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Simple Fun

“Live life fully while you’re here. Expe­ri­ence every­thing. Take care of your­self and your friends. Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You’re going to any­way, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the oppor­tu­nity to learn from your mis­takes: find the cause of your prob­lem and elim­i­nate it. Don’t try to be per­fect; just be an excel­lent exam­ple of being human.” ~ Tony Robbins

Sim­ple fun.  Some­times it’s the best kind of fun.  The video above is from our recent raft­ing trip.  We had a sand beach, a calm river, an inflat­able raft, and a cou­ple of buck­ets.  We ended up with a home­made water­slide into the river.  Kids were kids.  Adults were kids.  River guides were kids.  What a fun way to cool off after being out­side in the heat all day!

Some­times life gets hec­tic and com­pli­cated.  And some­times, life ends up not being much fun when this hap­pens.  Then, maybe we plan fun things to do.  Maybe a visit to a water­park, or a night out at the bars, or a trip to the zoo, or ??.  And that’s all good (and fun).  But we can also make our own fun.  We don’t always have to look out­side of what we already have to bring the fun back into our lives.

One time a cou­ple of years ago, we made an obsta­cle course in our back­yard.  Some ball, some rope, a cou­ple of 2x4’s, some water.  In the end, we had an after­noon of fun, and many mem­o­ries that will last for a long time.

What kind of sim­ple fun things can you do?  Be cre­ative.  Try things (maybe they’ll be fun, maybe not).  If it doesn’t work out, ditch it and move on to some­thing else.  Use the things you already have to cre­ate your own fun!

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Dave Fowler says:

    Lance,

    There’s noth­ing bet­ter that putting a sad­dle on the dog and let­ting the chil­dren ride round on his back!

    Only kid­ding. They actu­ally ride him bare­back — we can’t get a sad­dle small enough to fit him.

    Still kid­ding ;-) he he he

    I love the water slide. It looks like great fun.

    For my kids, water and mud seem to make for an after­noon of fun (for them) and an evening of clean­ing (for me). Who cares. They have fun and I get to enjoy their delight at mak­ing mud pies.

    Cheers.

    Dave.

  2. Writer Dad says:

    We went to Catalina Island a cou­ple of months ago. All my chil­dren wanted to do was make big moun­tains out of rocks. It was painfully sim­ple, but we had the best time.

    Writer Dads last blog post..A Bil­lion Pix­els and None of Them Wasted

  3. Marelisa says:

    What a great water slide! When we were kids we had one of those yel­low water slides but we didn’t have a hill near our house so my father would pick each one of us up and basi­cally throw us onto to the slide so we would glide on the water to the end. It’s one of the best child­hood mem­o­ries I have.

    Marelisas last blog post..How to Be Happy

  4. Mark Salinas says:

    Go to a movie? J/K.…the fam­ily and I will go for trail walk, jump on the tram­po­line with a bunch of sprin­klers. Take trips when we can.…

    Mark Sali­nass last blog post..Clear Food Choices

  5. Annette says:

    I bet it was a blast! We bought a pack of water bal­loons over the week­end for $1 and had a great time with the kids in the mid­dle of 105 degree weather :) I have also started “tea party Sat­ur­days” with my older two. We cook some­thing together in the morn­ing and then share it over a real tea party in the after­noon when the twins nap. You really do have to find fun where you can.….life is just too seri­ous some­times :) Thanks for shar­ing your video!

    Annettes last blog post..Hope for a Bet­ter World

  6. I love this: Go out and screw up! You’re going to any­way, so you might as well enjoy the process. All my life I’ve been pet­ri­fied of mak­ing a mis­take in pub­lic. Need­less to say, this pre­vented me from doing a lot of inter­est­ing things. Then two years ago, when I was on my own for the first time in my life, I thought to heck with this noise! I am going for it!! My ini­tial reac­tion is still to want to do it per­fectly, but I force myself to jump right in, and I end up hav­ing a blast!

    Just for pure fun? The Lion, the Ten Year Old, and I crank up the music, push the table and chairs back in the kitchen, and totally rock out!

    Urban Pan­thers last blog post..Please don’t make me eat that

  7. MizFit says:

    YOU GUYS ARE SUCH A FUN FAMILY!

    I love the o-course idea.

    (shock­ing I know.…)

    Miz­Fits last blog post..Viewer Mail.

  8. Hi Lance,

    It looks like you all were hav­ing a great time. I agree, we need to have fun and not worry about mess­ing up. How bor­ing it would be if we were per­fect. We wouldn’t have any­thing left to strive for.

    Bar­bara Swaf­fords last blog post..Inter­view With Lorelle Van­Fos­sen — Part 8 — The Future of Blogging

  9. Vered says:

    I agree! Fun and laugh­ter keep me going some­times. And it’s very true that it doesn’t need to be any­thing elab­o­rate or expensive.

    Vereds last blog post..Cook­ing? That’s What Wives Are For! (Word­less Wednesday)

  10. Tomor­row is promised to no one. Enjoy what you have while you have it

    meleah rebec­c­ahs last blog post..The Best Text Mes­sage. Ever.

