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RAOKA: Passion

RAOKA

 

Pas­sion

 

“Never under­es­ti­mate the power of pas­sion.” ~ Eve Sawyer

Pref­ace:  Ran­dom Acts of Kick Arse is a move­ment to bring more of {monthly theme} into our lives, and the lives of those around us. 

Feb­ru­ary Theme:  Pas­sion.  Find ways to incorporate/see more pas­sion in the world.

The Results:  Pas­sion.  Today I am going to talk about me.  A look inside, and what it is that evokes that passion. 

Maybe for some of you, this is all very clear…this idea of what your pas­sion is.  And for oth­ers, maybe it’s a bit of a mud­dled, grey mess

I tend to lean a bit more toward the “mud­dled grey mess” side…

…although I kind of hope it’s not always a grey mess, that maybe there are bits of a more tech­ni­color mess, too. 

(am I really say­ing any­thing here, or am I mostly avoid­ing the subject?)

Ahem.

Group ther­apy time…and I’m on the sofa.

Have you ever been on the cusp?  Feel­ing like “this is it”…except, not quite.  Feel­ing like you are so close…and yet so far.

Writ­ing helps.  It kind of clears my head.  And when it clears my head, that all makes way for me to see through to my heart.  They don’t always speak the same languages…my head and my heart.  Logic.  Intu­ition.  It’s easy to live daily from my head…logic says…  And it’s easy to write from my heart…intuition speaks…  So, how is it, that I can focus more of my liv­ing from my heart?  Daily.  In all those moments.

Back to the writ­ing.  The more I write, the more this all con­nects to my heart.  The more it feels real.  The more I believe.

Pas­sion.

Is there a façade I put up?  Do what I say, and what I do dif­fer?  Does all of this make me less authentic? 

Pas­sion.

I draw my deep­est pas­sion from con­nec­tions with the soul.  Me to my own soul.  My soul to yours.  Con­nec­tions that strip away race, reli­gion, sex, finan­cial sta­tus, the past, per­sonal pos­ses­sions.  A meet­ing at that spot that touches upon the deeper mean­ing of exis­tence.  Per­haps it is all much like nature.  That ebb and flow of nature, much like that ebb and flow of life.  There’s a time for sow­ing, there’s a time for grow­ing, there’s a time for reap­ing, and there’s a time for rest.  This soul con­nec­tion feels much that way. 

I also draw very deep pas­sion for con­nect­ing with a feel­ing of light-heartedness.  This feel­ing of being free.  Per­haps it’s in being free to live my days in see­ing the good, see­ing the “right”, see­ing the pos­si­bil­ity.  I guess it’s really about con­nect­ing with the moments of life, in a way that touches joy. 

And I have a pas­sion for adven­ture.  The big and the small.  New dis­cov­er­ies.  Our world is filled with so much.  Around the whole world.  Right out­side my back­door.  Within.  Part of this jour­ney is a dis­cov­ery of what is out there, and in the process, what is within. 

So, back to that cusp.

In those moments when this all comes together — adven­tures down that path of joy and light-heartedness, all touch­ing upon a deeper soul connection…this is like the com­ing together of it all. 

Pas­sion.

Some days I hit that mark, and there’s a com­plete feel­ing of being alive.  Some days, not so much.  Some days tech­ni­color.  Some days grey. 

And I wonder…

In some grand scheme of things, in life’s great mean­ing and purpose…do I really live this?  Is pas­sion alive

I talk the talk.…do I walk the walk?

Because it is easy to sit here and write words on a screen.  If you know me only here, though, is there some way to really know…if this is some­thing more than just talk?  I don’t know.  And per­haps it doesn’t mat­ter.  Per­haps it is less impor­tant in some grand scheme of things. Per­haps what is most impor­tant is what you believe in yourself…

Today I re-commit to liv­ing the pas­sion that is there, within me.  And I’ll re-commit to that every day. 

Could this lead to moments where I feel exposed?  Most definitely. 

If this life, this one life that I am aware of, is to really be lived, though…what other way can I truly com­mit to?

This is it.  Now. 

To each of you, on this jour­ney you are on…peace and light.


What is Ran­dom Acts of Kick Arse (RAOKA)?  With the idea that there are so many ways we can do small things to change the world for good, Sami, from Life, Laughs, and Lem­mings took an idea she had and cre­ated this move­ment.  The move­ment:  A new theme to focus on each month, bring­ing a lit­tle more good to the world.  The move­ment started in Octo­ber 2009, and has a core group of participants:

Lori from Jane Be Nim­ble
Dani from Pos­i­tively Present
Gayze  from Gazehound’s Ani­mal Com­mu­ni­ca­tion
Zeenat from Pos­i­tive Provo­ca­tions
Sami from Life, Laughs, and Lem­mings
Jan­nie from Jan­nie Funster

Each month a topic will be cho­sen to focus on, and then at the start of the next month, the par­tic­i­pants will write about their expe­ri­ences from the pre­vi­ous month.

Inter­ested in join­ing the move­ment?  Con­tact Sami for details.


March Theme:  Laugh­ter (as cho­sen by Lori)


Logo cour­tesy of Melissa from Oper­a­tion NICE

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Boy can I relate to what you are saying…I refer to it as my roller coaster of life and as crazy as it may sound…for me…that roller coaster can be worse depend­ing on what I am phys­i­cally feed­ing my body along with how I am tak­ing care of my needs vs every­one else.

