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Our Town…Our Life…

“For of all sad words of tongue or pen, the sad­dest are these: ‘It might have been!’” ~ John Green­leaf Whit­tier

Do you ever have those things that float around in your heart…things that make you say “what if…”

What if...I joined this new group I’ve heard about?

What if…I went on that trip, all by myself?

What if...I tried a new sport?

What if...I ven­tured out in my own business?

What if...I lis­tened to my heart?

…the courage to be yourself…

Do thoughts like this bounce through your head (and more impor­tantly — through your heart)?  And does that bounc­ing go any­where?  Or does it stay locked within the recesses of your heart and mind?

What If

What if, instead of just think­ing these thoughts, we did some­thing about it. 

What if we didn’t know what that next step looked like, and took it anyway.

Life is awful funny, that way.  Call it serendip­ity, the Uni­verse act­ing on our behalf, God answer­ing our prayers, …

Our thoughts, along with some sort of action in their gen­eral direction…well, pretty amaz­ing things begin to happen.

Our Town

For a cou­ple of years, the idea has bounced around in my head (and heart).  What if…I tried my hand at acting?

Of course, this thought with­out action..it’s like a seed with­out soil.  The pos­si­bil­ity, the poten­tial of that seed is great.  Although, with­out the action of plac­ing that seed in some soil, and pro­vid­ing some nour­ish­ment — noth­ing happens.

{have you ever had thoughts that lie dormant?}

Fast for­ward to early June of this year.  {and recall…this idea of thoughts cou­pled with action}  For some rea­son (I don’t recall at all any­more), I land upon the web­site of a local book­store.  That book­store web­site has a link on its site to a small out­door the­atre at a state park near our house — Sum­mer­Stage.  I nor­mally would just move on, except for some rea­son, on this day, I’m com­pelled to click that link.

Our Town, by Thorn­ton Wilder, will be per­formed at Sum­mer­Stage this sum­mer — and there is still a need for actors.

{the easy answer is to say — I’ve not done any­thing like this in forever}

{the easy answer is to say — rehearsals have already started, it’s too late}

{the easy answer is to say — I have lots of other “things” to do}

{the easy answer is to say — noth­ing…} {the easy answer…is to do noth­ing}

The easy answer, though, is it really the easy answer?  Is it, when that answer pulls you away from some­thing that tugs at your heart?  Per­haps that easy answer is an answer that’s become the default too many times? 

Per­haps that easy answer is really the dif­fi­cult answer — every time, tak­ing you one step fur­ther from your dreams, your desires, you bliss. 

So, I choose this (dif­fi­cult) easy answer…the easy answer that speaks from my heart, the easy answer that might feel dif­fi­cult and yet — it’s the answer whis­per­ing from my soul…

And So It Begins

A week later, I find myself show­ing up for rehearsals — and with a role to play.

Life is awful funny that way…

Between that time in mid-June and now — my evenings have been with this group of actors, cre­at­ing our per­for­mance of Our Town.  A group of peo­ple from all dif­fer­ent walks — together cre­at­ing mem­o­ries, ful­fill­ing dreams, mak­ing a few mis­takes (I speak per­son­ally on this one…), hav­ing fun…

{how are you choos­ing to answer?}

The Cul­mi­na­tion

We have just fin­ished up our per­for­mances.   It’s a bit strange to think I won’t be spend­ing my evenings with this amaz­ing group of peo­ple — some­thing we’ve done for the last sev­eral weeks. 

…and the jour­ney con­tin­ues for each of us…

As I reflect back, I’m reminded of a line near the end of this play ~

“…Oh, Earth, you’re too won­der­ful for any­one to real­ize you.  Do any human beings ever real­ize life while they live it — every, every minute?“

We are here on this earth for a finite amount of time.  What tomor­row holds, we know not.  And yet, it is so easy to live our lives as if tomor­row will always come.

Your Call to Action

Choose to lis­ten to that voice which speaks from your heart.  And if the thoughts that voice brings up, if they are ones that maybe scare you just a lit­tle bit — choose to act. 

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stum­bles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them bet­ter. The credit belongs to the man who is actu­ally in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; because there is not effort with­out error and short­com­ings; but who does actu­ally strive to do the deed; who knows the great enthu­si­asm, the great devo­tion, who spends him­self in a wor­thy cause, who at the best knows in the end the tri­umph of high achieve­ment and who at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while dar­ing greatly. So that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know nei­ther vic­tory nor defeat.” ~ Theodore Roo­sevelt

Dare to dream. 

