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Focus and Succeed

“There are no extra pieces in the universe. Everyone is here because he or she has a place to fill, and every piece must fit itself into the big jigsaw puzzle.”
Creative Commons License photo credit: Jer­rychar­lotte

“I don’t care how much power, bril­liance or energy you have, if you don’t har­ness it and focus it on a spe­cific tar­get, and hold it there you’re never going to accom­plish as much as your abil­ity war­rants.” — Zig Ziglar

Focus.

It’s an inter­est­ing thing…focus is. 

At this very moment, I’m focused on writ­ing this piece here at the Jun­gle of Life.  Except…except it is easy to wan­der, to let my mind drift else­where.  And when I do this — my focus shifts.  It’s not that I’m no longer focus­ing.  Instead, it’s that I’m choos­ing to focus on some­thing else.

Per­haps the new snow on the ground out­side.  Or what I’ll have for break­fast.  Or Face­book.  Or why that car cut in front of me on the high­way ear­lier today.  Or any num­ber of things — things that may or may not really deserve my focus.

When I do this — when I shift my focus from what I’m doing to some­thing else — that thing I’m work­ing on loses impor­tance.  More than that, even — my drift­ing focus keeps me rooted in what has always been.

What?

Have you ever said (either aloud or silently) some­thing like “I really want to ______.” (where the blank space rep­re­sents some­thing you have said).  And then — that thought leaves you, per­haps to never be revis­ited again, or per­haps to come up days/months/years down the road — with a twinge of regret for never hav­ing acted upon it.

Why?

We can all have these great thoughts of things we want to do/try/be.  And then…it is easy to fall into the trap of doing what we’ve always done.

We let our thoughts drift…from one thing to the next.

And before we know it — another day/month/year has passed, and there we are doing what we have always done.

Today, I chal­lenge you to add some clear focus to some­thing that has mean­ing to you.  Maybe it’s some­thing you’ve dab­bled in.  Maybe it’s some­thing you have really put a lot of time and effort into already (very awe­some!).  Maybe it’s some­thing that has just kind of lin­gered around in your brain (and in your heart, especially). 

Up the focus!

And be very clear about this — it’s not about “upping the focus” in every­thing you do (there is prob­a­bly not a need to be more focused on mak­ing that daily pot of cof­fee, for instance).  This is specif­i­cally about tak­ing one aspect of you and upping your focus fac­tor in that area.

This is not about mul­ti­task­ing your way through life — this is much more about single-tasking.  And in that — focus­ing on that very thing you are doing, at that moment. 

In this case, espe­cially, though — it is about choos­ing one thing of mean­ing to you — that you will really up the focus on this year.

Some moments when you are focus­ing on this will be easy.  Some will be chal­leng­ing.  Through it all — know that your mind is a pow­er­ful force — and that you have the choice in what that amaz­ing mind of yours focuses on.  As you begin down this path of delv­ing more into some­thing of mean­ing to you — in the moments that you are in that space — be fully in that space (phys­i­cally and men­tally).  Focus.  Focus on that one par­tic­u­lar thing for the duration. 

Do this — and your life will unfold in amaz­ing and mean­ing­ful ways…

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Jean Sampson says:

    Hey, Lance, Happy New Year! Thanks for all the great posts this year. They make me slow down and think, just like today’s post did. I real­ize that I focus the very best when I am in the near-meditative state of either writ­ing a poem , paint­ing or draw­ing the human fig­ure. In other things, I am always think­ing that I am two steps behind where I SHOULD be. And that is the word to avoid! My word for the year may seem con­tra­dic­tary to the con­cept of focus (it is “expan­sion”) but I mean expan­sion in the sense that, when I get scared or wor­ried and start to con­tract my energy around that fear or worry, I want to catch myself and then remem­ber to take a big breath and expand into who I really am. I hope that makes sense. Thanks , Lance!

    • Lance Ekum says:

      Happy New Year Jean!!

      It’s great hav­ing your sup­port, and I really am glad that what I share in this space has mean­ing for you. Thank you.

      Mmmm…that word “should”…it’s a bug­ger, isn’t it. (I know!) It’s easy to look around and think “should, should, should”. And that just leads us to fol­low­ing some­thing that is prob­a­bly not speak­ing from our hearts (like your poetry and paint­ings — which very much speak from that place).

      So, I love that you are choos­ing the word “expan­sion” for this year — because it just speaks very deeply to the core of what mat­ters — for you (I can tell that from what you have shared here).

      May this year be filled with that won­der­ful expan­sion even more fully into who you are (and I look for­ward to hear­ing about that from you!).

  2. Steven says:

    Excel­lent piece Lance. Focus is key. Our brain has lim­ited resources, if we spread our­selves too thin then we are likely not to accom­plish­ing any­thing of much value. But if you con­cen­trate your resources on some­thing that really mat­ters, good things will result.
    Steven´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Wrong Way to Help PeopleMy Profile

    • Lance Ekum says:

      Thanks Steven.

      As I look back over this past year — the things that I’ve moved for­ward with the most are the ones that I have just ded­i­cated time (and focus) to. And that’s the plan for this com­ing year — to be even more clear with myself — so those things where I place focus will have even more mean­ing (and accomplishment).