    I love how yo put things…I do…thank you for writ­ing and shar­ing it with us.
    .-= Trish @IamSucceeding´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Good…The Bad…The… Well You Know =-.

  2. Hilary says:

    Hi Lance .. great insights we can all feel and relate to. Life is a bit of an up and down — and we don’t usu­ally get reminded that we can inter­view our­selves .. and take a lit­tle time to work out where we’re at. There’s so much to learn and so many ben­e­fits from life that we have no idea about — every­one con­tributes a lit­tle to life’s panoply of mazes .. I think rain­bow coloured spaghetti jum­ble would be good .. — not grey mess = how unmo­ti­vat­ing is that!? I went over the Exposed site — that was a laugh .. or not on New Year’s Day –but I didn’t see it then thank good­ness! have a great rest of the week and week­end .. Hilary

  3. Rayna says:

    Do I know exactly what you are talk­ing about!!!
    Pas­sion is a tech­ni­colour jum­ble, but some­times, the colours run into each other and what you see is only a muddy mess. The tech­ni­colour is still there, you just don’t see it.

    Won­der­ful post. And though not a part of the RAOKA move­ment, I may just do a post on pas­sion one of these days.
    .-= Rayna´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Happy 101 Award =-.

  4. Lynn says:

    Lance — if you are a mess then you cer­tainly seem more tech­ni­color than gray to me. And you will always be a super­hero to me!
    .-= Lynn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Dia­mond dust, col­lec­tors and pop­ping in =-.

  5. Lance, your fin­ger move­ment has cre­ated mean­ing­ful spir­i­tual con­nec­tions among all who read your words! You make it OK to expe­ri­ence our human­ness inter­spersed through­out our spir­i­tu­ally evolved moments. I love how Rayna expressed your sen­ti­ments, which is another way of say­ing how much you evoke cre­ativ­ity within those who allow them­selves that con­nec­tion you just extended. I have found I love read­ing everyone’s com­ments in response to your own. What a fam­ily you’ve cre­ated here at the spir­i­tual water­ing hole!
    Holly

  6. Kristie Ryan says:

    Wow Lance, I really like this post. Espe­cially when you say: “Part of this jour­ney is a dis­cov­ery of what is out there, and in the process, what is within.” I love adven­tures myself, as they often times lead me out of my com­fort zone or at the very least doing some­thing dif­fer­ent then usual, which con­tributes to that feel­ing of really living.

    I know what you mean though, with the murk­i­ness. You know what you want out of life and you try your best to live it out that way, but some­times it’s hard to tell if you are or not. I fig­ure, if we’re try­ing to live the way we want and mak­ing deci­sions along those lines we’re prob­a­bly on a good track.

    Kristie

  7. Evelyn Lim says:

    It’s great that you own up to not always feel­ing the pas­sion. I also like the fact that you take us on a jour­ney to dis­cover what it means for you from the inside. Now that is what I call authenticity!

    Thumbs up to mak­ing the intent of recom­mit­ing to what really fuels you every day. And each moment of now!
    .-= Eve­lyn Lim´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..How to Cre­ate Affir­ma­tion Cards On-The-Go =-.

  8. Colleen says:

    RAOKA is a nice take off of Ran­dom Acts of Kind­ness, of which requires a per­son pas­sion­ate about kind­ness. Nice arti­cle today.
    .-= Colleen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Ken­newick Real Estate =-.

  9. Evita says:

    Hi Lance

    Pow­er­ful topic — pas­sion is. I think on many occa­sions we all sit back and won­der are we doing enough? Are we really liv­ing out our mes­sage? Do we live with authen­tic­ity and so on.

    I also love how you included the beau­ti­ful ebb and flow of nature. I know I learned a lot from nature in terms of many things, but basi­cally if we look at some typ­i­cal days, some­times the skies are grey and noth­ing much seems to be hap­pen­ing, but there is still life and I believe there is still pas­sion within every liv­ing crea­ture to some degree. So what I am try­ing to say is that if we com­mit to say some­thing like pas­sion, some days will be more excit­ing, some days less, but the point of the mat­ter is that as long as we are con­scious of it, are we not liv­ing out what we intend to?

    I think at the end of the day, that is what mat­ters most — live authen­ti­cally to your­self, and what oth­ers will think, they will think, but what is within is always first and most impor­tant.
    .-= Evita´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..We Are All Evolv­ing Beings =-.

  10. zmajeva says:

    Think that logic and intu­ition can and have to work together, we see them sep­a­rately, we make them to work sep­a­rately, but when they are con­nected, pas­sion runs trough us. That way pas­sion don’t make mess. :)

    Noth­ing great in the world has been accom­plished with­out pas­sion”- Hegel
    .-= zmajeva´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..FUNDATION OF VITAL LIFE-TAKING CARE OF YOUR BODY =-.

