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Sunday Thought For The Day

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“Never under­es­ti­mate the impor­tance of hav­ing fun. I’m dying and I’m hav­ing fun. And I’m going to keep hav­ing fun every day, because there’s no other way to play it.” ~ Randy Pausch

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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  1. Linda Abbit says:

    What truth, Lance. Actu­ally, we’re all dying every day, and there­fore we should be liv­ing just as much every day.

    My motto is “Live each day likes it’s your birthday.”

    Happy Thanks­giv­ing.

    Linda Abbit´s last blog post..Funny Fri­days: Because It’s Bet­ter to Laugh than to Cry!

  2. Davina says:

    Hi Lance. This reminds me of the movie The Bucket List. Did you see it? It illus­trated this con­cept very well, and… I’ll pretty much watch any movie with Jack Nichol­son in it. I like the photo you’ve cho­sen. They’re prac­ti­cally flying.

    Davina´s last blog post..Small Steps To Empower Your Attitude

  3. When I read this I won­dered, ‘what is fun’?

    Then I con­sid­ered if I could choose between doing some­thing that I found fulfilling/satisfying/worthwhile or fun which would I choose? Inter­est­ingly my answer is the ful­fill­ing stuff, but it is not clear cut.

    Because I find that satisfaction/fulfillment comes from enjoy­ing what I have done/doing, which can’t be that far off from being called fun. I guess it is a par­tic­u­lar per­son­al­ity trait.

    Jar­rod — War­rior Development´s last blog post..Liv­ing Within an Inch of Your Life

  4. Hi Lance — This is a won­der­ful quote (and per­fect pic­ture). I often think, if today is going to be my last, how do I want to live it? When I think about it, there’s no room for pet­ti­ness or hatred. Life is meant to be lived and I try to squeeze as much as I can into each day, includ­ing lots of fun, laugh­ter and kind­ness. Randy Pausch was a remark­able man, wasn’t he?

    Bar­bara Swaf­ford — Blog­ging With­out A Blog´s last blog post..You Asked For It — What About My Avatar

  5. Ross says:

    Hi Lance — I re-read this quote 3 or 4 times and I’ve dis­cov­ered its quite an inter­est­ing quote! It’s funny how often we miss this essence of life: Fun! I come across so many peo­ple who have given up on life, and have a real ‘poor me, woah is me’ out­look. I really want to live my life as Randy sug­gests. Have a great day! (and have some fun)

    Ross´s last blog post..Career paths vs hap­pi­ness: which road are you on?

  6. Liara Covert says:

    Plea­sure is a state of mind. It is rel­a­tive. Human beings often evolve to under­stand what fun is not before they grasp what it is. Life expe­ri­ence is a teacher.

    Liara Covert´s last blog post..Why resist the inevitable?

  7. MizFit says:

    amaz­ing. amaz­ingly sad.
    A friend lost her YOUNGYOUNG hus­band this week­end but he was an inspi­ra­tion to me for how to live life.

    Im play­ing today. in his mem­ory and for my daugh­ters MEMORIES.

    MizFit´s last blog post..What the (bleep) do we know?!

  8. Annette says:

    what great advice Randy has left for all of us. He seemed to see it all with such clarity.…..God bless him for pass­ing his wis­dom on to us and doing some­thing so gen­er­ous for others!

    Annette´s last blog post..Local Artists

  9. Lance says:

    @Linda — We are all dying…and the other thing is…we never know when the end will come. And that’s a great rea­son right there to make “fun” part of every day! Every­day is your birth­day — I love that Linda! Enjoy your Thanks­giv­ing too…

    @Davina — The Bucket List — yes, I’ve seen it! It’s what spurred me on to begin writ­ing! I love the con­cept behind that movie! And yes, I love that photo too — it just screams “happy” to me!

    @Jarrod — Ful­fill­ment — yes, that’s really an impor­tant aspect also. Ful­fill­ing says to me — it’s meet­ing some deep desire that I have. And that truly is impor­tant. Can some­thing be ful­fill­ing but not fun? I think so. I know it can be both at times. I also think that some­times it’s good just to have some “goofy” fun — to let go, be a lit­tle crazy, act a lit­tle weird. This might not be deeply ful­fill­ing — but it will still just feel “good”.