      Great hav­ing you here today!

  3. Thank you for a great post encour­ag­ing sin­gle task­ing. This is con­tra­dic­tory to the mod­ern life style, but I know, for myself, it brings peace and a calmer feel­ing into life and sci­en­tific stud­ies sup­port that it actu­ally increases pro­duc­tiv­ity and success.

    Con­cen­trate all your thoughts on the task at hand. The sun’s rays do not burn until brought to a focus.” –Alexan­der Gra­ham Bell
    Deb­bie Hampton´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Are You Tor­tur­ing Your­self With Your Thoughts?My Profile

    • Lance Ekum says:

      Deb­bie,
      Love that Alexan­der Gra­ham Bell quote — thanks for shar­ing it here! So true…

      Single-tasking…something I have really been work­ing on (and it’s a work in progress!). Just today — I found when I just con­cen­trated on a project I was doing at home…I fin­ished it..and it turned out bet­ter than expected! Single-tasking worked like a charm…

      Thanks for being here, and for your won­der­ful support!

  4. Naomi says:

    Bril­liant advice and choice of 2012 word, Lance! Thank you; I am tak­ing this to heart :-)
    Naomi´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..New Year Lanterns Light­ing the SkyMy Profile

  5. Great advice Lance & I need it — I am in! :-)
    Jody — Fit at 54´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..RELEASE — Happy 2012My Profile

  6. Lynn says:

    I’m in, too, Lance — thank you for the moti­va­tion!
    Lynn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Good Things Hap­pened — Jan­u­ary — Decem­ber 2011My Profile

  7. Hi Lance,
    I Love to focus on the moment.….each moment has it’s own spe­cial rela­tion­ship with me.….and I enjoy that.
    On ‘task’ related things, it is impor­tant to main­tain (laser) focus , 30–45 min­utes on one task is about my best(before I lose focus).
    How­ever as well as focussing on each spe­cial moment, I always keep “an eye” on my big­ger pic­ture and never lose sight of it.….that’s my Big focus. Thankyou Lance, this is impor­tant.
    be good to your­self
    David
    David Stevens´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..11 Must Do’s that you can write on the palm of your hand & will make your 2012 a hitMy Profile

    • Lance Ekum says:

      David,
      Yes!! Every moment can be a spe­cial one…if we allow that…

      And that’s a great point, too — that “focus” is really a cou­ple of things — focus in the moment, and focus on the big­ger things that speak from our heart. Very well said!!

      Happy New Year!!

  8. Hi Lance,

    Won­der­ful theme for Jan­u­ary to get us off to a pos­i­tive new year. Being focused is so impor­tant to see things through. Now more than at any other time, we are inun­dated with infor­ma­tion and it is so easy to get side­tracked. I agree that it is impor­tant to set a time limit to each task and then take a break. It helps in the long run. Happy 2012!
    Cathy | Treat­ment Talk´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Reminder: You Are Not Alone on Your Addic­tion JourneyMy Profile

    • Lance Ekum says:

      Hi Cathy,
      As I was plan­ning the monthly themes sev­eral months ago — that was exactly my thought — that FOCUS would be a great way to kick off the new year!

      And — to your sec­ond point — just tonight, I caught myself start­ing to get sucked into that infor­ma­tion overload…it’s so easy to do with so much infor­ma­tion so eas­ily avail­able. And just because it is — that doesn’t mean we have to con­sume it all!! (love that thought!)

      Happy 2012 to YOU!!

  9. MizFit says:

    sin­gle task­ing sin­gle­hand­edly changed my 2011.

    xo
    MizFit´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..My 4 step approach to becom­ing a morn­ing exerciser.My Profile

    • Lance Ekum says:

      Carla,
      Some­times I get the single-tasking concept…and sometimes…well…I fall back onto the multi-tasking con­cept (and with­out fail…multi-tasking slows me down and leads me off track).

      xoxo

  10. Nick Sotos says:

    Hello Lance! Great arti­cle, indeed! Focus is cer­tainly the key for suc­cess and bal­ance. Peo­ple that are focused always have the desire and the pas­sion to be suc­cess­ful and rec­og­nized. Your arti­cle made me think that, if there is a secret of suc­cess in achiev­ing goals, should be just focus on them. Best wishes for 2012.
    Nick Sotos´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Vibram Five Fin­gers Review and CouponMy Profile

    • Lance Ekum says:

      Hey Nick!
      That’s it!! By focus­ing on our goals…and then get­ting out there and DO-ing them — we will suc­ceed (even if things don’t always go as planned).

      Happy New Year!!

  11. Galen Pearl says:

    Focus. That should have been my word for the year. The new year is not even 48 hours old and I’ve already been so scat­tered. I’m going to take this to heart! Happy New Year!
    Galen Pearl´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Word of the Year 2012My Profile

    • Lance Ekum says:

      Hi Galen,
      Ha!!! And you know what — I can relate! This one is going to take some work for me!!

      It’s great hav­ing you here..and here’s to a great year ahead!!