  11. suzen says:

    Hi Lance! I enjoyed this post — and of course I LOVE the topic! Pas­sion! I love to spread it around in my life and bring some pas­sion to a lot of things. I’m pas­sion­ate about my exer­cis­ing daily — of course there are some days that pas­sion is hid­ing and I have to lit­er­ally dig it out, but I feel SO great when the work out is over that I take that res­ur­rected pas­sion and let it flow into what is next. I’m pas­sion­ate about eat­ing healthy so that pas­sion keeps me from com­plain­ing about yet ANOTHER trip to the gro­cery store and I some­times really have to tap into that pas­sion­ate energy when it comes to cook­ing all this food! I could go on and on — pas­sion is present (even if I have to dig it out) in every­thing I do. Some may call this enthu­si­asm, which of course is part of it, but you can be enthu­si­as­tic with­out being pas­sion­ate. To me, being pas­sion­ate means your really, really CARE. And I’ve learned to care deeply — about every­thing!
    Hugs,
    suZen
    .-= suzen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Lies, Dis­tor­tion, Supres­sion & Greed vs. The Truth =-.

  12. Audra Krell says:

    Eval­u­at­ing and com­mit­ting again to our per­sonal mis­sion is a great way to grow, in fact in most cases the only way. We have to be will­ing to reg­u­larly look inside, it’s just so easy not to when I don’t like what I see. I heard an inter­est­ing song lyric yes­ter­day, “I want to be the kind of man, the mir­ror likes to see.” I smiled and thought about how I want to be a woman the mir­ror likes to see. Thanks Lance, for a being the man the world (mir­ror) likes to see.
    .-= Audra Krell´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Some Con­fer­ence High­lights =-.

  13. Caroline says:

    Beau­ti­ful post Lance! I so feel that way…like: This is it! Yet, “it” seems sooo far off. I feel this way with my pho­tog­ra­phy. It is my pas­sion, that I know for sure…and it can take me way out of my com­fort zone. And I think that is a good thing…it’s how I grow I sup­pose. And yet, I still have no idea where this pas­sion will take me…that part is both ter­ri­fy­ing and excit­ing.
    .-= Caroline´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..OMG! =-.

  14. Mama Zen says:

    Some days I feel as if I get it just right. And, those days make all the other days worth it.
    .-= Mama Zen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Smooches =-.

  15. Chris Edgar says:

    Hi Lance — thanks for this — I def­i­nitely feel refreshed by the joy and curios­ity you express about life, and I know a lot of other peo­ple do as well.

  16. Well said, my friend! I just wrote about the same topic today as a mat­ter of fact (I am part of the ABS [Art Bead Scene] Car­ni­val Blog­gers and the theme for this month is PASSION). I think that you have to seek that which you are pas­sion­ate about and then let it out. If you don’t share it with the world, hope­fully ignit­ing oth­ers’ pas­sions, then you aren’t truly liv­ing. To be pas­sion­ate is to be alive. I like the idea of being on the cusp. That is where I feel that I am right about now. Thank you for your inspi­ra­tion today.
    Enjoy the day!
    Erin
    .-= Erin Prais-Hintz´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Com­ing Alive =-.

  17. Mindful Mimi says:

    Lance,
    That ‘mud­dled gray mess’ it’s what it’s all about. It’s not per­fect, and it shouldn’t be. It’s you. And as long as you are try­ing your best to fol­low that pas­sion that is what counts — even if you don’t man­age to live it every day. I so relate to that — and you know it :-)
    Write on…!
    M
    .-= Mind­ful Mimi´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Busi­ness Meet­ing Cre­ativ­ity Ideas — By Craig Cortello =-.

  18. I have a great pas­sion for Lance as he lies on my psychiatrist’s sofa! Or any time, for Lance and his won­der­ful ways, as we all do for Lance in this great blo­gos­phere!! He is one of the best guys I know. I offer him a donut and a song and all is well. And I don’t even charge for the ses­sion! :) In fact, being in Lance­dom is ther­apy for ME!

    I actu­ally know where my pas­sions lie. I am lucky. And blog­ging has opened me up to a world of lov­ing, sup­port­ive car­ing, amaz­ing friends such as your­self, who have cheered me on in so many ways, I could never count them or pos­si­bly repay the debt!

    xo
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Blog Party (a poem) =-.

  19. Hulbert says:

    Hi Lance, thanks for shar­ing how you per­son­ally view pas­sion. I liked how you described that your pas­sion for writ­ing goes beyond race, reli­gions, sex, finan­cial sta­tus, the past, and per­sonal pos­ses­sions. I agree that pas­sion touches upon the mean­ing of exist­ing; it is some­thing that comes from within deep inside our­selves, where we can also share and con­nect it with as many other peo­ple as we can.
    .-= Hulbert´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Jay Leno and Nice =-.

  20. Hi Lance!

    Wow, your writ­ing here gave me goose­bumps. As I read this, I truly feet that you are pas­sion­ate about LIFE, Lance, and this flowed through your post today.

    And, from my per­spec­tive, YES, you talk the talk AND walk the walk, my friend. You are an inspi­ra­tion to so many peo­ple, me included.

    Thanks for being who you are. This post was absolutely beau­ti­ful, Lance. Thank you for shin­ing a light into my day today. I have come to very much enjoy the RAOKA mis­sion and process. This is just another exam­ple of the beauty and pas­sion in this world, if we just look for it and lis­ten.
    ~xo
    .-= Lori (Jane Be Nimble)´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..RAOKA: Pas­sion =-.

  21. Hi Lance,

    What a beau­ti­ful post! Life is a process and we are all works in progress. None of us are per­fect. I com­mend you for being so self-aware and for express­ing what is hap­pen­ing within you in an open and hon­est man­ner. You are authen­tic and so no wor­ries about that, dude! :)

    As for pas­sion, noth­ing is greater than to love life and to love who we are. Life is to be enjoyed and not endured. To not pur­sue pas­sion strikes me as a waste of being alive and being human. Peo­ple are more inclined to give in to fear which is a shame. Fear is poi­son. Always has been and always will be.

