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So Much More Than A Football Game

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“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” ~ Wayne Dyer

Five min­utes.  Does that seem like a long time?  Not sure you want to give up that amount of time to a video of high school football?

This is a video about a Texas foot­ball game.  And yet, it is so much more than just that.  This is a story of hope.  A story of com­pas­sion.  And a story of caring.

Watch.

Open your heart.

Be inspired.

We have oppor­tu­ni­ties, every day, to do good in our world.  And it’s all about chang­ing the world, one small step at a time.  What one coach did here — one small act of real car­ing — had an affect on so many lives, in very pow­er­ful ways.  And just think of the rip­ple effect, of these peo­ple who were pow­er­fully affected, going out and doing some­thing good because of the way they felt after this game!  Isn’t that amaz­ing, how one small act can just grow and grow — to who knows how big!

Your Turn

How does this video speak to you?   How can you go forth, today,  and really care for the world around you?

“Unless some­one like you cares a whole awful lot, noth­ing is going to get bet­ter. It’s not.” ~ Dr. Seuss

All of you are capa­ble of so much good in this world.  Every­one!  Be that bea­con of hope, today, for some­one who really needs it.  Care, with all your heart…

Note:  Spe­cial thanks to reg­u­lar com­menter Lau­rie for shar­ing this video today.

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Rupal says:

    WOW. Thanks for urg­ing me to watch this video. It gave me chills and brought tears to my eyes. Fantastic.

    ~rupal

    Rupal´s last blog post..Recon­nect with what makes you tick…

  2. Chase March says:

    That’s a great video. Thanks for shar­ing it. It is amaz­ing that we can actu­ally do lit­tle things to make a big dif­fer­ence in other people’s lives. What a great message.

    Chase March´s last blog post..Teach­ing Tip Tues­day – Take a Number

  3. Ian Peatey says:

    Lance, I wasn’t going to watch it because I guessed this not about foot­ball (soc­cer) but was about Amer­i­can Foot­ball and some­how this sport just doesn’t grab me. But, I thought, ‘This is Lance. Trust him’. And I did, and I just loved this story (despite the sport ;-) )

    Mes­sages for me? Winning/losing is unim­por­tant in the face of sup­port, love and com­pas­sion. And ulti­mately we are all on the same side, even when it doesn’t look like it.

    Thanks so much for this.
    Ian

    Ian Peatey´s last blog post..Con­flict is not the problem

  4. Audra Krell says:

    It’s not even six in the morn­ing and the tears are just rolling down my face. This is so pow­er­ful to me. It explains what I’ve come to believe in the past five years, the mis­takes peo­ple make don’t define them, it’s not who they are, just some­thing they’ve done. Great post as always Lance.

    Audra Krell´s last blog post..BlogTalkRa­dio

  5. LisaNewton says:

    I’m with Audra on this one, tears at 6:00am in the morn­ing. What a great les­son on sec­ond chances, which every­one deserves. Every­one makes mis­takes and if we judge peo­ple by those mis­takes, we are the loser.

    Thanks for the great post, Lance.….….….…:)

    LisaNewton´s last blog post..A Water­fall in my Backyard

  6. One key phrase struck me “For the first time in a long time some­one was in their cor­ner.” I hon­estly believe it is a lack of con­nec­tion, love, to other peo­ple or a higher power that can lead us down a road of crime. Like a lash­ing out for atten­tion or con­trol or something.

    I’ll never for­get the story I heard about a 90 some­thing year old woman who was held up at gun point in her car. She asked the man hold­ing her up about his beliefs in God and the church and told him how God can save him if he believed, and the guy broke down in tears, put the gun down and apol­o­gized. Yes, he was con­victed of a crime, but the story had an unex­pected end­ing. This story sug­gests the power of con­nec­tion, in my opin­ion and how impor­tant it is to feel loved, sup­ported and encour­aged by peo­ple around us, no mat­ter who they are.

  7. Mark says:

    Very pow­er­ful Lance! Thanks for shar­ing! :)

  8. Ryan says:

    That was an awe­some video. Thank you for shar­ing. We all need peo­ple to root for us–we all need some­one “in our corner.”

    Ryan´s last blog post..Do all writ­ers eat pan­cakes the same way?

  9. Linda Abbit says:

    OK, add me to the list of teary-eyed peo­ple typ­ing to you! As you say, Lance, a exam­ple of true car­ing that these teens will never forget!