  11. Rachel D says:

    We love to geo­cache! It is like a lit­tle trea­sure hunt. My daugh­ter is still pretty lit­tle so she doesn’t under­stand it 100% but I know as she gets older she will love it even more. :)

    Rachel Ds last blog post..Stroke of Luck

  12. Lanceman says:

    @Dave — Rid­ing a dog — that sounds fun! And so does the mud — it’s pretty fun every once in a while to just get all dirty.

    @Writer Dad — That’s what it’s all about, hav­ing fun and mak­ing mem­o­ries. Catalina Island sounds like a won­der­ful place to do that!

    @Marelisa — That sounds like lots of fun, and mem­o­rable to boot!

    @Mark — The tram­po­line and sprin­klers sounds like a great way to cool off on a hot day (and get some exer­cise in with­out really know­ing it!).

    @Annette — Life can be too seri­ous some­times, can’t it?? Sounds like you’ve found some great ways to make it fun! My youngest loves water bal­loons too. Doesn’t mat­ter if it’s hot or cool to him.

    @Urban Pan­ther — Right on, as long as we’re going to screw up any­way — let’s make it fun! Rock on (lit­er­ally, at your house!).

    @MizFit — Thanks much! The obsta­cle course is good fun for every­one — and that’s what makes it such a blast.

    @Barbara — That’s right, we don’t want to become stodgy and bor­ing — bring on the fun!

    @Vered — I like to fol­low the “Keep it Sim­ple” phi­los­o­phy (prob­a­bly because that’s all I can handle…).

    @Meleah — Carpe diem!

  13. Lanceman says:

    @Rachel — Hey, we geo­cache too! Actu­ally we haven’t done it at all this sum­mer. It is fun for the kids isn’t it. They like find­ing the “trea­sure”. I know for us, the kids always think the hikes are fun­ner because they are out to find something.

  14. FitMom says:

    Today, I cut holes in a card­board box and my four year old had a BALL being Wall-E. We even went to our fav lunch spot and he mod­eled it for every­one in the store. Fantastic!

    Fit­Moms last blog post..Fit Mommy’s Plan to get team Fat­u­ra­tion Point out running!

  15. Evelyn Lim says:

    It seems a load of fun!! How nice that it doesn’t need to cost a bomb!

    My kids and I have fun in var­i­ous ways. An exam­ple: just putting up a short play with blan­kets, magic wands and all is enough to cre­ate a lot of joy and laughter.

    Eve­lyn Lims last blog post..Raise Aware­ness; Release Guilt

  16. Dave Fowler says:

    Of Course! How could I forget?

    Fit­Mom is totally right. Card­board boxes are bril­liant for hav­ing fun.

  17. Lanceman says:

    @FitMom — That can be the funnest toy — a card­board box!! What a cool way to use one (and show it off)!

    @Evelyn — Plays are fun! And all you need is just what­ever you can find around your place. Sounds like a blast!

    @Dave — Hey I agree, how could I for­get too!! They’re an awe­some toy, and great for the imag­i­na­tion (like cre­at­ing Wall-E).

  18. This video demon­strates to me that the earth should be uti­lized for fun.

    Whether it be a walk in the for­est, or a slide into the river. Enjoy it.

    Bam­boo Forests last blog post..What’s The True Value of Blog Comments?

  19. Linda Abbit says:

    Hey, I wanna turn! What a clever way to make a water slide, Lance.

    Run­ning through sprin­klers is what I did as a kid to cool off when we didn’t go to the beach. Another no-cost idea for fun in the sun.

  20. One of my all time best party games was water bal­loon char­iot races on gar­den carts.
    It was a blast! Loved the Tony Rob­bins quote. Although some might dis­agree I haven’t been weird enough lately.

    Tom Volkar / Delight­ful Works last blog post..Big Life Lessons and Hit­ting Bottom

  21. Lanceman says:

    @Bamboo For­est — Yes, let’s have fun while we’re here!

    @Linda — Thanks, it was fun! Sprin­klers — they are fun! I need to do that more often when the kids are out there doing it.

    @Tom — We gotta be weird some­times, huh! The game you played sounds like a blast. Water seems to be a good thing for hav­ing fun!!

  22. MizFit says:

    HAPPY 5k DAY!

    run some for me as well…

    Miz­Fits last blog post..Spe­cial Sat­ur­day Viewer Mail: the TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE edition.

  23. Davina says:

    In the sum­mer I take a lot of long walks. There’s a park near my apart­ment and some­times I stop to watch the base­ball game. When we were kids we’d be happy build­ing forts from bales of hay. It was great fun! In the win­ter we’d go tobog­gan­ing with our dogs on our laps. The dogs loved it too!

    Davinas last blog post..Bears Come Calling

  24. Lanceman says:

    @MizFit — I ran it, thanks — some for you as well! But not more than the 5k!! It was a killer. More to come in a day or two…

    @Davina — Walks are great. My wife and I do them reg­u­larly. Sounds like you maybe grew up on a farm as a kid — I was around sev­eral too, plus we had a few ani­mals. Hay forts were great fun — thanks for remind­ing me of some­thing I haven’t done in a long time!

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