Dare to be uniquely you.

Dare to step out of any boxes you’ve cre­ated for yourself.

Dare to live…really and fully, live…

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. What an adorable photo and delight­ful story, Lance! Takes me back to my own days of doing community/summer the­atre. And absolutely, why not pull the threads on these curiosi­ties? That’s what a well-lived life is all about. If ever there was a play to remind us of that, it’s this one for sure.

    The other cool thing for me is I know right where you were per­form­ing. I lived in Madi­son for a year, and vis­ited that park. Recently I also had the most amaz­ing trip to Door County and saw an out­door per­for­mance of Amer­i­can Folk­lore The­atre. Have you been?
    Patty/Why Not Start Now?´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Patty’s Excel­lent Adven­ture and Blog­ging HiatusMy Profile

    • Lance says:

      Hi Patty,
      Com­mu­nity the­atre is loads of fun!!

      And how c0ol — you’ve been to this park!! We have loved going to this place for many years — lots of hik­ing, run­ning, and ski­ing. And now…we’ve dis­cov­ered the great plays that are per­formed here! (I’m, obvi­ously, a lit­tle partial…)

      Door County is a great place to visit. It’s been a cou­ple of years since we’ve been up there — and I have not been to any per­for­mances at the Amer­i­can Folk­lore The­atre (a new place to check out next time we travel that way!)

  2. Joe Stoddard says:

    Thank you Con­sta­ble! Very nice reflec­tion!
    Joe.

    • Lance says:

      Mr. Joe Stod­dard,
      Thanks!! And…great to see you here (espe­cially since I’m not hor­i­zon­tal and look­ing up at you!)

  3. Cinderella says:

    Good for you for being brave and ven­tur­ing for­ward with your “what if” to act in Our Town!

    Great quote by Teddy Roosevelt.

    I tend to DO my “what ifs” and I really enjoy life because of it. It really gives you a peace of mind, as well as leaves you free of regret in many ways.

    • Lance says:

      Cin­derella,
      Great to “meet” you, and thank you!

      That’s it — when we say “what if” and then act upon it — even when it doesn’t go as planned, we are out there, LIVING our life. And that’s suc­cess every sin­gle time…

  4. Lance, I give you a stand­ing ova­tion! I wish you could hear me cheer­ing for you as I read this.
    CONGRATULATIONS on tak­ing this amaz­ing the­atre jour­ney. I’m sooooooooooo truly happy you took this adven­ture and enjoyed it. The rehearsal sched­ules can be demand­ing — but it’s such a unique bond­ing expe­ri­ence to cre­ate live the­atre. I’m not sure if you’ll delve into another per­for­mance another play — but I can’t help but hope so. :)

    I’m so, so very happy for you!

    I love your invi­ta­tion:
    “Dare to dream.
    Dare to be uniquely you.
    Dare to step out of any boxes you’ve cre­ated for your­self.
    Dare to live…really and fully, live…“
    Aileen | Kaizen Vision´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Cre­at­ing Affir­ma­tions That WorkMy Profile

    • Lance says:

      Aileen,
      You, dear friend, are an inspi­ra­tion. I have thought of you much, and how you chose to try out for the Nutcracker…and to dance. So, so inspirational…and so won­der­fully shared — what IS pos­si­ble when we dare to try…

      So, thank you for shar­ing your story, and thank you for your amaz­ing sup­port and friend­ship here.

      …dare to live… (you do)

  5. Evelyn Lim says:

    I almost for­got and now that you’ve reminded me, I joined my school’s drama team for four years when I was in my teens. It wasn’t as if I wanted to act but I thought I might be inter­ested in help­ing out in stage pro­duc­tions. Well, it turned out that there were oppor­tu­ni­ties for role-play and I took it as a chal­lenge to express myself.

    Good for you in tak­ing the dare to do some­thing dif­fer­ent. Indeed, each expe­ri­ence counts in cre­at­ing a full life. It’s won­der­ful that you are liv­ing richly!
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    • Lance says:

      Eve­lyn,
      A rich life…is one that is lived from the heart. And that is devel­oped by step­ping out­side of the com­fort zone we’re in, and doing new things.