    Last night as I put the fin­ish­ing touches on my post for today, I wrote these words: “And we cer­tainly can use more love in this crazy world!“
    And here’s an exam­ple of just what we need!

    Thank you so much for shar­ing this, Lance and Laurie.

    Linda Abbit´s last blog post..WOW — I Won a Care­giv­ing Award!

  10. Lance,

    This was pow­er­ful. I agree with Ian we are all on the same side, it just doesn’t look like it.

    I’ve vol­un­teered in a county jail and worked in a prison in my begin­ning days as a coun­selor. How­ever with 27 pris­on­ers I couldn’t do group ther­apy like I was hired to do. So I would bring the “Chicken Soup for the Soul” books and read them sto­ries about over­com­ing obsta­cles. Then I would pass out paper and have them write out a plan for their lives. I knew how to make it fun and make them laugh. That helped. Yet I was tough at the same time.

    Their sto­ries and that job taught me more than I taught them.

    I fig­ured if I was strong enough to do that work I could begin my own pri­vate prac­tice. And I did. Also at the time one of my goals was to be a pro­fes­sional speaker. I was good because I had a capu­tred audi­ence to prac­tice infront with!

    Yup it’s all about con­nec­tion, sup­port and the desire to be will­ing to help oth­ers move for­ward. Thanks for the video.
    And I love, love, love the Dr Suess quote.

    Tess The Bold Life´s last blog post..Bold Love for Feb­ru­ary 14th

  11. rummuser says:

    What a story and what a post! This inspires me to try some­thing over here about which I shall let you know in due course.

    rummuser´s last blog post..Grannymar’s Story Of How She and Jack Got Together.

  12. Suz says:

    What an inspi­ra­tional video. I hope we all take into account what we can do for those around us! Being their for these kids is giv­ing them a sense of value.… what bet­ter way to help them turn their lives around! Awesome!

  13. Jay says:

    I almost said I did not have 5 min­utes, but since I knew I would be inspired, I said go for it. What a beau­ti­ful story. Eyes all welled up now though so I need to com­pose myself before I move for­ward, so this took really about 10 min­utes– worth every sec­ond. :-) — thanks Lance!

    Jay´s last blog post..The Need To Cre­ate a Balance

  14. Jennifer says:

    Wow Lance!!! I can see this mes­sage touched a lot of peo­ple. I almost cried too. I’m left almost speech­less. I can’t get over how much this mes­sage is like the one I’m writ­ing about in my post this week. It’s not quite ready yet, but soon… This video illus­trates it per­fectly — It illus­trates God’s love in it’s purest form.

    Jennifer´s last blog post..Stress — Pre­ven­tion and Relief

  15. This mes­sage is espe­cially impor­tant dur­ing times of finan­cial tur­moil, because peo­ple tend to become really cyn­i­cal and focus on their own needs dur­ing tough times. Thank you!

  16. Annette says:

    you don’t know how often I think of how it’s the lit­tle things that make change pos­si­ble and this world sud­denly becomes a bet­ter place :)

    Annette´s last blog post..HYC Check in–hot topic ques­tion ;)

  17. Marelisa says:

    Hi Lance: I loved this video. It’s so impor­tant for young peo­ple to have sup­port. I once read that noth­ing is more impor­tant in how you’ll turn out in life than hav­ing two peo­ple who think you’re the most impor­tant per­son in the world. Kids who don’t have that tend to have a really dif­fi­cult start in life.

    Marelisa´s last blog post..40 Fun Ideas

  18. Liara Covert says:

    Car­ing is uncon­di­tional, unwa­ver­ing and impul­sive unless human con­di­tion­ing pre­vents it. You either resist or you yield to your inner voice. It guides you on a path you are meant to follow.

    Liara Covert´s last blog post..6 Strate­gies to leave your com­fort zone

  19. Great video, Lance. Thanks for encour­ag­ing us to watch that.

    Dara Chadwick´s last blog post..Who Is That Belted Woman?

  20. Mark says:

    Lance,
    Thank-you so much for shar­ing this video! Wow! The power we have to impact each oth­ers life is immense! This was love at it’s finest! I am inspired!