    Long live pas­sion! :)
    .-= Nadia — Happy Lotus´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Re-Invention Progress Report =-.

  22. Totally love how you described your pas­sion as some­times grey and some­times tech­ni­colour. Such a great way to look at it. Life would be pretty bor­ing if we were super pas­sion­ate ALL the time. It’s the grey days that make the tech­ni­colour ones really stand out and moti­vate us.

    A beau­ti­ful, open, authen­tic post Lance. Big hugs to you my friend.
    .-= Sami — Life, Laughs & Lemmings´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Ran­dom Acts of Kick Arse – Pas­sion =-.

  23. Jenn says:

    Lance, this post is right on! ;) thanks for shar­ing… this is where I’m at now. I am learn­ing to value myself and to not stuff over the Real that wants to come through. Feel­ing is impor­tant and I’m learn­ing how to do that again ;) thanks again for your insights and reminders.. ~Jenn
    .-= Jenn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Per­fect Seren-ipod: Sounds of The Heart =-.

  24. Lance, your pas­sion comes out in every post I read here… in fact, some­times you get me think­ing too much! :-)

    I think I have gained & lost pas­sion thru the years depend­ing on cir­cum­stances & just me…

    I know I need to find that pas­sion again, sep­a­rate from my fit­ness pas­sion!
    .-= Jody — Fit at 52´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Calo­ries In, Calo­ries Out — What is the Truth? =-.

  25. I know I get con­ser­v­a­tive. There are some days I’m afraid to really let it all out — my pas­sion. I think these ebb and flows are nat­ural. To me it is not about liv­ing on the edge, but liv­ing fully in each moment. When I hug my son — am I all there? or am I think­ing of work? I have to admit there are some days I’m think­ing of work, but lately I’ve been prac­tic­ing of being all there and the joy is there. It’s right there for my tak­ing.
    .-= Karl Staib — Work Happy Now´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Unleash Employ­ees’ Inner Cre­ative Mar­ket­ing Tal­ents – Rehu­man­ize Busi­ness Part 2 =-.

  26. Angelia Sims says:

    I agree with you Lance. Some­times pas­sion is burn­ing brightly. I can take on any­thing, any­time, and any­where. Then it dims to a fad­ing ember and I won­der if it was real or not. I tend to be absolutely pas­sion­ate about a new thing for two years, then my inter­est fades.

    I won­der if there is a why to keep that fire burn­ing. It seems eas­ier when full of self con­fi­dence. I will def­i­nitely have to turn that over in my mind and look inside as well to address some things.

    Very pro­vok­ing post to get the move­ment of pas­sion stirred up. Thanks Lance!
    .-= Angelia Sims´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..My Wishes for You =-.

  27. Suzie Cheel says:

    I so relate to what you have writ­ten and love : Have you ever been on the cusp? Feel­ing like “this is it”…except, not quite. Feel­ing like you are so close…and yet so far.
    So often in the past year or so.… One day yes this is my true pas­sion and then a dis­trac­tion has a ? aris­ing„, how to keep that fire burn­ing. Gary Vayn­er­chuk seems to have it mas­tered and he has one word CARE:)
    Which is what you do so well Lance
    .-= Suzie Cheel´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Mon­day Inspi­ra­tion =-.

  28. Cheryl Paris says:

    Hello Lance,

    Pas­sion is the only con­tent which should never be under­es­ti­mated and is the only thing that keeps us dri­ving to our new goals. Whether it is writ­ing, act­ing, win­ning Oscar or just being suc­cess­ful in what we do best.

    Cheers,
    Cheryl Paris Blog
    .-= Cheryl Paris´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..I want Wednes­days– Where do you want to live? =-.

  29. Lance, when I think about pas­sion — as a verb — I sense its depth and fiery abil­ity to bring us fur­ther into that with which we wish to con­nect. And I see this in you, increas­ingly every­day. Maybe on a day-to-day basis it isn’t as appar­ent (I have those moments with myself where I think, “Am I really all that dif­fer­ent than I was last year at this time?”). Over the span of a year, though, it feels like quan­tum shifts have taken place.

    Since “meet­ing” you out here in the ether’s, you’ve been full of love in my eyes. As I grown to know more about you, I’ve seen pas­sion act­ing as a verb in your life, direct­ing your deci­sions and lead­ing you more deeply into yourself.

    So you writ­ing about this — under­tak­ing it as a case study in self-reflection and life — is so phe­nom­e­nal to wit­ness. You give “pas­sion” a good name, Lance!
    Keep those fires burn­ing, for all of who you are, and all of who you’ve yet to become.

    With love & joy!
    .-= Megan “Joy­Girl!” Bord´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..SURPRISE! Spread Joy, Have Fun =-.

  30. Lance says:

    @Trish — The “roller coaster of life”…is really a good way of look­ing at this life we are liv­ing. There are ups and down, thrills, scary moments, and some point when our ride will come to an end. And what a great reminder, Trish, that we can have an affect on this “ride” by how we are treat­ing ourselves…through the food we eat, the friends we have, our atti­tude toward life, etc.