      Here’s to liv­ing a dar­ing life…always…and in so many ways…

      Thanks Eve­lyn!

  6. Megan Bord says:

    Lance, you look fan­tas­tic! What a fun and ter­rific thing to do, and read­ing your words today I’m reminded that YES, there are things I say I want to do, but I let those seeds lie dor­mant. Why? For all the rea­sons you men­tioned in your post.
    Basi­cally for me it boils down to fear.
    But I’m learn­ing, bit by by, to jump and “do.“
    Or as I did last week, JUMP and let the net appear beneath me.
    Too many times (wait, that’s a judg­ment!), I’ve held back and ignored my heart whis­pers. I’ve wanted cer­tainty that things would work out okay if I took the leap.
    I’m learn­ing, though, I’m learn­ing…
    And see­ing you here — in that fab­u­lous cos­tume with such an authen­tic, con­tented glow — reminds me that jump­ing is alto­gether more fun than NOT jump­ing. It’s what lets us SOAR!
    Thank you, my friend!

    • Lance says:

      Megan,
      Awwww.…you are sweet (thank you!).

      FEAR. A word that can all too eas­ily hold us back from our fullest poten­tial. That “not know­ing” — it can par­a­lyze us from doing new things (I know!). And yet, when we do — just as you say (and did last week) — the net will appear. Maybe that net doesn’t always look like how we think it will — it’s still there, though.

      Yay!! (for YOU, jump­ing last week!!)

      Big hugs!
      Lance
      P.S. I’m jump­ing up and down with you…right now!

  7. Evita says:

    Hi Lance

    What a great group photo!

    I have said out loud the other day to myself some­thing that I always knew but needed to hear out loud — “it is one thing to have an inten­tion, and quite another to act on it” — and so yes, you acted on your inten­tion and this is where doors and win­dows of new oppor­tu­ni­ties open up.

    I am so happy for you for tak­ing this step. It sounds like it was a great time and pro­vided so much new growth to con­tinue one’s expansion.

    So yes, step­ping out and say­ing yes! can be such a won­der­ful thing, lib­er­at­ing and mov­ing us to the next great­est stage of our being.
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    • Lance says:

      Evita,
      That photo really did turn out well!! (of course, I’m slightly biased!)

      Hav­ing the inten­tion isn’t the hard part…it’s the act­ing upon that inten­tion. And I fully believe that when we do this, the Uni­verse con­spires on our behalf (even though I’m not sure how that hap­pens…) — and doors ARE opened!

      Here’s to always dar­ing, in what­ever speaks from our hearts…

      Thanks Evita!

  8. Jennifer says:

    Due to var­i­ous expe­ri­ences, “what if?” is the ques­tion I avoid. One of the hard­est things to expe­ri­ence in our lives is regret, and I don’t want to expe­ri­ence that again. I agree on hear­ing the whis­pers in my soul, and what we need to do is act rather than make up rea­sons why we shouldn’t do it. Thank you for the inspi­ra­tion Lance. You have made the right deci­sion, and I know that you are happy.

    • Lance says:

      Jen­nifer,
      …regret…yes, when we ignore that voice in our heart…regret is often what remains.

      So, even when we choose to act upon this voice and it doesn’t go as planned (as it some­times may not), it’s still so good — as we have tried, and who knows what might come next because of this.

      Thanks for being here!

  9. Con­grat­u­la­tions on fol­low­ing your intu­ition and tak­ing the plunge, Lance!!!! I’m sure you had a fan­tas­tic time. I was in drama and choir through­out high school and even got a the­ater schol­ar­ship (I switched to busi­ness later) , and I’m not sure if I would’ve sur­vived my teens with­out the out­let that act­ing gave me. What a won­der­ful way to explore human emo­tions in a safe way and play and cre­ate with others.

    Bravo!! :)

    Hugs,
    Melody
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    • Lance says:

      Melody,
      It was so much fun being a part of this!

      And you bring up a great point — out­lets like this (the­atre, or what­ever it is that inter­ests us) can be a great way to make con­nec­tions. And from that — life is that much more enjoyable…

      Thanks!! (and hugs back to YOU!)

  10. Meg says:

    So Cool! I was super into act­ing in high school. I was in every play and musi­cal. I loved it. I am so happy you decided to go for it. I am sure you have had a blast rehears­ing. Who knows what other doors and oppor­tu­ni­ties this will open for you? I like your way of think­ing. What if we just did it! :)

    • Lance says:

      Meg,
      Thanks!!