    Mark´s last blog post..A Story of Love

  21. Caroline says:

    So many of us for­get that we can make a dif­fer­ence. Per­haps we think, I alone, can’t make a dif­fer­ence. Not true! It just begins with a smile, a thank you or vol­un­teer­ing time. Each of us are light workers…it just comes down to tak­ing the first step…

    Caroline´s last blog post..Seek­ing validation…

  22. Thanks. I wish I could have been there root­ing too.

    Jean Browman–Cheerful Monk´s last blog post..The Joys of Procrastination

  23. Laurie says:

    Thanks to Lau­rie? Who’s that? That girl never has any­thing good to say. Some­one aught to take her key­board away!

    I’m glad you liked the video Lance (and every­one). I thought it spoke so much about the effects of a kind human heart on oth­ers so need­ing the ges­ture. We never know our affects on oth­ers. So why not see if those affects can be pos­i­tive. Teach­ers get the joy of doing some­thing like this all the time. It’s why teach­ing is such a blessing.

  24. We can never give up. That’s what this video says to me. No mat­ter who we think we are we are cham­pi­ons if we believe in our own resolve.

    Awe­some video. A per­fect end to my day.

    Karl Staib — Work Happy Now´s last blog post..Cel­e­brate the Google Way

  25. Great arti­cle and that video was the first time I have watched Amer­i­can foot­ball in years.I am Bay­ern Munchen/Man U fan.

    It is won­der­ful to see so many peo­ple share their hap­pi­ness with oth­ers.
    This should be done on a daily basis.

    Thank you– this was a great sub­ject to share.

    Bunny got Blog´s last blog post..What Does It Take To Be An Entrepreneur?

  26. Lance says:

    @Rupal — My first thought when I saw this was — 5 min­utes! That’s too long right now. And then, I thought, maybe I’d just watch a bit of it — and I was drawn in imme­di­ately. So many moments of real car­ing — and you could just feel how much that meant to these boys…

    @Chase — That’s just it, Chase — lit­tle things can be so huge. What we see as small, to some­one else that can be huge! Like stand­ing on the oppo­site side of the field, and cheer­ing for the other team. Sim­ple, yet life-changing…

    @Ian — I’m glad you decided to watch it, Ian. The mes­sage is so much more than foot­ball! Or win­ning. I love that thought — we are all on the same side, even when we com­pete against each other — we are all humans here on this earth, and through just that — we are con­nected. (and I like soc­cer too — my kids all play — that prob­a­bly has some­thing to do with it!!)

    @Audra — You know, Audra, I first watched this over lunch, at work — not the place to do this!! It really pulls at your heart­strings. And I think it does, because — deep down — we are all the same. And we’ve prob­a­bly all been there — maybe not to that degree — but we’ve been there where we’ve felt left out, shunned, not accepted. Thanks so much Audra.

    @LisaNewton — We all make mis­takes. Admit­tedly, not all are as “bad” as what some of these boys have done. Still, how much of what they have done is com­ing from their home life grow­ing up — giv­ing them a false start in the game of life. And they do deserve another chance. And when we really think about our­selves in all of this — really think about it — that’s what brings those tears to the sur­face. And in see­ing good, they become tears of real joy and peace.

    @Stacey Ship­man — I think you’re exactly right, Stacey. In the absence of love and car­ing, we’ll search for some­thing else to replace that which is miss­ing. Crime can fill that void, either as a means, or as a means to an end. And what a touch­ing story you’ve shared. All this guy prob­a­bly wanted was to feel loved, to feel impor­tant, to feel like he mat­tered. The obvi­ous choices in this sit­u­a­tion would be to sub­mit to the crim­i­nal, or to fight back. Yet, what was it that resolved the con­flict — and maybe even pre­vented fur­ther ones from hap­pen­ing — hon­est and car­ing lan­guage. Stacey, thank you for this today.

    @Mark Sali­nas — Thanks Mark, it really is powerful!

    @Ryan — Life is a lot bet­ter if we have peo­ple there for us. Will­ing to “go to bat” for us. Lov­ing us…

  27. Lance says:

    @Linda — How much “bad” could we remove from our world — if we just “loved” more? Real and true car­ing can make all the dif­fer­ence. And I’ll be over shortly to see what you wrote about Linda. It’s great to see you here today Linda — thanks for stop­ping in…

    @Tess — We are all on the human side — all of us. Wow, Tess. What a great thing you did for those you coun­seled while in jail — what a great way to change lives. (includ­ing yours — I appre­ci­ate very much your hon­esty here). The Dr. Seuss quote — as soon as I saw this, I knew I needed to use it in this post. Thank for all you’ve shared here today Tess — your words give hope to me…

    @Rummuser — Thank you Ramana. I look for­ward to hear­ing what you do — inspired action, that’s wonderful!