    @Hilary — Hi Hilary. Yes, there is always so much to learn. No mat­ter how long or short we’ve been here on this earth, we will never know it all. And — rain­bow col­ored spaghetti!!! A beau­ti­ful mess!!

    @Rayna — Hi Rayna. Yes, that “muddy mess”. Life can feel like that some­times. And I love this thought, that the “tech­ni­color” is still there, even when life might feel a bit more mud­died that usual. I draw much hope from that, thank you!

    @Lynn — Awww, thank you so much. You are so, so sweet.

    @Holly — Hi Holly. I love this thought of each of us being a spir­i­tual being. I believe that very much. And then we are here on this earth, hav­ing a very human expe­ri­ence. And no mat­ter what our beliefs about what lies beyond our earthly exis­tence, I think most would agree that within us there is this thing that I would call “soul”. And I believe that to be my spir­i­tual being, and some­thing that I don’t always express fully…holding myself back. And that’s where I start to feel that mud­dled grey mess…when I don’t let the inner spirit shine. Any­way, maybe that is all part of the journey…a jour­ney toward a more deeper under­stand­ing of self. Holly, thank you so much for being here…

    @Kristie Ryan — Hi Kristie. Those “adven­tures” in life really can lead us out of our com­fort zones. And when we allow our­selves to really expe­ri­ence these moments, there is so much there for us. Much more than just the adven­ture itself, this can become so much more. And that’s there for all of us…if we allow that expe­ri­ence to per­me­ate our soul. Thanks Kristie!

    @Evelyn — Hi Eve­lyn. There are def­i­nitely moments where the pas­sion just isn’t there. And I sup­pose it is that way with all of us, where that murk­i­ness is just a bit murkier. And I think all of this — the fully pas­sion­ate moments and the moments that are much less passion-filled — they all can lead us to what this life means to each of us. Eve­lyn, I wit­ness very much in you, this authen­tic­ity, and know that your beau­ti­ful doing of this…helps me to be more “me”. Know that I am grate­ful to you for that.

  31. Lance says:

    @Colleen — Yes, I really think of RAOKA as another approach to ran­dom acts of kind­ness, with a bit of focused thought each month. What Sami has cre­ated is really some­thing special.

    @Evita — Hi Evita. Hmmm…yep!! I cer­tainly have had those thoughts of “am I really doing enough”, or “am I doing what I really should be doing”. And I sup­pose that is a part of life, and when we acknowl­edge this, and see that — even in those moments when we are not our best — we are still very much “us” — and there is much authen­tic­ity in that.

    Nature is a beau­ti­ful thing, isn’t it! And I know you con­nect very much with our nat­ural world. Evita, know that I find this to be such a won­der­ful part of who you are. Any­way, I very much find that con­nec­tion, too. And through that — I am reminded there is a sea­son for every­thing, there are storms in our life, and there are moments of bril­liant sun­shine. Hav­ing you here…Evita…is that bril­liant sun­shine, stream­ing through into my life.

    @Zmajeva — I love the quote you shared! And that is so true…when we can get our logic and intu­ition work­ing together, what a great place to be — where this align­ment leads to really hit­ting our stride, and con­nect­ing to that inner wis­dom that is there in each of us.

    @Suzen — Hi Suzen. You really just emit pas­sion from your soul so beau­ti­fully! That has come through so clearly in all that you have shared. And I love how you tie this back to CARING deeply. When we care, we really do con­nect to some­thing greater than just on the sur­face, and there is much pas­sion in all of that. Peace and love to you…

    @Audra — Hi Audra. Ah…that “look­ing inside”. I won­der some­times, how I am really doing at that. On the sur­face I think I am. I won­der, though, if I am really and hon­estly doing this, or am I just giv­ing it lip ser­vice? And I know…it is only me who can answer that ques­tion. Audra, you have such a won­der­ful way of see­ing right into me, and see­ing where those chal­lenges lie.

    Okay, and thank you so much for your beau­ti­fully car­ing words. And I also just want you to know…the reflec­tion in your mir­ror, the mir­ror of your life — Audra, that is of a woman who is very much filled with love and com­pas­sion. I am deeply hon­ored to know you, and to call you a dear friend…

    @Caroline — Hi Car­o­line. That “cusp”, right. It’s like we are there, yet we are not. And in that spot, that “not quite there yet” spot…there can be some trep­i­da­tion of what lies ahead (I know there is for me). I just want you to know that your pho­tog­ra­phy is filled with pas­sion, and that shines through in all that you share. As you con­tinue on this jour­ney of yours, keep trust­ing in your heart…

    @Mama Zen — Hi Kelli. Yes, when we have a day where it all “feels right”…wow!! What a feel­ing!! And that does give strength for con­tin­u­ing on…

  32. Lance says:

    @Chris Edgar — Hi Chris. Thanks much for your sup­port, it really means a lot!

    @Erin — Hi Erin. Per­haps it is in that seek­ing that I some­times hes­i­tate. And for what? Fear of look­ing fool­ish? Fear of it being a flop? So…sometimes I know that I’m in that spot. And other times, I know too that I hes­i­tate. Being on that cusp, though…a place I find myself at too. And there is much good in that spot…and in sens­ing what is out there. Erin, know that I wish you only the best in what lies in front of you, and I know that your pas­sion shines through brightly in all that I have wit­nessed in you.