      Rehearsals were lots of fun — espe­cially the more we all got to know each other. Some of the nights were long (and hot…at an out­door the­atre!). Still, great mem­o­ries were cre­ated — and it was all so worth it!

      Here’s to just doing it!!!

  11. Won­der­ful to hear you div­ing in to what is really call­ing you. I keep think­ing that if we answer the calls, fol­low the threads, we might not know where will they lead us, but we always end up more alive, more will­ing to take risks in the future. Thank you for inspir­ing us. Makes me want to cre­ate a What If todo list, and then start to check it off one by one.
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    • Lance says:

      Toi,
      You know — that’s exactly it! There’s no way to know exactly where this will all lead to. And that’s okay (and maybe even way bet­ter than okay) — because there’s some­thing about fol­low­ing the path that’s right for each of us — what­ever that looks like (even when we don’t know exactly where it’s lead­ing to).

      And — I love your idea of cre­at­ing a “What If” list…and then start check­ing them off!! How fun would that be!!

  12. Hi Lance,

    How fun that you were in com­mu­nity play! I can com­pletely relate to how dif­fi­cult it can be to step out the box and try some­thing new. I moved to a new town in 2003 about an hour from where I used to live, and I real­ized if I was going to make some new friends, I needed to try some­thing new. I joined the ten­nis group, started tak­ing yoga classes and joined a women’s group. My expe­ri­ence was that I met new friends and tried new expe­ri­ences. We have to push back our fear and make our­selves a lit­tle uncom­fort­able once in awhile to move for­ward. Con­grats on the play — looks like a fun project.
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    • Lance says:

      Cathy,
      Very cool — how you embraced new activ­i­ties and devel­oped friend­ships in your new town! It can be a bit uncom­fort­able at first (I know…just like going to rehearsal the first night, not know­ing anyone!).

      And…I also began tak­ing a yoga class about a year ago — another thing that was a bit uncom­fort­able for me — as I was com­pletely new to yoga at the time. And you know what? I love it!!

      Hears to embrac­ing the oppor­tu­ni­ties in our life to grow and expand!

  13. Lynn says:

    Oh Lance — how cool is that? I’m so pleased that you are doing that. I wish I could see it. I spot­ted you there on the back row imme­di­ately.
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  14. LOVED this Lance & so glad you lis­tened! I have done some lis­ten­ing in the past & did stuff. I have got a lot of no’s in the more recent past & got stag­nated with try­ing BUT I am back to try­ing again! Thx!
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    • Lance says:

      Jody,
      That’s it — even when we start to stag­nate — we can always CHOOSE to do some­thing dif­fer­ent. So, very cool — you doing that!!

      Thanks!!

  15. Audra Krell says:

    You are look­ing sharp my friend! Love your cos­tume. This is so cool. I’m so proud of you and wish I could have seen the show. I would come more than once! Con­grat­u­la­tions. Hope another one is hap­pen­ing soon for you!
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    • Lance says:

      Hi Audra!
      Thanks — I clean up pretty nice, huh!!! (I cer­tainly don’t dress that way every day!) And — one scene was a win­ter scene (think wear­ing a win­ter coat on a hot sum­mer night!). By the end of that scene — “sharp” was NOT the word to describe how I looked!! (ha!)

  16. That is won­der­ful Lance. We all have to remem­ber to get out of the box. I am proud of you. It is really kind of funny. When i was in high school I loved to playes. And I have to say I was pretty darn good at it.
    Any­way, new expe­ri­ence really do make life fun. We do need to learn for today, because tomor­row will take care of itself.
    Bless­ing to you and thank you for shar­ing this,
    Deb­bie
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    • Lance says:

      Deb­bie,
      Thanks!!

      This was def­i­nitely “step­ping out of the box” for me! And so much fun, too!

      How awe­some — you, doing this when you were in high school!

      Here’s to keep­ing on hav­ing expe­ri­ences that make life meaningful…

  17. J.D. Meier says:

    It sounds like you had a great adven­ture, and a bitter-sweet end.

    I think my most reward­ing jour­neys have always been fol­low­ing my val­ues, whether it’s been div­ing in full boar, or wad­ing in the shal­low end, and work­ing my way to the deep end.