    @Suz — That’s the thing — it might be just what these boys need to turn their lives around — by sim­ply have fans for a night! Sim­ple. Pro­found. Awesome!

    @Jay — Sorry about that Jay, I should have said ten min­utes! In our world today, it’s easy to get wrapped up in time con­straints — and some­times that leads to us miss­ing some of life’s great moments. I’m glad you took the time to watch this — I had the same exact thought when I first saw it’s length. Yet, I’ve now watched it sev­eral times — and it moves me every time.

    @Jennifer — This mes­sage touched many, includ­ing me. It’s dif­fi­cult to watch this and not let our emo­tions sur­face. God love’s us all — and works through us, as instru­ments to spread that love. This coach, and all those he recruited to help out in this cause — are real exam­ples of God’s love in action. Beau­ti­ful. And now…I’m look­ing for­ward to what you’re writ­ing Jennifer!

    @Vered — Great point Vered. Dur­ing times when money may not be flow­ing as eas­ily as it has in the past — our incli­na­tion can some­times be to hoard what we have — our money, our time, our love. Yet — I say this is maybe the best time to be more open with these gifts of ours…when the world around us is in great need…Thank you Vered, for this thought.

    @Annette — That’s great Annette — keep those thoughts right where they are — in the fore­front of your mind. And con­tinue to be a gift to all those around you…

  28. Lance says:

    @Marelisa — Hi Mare. It’s such an emo­tion­ally touch­ing video — and not nec­es­sar­ily what you’d expect from a foot­ball game. I think the sta­tis­tics would con­firm exactly what you’re talk­ing about — how bro­ken homes and fam­ily lives are where a major­ity of our crim­i­nals come from. Because they’re not get­ting the love and fam­ily sup­port at home — their ‘fam­ily’ becomes some­thing else — drugs, crimes, gangs, etc. And here was just a small effort to show these boys that they are cared for, that they mat­ter — and I’m guess­ing that might be just enough for some of the boys to turn their life around…from one foot­ball game.

    @Liara — Human con­di­tion­ing — pre­vent­ing us form uncon­di­tional love. So, in that I hear that it’s within us all — uncon­di­tional love — except that we have become con­di­tioned over time. That’s really a pow­er­ful thought, Liara. Lis­ten­ing to that inner voice…so impor­tant to really liv­ing our life truly as we were meant to live it!

    @Data — I’m happy to hear you liked it — it’s so pow­er­ful, and packed with emotion.

    @Mark — Yes! We have so much power to do good in this world — and it can be as sim­ple as who we cheer for! Here, it’s a foot­ball game. And it has me think­ing — who else is there that I know — who could use some­one pro­vid­ing a lit­tle more love in their lives. And that’s a great thought to have — and inspiring!

    @Caroline — We think that our small efforts can’t make a dif­fer­ence. And I argue it’s quite the oppo­site — some­times it’s the small things, per­formed in true love and ser­vice, that mean more than any­thing else. Being a light worker — I love that Car­o­line — that’s some­thing we all can do — as we spread our light out to others!

    @Jean Brow­man — Being in this moment at the foot­ball game — how mov­ing that had to be! Thanks Jean!

    @Laurie — Yeah, who is this Lau­rie char­ac­ter any­way!! Some­one ought to take her key­board away and give her two brand new ones! Thanks so much for shar­ing this with me Lau­rie. Look at how mov­ing this has been for so many (myself and my wife included). We never do know what the effects of our actions will be — for good or for bad. Teach­ing, while it can be dif­fi­cult at times, being able to be a pos­i­tive role model for kids, and to really make an impres­sion, is a bless­ing teach­ers really do get. So, to all the teach­ers out there, who spend count­less hours work­ing with our future gen­er­a­tions — thank you! You are appreciated!

    @Karl — Never giv­ing up — a great way to view this video, Karl. At times, it can seem easy to give up, in this case, on life. Yet, if we keep at it, and espe­cially if we find love and car­ing in our world, life can turn around com­pletely. And that’s pretty great!

