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Sunday Thought For The Day

A glimpse of Nirvana
Creative Commons License photo credit: Frozen Cof­fee

“As we let our light shine, we con­sciously give other peo­ple per­mis­sion to do the same. As we are lib­er­ated from our own fear, our pres­ence actu­ally lib­er­ates oth­ers.” ~ Mar­i­anne Williamson

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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  1. Dave Fowler says:

    It’s odd but you really can feel the pres­ence of such peo­ple. You can pick them out a mile away.

    If I’m to be fully lib­er­ated from my own fear I need to spend more time with inspi­ra­tional people.

    Thanks Lance.

    Dave

  2. Stacey says:

    It’s true. Last sum­mer I took a work­shop on med­i­ta­tion. One of the par­tic­i­pants asked “How do I teach this to oth­ers?” The instruc­tor sim­ply said “live it your­self and oth­ers will notice.”

    We can only help our­selves, and those who are ready will see that and get curious.

  3. Dave,
    I don’t think there is any­thing odd about what you just said. Every­one gives off energy and I don’t mean in somw woo-woo type of way. Ever noticed how you can spend an hour with one per­son and feel ener­gized, pumped up and con­fi­dent about your goals and the future and another hour with a dif­fer­ent per­son and all of your energy is drained and the world feels dim?

    The choices we makes about who and what to be around every day affect us very deeply but we aren’t always aware of it.

    Wendi Kelly-Life’s Lit­tle Inspi­ra­tionss last blog post..Giv­ing Back to the Givers

  4. Jim Gaudet says:

    True, I feel like “the Secret” does work. If you are happy and can feel happy you will be happy. Same goes for sad..

    So be happy.

    Nice blog, I found you Michael’s blog (remarkablogger).

    I have sub­scribed to your blog please check mine out and sub­scribe if you like it.

    Thanks,

  5. Dave Fowler says:

    Wendi,
    I guess it’s not that odd, I’ve expe­ri­enced it enough but for some rea­son it doesn’t feel like it should be possible.

    You know when you just know some­one is look­ing at you… I won­der if it’s linked to the same sort of thing? Energy?

  6. I agree with this great quote. When we show strength and courage in life we absolutely inspire oth­ers to do the same.

    That is why our happy spirit is a kind­ness to others.

    A poignant exam­ple would be express­ing a warm smile to some­one you cross in the street. They will be pos­i­tively effected by your state of mind.

    Bam­boo Forests last blog post..The Stain Demon Can and Will Taint Your Life

  7. Lanceman says:

    @Dave — We really can “feel” people’s light shin­ing. And then, we can decide if we want to asso­ciate with the type of “light” they are shin­ing. It’s in the power of choice that we can decide what kind of life we want. And, so we can choose to be inspi­ra­tional, and to asso­ciate with those that have the same val­ues. And in doing so, we have the pos­si­bil­ity of shar­ing that light with others.

    And I do think that when we just know some­one is look­ing at us — that’s a great real­iza­tion that we may be hav­ing an impact on some­one else — and what do we want that impact to be…

    @Stacey — This reminds me of another quote when I read what you wrote — from Gandhi — “Be the change you wish to see in this world”. Peo­ple can hear us talk, but in see­ing what we do — that is what may pass on to them, when they are ready.

    @Wendi — I agree Wendi, and thanks for respond­ing. You said it so well. We all give off energy, good or bad. We have the abil­ity to choose what we give off — choose the types of energy that you are proud to share with others.

    @Jim — Yes, when I feel happy, I also believe that I out­wardly por­tray happy. And like­wise, when I’m not happy, that is also what is por­trayed. And peo­ple pick up on that. And that can then rub off on them. Good or bad. What­ever we’re por­tray­ing. So, if we choose to shine our light brightly, oth­ers will pick up on that as well.

    @Bamboo For­est — A warm smile is such an easy thing to give to oth­ers. And who knows what that might mean to the per­son we just passed. It might be just what they needed to brighten their day a lit­tle. That’s the thing, this can be so easy — to be a light that shines brightly — if we’d just start with sim­ple acts of kindness.

  8. Annette says:

    the quote reminds me of the song we used to sing in Sun­day School as a kid “This lit­tle light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine”.…

    Some­times we get so bogged down with wor­ries and “stuff” we for­get how easy it is to let our light shine! The kids and I walked to church this morn­ing and spent the walk home after­wards just chat­ting with peo­ple along the way. I think we shined pretty bright.…..the three of us :)

    Annettes last blog post..Tips from Toddlers

  9. Thanks for the reminder that I should be proud of let­ting myself shine. Some­times there’s a lit­tle voice in the back of my head say­ing “who do you think you are to let your light shine.” Most of the time I ignore this voice…but I still hear it.

    Happy Sun­day!