    I always heard the things we regret most in life are the things we didn’t do, and I think that’s true.
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    • Lance says:

      JD,
      Yes, it was bit­ter sweet to see this end. As a group, we were together sev­eral night a week. And just like that — it was over. Still, there are great mem­o­ries from this, and new friend­ships formed (that’s the sweet part…).

      Here’s to DO-ing!! …and cre­at­ing an amaz­ing life in the process…

  18. Lance,
    You are out on the cut­ting edge, lead­ing us all to the precipice of our next adven­ture! Let’s title this photo…we all took a risk, what about you? I’m sure you were a nat­ural.
    Tess The Bold Life´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..75 Steps for a Fear-Less LifeMy Profile

    • Lance says:

      Tess,
      Ha!! You say “cut­ting edge”…and this play, Our Town, was set in the early 1900’s!! (I know what you mean — and I still find good humor in this!!)

      Life is the adven­ture we make it…

      Thanks Tess!!

  19. Tim says:

    Hi Lance:

    Your post is great on so many lev­els. First off, con­grat­u­la­tions on really putting your­self out there and learn­ing and grow­ing and now shar­ing with us. Your post was well writ­ten and really hit home with me.

    I find it inter­est­ing, also, because I had these “what if?” thoughts just yes­ter­day after­noon as I attended a pre­view per­for­mance of a play at a small store­front the­ater in Chicago. About 15 years ago, I took a year’s worth of improv classes that really changed my life. I sat at the play yes­ter­day think­ing that it would be really cool to get back on stage again…even in a small role. I haven’t been on stage since then. I thought about the nerves, the prepa­ra­tion, the cama­raderie with the other actors AND ulti­mately the exhil­a­ra­tion of just doing it.

    Lance, I thank you for writ­ing this post and remind­ing me there’s no such thing as a “coin­ci­dence.“
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    • Lance says:

      Hi Tim,
      …there are no coincidences…

      I *love* that thought, and what you have shared here.

      Doing this was such a great expe­ri­ence, just as you improv classes were for you. And so I’m excited to hear where this may lead you — and you con­sider get­ting back onstage!

      Awesome-ness!!

  20. Actu­ally, look­ing at that photo kinda reminds me of my high school time. It was really fun and warm with those friends of mine back then.
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  21. Hey Lance,
    That is awe­some that you took the leap of faith and pur­sued act­ing. It’s one of the hard­est things to do and you did it.

    I believe that when we get out of our com­fort zone we really feel what it is like to be alive. Start­ing my blog was a big leap for me and I love it.
    Justin| Mazzastick´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Your Truth Shall Set You FreeMy Profile

    • Lance says:

      Justin,
      The chal­leng­ing part of this was know­ing that oth­ers were count­ing on me to know my parts. Get­ting out of my com­fort zone and really doing this — a real con­fi­dence builder on this path of life (as well as just being a whole lot of fun!).

      And I com­pletely under­stand on how start­ing a blog can be that way too — as it was for me, also, when I decided to cre­ate this Jun­gle of Life space.

      Keep cre­at­ing — you have so much good to share!

  22. Hi Lance,
    Won­der­ful. I have been guilty of ‘look­ing for a way out’ when some­thing has come up. I’ve seen “it” as incon­ve­nient. But no more. I should no bet­ter & I do. Your post has cemented my thoughts. Con­grat­u­la­tions.
    be good to your­self
    David
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    • Lance says:

      David,
      Ahhh.…that feel­ing of want­ing a “way out”. Per­haps we’ve all been there (hmmm…come to think of it, there was one par­tic­u­lar moment dur­ing our per­for­mances when I felt that way…and it all worked out just fine…).

      Here’s to get­ting out there, try­ing new things, and really living!

  23. Jen says:

    Lance,
    I am so PROUD of you!

    I love your state­ment about the “eas­i­est” thing is not nec­es­sar­ily the right one. I am glad you lis­tened to your inner voice and cre­ated a beau­ti­ful expe­ri­ence for yourself!!

    I can imag­ine how won­der­ful it was to be on stage with such a great group of peo­ple from all walks of life. I have expe­ri­enced that in music groups too, and I always walk away feel­ing like THIS is what it is all about. Find­ing com­mon ground with people.…despite dif­fer­ences. Music and act­ing are so good for that. The world would be a much bet­ter place if we all said “yes” to more col­lab­o­ra­tion and less bickering!