    @Bunny — You picked a great video to watch Amer­i­can foot­ball — there’s so much to the mes­sage here beyond the game. Shar­ing hap­pi­ness — I love that Bunny! And that’s some­thing we can all do. You are a soc­cer fan, yes? I like soc­cer too — espe­cially when my kids are play­ing it! Great to see you here today!

  29. SpinDiva says:

    Lance,
    The video was def­i­nitely a tear­jerker for me as well. What an inspi­ra­tion and it is amaz­ing how a lit­tle sup­port, love, ded­i­ca­tion can make such a huge dif­fer­ence in the life of another. Thanks for shar­ing this with the world.

    SpinDiva´s last blog post..It’s been a year, WOW!

  30. Arswino says:

    Hi Lance, this is truly inspir­ing. I really touched when I fin­ished watch­ing the video. The video taught us the impor­tance of car­ing to build a win­ning team.
    Thanks for shar­ing, Lance.

    Arswino´s last blog post..Life That Can Be Explained In One Sentence

  31. Hey Lance, thank you for shar­ing this video. It’s really inspir­ing to see how just one small action can cre­ate so many other changes, in more astound­ing ways than we can imag­ine. This ties back to your pre­vi­ous Sun­day pon­der post about the rip­ple effect. Never under­es­ti­mate the power of our actions. I’ve stum­bled this! :)

    Celes | EmbraceLiving.Net´s last blog post..Are You Emo­tion­ally Generous?

  32. Hi Lance — Where do you get all of your wis­dom from? For a young man, you cer­tainly know how to inspire oth­ers to open their hearts and minds.

    I love the part where you wrote, “And it’s all about chang­ing the world, one small step at a time.” Often we think as one per­son we can’t do much, but we can. Like a rip­ple in a pond.…

    Bar­bara Swafford´s last blog post..Patri­cia Times Two

  33. Hi Lance, What a beau­ti­ful video. Every­body needs love! This is a great exam­ple of open­ing your heart and let­ting the love flow freely. Look at how those young men received it. It meant so much to them. A night they will never for­get! Today I plan on con­tin­u­ing down my path of get­ting out of self. Small things that I’ve already men­tioned.. Now off to go get some tissues.…

    Natalia Burleson´s last blog post..Weight His­tory Part 1

  34. Michelle says:

    This video has such a pow­er­ful mes­sage. A sim­ple ges­ture can change another person’s day or life. As Natalia said, ‘every­body needs love’ espe­cially when you feel aban­doned and isolated.

    How beau­ti­ful a day can be
    When kind­ness touches it!“
    ~George Elliston

    Thank you Lance.

    Michelle´s last blog post..Live Full, Die Empty (Part 1 of 2)

  35. Lance says:

    @SpinDiva — There is so much inspi­ra­tion in this story — what a dif­fer­ence such a small ges­ture made on these boy’s lives. Pow­er­ful tes­ti­mony to what a lit­tle bit of car­ing can do!

    @Arswino — Hi Arswino. The idea of car­ing is so evi­dent in this video, and that’s what is really so inspir­ing as well. That by car­ing, even just a lit­tle, what an affect we can have on oth­ers. Beau­ti­ful message…

    @Celes — Hi Celes. Yes, I hadn’t thought about that — and it’s so in line with that. Thank you! See­ing these things get tied together, it is pow­er­ful for me. And that really is it — I’m sure there is rip­ple effect from this story — both by those directly involved, and by those who have watched the video. And that’s the real beauty of the car­ing we see — how it can grow off of this on action — in ways we’ll never really know for sure.

    @Barbara — Hi Bar­bara. Ha! First off, thanks for the com­pli­ment (and for call­ing my a young man!). My kids like to point out my grey­ing hair, my reced­ing hair­line, my new wrinkles…so I’m lov­ing what you’re say­ing today!! Thank you, young lady! This video is such a great exam­ple of the idea of mak­ing pos­i­tive changes by tak­ing some small steps. And the rip­ple here — this video being viewed by many peo­ple all over the world! Awesome!

    @Natalia — Hi Natalia. What for some of us might be noth­ing new — to them — hav­ing some­one in their cor­ner — was worth more than any­thing. To think that some­one cared about them…how won­der­ful a moment for these boys to expe­ri­ence! And I know you are doing some pretty great things Natalia — you’re an inspi­ra­tion too! Have a great day today, my friend!