    Stacey / Cre­ate­a­Bal­ances last blog post..How to Syn­chro­nize Your Authen­tic Voice

  10. Tammy Warren says:

    This is so true. I find myself wanted to be around peo­ple that are happy. This also includes blogs. I tend to seek some sort of energy from those that speak/write from within themselves.

    Tammy War­rens last blog post..Walk away with a smile

  11. Lanceman says:

    @Annette — Yes that song does fit this pretty good, doesn’t it!! I really enjoy lis­ten­ing to the kids sing it, and, in fact, I think we have all sung it a cou­ple of times. What a great way to be “light” today — mak­ing the world a brighter place!

    @Stacey/CreateaBalance — I have that same feel­ing some­times — let’s just be ordi­nary, not extra­or­di­nary. But I for­get that when I shine, I help oth­ers to shine also. Maybe it feels like we’re going out on a limb all by our­selves, or we’re tak­ing a chance with our heart. Shine any­way. This reminds of the song by Mar­tina McBride — “Do It Any­way” — about doing what­ever “it” is for us, no mat­ter what oth­ers think, or say. Do it any­way. You never know who might be listening…

    @Tammy — We grav­i­tate toward what makes us happy. What makes some­one happy is not the same for every­one, but I think there are cer­tain qual­i­ties that we iden­tify with hap­pi­ness. All we can do is be the light we have within us, and shine it as brightly as pos­si­ble! We may not always know it, but that light can be shin­ing onto some­one else just when they need it.

  12. Jenny says:

    This is so true. There are a lot of times when I am afraid to do some­thing or am hes­i­tat­ing, but after watch­ing other peo­ple and observ­ing their actions it gives me the strength I need to do what­ever it is I need to. The biggest influ­ence and inspi­ra­tion I get is from Miss Wendi! She is very good at not only doing things on her own but always makes me believe in myself to do things!

    Gor­geous pic­ture too! Very Inspiring!

    Jen­nys last blog post..Laugh­ter is the Best Medicine

  13. FitMom says:

    Fan­tas­tic quote. Love the com­ment as well that if you can live it, peo­ple will see it. Some­thing to aspire too.

    Fit­Moms last blog post..Booty got kicked!

  14. CG Walters says:

    Another won­der­ful quote, Lance­man.
    Thank you,
    CG

    CG Wal­terss last blog post..Syn­chronic­ity and my Play­ful Mentor

  15. Lanceman says:

    @Jenny — Some­times that’s all it takes — see­ing in oth­ers the light they shine! Wendi is a great exam­ple of some­one who shows much light through her writ­ing. Her com­ments always are uplift­ing — in fact, they radi­ate light!

    @FitMom — Thanks! It really speaks vol­umes about the impor­tance of our actions and what they con­vey as well.

    @CG Wal­ters — Thanks!

  16. Thanks for the inspi­ra­tional quote. I’d like to think that as I work on my own neg­a­tive issues, those around me can start to expe­ri­ence more light!

    Eve­lyn Lim | Attrac­tion Mind Maps last blog post..An Enchant­ing Vision From My Angels

  17. Mark Salinas says:

    Nice quote!

    Mark Sali­nass last blog post..The Active Child with Ros­abel Yip

  18. It’s true! While it’s impor­tant to live your life to the fullest and be fear­less for YOU, there’s no doubt in my mind that it also helps others.

    Vered — Mom­Grinds last blog post..You Read Women’s Mag­a­zines? I’ll Give You Ten Rea­sons To Stop

  19. Marelisa says:

    I think that any human being who breaks any kind of bar­rier shows every­one else what we are all capa­ble of. That’s why peo­ple are so in awe of those like Michael Jor­dan: if he can fly, maybe I can fly too.

    Marelisas last blog post..How to Make Decisions

  20. Cath Lawson says:

    Hi Lance — what an awe­some quote and pic­ture. If we are pos­i­tive and happy — it cer­tainly does affect oth­ers around us.

    Cath Law­sons last blog post..47 Bril­liant Blog Mar­ket­ing Resources

  21. Lanceman says:

    @Evelyn — I think peo­ple pick up on what­ever light we have shin­ing. I see a bright and pos­i­tive light com­ing from you Evelyn!

    @Mark — Thanks!

    @Vered — And that’s the great news — what we do can reflect onto oth­ers. So we have the oppor­tu­nity to share our light with others!

    @Marelisa — Michael Jor­dan is a great exam­ple of shin­ing his light. He did phe­nom­e­nal things on the bas­ket­ball court, and it gave many oth­ers some­thing to strive for, some­thing that was possible.

    @Cath — What an easy way for us to share our light — through some­thing as sim­ple as being happy.

  22. Hi Lance,

    I love this quote and all of Mar­i­anne Williamson’s writ­ings. She nails it!

    Bar­bara Swaf­fords last blog post..NBOTW — Putting His Spin On It

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