    I bet you were a star! So.…WHAT’S NEXT???
    Con­grat­u­la­tions, friend!
    Love,
    Jen
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    • Lance says:

      Jen,
      Thank you (thank you thank you thank you!)!!!!

      This was such a won­der­ful expe­ri­ence, and to top it off — the whole cast and crew were amaz­ing to work with, too! And we became united — in this expe­ri­ence of work­ing together on this, of being together on this, of going through many nights of rehearsals and see­ing it all come together…

      So.…what’s next? Hmmm.…right now, it’s to just relax and enjoy the moment. And that’s all good, too…

      Big, big love,
      Lance

  24. Oh, Lance, Con­grat­u­la­tions!! I absolutely LOVE that quote you pulled from the play, and GOOD ON YOU for click­ing that link and tak­ing it all the way through to act­ing in the play! What a fan­tas­tic cre­ative expe­ri­ence — I can’t imag­ine what kinds of won­ders, and thoughts, and new rela­tion­ships must open up when you really dig into a writer’s work, inter­pret it, and act it out. That is so awe­some!!!!
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    • Lance says:

      Andrea,
      Thank YOU!!!!

      I love that line from the play, also — it was at the very end — and some­thing that hope­fully the audi­ence took from the play as well.

      Truly this was a great expe­ri­ence for me — and some­thing that I’ve not done before. And that alone just reminds me that we can always try new things (hmmm.…just like you, out there doing the triathlon…tri girl!!! Awesome!!).

      Great to have you here, thanks a thou­sand times over!

  25. Adrienne says:

    Con­grat­u­la­tions on step­ping out­side that box and doing some­thing you’ve been want­ing to do. Great minds must think alike.

    I did the exact same thing last year. Of course I didn’t want an act­ing part, I’m not good with lines or remem­ber­ing things. I wanted to be an extra. So I answered an extra call, went to the local book­store and they wanted me to play a part. I refused but later on found out they wrote me some lines any­way because the direc­tor fell in love with my per­son­al­ity and told me to just “go with it”. I’m thrilled I had this expe­ri­ence and the movie will hope­fully be released later this year.

    I quit with the “what if’s” a long time ago and I started tak­ing chances. Some­thing I’ve never been very good at but as you prob­a­bly recently learned about me Lance, life’s too short for “what if’s”. Today is all we have so go for it. Hope­fully you can just look back and say “I did that”! :-)

    Adri­enne
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    • Lance says:

      Adri­enne,
      Thank you!!!!

      How cool — you, in a movie!!!! And the thing is — had you never have “shown up” for the part of an extra, none of this would have ever hap­pened. And now…it’s a great mem­ory for you!! (and that’s the same way I feel!)

      Loved the video you shared on your site, Adri­enne! Here’s to going for it…and liv­ing the life of our dreams!!

      • Adrienne says:

        You are SO very wel­come my friend.. I thought that was so cool when I read you did that. Can I say I knew him when? :-) My friends give me a hard time about that now. Hey, it was a very small part but I had a blast and met some really cool peo­ple. What a unique expe­ri­ence wouldn’t you agree? Here’s to the both of us step­ping out­side our box.

        Glad you enjoyed the video. And thanks for your sup­port!
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        • Lance says:

          Ha!!! Okay…my act­ing career isn’t lead­ing to Hol­ly­wood quite yet!!!

          Yes, def­i­nitely a unique expe­ri­ence — espe­cially how every­one really seemed to gel together one we we on the real stage for rehearsals. What began as strangers just a few short weeks ago — it led to a group of new friend­ships and new per­spec­tives on life…

          Let’s you and I both keep step­ping out of the prover­bial box!!

  26. Amy Putkonen says:

    Hi Lance!

    I saw that you were in a play and I had to stop by and say hello. I didn’t real­ize that you had not been in any plays before. Wow. What a big step to do some­thing like that. I think what you are say­ing here is great. Life is short and so won­der­ful when we shed our fears and do the crazy stuff! Keep on being crazy Lance!
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    • Lance says:

      Hi Amy!!!

      This WAS a big step — and one that was so good to take! That…and it was just a whole lot of fun! (and fun…can’t beat that, right!)

      Okay…you twisted my arm…I’ll keep being *ahem* crazy!!!