    @Michelle — Yes, these kids came from homes where love was prob­a­bly pretty non-existent. And to really feel that love, that car­ing, in their lives — how pow­er­ful a moment that must have been. And, Michelle, thank you so much for shar­ing the George Ellis­ton quote — I love it. And it fits the mes­sage here so well!

  36. I’m the mother of a foot­ball player and my son’s team actu­ally played a team like this last sea­son. I wish they’d allowed us to sit on the oppo­site side for I would have done so. Instead, I cheered from the home side — acutely aware of the lack of “fans” on the visitor’s side for that par­tic­u­lar game.

    Kathy | Vir­tual Impax´s last blog post..Social Media — Infor­ma­tion Mov­ing in Real Time

  37. Jennifer says:

    This idea of instru­ment you men­tioned… That’s been on my heart a lot lately. God can use us all as instru­ments, but when we really allow Him to use us that way as this coach and fans did, then that’s when real dif­fer­ences are made. The more we make our­selves avail­able to be used the more good is done.

    Jennifer´s last blog post..Beyond Valentine’s Day

  38. Cricket says:

    Oh Lance…let me wipe away a tear that is falling. You know my his­tory with lov­ing sports. This is so touch­ing. So touch­ing. This applies to real every­day life so much. I look back on Christ­mas when we took in strangers to our home and this is the same emo­tion. I haven’t been nor­mal since that day. Each day when I awake I feel a strange rush to go find some­one that needs me.

    Truly won­der­ful Lance and so are you.

    Cricket´s last blog post..The Sea

  39. SpaceAgeSage -- Lori says:

    Lance and Lau­rie –
    Thanks for a heart­warm­ing and inspir­ing video! It cer­tainly brought tears to my eyes, too. The power of true car­ing and gen­eros­ity always amazes me.

  40. femalebrains says:

    a really cool idea, that — on the short run — made a dif­fer­ence, but still a very sad story, but maybe one should be more optimistic…

    femalebrains´s last blog post..Make and Dis­play VR Panoramas

  41. Liara Covert says:

    Team sports prompt peo­ple to real­ize they no longer need to pre­tend to iden­tify with any­thing other than what you are. Team­mates rev­ela dif­fer­ent lev­els of abil­ity, expe­ri­ence, self-confidence and ini­tia­tive. You gain insight into your­self from all angles.

    Liara Covert´s last blog post..5 Tips to develop aikido-monk awareness

  42. B J Keltz says:

    Wow, Lance, not sure I have much to add…except that I will spread this video to my friends and family.

    God bless that coach and the will­ing fans.

    B J Keltz´s last blog post..10 Daily Habits Writ­ers Should Cultivate

  43. Now, to me THAT is what hope is really all about. Peo­ple car­ing enough about other human beings. Those boys may never be the same again, could be the turn­ing point in their lives.

    Jan­nie Funster´s last blog post..Armani Con­dom Heart — Inappropriate?

  44. Lance says:

    @Kathy|Virtual Impax — And that can be so dif­fi­cult — espe­cially being aware of the sit­u­a­tion. Your heart was in the right place Kathy, even if you weren’t in the phys­i­cal cheer­ing sec­tion of the team with­out much cheering.

    @Jennifer — Hi again Jen­nifer, thanks for stop­ping back in! The key here is the word “allow” — when we “allow” God in to our hearts — and “allow” Him to direct us — great things can hap­pen — many of them one small step at a time. We are those instru­ments of good — whether we mak­ing a large impact on many, or a small impact on one. It all matters…

    @Cricket — Hi Tammy. Yes, I know you’re at sport­ing events as much as we are here! It’s like a home away from home, isnt’ it! The emo­tions in this video run high, and you’re so right — that what we see here on a foot­ball field applies just as much to our every­day lives. Just like what you did at Christ­mas Tammy! Maybe it’s really just shifted your “nor­mal” to a new dimen­sion. And, not to sound like I’m just copy­ing you — what you’ve done here — that is won­der­ful — and that’s also just like YOU!