  12. Be says:

    A great post to read as I start back into my work­ing year. Thanks Lance :)
    Be´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What are your inten­tions for 2012?My Profile

  13. The Vizier says:

    Hi Lance,

    A very Happy New Year to you and your loved ones!!

    Great thoughts on focus!

    I have always been a huge his­tory buff and from mil­i­tary his­tory I learned that focus is vital to win­ning bat­tles. Napoleon cer­tainly knew this prin­ci­ple well since he always liked to over­whelm his ene­mies by focus­ing his troops on a weak point in their line.

    It is the same with daily life. It is easy to allow our­selves to get dis­tracted, but when we do, we are not giv­ing a task 100%. How can we hope to do it well? We might even end up hav­ing to do the same job twice or thrice which is highly inefficient.

    Focus is the way to go. One way I try to improve my focus is to remove every­thing else that dis­tracts me. I also remind myself of my com­pelling rea­son to get that task done. With this two-prong approach, I am more likely to focus and stay productive.

    Thank you for shar­ing this lovely article!

    Irv­ing the Vizier
    The Vizier´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Res­o­lu­tions of the Vizier for 2012My Profile

    • Lance Ekum says:

      Irv­ing,
      Thanks for the won­der­ful new year wishes…and same to you!

      That’s a great thing — remov­ing those things that are dis­tract­ing. When they are not there, we become less tempted to stray from our planned focus.

      And — I really like your com­par­i­son of the mil­i­tary, and how impor­tant focus is in that envi­ron­ment. That is really such a great point — focus makes all the dif­fer­ence in suc­cess or fail­ure (and such in daily life, too…).

      Thanks for visiting!

  14. Megan Bord says:

    Oh Lance, when I first saw this in my email inbox, with the word “Focus” high­lighted, I cringed. I could feel myself resist­ing not only that word, but your entire post.

    Why? Because for the past few months I’ve been very UNfo­cused. I’ve let myself slip into a com­fort­able coma of a “what­ever, when­ever” men­tal­ity. And while I can see how it served me at the time to be like that, with the new year must come a new atti­tude! And, of course, some focus.

    Here is where I thank you: since your words entered my life a few days ago, everything’s changed. I’ve become more focused, and guess what? I’m accom­plish­ing a lot and feel­ing really good about myself. The “f” word, which pre­vi­ously stopped me (revolt­ingly so) in my tracks, now has me singing its praises each new day. Heck, it has me singing YOUR praises, too! (Not that that’s any­thing new; I’m rather fond of you and the Jun­gle, as you know!)

    The way I’ve put it into prac­tice is to list four or five things each day I want to get done. Seems so sim­ple, and actu­ally many years ago, my entire life was dic­tated by “to do” lists. I had them for every­thing! But in giv­ing that up, I sort of swayed too far in the oppo­site direc­tion to the point that I wasn’t get­ting much of any­thing done in a day.

    So now I’m strik­ing a happy com­pro­mise once again and rec­og­niz­ing that a lit­tle focus goes a long way.

    Here’s to the “f” word!

    Much love & warmth dur­ing winter’s snow to you,
    Megan

    • Lance Ekum says:

      …Megan…
      Okay — I’m laughing…at the “f” word!! (you are tooo funny!!)

      Mmmm…a lit­tle focus can sure go a long way, can’t it. And — I’ve kind of stepped away from “to do” lists, too. Although — when there’s some­thing I really want to make sure happens…guess what? I write it down. So — hav­ing a nice mid­dle ground — I think that’s a great place — not too struc­tured by con­stant “to do’s” and still some added focus by high­light­ing key things that really are important.

      And — what’s great about this (I think): there can eas­ily be stuff we believe to be important…and then it gets pushed aside because it’s not urgent (reminds me of a Stephen Covey book…) in favor of the urgent (but not really important).

      So — I’m going to really pay atten­tion to what I’m writ­ing down — and where that holds mean­ing for me.

      Love and snow­balls,
      Lance
      P.S. I’m rather fond of you, also…

  15. Jen says:

    Hi Lance!
    As I read this, I am sup­posed to be focus­ing on other things:) HA.
    But you know what? I was worth tak­ing the break to read, because I was get­ting loopy and frus­trated with the word I was TRYING to focus on.

    So, despite my New Years inten­tion to single-focus, I have found myself pon­der­ing more of your great wis­dom, and will now be ready to REFOCUS my atten­tion to the task at hand!
    Yes, we all need this! Thank you for your clear inten­tion and encour­age­ment that helps us all be bet­ter!
    Love, and Happy Happy 2012!
    In Har­mony,
    Jen
    Jen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Trash Talk Thurs­day: Reac­tion FormationMy Profile

    • Lance Ekum says:

      Hi Jen!!!
      Ha!!!! (okay…so…does that make me a distraction?!?!?!?!?)

      And — that’s it — we all can use this…FOCUS (or…REFOCUS!). I know that I can — and find myself (daily) let­ting that focus slip a bit. The thing is, though — for me — just hav­ing this thought of FOCUS front and cen­ter — it helps to bring me back.

      Right now…I’m think­ing it’s time to focus on sleep!!!

      Have a GREAT night, dear friend…

      Love and warmth,
      Lance

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