      Thanks so much for stop­ping by — it’s great to “see” you!!!

  27. suzen says:

    Hey Lance, this is fan­tas­tic! I’ve always said Life is a Ban­quet — some folks never get them­selves out of the bar and on to the table of good­ies, or they find one thing on the table and never try any­thing else! You, my friend, are really sam­pling what is offered — liv­ing a full life with lots of fun adven­tures! Good for you! It’ll keep you young too!

    I’m up at the lake and we bought kayaks this year. Tried it, love it, am hooked! Ran into some­one in town today who said “Damn, Susan, you never age! How do you do that?” As flat­ter­ing as that was (and boy that was really sweet!) it’s all about not set­tling, not let­ting that old per­son in, being grate­ful for every day every oppor­tu­nity and lov­ing — lots of lov­ing!
    hugs
    suZen
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    • Lance says:

      Suzen,
      Thank YOU!!!

      Mmmm…love your anal­ogy of “Life is a Ban­quet”. It is indeed!! And…I’m choos­ing to try many things on the ban­quet table!!

      Kayak­ing!! Very awe­some!! And what a great way to spend time at your sum­mer home! Damn Susan…you’re onto some­thing!! I’m comin’ up to spend a few days with you (my kids have this way of remind­ing me how grey my hair is getting!!)!!!

      Hugs and love,
      Lance

  28. Amy Putkonen says:

    Thanks, Lance!

  29. Dr. J says:

    I’ve always set a high bar for myself, Lance! It’s just who I am. Funny, I still feel I don’t do enough at times.
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  30. Leah Shapiro says:

    Hi Lance,

    How awe­some that you have fol­lowed your inspi­ra­tion into such won­der­ful places and are expand­ing more fully into know­ing your­self through dong it.

    Rock on!
    Leah
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    • Lance says:

      Hi Leah!
      That’s just it — this expan­sion of “me” has also led to more dis­cov­er­ies of who I am. And that’s pretty darn awe­some! (just like YOU!)

  31. I know exactly how you feel. In my case my hus­band was already in our local the­ater group and he finally twisted my arm last year. I’ve been in two pro­duc­tions now and in the last play, the writer/director even added some lines so that my daugh­ter could take part. It is the sim­ply the best expe­ri­ence.
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    • Lance says:

      Patri­cia,
      How cool! And…especially that this has become a real fam­ily affair!

      Keep cre­at­ing these amaz­ing expe­ri­ences in your life!!

  32. Lance, aloha. What a ter­rific story. How won­der­ful that, once you planted the seed, it grew so quickly. Your act­ing must have been even more sat­is­fy­ing since you responded to your heart’s message.

    The expe­ri­ence of gath­er­ing together with the diverse peo­ple who make up a com­mu­nity the­atre per­for­mance no doubt stim­u­lated growth and reflec­tion we will see in future blog posts.

    Lance, con­grat­u­la­tions on liv­ing another of your dreams. Look for­ward to read­ing more of your adven­tures in this Jun­gle of Life. Aloha. Janet
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    • Lance says:

      Hi Janet,
      Thanks!!!

      And the thing about that “seed” growing…is that it takes action on our part. When we do that, some pretty amaz­ing things can happen!!

      Great to have you here!!
      Lance

  33. So funny — I ALWAYS bat­tle with lit­tle inner excuses why I can’t do some­thing, like my weekly Open Mikes. So silly to bat­tle. Sur­ren­der is the way to go.

    xoxo

    And YOU, Mr Sher­iff are one great-looking law man!! Fun photo. Won­der­ful mem­o­ries.
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    • Lance says:

      Hey Ms. Jan­nie!!
      …ah, those inner excuses (I sure know about them!). Mov­ing beyond these inner excuses, and doing it…it’s a great place to get to! (and you, Ms. singer lady…do that fabulously!!)

      Play­ing the sheriff…and they didn’t give me a gun (I guess fic­tional city Grovers Cor­ners is a pretty safe place!!)!

      xox­ox­oxo

  34. Andy Clint says:

    This is very inspir­ing post…nice photo as well…
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  35. Levis says:

    First of all nice group pic­tures. I was very pleased to find this web-site. I wanted to thanks for your time for this won­der­ful read!! I def­i­nitely enjoy­ing every lit­tle bit of it and I have you book­marked to check out new stuff you blog post.

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