    @Lori — There is so much emo­tion in what tran­spires in this foot­ball game — in such won­der­ful ways. Sim­ple acts can mean the dif­fer­ence between despair and pure joy! It doesn’t take much…

    @Femalebrains — This a very cool idea. And I think if we do look at this from an opti­mistic angle — there is so much good being done, and being received. How much will it really help, once these boys get back into noral life behind bars? I like to think that some of them will remem­ber this — and will remem­ber that some­one cared. And that will be enough for them to believe. Will it help all of them? Although I can’t say for sure, I would guess that the answer is no. Still, even if one of these boys is affected enough by this that he turns his life around — then it has been all worth it, and then some…

    @Liara — Teams play together as a team. In the case of this video, the audi­ence that joined the oppos­ing side­lines really became part of that team for the night. And together — they won. Maybe not win­ning the game. But win­ning in life — for once — they left with their head held high…

    @BJ Keltz — Hi BJ! Yes, spread this — that’s one way right there that you can spread good. This coach and the fans he recruited — amaz­ing indi­vid­u­als work­ing together that night!

    @Jannie — I think that’s exactly it Jan­nie. This moment may be a turn­ing point in their lives — and even if it is for only one of them — it has been worth it. These boys won that night — they won in their hearts — because they were given hope. Some­thing few, if any, of them have really seen in their lives. And that’s all so powerful!

  45. Miz says:

    lance lance

    not only do I love the video but Im in the process of get­ting that seuss quote tat­tooed on me :)

    need I say more…

    Miz´s last blog post..P-P-PunkRope!

  46. Andrew says:

    It was cer­tainly a very mov­ing story and it rep­re­sented a won­der­ful ini­tia­tive from the coach.

    Every­one deserves a sec­ond chance.

    Andrew´s last blog post..Free her — Fiat’s big call on Burma (part 2)

  47. Mark Salinas says:

    Have a fan­tas­tic week­end my friend! Enjoy Valen­tines day! :)

  48. Liara Covert says:

    Win­ning is a state of mind.

    Liara Covert´s last blog post..7 Tips for cop­ing & disallowing

  49. Robin says:

    Hi there Lance — I really believe that all healthy peo­ple (healthy phys­i­cally and emo­tion­ally) instinc­tively help other peo­ple and the earth when­ever it is called for. I look to being the best I can be, because I know this is what helps oth­ers most, in the long run. Cheers!

    Robin´s last blog post..Fires In Victoria

  50. Evita says:

    Wow Lance, three things I have to share here:

    First, wow that video was amaz­ing, I am not a big fan of foot­ball so I wasn’t sure what to expect and then I found I actu­ally had real tears in my eyes (need­less to say I was very pleas­antly surprised)

    Two, it never sur­prises me how much dif­fer­ence one per­son can make!

    And Three you started off this post with one of my most favorite and life chang­ing quotes from Dr. Dyer. It is a mir­a­cle when we apply this wis­dom and see what hap­pens in our life!

    Evita´s last blog post..The Help­ful and Harm­ful Side of Stress

  51. Hi Lance
    What ring the loud­est in me was when they say, “For the first time ever, some­one was in there cor­ner, and that is all that mat­ter.” No mat­ter who we are, we all need some­one in our cor­ner some­time. We are all the same.
    Thank you for this.
    Gio­vanna Gar­cia
    Imper­fect Action is bet­ter than No Action

    Gio­vanna Garcia´s last blog post..A Day to Cel­e­brate You.

  52. Lance says:

    @Miz — This was a new Seuss quote to me — and I loved it as soon as I read it! It’ll be an awe­some addi­tion to your body, Miz­Tat­tooLady! And you need not say more…that says a lot about you right there — and it’s all very awe­some — just like you always have been!

    @Andrew — Some­times a sec­ond chance is all we need to really get back on track. Espe­cially when the first chance we’ve had may not have been the most ideal sit­u­a­tion to have been in. And I’m guess­ing that for most, if not all, of these boys — they came from a child­hood where they were des­tined to a life of trou­ble. This may have been there first real moment of caring…

    @Mark Sali­nas — You too, Mark — have a GREAT Valentine’s day!

    @Liara — Yes, win­ning is a state of mind — and hav­ing car­ing peo­ple in our cor­ner can really help to uplift that state of mind we have. Great point Liara!

    @Robin — Hi Robin. That’s a great addi­tion to this dis­cus­sion — when we’re healthy phys­i­cally and emo­tion­ally (and prob­a­bly more so emo­tion­ally) — we are bet­ter equipped to rec­og­nize and help oth­ers. And, in so doing, I think we also con­tinue to become more healthy our­selves, like a great cir­cle to be on!