    @Mimi — Hi Miranda. Okay, your words really are com­fort­ing today. Thank you. And I do know how much you relate to this, and know that I am here to sup­port you in any way I can. I love what you are doing, and how much I just feel your heart in all of that. So…yes, it is a bit of that grey mess sometimes…and I’ll take that over a no mess/no pas­sion life.…

    @Jannie — Psy­chi­a­trist Jan­nie!! Being on your sofa is most won­der­ful. Really, your pres­ence in my life is like this light of fun and love! And what a beau­ti­ful com­bi­na­tion!! Today (well…always) I feel this great sense of con­nec­tion with you, and I am rest­ing here this morning…with a donut and some of your amaz­ing music. I am feel­ing good! You are sun­shine in this world, Jan­nie! You really are!! I am lucky. I am lucky because our paths have crossed out there in this great big world…shiny, amaz­ing friend!

    @Hulbert — And in that mean­ing of exis­tence, none of those fac­tors mat­ter, do they — in how we view another per­son. They are NOT the per­son. And it’s that “what’s inside” that really mat­ters. Great thoughts to all of this, thank you!

    @Lori — Hi Lori. Know that your words touch me deeply. I some­times won­der if that pas­sion is there? If I am really liv­ing life on my terms? Or — if I some­how hold myself back from what is truly pos­si­ble? (as you can see, I have lots of ques­tions for “me” to pon­der!). Any­way, Lori, I know you are “there”, and there is much com­fort in that. Know it is very much a two-way street…wonderful friend.

    @Nadia — Hi Nadia. Yes, I so agree that life is a process, and we are all some­where on the jour­ney through our life. And it is that fear — and it’s poi­son — that can hold us back from what is really pos­si­ble. That we know of, we are here once on this earth — espe­cially in this form we exist in today. And within that form, is our beau­ti­ful soul — right. And that is so unique to each of us, and when we can con­nect to that, and live openly from there — what a beau­ti­ful place to be. Nadia, know that I see you doing this, and I find much per­sonal peace in that. Keep on shin­ing that amaz­ing you out to the world!

  33. Lance, I love your post about pas­sion! I don’t know if you feel the way I do, but I think peo­ple seem to be really into the topic of pas­sion. It was great to read your take on it.
    .-= Pos­i­tively Present´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..7 ways to travel the road to your pas­sion =-.

  34. Laurie says:

    We all ebb and flow with our pas­sions, dri­ves, or what­ever you want to call it. I think the point is to allow the ebb when it hap­pens but don’t lose sight of the pas­sion. Keep it in your sights. Then when the tide changes and you are flow­ing again, go go GO! with that flow!

    I have felt on the cusp too. That’s not a bad place to be. You can romance it into what you want it to be. It’s the place you make all the choices. Pon­der. Dream. Plan. I think it is kind of like a teeter tot­ter, you are bal­anc­ing right in the mid­dle of the board and don’t want to fall back and lose ground But when you finally get up on the high end, you fly high!!!

  35. J.D. Meier says:

    I like your point how clear­ing your head makes room for your heart.

    I’m glad you’re com­mit­ting to your pas­sion … that’s a pow­er­ful deci­sion, just like com­mit­ting to con­tin­u­ous growth. Pas­sion and growth go hand in hand.
    .-= J.D. Meier´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Get­ting Started with Agile Results =-.

  36. Hilda says:

    “I draw my deep­est pas­sion from con­nec­tions with the soul. Me to my own soul. My soul to yours. Con­nec­tions that strip away race, reli­gion, sex, finan­cial sta­tus, the past, per­sonal possessions. ”

    I have to say Lance, that your deep­est pas­sion shines through in your writ­ing. Not just your posts, but your com­ments and replies, which are always so very thought­ful. There is no need to ever doubt that you’re liv­ing your pas­sion — you live it here day in and day out!
    .-= Hilda´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Spread a lit­tle joy =-.

  37. There once was a fel­low named Lance
    Who joined a troupe who did dance.
    He cavorted around,
    From town to town
    And now he is famous in France!

    :)
    xo
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Blog Party (a poem) =-.

  38. OMG, and you’re actu­ally lis­ten­ing to my music? Aren’t you SICK of those songs yet! :)

    xo
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Blog Party (a poem) =-.

  39. Hilary says:

    Hi Jan­nie .. I’m sick to death of lis­ten­ing to Kelly!! nor you .. so I lis­ten quite often .. yes!!

    & your poem’s great .. just thought ‘town on to town’ has that extra what ever the word is .. and reads bet­ter — nog al? Blue Bunny — lingo .. Afrikans .. ‘not so’?

    Coooo –er a com­poser of Lance lim­er­icks .. sounds good ..

    NB high­lighted not .. see if it works .. cheers to all …
    .-= Hilary´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Mid­dle Ages of the web – ancient path­ways, monas­tic steps, St David yes­ter­day, St Chad today and lines of com­mu­ni­ca­tion … =-.

  40. Hilary!!! Yes, very good with your lim­er­ick obser­va­tion, thanks! What would I do with­out you??! :)

    he cavorted around
    from town unto town…

    xo
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Blog Party (a poem) =-.