    @Barbara — Yes, I think this pic­ture fits to the quote just per­fectly — hap­pi­ness is just radi­at­ing from the photo! You’ve got a great atti­tude for mak­ing each day mat­ter — includ­ing get­ting some fun in there! And, yes — Randy Pausch was an amaz­ing indi­vid­ual — what he did in the pres­ence of what he was fac­ing was really awe-inspiring.

    @Ross — I try to make each day have some fun in it. I’m not sure I’ve always done this, but I do now. Randy Pausch is a great exam­ple of doing this — and doing it in spite of the many issues he had in front of him — a death sen­tence included… I will make today fun (you too!)!

    @Liara — Plea­sure is rel­a­tive — what it is for me, it might not be for you. I guess, find­ing what it is for us, each, indi­vid­u­ally — is the key. And life expe­ri­ence is a great teacher in that!

    @MizFit — That is sad, Carla. And a strong reminder — that life can end at any time. Life. Live it. I’m play­ing today too. And you’ve given me great rea­son to do that.

    @Annette — Randy was an image of light in a dark world he faced. Maybe clar­ity comes when we’re given a death sen­tence? Maybe life, and what is impor­tant, stands out more. I think, though, he had it all along. I won­der how close I am to hav­ing that kind of clar­ity in my life. Lots to think about — and an impor­tant point today — have fun! Enjoy your fam­ily today Annette!

  10. I am actu­ally HAVING FUN for the first time in a long time. (I guess this vaca­tion was just what I needed)

    meleah rebeccah´s last blog post..We Have Arrived In Mexico

  11. Jannie says:

    Fun­ster phi­los­o­phy cer­tainly res­onates with me. I Googled Randy Pausch and he see was very inspir­ing to many with his “Really Achiev­ing Your Child­hood Dreams.” What a guy in the face of his cancer.

    Jannie´s last blog post..More price­less than all the golden bras in the world, and the happy fling­ing thereof

  12. Laurie says:

    I love hav­ing fun and mak­ing the every­day expe­ri­ences fun. Some­times the most sim­ple expe­ri­ence can be so much fun. A walk in the woods, sit­ting under a star lit sky, a sur­prise kiss from a lover, a whis­pered mes­sage from God. All of these can excite a heart in a fun way. But I believe some­times you just need some­one to pin you to the ground and give you a good tickle attack! I need to have some fun today. Thanks for this reminder Lance. You’re a timely man with a huge heart!

  13. Mark says:

    I agree! Thanks Lance! Hope your day is FUN! :)

  14. Katie says:

    I love that quote! That whole speech and book are an inspi­ra­tion to everyone!

    Katie´s last blog post..Noth­ing but respect….

  15. Julie says:

    Fun is even more of an ener­getic, emo­tional expres­sion than any of the oth­ers: anger, cry­ing, mop­ing, wor­ry­ing… At least I think it is. With the kind of fun depicted in the photo, Lance, we feel almost bod­i­less, so open and free… Joy is pal­pa­ble! Just think of all the cells in our bod­ies danc­ing and laugh­ing… How could we not feel bet­ter! And I can’t think of a sin­gle other activ­ity that brings such LIFE to us. Some are close, but aren’t as all-consuming as that kind of super-charged fun. What a great way to end/start the week, Lance! Thank you!

    Julie´s last blog post..The Smile

  16. I loved Randy’s book. I appre­ci­ated his new take on old con­cepts like cre­ativ­ity, fam­ily, and encouragement.

    He lived his life to the fullest and his kids will always have a role model because of the videos, book, and sto­ries he left behind.

    Karl — Work Happy Now´s last blog post..No More Com­plain­ing at Work — A Thirty Day Challenge

  17. I like this a lot. We, as souls, came to this phys­i­cal world to play. Some call it Earth School, but I’d rather call it Earth Amuse­ment Park ^_^

    Akemi “spir­i­tual entre­pre­neur” @ Yes to Me´s last blog post..Dreams As Spir­i­tual Messages

  18. Sagan says:

    Beau­ti­ful. Life is all about hav­ing fun!