    @Evita — Even if you don’t enjoy the game of foot­ball, this video is still so inspir­ing. It’s so much more about life pos­si­bilites than it is about foot­ball. And, in see­ing what a dif­fer­ence one per­son (the coach in this case) can make — I do believe that inspires us to know that we CAN make a dif­fer­ence as well. Small steps to us can be huge to some­one else. And, the Dr. Dyer quote sums it up so nicely — it really is how we look at things. Look­ing at them and see­ing the bad or the neg­a­tive, begets the same. See­ing the pos­si­bil­ity in every­thing — that makes the pos­si­bil­i­ties so much more attain­able. And that is a very uplift­ing mes­sage — and one that can serve us well. Let’s keep apply­ing that Evita — you, me, every­one who reads this. And see the mir­a­cles hap­pen before us! Won­der­ful, as always Evita, thanks so much for your heart­felt comments.

    @Giovanna — We are all the same. We’ve all been knocked down at one time or another — maybe not knocked down as much as these boys had been — still, though, to a degree, we can all relate. And know that hav­ing some­one stick­ing up for us, being in our cor­ner, can make all the dif­fer­ence! Thanks much Giovanna!

  53. brandi says:

    Lance-I loved this story when I read it.…several times. And I teared up every time I read it. I hadn’t seen the video about it-thank you for sharing.

    this story is espe­cially won­der­ful to me as I live in grapevine and I am thrilled to see such a pure exam­ple of what true broth­er­hood and fel­low­ship and love really are right in my own backyard.

    brandi´s last blog post..my take on joy and grief

  54. miruspeg says:

    I don’t cry eas­ily Lance but as I was watch­ing this video tears were rolling down my face.
    It must have been the words those peo­ple were speak­ing.
    I am a great believer in the rip­ple effect.

    I vol­un­teer at a dis­ad­van­taged school one day a week and we believe in the slo­gan “Each one Teach one”. The kids respect us and we respect them and slowly these kids learn right from wrong and walk tall when they go out into the world.

    Thank you Lance for open­ing up my heart.
    Hugs
    Peggy

  55. Lance, I almost didn’t watch this because I thought it was going to be some stereo­typ­i­cal foot­ball “Go, go, go. You can do it” clip. But wow, that was beau­ti­ful. Totally choked me up and set me in an open hearted mood for the day. I’m going to share this video around because every­one needs to see it. We don’t have to do any­thing big to change someone’s life, and we are all respon­si­ble for lift­ing our fel­low human beings. It’s not the job of the per­son next to you. It’s all of our jobs. We don’t have to aspire to be Gandhi, char­ity doesn’t just involve money, and the best thing you can ever give some­one is love, con­sid­er­a­tion and respect for their human­ity. Peo­ple who feel respected and included and val­ued do great things and want to be bet­ter than they were before. It’s a sim­ple truth, and it’s within all of our power to give some­one that accep­tance and respect.

    Thank you. This post was a gift.

    Kelly

    Kelly@SHE-POWER´s last blog post..Vic­to­ria Burns and a Nation Weeps

  56. Mike King says:

    Lance that power of an idea car­ried for­ward, great stuff. It’s always sur­pris­ing how sports become so com­pet­i­tive and really even destroy­ing of many peo­ple. This video shows how sports are meant to be played, meant to impact oth­ers and the effects it can have on all involved regard­less of that mean­ing­less win that is usu­ally so dominant.

    Mike King´s last blog post..What Does Work­ing Hard Mean to You?

  57. Lance says:

    @Brandi — This is such a won­der­ful story — and the first I’d heard of it when I saw this video. That this is in your own back­yard — wow — even more pow­er­ful. So close to home! And a great exam­ple of true broth­er­hood. Thank you Brandi.

    @Miruspeg — There is so much emo­tion in this video — tears can come eas­ily. The words we heard — how pow­er­ful mov­ing they were! And what a great thing you’re doing, Peggy, at the school you help out at. Thank you for shar­ing part of your story, my friend…

    @Kelly — This video does really open our hearts up. I found it to be a pow­er­fully mov­ing expe­ri­ence watch­ing it (sev­eral times). Wow, you’ve said this so well, Kelly. Your writ­ing here about chang­ing lives — that is a gift to me — thank you for writ­ing such heart-felt words.

    @Mike — A great point Mike — some­times we get so wrapped up in wins and losses — we lose sight of the big­ger pic­ture — cama­raderie, work­ing together, true sports­man­ship, etc, etc. Thanks for shar­ing that thought.

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