yes­ter­day, I was talk­ing to a friend on the phone, say­ing how excited I was about my new bike. He said I sounded like a kid.

    You know what, I did and I am. I sent a pic­ture of it to my kids via my cell phone, and they loved it, saw my excit­ment and joined in.

    So, thank you Lance. I’ll be hav­ing fun this week­end and many more days to come on my bike.….….……:)

    LisaNewton´s last blog post..Are your work­outs being Devoured up by eat­ing too many sweets?

  46. Tabby says:

    I deeply believe we should allow our inner child out as often as he/she wishes. Loved read­ing this!

    Tabby´s last blog post..Reflec­tion and Gratitude

  47. I have a jog­ging tram­po­line and bounce almost every day. I watch videos from Net­flix while I do it. :)

    Jean Browman–Cheerful Monk´s last blog post..My Favorite Anti-Role Model…A “Man-Eating” Grouse

  48. Cricket says:

    Hey Lance,

    This is great. I began try­ing to live my life each day just like this. It became habit and now I don’t even try any­more. “Being a kid” at heart is just there. I would not have it any other way.

    Cricket´s last blog post..What is wrong with this picture?

  49. Lance says:

    @Kelly Turner — Go play Kelly! Swing on the swings, spin on the merry go round, go down the slide! Some­times that’s just what you need to get over the stress of a long day. Work­ing 10–13 hours a day, that’s a very long work day, Kelly. While that can be sus­tain­able in the short-term, it’s prob­a­bly going to lead to burn out. I sug­gest you “try” to find a way to cut back a bit… Keep­ing a roof over your head — that is impor­tant, and yet, don’t let that be the only dri­ver in your deci­sions. And, all that said, if you do love what you do, look to keep the fun in it…

    @LisaNewton — A new bike, awe­some Lisa!! And when oth­ers get excited about what “you’re” excited about, it makes it even bet­ter! And, I love my bike too! (but it’s put away for the win­ter — I would need a mini-plow on it to use it right now!) Enjoy your new bike Lisa!!!

    @Tabby — I’m with you 100% Tabby! Let’s let that child in us out as much as he/she wants to come out!!

    @Jean Brow­man — Bounc­ing on the tram­po­line — very cool Jean! It’s a great way to stay fit and even act a lit­tle bit like a kid!

    @Cricket — Isn’t that cool — it’s become a habit! And that’s a great point, Cricket, that things we make a habit start to hap­pen auto­mat­i­cally — with­out us even try­ing. Keep on doing it Cricket — it’s great for you, per­son­ally, and also for your kids — and the mes­sage you’re pass­ing on to them — that hav­ing fun is okay (which we some­times start to lose as we get older…). I think this is all very awe­some Cricket!

  50. Cath Lawson says:

    Hi Lance — It sounds like you had an awe­some fun. And this is a great reminder for us all to have more fun. I’m def­i­nitely going to make a con­scious effort.

    And I love the way you American’s have camp­fires and eat smores. I’ve always wanted to do that — hope­fully I’ll get a chance if we get to move to the States.

  51. avtcoach says:

    Thank you Lance for vis­it­ing my place today. I do plan to enjoy every minute of the Christ­mas sea­son. I have sev­eral friends who have lost their fathers this year. Mine was very ill last March and although he is doing bet­ter he will be 75 in ’09. I want to enjoy each and every hol­i­day with him and my mom.

    I read your post and hon­estly I have never seen any­thing like this. What an amaze­ment it must be to come upon this and just get on it and jump! Looks like great fun! You are right we get accus­tomed to the world of adult rules and for­get that our play time is our own and we should just explore! I have a friend who has made a list of all of the won­der­ful things she wants to do that are new and dif­fer­ent and she checks things off of her list as she expe­ri­ences them. What free­dom she has check­ing them off.
    Ymmmm…I might have to make a list of my own. Merry Christmas!

    avtcoach´s last blog post..Season’s Greet­ings: Are we Up or Down?

  52. Lance says:

    @Cath — It really was great fun Cath! Camp­fires and s’mores are really a big part of the camp­ing expe­ri­ence — I hope you do get the chance t expe­ri­ence this fun morsel of goodness!

    @Avtcoach — The thing about this was it’s sheer size — it was sooo big! Hav­ing a list of things to accom­plish is a great idea — I have one of those lists some­where, which reminds me — I should find it, and update it! Merry Christ­mas to you, too!

  53. Jennifer says:

    Thanks for the reminder Lance. I’m all about hav­ing more fun. I would totally join in on the big bouncy pil­low. It looked like so much fun.

    Jennifer´s last blog post..A Sim­ple Hol­i­day and Life Hack

  54. Lance says:

    Jen­nifer, you’re wel­come! This was so much fun, and yet hardly any adults!! We need more of you out there — being a kid, hav­ing fun, liv­ing life!

  55. Zandria says:

    A big bouncy pil­low? Sweet! I’ve always loved tram­po­lines, although I haven’t been on one in a while…

  56. Lance says:

    Zan­dria, it was sweet! This was like a gigan­tic tram­po­line, and if you fell you just rolled into the sand! Well…for me, as long as I didn’t smash any lit­tle kids along the way!!

  57. Robin Easton says:

    Ooooooooh! This is sooooo cool!!!!!! I would not be able to stay off this thing. I not only LOVE doing things with kids, but I LOVE stuff like this. I for­get myself doing it. I laugh as hard as the kids. I become INFUSED with Life. This is SO cool, Lance. I am sit­ting here excited out of my mind!!!!!!! What is so neat, is that I am work­ing on a video about doing fun things that keep us alive. I am going to book­mark this post and link back to it when­ever I get the video done. You would not believe the fun stuff I love doing. My hus­band filmed me rolling in the snow the other day. I was laugh­ing my head off. Bit by bit I am col­lect­ing snip­pets of film to do a video. I am sooooo proud of you and your wife for going out there with those kids. Two sec­onds into this video and my WHOLE energy rose. Can you believe that? I was feel­ing tired and over­worked and just watch­ing this video changed my whole level of energy. I wanted to be on that thing with those kids sooooooo badly. You are such a HUGE con­fir­ma­tion and inspi­ra­tion for me. You con­firm Life and Vital­ity and Abun­dance and Joy and so much more. This has made my whole daaaaay!!! Yipppeeeeeeee!!!! :)
    Thank you a thou­sand times over. If you could seem me grin­ning and laugh­ing right now from this viedo you would chuckle. Many hugs, Robin! :)

    Robin Easton´s last blog post..Mad­cap Christ­mas Magic II

  58. Lance says:

    Robin, thank you so much! And, yes — it really was sooooo cool! We had a blast doing this — more adults really needed to jump on and have some fun! So, now I want to see this video of you in the snow! Robin, that’s what I really love about you — how you are burst­ing with such enthu­si­asm for life. In fact, I can just feel it, even in just read­ing your words here — it’s like they are jump­ing off the page! Your sup­port here means the world to me — thank you for con­tin­u­ing to come back and brighten my days!

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