    Sagan´s last blog post..How to eat a pile of cookie dough

  19. Marelisa says:

    Hi Lance: This reminds me of a quote I ran across while stum­bling yes­ter­day. A kid was asked “What do you want to be when you grow up?” and he answered “happy”. The teacher told him he didn’t under­stand the ques­tion, and he told the teacher she didn’t under­stand life. It’s about being happy and hav­ing fun!

  20. Tammy Warren says:

    Hey Lance!

    Great quote for the day. Life is about liv­ing isn’t it. We have one shot at it and that is now.

    Tammy Warren´s last blog post..Let some­one else pick up the slack

  21. Great quote Lance as we are all dying and I think the point of life is to have fun and be happy. I think this con­fus­ing for many peo­ple who spend too much time think­ing and ana­lyz­ing and less time feel­ing. I think if we teach our kids to FEEL, then they will find it much eas­ier to have fun and enjoy their life, wat­ever their pic­ture of suc­cess is.

    Kelly

  22. Audra Krell says:

    Happy Sun­day Lance! This quote is a great way to start the week. The word “play” is most impor­tant here. Most peo­ple are just let­ting life hap­pen to them. I love the action this quote implies, not only is he going to be happy, but he is actively search­ing hap­pi­ness and fun out. Randy knew how to live and die. May we all be so for­tu­nate — start­ing today!

    Audra Krell´s last blog post..NaNoW­riMo Update

  23. Cath Lawson says:

    Great quote Lance. Randy’s a really inspi­ra­tional guy.

  24. Lance says:

    @Meleah — Hey, that’s great Meleah — enjoy your time away (and have loads of fun)!

    @Jannie — Ha! So, you’re sur­rounded by “Fun” all the time!! Randy was an amaz­ing indi­vid­ual — if you haven’t seen the video, take the time to watch it — it is such a pow­er­ful exam­ple of “liv­ing” life. I’ve also read the book he wrote, as well — great stuff all around!

    @Laurie — Those are all great ways to have fun! I love the “tickle tor­ture” — it’s so much fun to get the kids this way! For some rea­son, they don’t think it’s as “cool” any­more, now that they are get­ting older…and my wife…not tick­lish (usually)…but it’s still worth try­ing — because some­times… Thanks Laurie!

    @Mark — It WAS a fun day today — lots of bas­ket­ball, a lit­tle fire in the back­yard, a trip to the woods…all fun stuff! Hope yours was, as well!

    @Katie — I strug­gled to pick a quote this week — I knew I wanted to use a Randy Pausch quote, and then just had a very hard time choos­ing — in the end — I too, loved this one! And yes, I sec­ond what you’ve said — his “last lec­ture” pre­sen­ta­tion and book are both amaz­ing resources on how we should live our lives!

    @Julie — Yes, the pic­ture just really seems to por­tray free­dom and joy, and in such a won­der­ful way! And I couldn’t agree more, Julie — true joy and hap­pi­ness really do bring “life” alive — more so than any­thing else I can think of! And isn’t that feel­ing great!!

    @Karl — Yes, in a way Randy was lucky. Not in that he got can­cer, and that it claimed his life. But in that he knew he had this death sen­tence. And then he took the time to cre­ate mem­o­ries for his chil­dren that they will have for a life­time — and he did this all in the face of know­ing his time was com­ing to an end. And, I agree — his book is an amaz­ing story of achiev­ing your dreams and liv­ing your life!

  25. Lance says:

    @Akemi — Like the world is our amuse­ment park — how can we not have fun if we think of it like that — that’s very cool Akemi!

    @Sagan — Thank you!

    @Marelisa — That’s an awe­some quote, Mare! That child has it fig­ured out — because what kind of life is it, if we’re not hav­ing any fun?

    @Tammy — Now IS the time Tammy…now IS the time! We just never know what lies ahead, all we can be sure of is this moment in time — and mak­ing it fun sounds like a pretty great way to enjoy “it”!