  41. Lance says:

    @Sami — You know, Sami, I love what you have writ­ten here. And it really does make those tech­ni­color moments stand out, because we are all human, and we have days that blah, or unevent­ful, or just sim­ply grey. So, won­der­ful friend, know that your words have landed on my heart today, and leave me with a smile. Be well, and big hugs right back atcha…

    @Jenn — Hi Jenn. Yes, valu­ing ourselves…so good to be reminded of that. Each of us, no mat­ter where we are on that jour­ney through life, have so much good within us. And that is a beau­ti­ful insight…thank you so much!

    @Jody — Hey Jody! You know, I can relate so much to what you are say­ing. I guess that’s the ebb and flow of life, and it’s all good. When we find that thing we are pas­sion­ate about (like fit­ness!), that’s where we should be then. (and this all reminds me…it’s time for me use the set of weights!!)

    @Karl — Karl, I can relate, very much, to what you are say­ing. It feels “safe” to be con­ser­v­a­tive. Yet, the older I get, the more I am real­iz­ing that “safe” maybe isn’t so safe after all. Maybe the safest place of all is within that pas­sion that is ours…and then we are liv­ing in the way we are meant to live our lives. Being in those moments…a great reminder, too, on where this pas­sion really is at. Keep hug­ging your son…and your wife…

    @Angelia — Hi Angelia. Right!! We can go into some­thing new, and there’s like an andren­a­lyn rush. And the fire burns brightly. What about when that fades, though? Is that a time to dig a lit­tle deeper in our being, and ques­tion why we are doing what we are? Per­haps so. And in that ques­tion­ing, we touch upon even deeper truths within our own being. Angelia, your insights today are so good, and leave me with some ques­tions to ask myself…

    @Suzie — Hi Suzie. On that cusp. It is a good place to be, I think. That spot reminds me that I am mov­ing for­ward, even if I haven’t reached that peak (what­ever that “peak” hap­pens to be). And really, as I think about this now, I won­der if that is just another stop along our jour­neys through life, and that makes this “cusp” a very good place to be… I’m not sure, and I’m going to sit with that for a while. Suzie, know that I appre­ci­ate very much all that you have shared.

    @Cheryl — Hi Cheryl. Very great point! Because when we under­es­ti­mate our passion…we only hold our­selves back from our true potential…

  42. Hilary says:

    Hi Jan­nie .. got me back quickly your com­ment did .. a) because you replied so pronto .. and thanks for ‘adding it’ ..

    b) but incred­i­bly this HTML malarky .. knocked out my not .. so my com­ment reads all wrong and I’m sulk­ing in Eng­land now!! …

    REPHRHASED omit­ting the HTML tags .. !!!!

    Hi Jan­nie .. I’m NOT sick to death of lis­ten­ing to Kelly!! nor you .. so I lis­ten quite often .. yes!!

    byeeeee — if we keep this up Lance will ban us .… or sack us .….??!!
    .-= Hilary´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Mid­dle Ages of the web – ancient path­ways, monas­tic steps, St David yes­ter­day, St Chad today and lines of com­mu­ni­ca­tion … =-.

  43. Lance says:

    @Megan — Megan, I love this thought of pas­sion as a verb. It’s like I feel the action that goes in this. And maybe that’s action we see (like out­wardly doing some­thing that brings pas­sion) and maybe that’s action on the inside (like deeper thoughts into the inner work­ing of “us”). So, these daily pas­sion steps…yes, I too think “am I dif­fer­ent than I was yes­ter­day”. Yet, as I think back right now — to this year last time — with­out a doubt I have changed. There has been a shift, and one that I am deeply happy to see tak­ing place. It’s in a direc­tion that feels so right, and so good. Megan, your words are help­ing me to see this, and to real­ize that even in those moments when it feels like I’m spin­ning my wheels, or even revert­ing in a direc­tion I don’t want to go — there is still good there. And I won­der if a big part of that for me, right now — is awareness.

    Any­way, Megan, you have once again given me your beau­ti­ful insight, with care and love. The fires are burning…

    @Dani — Hey Dani. Yes, I am see­ing this too. And I think it’s because pas­sion is some­thing that can be very per­sonal and mean­ing­ful. And that is some­thing that touches every­one at a deep level.

    @Laurie — Hi Lau­rie. That’s good Laurie…to really just “be” with these ebbs and flows. I sup­pose they are inevitable. Such is our life here on earth…one filled with highs and lows. And when we stay focused on what rings in our heart…we come back to that, flow­ing beauit­fully. So…I’ll enjoy this place “at the cusp”.…pondering, dream­ing, plan­ning. That all sounds really quite nice… (thank you, dear friend…)

    @J.D. Meier — I like how you are tying pas­sion and growth together. I see that very much, as we con­tinue to let our pas­sion out, that does take us down new paths of growth too. And that’s a good place to be.

    @Hilda — Hilda, your words touch my soul…thank you. And thank you, really, for being here and shin­ing your light out into the world!

    @Jannie -
    There once a gal named Jan­nie,
    Who drove this fancy schmancey mini-vannie.
    She tooled around,
    From state to state,
    Singing while eatinig a bananie!

    xoxo

    @Jannie — Hey Jan­nie, it’s super nice to see you again. SICK of those songs??? No way!!! Rockin’ on with YOU!!

    @Hilary — Hi again Hilary! Nicely said…you’ve done well with Jannie’s poem!

    @Jannie — Well…look who’s here!! Wow, it is great to see you, poet Jan­nie! A lim­er­ick (and to think, I just called it a poem…yikes!). We had a limb on one of our trees come down over the win­ter. Once the snow is gone, I get to go pick that up. (I sup­pose that limb is dif­fer­ent than your limb-erick??).