    @Kelly — “Feel­ing” can be tough…for me (for many). And yet, you’re right — because when we feel, we are lis­ten­ing more to our heart — and what is “true” for us. I think “feel­ing” makes me vul­ner­a­ble — and yet, I also know that it is what brings me the great­est joy… Is that why we some­times have a harder time “feel­ing”? I think so. I think so for me…

    @Audra — Hey Audra, happy Sun­day to you too! “May we all be so for­tu­nate…” — yes, Audra, may we all be so for­tu­nate as to live our lives the way we desire to. Randy did it right, even in dying. “Play” is an impor­tant word — because it means we have to do it (play) some­times to have fun — it doesn’t just hap­pen to us by chance. That’s a great point Audra!

    @Cath — Thanks Cath! Randy was so inspi­ra­tional, and it’s very sad he has departed this world — and yet, his legacy remains — through the many great things he did!

  26. bobbi says:

    love this quote, I need to remem­ber this when I get stessed, and for­get life is for living!!!!

    bobbi´s last blog post..South­ern Living

  27. Evita says:

    Lance that is such a pow­er­ful mes­sage and thank you so much for shar­ing it with the world! We can­not get sick or too tired of hear­ing it. We can­not get bored of hear­ing it, because the truth is most of us are not hear­ing it!

    There really is no bet­ter way to live and most of us are so afraid to try liv­ing this way but it really is soooo good, so free­ing and just so US!

    Happy Sun­day to you too :)

    Evita´s last blog post..Inter­view With Heroes of Heal­ing Founder — Jen­nifer Mannion

  28. Writer Dad says:

    I love Randy! Thanks for the Sun­day thought, Lance.

    Writer Dad´s last blog post..Red­book… an Excerpt Part Duex

  29. Evelyn Lim says:

    The chal­lenge for me is to intro­duce fun even into every­day rou­tines. Aside every­day rou­tines, I’m so glad that I’m doing some­thing that I love. It’s much eas­ier to inject humor & to take things less seriously!!

    Eve­lyn Lim´s last blog post..10 Signs Of A Fake Psychic

  30. Hi Lance,
    Oh how impor­tant it is! I used to get very buried in the “I got­tas” and now I am find­ing a nice bal­ance between get­ting things done and mak­ing sure I have time to just be silly with my kids or do some­thing else I enjoy. What helped me was remind­ing myself “Yes, it is won­der­ful you love what you do — but you’ll be much bet­ter at it if you take a break and do some­thing else for a while”. Thanks for the great quote!
    Love,
    Jenny

    Jenny Mannion´s last blog post..The Recon­nec­tion — A Heal­ing Modal­ity Like No other

  31. Monica says:

    Hi Lance! Thanks for this wis­dom that has arrived on a per­fect day, of coarse.
    I’m vaca­tion­ing at the most beau­ti­ful place right now and let­ting lit­tle things get to me instead of HAVING FUN!! Silly me…thanks for the boost :)

    Monica´s last blog post..I’m Chang­ing My Ways & Sav­ing Trees with ecoBrain

  32. Lance says:

    @Bobbi — I need to remem­ber it too, Bobbi — live life, have fun, play! For some rea­son, I think you’re doing it…already.

    @Evita — Some­times we just drudge through life, doing what we’re told to do. Get up, go to work, come home, go to bed — repeat. And for what? Our moment is now. Indeed, that’s all that’s guar­an­teed. Why do you think we’re afraid to live this way? I think it’s tied to us not want­ing to look “dif­fer­ent”, to us being afraid of step­ping out of our normal-ness we’ve accepted, to us not want­ing explore areas out­side our area of com­fort. Evita, this is just such an excel­lent point you bring up. Thank you — it’s mak­ing me really think about what holds me back some­times from hav­ing fun. And, a very happy Sun­day to you too!!

    @Writer Dad — Randy is great isn’t he — thank you Sean!

    @Evelyn — Where there is love, fun is usu­ally not too far behind. Find­ing ways to make every­day rou­tines fun — I love that idea Eve­lyn! What a great way to make the nor­mal and mun­dane into some­thing fun and enjoyable!

    @Jenny — Great point, there is a bal­ance — and we some­times have to be seri­ous and get things done. But that must be bal­anced with silli­ness, fun, joy, laugh­ter, etc. That is what makes life worth liv­ing. Break­ing away — I did that tonight with my kids — we played a fun game we’ve made up — and essen­tially we run wild through the house. It’s a game they never tire of (although I get tired play­ing it). There’s always laugh­ter and sur­prise — and it’s also a game I thought they would out­grow as they’ve got­ten older — but no — every­one still loves it! And it’s because…it’s FUN! And it was good for me too — to break away and get into some­thing fun and crazy — just like you’ve suggested!

    @Monica — Well, first off, Mon­ica, enjoy your vaca­tion! Some­times it is the lit­tle things that seem to add up to being the biggest annoy­ances. And that’s a per­fect time to inject some fun and crazi­ness into the mix — you’re doing it Monica…

  33. Jennifer says:

    I like how Linda put, “We’re all dying every­day, and there­fore we should be liv­ing just as much every day.” Like you said, you never know when the end will come. Every day, we’re one step closer to death, so we need to keep that in mind as we strive to live life to the fullest. Thanks for this reminder as I can often for­get to stop and have some fun.

    Jennifer´s last blog post..Do You Feel that is Right?

  34. Maya says:

    Randy inspired so many — it is amaz­ing what he did for all of us in his last days.
    I have watched Randy’s last lec­ture over and over again — and I can­not believe how much fun he was hav­ing — in spite of know­ing that his death was so close. But I guess death was the rea­son he was hav­ing so much fun. Every­one but he wept as he ended his speech.

    The funny thing is that I do not think I would have changed any­thing in my life if I knew, like Randy, that I had just a few months to live. And I am really glad I feel that way!

    Maya´s last blog post..Are you a sto­ry­teller? What is your story?

  35. Lance says:

    @Jennifer — Linda did say it very well! Some­times we just get caught up in what we’re doing, and for­get to “stop and have some fun”. And yet, it’s always good when we do…always…

    @Maya — Randy lived life to the fullest, right up to the end. It was a won­der­ful story, because it reminds us all that “fun” is impor­tant. And, that’s awe­some, Maya, that you are con­tent and ful­filled with where you are in your life right now — what a great feeling!

  36. :) I obvi­ously agree…the sub­ti­tle for Cheer­ful Monk is Hap­pi­ness as a Spir­i­tual Prac­tice. That phrase is a great reminder for me.

    Jean Browman–Cheerful Monk´s last blog post..Our Gar­den in the Woods

  37. Oh how I wish I could put all my respon­si­bil­i­ties aside and just play all the time. I “work” on play­ing every day. Like life bal­ance, being play­ful is a choice. We must choose to play.

    Stacey / Cre­ate a Balance´s last blog post..A Week for Giv­ing Thanks

  38. Lance says:

    @Jean — Yes, you are very much all about happiness!

    @Stacey/Create A Bal­ance — Yes, great point Stacey — it is a choice. Play­ing can be so free­ing, and so care­free — a very good state to be in! It does really fit well with life bal­ance, as in it’s an impor­tant piece in achiev­ing bal­ance in our lives…

  39. Jenny says:

    Give me fun any day! There are plenty of days when I just want to walk away from what I am doing and find some­thing fun to do! Of course what really gets me is when I have the time, I can’t always remem­ber the stuff I wanted to do that was fun. Like go and sit in a park for hours just sit­ting and being. I love to have fun and most of the time it’s easy to find, I just need to remem­ber that I can have fun by myself and don’t always have to include others.

    Jenny´s last blog post..Doing What’s Right

  40. Paunchiness says:

    Hav­ing fun is impor­tant. I try to do some­thing fun every cou­ple of days because it seems like most of the time is just dull bor­ing daily grind.

    I like to get out and ride my bike or the motor­cy­cle or have a few cock­tails. But I do try and get some­thing in that’s fun and different.

    Paunchiness´s last blog post..Where Do Thanks­giv­ing Turkeys Come From?

  41. Lance says:

    @Jenny –Good point Jenny — fun doesn’t always have to involve oth­ers. It’s great if it does, but it can be equally as great to just have some time to our­selves. So, let’s have some fun every day, right Jenny!!

    @Paunchiness — Some­times fun is the “reg­u­lar” fun we have — stuff we’ve done over and over that we enjoy. And yet, other times — it’s the “new” stuff — great point!

  42. HIB says:

    Nice quote. This is some­thing we all need to remem­ber on a daily basis!
    HIB

    HIB´s last blog post..6 Rea­sons Why I Joined Toastmasters

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