    @Hilary — Hi Hilary!!! Wel­come back! No need to sulk…I know what you meant (and I bet Jan­nie did too). Will I ban you two?? Hmmm??? NO, I could never do that!!! (although it IS hard to keep up with both of you!!!!)

  44. Tim says:

    Hi Lance:

    Thanks for shar­ing your very per­sonal take on pas­sion. I know what you mean about think­ing about pas­sion and actu­ally apply­ing it to our lives at all moments. It is not easy to just “be” pas­sion or to live pas­sion­ately so that it’s auto­matic. For me, it takes work. It prob­a­bly shouldn’t, but it does. Thank you again for shar­ing and for remind­ing us of the impor­tance of passion.

  45. Diane AZ says:

    Hi Lance, I enjoyed read­ing your thoughts about pas­sion. I could relate to “That ebb and flow of nature…” which reminds me of Einstein’s quote “Look deep into nature, and then you will under­stand every­thing bet­ter.” And,“There’s a time for sow­ing, there’s a time for grow­ing…” which brings to mind the song, Turn! Turn! Turn! based on Eccle­si­astes 3:1. I don’t often think about “pas­sion” myself if it means want­ing some­thing other than “this” right now. I could say I’m pas­sion­ate about “lov­ing what is” and I get ecsta­tic about Nature. I notice that energy and dri­ves come and go, but I don’t seek after them or try to change them. I am at peace going with the flow.
    .-= Diane AZ´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Cac­tus Pic­nic Area – Snap­shots =-.

  46. Oh Lance,
    This per­son that you are right now..is so beau­ti­ful! Your pas­sion for life cou­pled with your souls purity…just flows in this post. So so so beau­ti­ful! WOW!
    I love how you have described pas­sion for you.…grey tech­ni­color and all that in between.…You cant be pas­sion­ate all the time.…you would be super­hu­man :)
    For me per­son­ally pas­sion is Life…and in every­thing we think or do…let it be just mak­ing a cup of coffee.…or just drink­ing that cup of coffee..and enjoy­ing every sip..OK.…I cant be pas­sion­ate about my morn­ing cup of cof­fee , I’m too sleepy then ;) But you get what i’m talk­ing about right.
    And what an honor to be part of your group ther­apy session.…I wish all my patients were as awe­some as you :) I have got to send them to you for ther­apy ;)
    Sim­ply loved your thoughts here.…perfect!
    Much Love to you…
    Z~
    .-= Zeenat{Positive Provocations}´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Pas­sion Is… {RAOKA} =-.

  47. Lance says:

    @Tim — Hey Tim. Yes, I know what you mean. Some­times it can really take work. I think of exer­cise, which is some­thing that is a pas­sion of mine. And still, there are days, where it’s a real effort to go forth. When I do, I really feel good about it. The point, though, as you have stated, is that some­times it really is work to get to that spot of pas­sion. Great thoughts!

    @Diane AZ — Hi Diane. Nature is such a beau­ti­ful thing! And through, as Ein­stein said so well, we can under­stand every­thing bet­ter. And Diane, that you are at peace…I see that as a beau­ti­ful sign of pas­sion within you…and what a great place to be at.

    @Zeenat — Zeenat, thank you so, so much for your won­der­ful words of affir­ma­tion. And that is truly a sign of the love that is within you, shin­ing out into the world! I am so grate­ful for your pres­ence, and for the beauty you bring to this world. Oh, and this is so good…passion is Life. I do get, very much, what you are say­ing. While there might be vary­ing degrees of pas­sion, this is indeed our life, and what that is, in large part, is how we deeply con­nect to it (our life). Zeenat, your wis­dom and love shine through so won­der­fully today…thank you deeply for this…much love and a won­der­ful week­end with your family.

  48. scheng1 says:

    Pow­er­ful post. Some­times my only pas­sion in the day is food. I know that’s a mis­er­able way to live. But pas­sion for cof­fee and choco­late never dies.
    .-= scheng1´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Is 2012 the end of the world? =-.

  49. Hi Lance,
    You con­nect at a soul level with so many peo­ple. Hav­ing a blog to share your thoughts with peo­ple is the per­fect medium for you. Some­times, when I’m writ­ing, I won­der what would Jesus do? He would blog to get his mes­sage to the masses and He would fret and fume over the slow­ness of the com­puter. But He would focus on the mes­sage and not the mishaps and slow­downs. March is for laugh­ter!
    .-= Cheryl from thatgirlisfunny´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..pas­sion and fas­ci­na­tion – two essen­tial ingre­di­ents for RAOKA =-.

  50. Lance says:

    @Scheng1 — That passion…it is there, within us. And pas­sion for cof­fee and chocolate…hmm…I can com­pletely relate!!

    @Cheryl — Hi Cheryl. Thank you so much for your car­ing and touch­ing words. And, think­ing about Jesus…what a great place to look for inspi­ra­tion. He just really has this focus on what truly mat­ters, and when we can some­how get a bit closer to that…what a beau­ti­ful place to be. And…woohoo!! Laugh­ter is next!!

  51. Casey says:

    RAOKA! That just might have to be my new motto! And thing to live by!
    .-= Casey´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Acrylic Pic­ture Frames =-.

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