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Sunday Thought For The Day

In Search Of Lost Time
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“It’s only when we truly know and under­stand that we have a lim­ited time on earth — and that we have no way of know­ing when our time is up, we will then begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had.” ~ Eliz­a­beth Kubler-Ross

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Sarah Lulu says:

    So true.

    Sarah Lulu´s last blog post..Sex in the city or Paris or Syd­ney or anywhere…

  2. Daphne says:

    Gosh, Lance. I was just read­ing about Eliz­a­beth Kubler=Ross and her mes­sage of how we will all die some­day and to make the best use of our time here. Uncanny. Great quote!

    Daphne´s last blog post..How To Write A Per­sonal Creed

  3. Henie says:

    Hi Lance!

    Seems time is on everybody’s mind…

    Time is not an obstacle…it sim­ply is and it ticks the same way at every moment. It really is free but we keep insist­ing to find ways to pay for it…we then become the obsta­cle, not time.

    Every night that you go to sleep grate­ful and wake up to the oppor­tu­nity oh hav­ing another day is time well spent.

    Every­day is a life­time fully lived for me because I worry not about the pres­ence of time!

    Henie´s last blog post..Guess The Photo Char­ity Con­test (12for12k)

  4. Scott says:

    TRULY is the piv­otal word I think.

    Scott´s last blog post..From A Distance

  5. Wow Lance, this is so true. Time is so pre­cious, yet we waste so much of it. Thanks for this post!

    Natalia Burleson´s last blog post..It’s been a while!

  6. Yum Yucky says:

    If I knew when my time was up I’d make sure all my laun­dry was clean. And what’s this grow­ing non­sense about the world end­ing in 2012?

    But seriously…Henie — I love your take on this.

    Yum Yucky´s last blog post..How do you get to be this good?

  7. Jay says:

    Ok now this is just get­ting weird. My Sun­day Pon­der is also on time. You sure we do not share the same noo­dle sometimes?

  8. It’s live to the fullest and seiz­ing the day. Many times have been wasted.
    Thank you Lance, your sun­day thought of the day always ease the pain.

    sud­denly slimmer´s last blog post..Becom­ing Alia Bal­boa : Done Chas­ing Pavements

  9. Rupal says:

    Eliz­a­beth Kubler-Ross is a genius! Great quote! Really encom­passes the ideas and thought sur­round­ing how impor­tant it is to expe­ri­ence each and every day as if it were your last.

    Have a great sun­day Lance!

    Rupal´s last blog post..Sprained Ankles No More

  10. I believe this…I have said in the past that the only fear we all have is that of dying. So we con­trol every lit­tle thing in our lives to avoid it. But it is inevitable…and I want to live with­out regret. With more expe­ri­ences than things…and that’s how I choose to live my life, to the fullest.

  11. Lance says:

    @Sarah — Yes, it sure is. Thanks for stop­ping by!

    @Daphne — That is wild, Daphne. Very much so! Glad you liked it, although I guess I’m not sur­prised given that you’ve just been read­ing about her!

    @Henie — Hi Henie! I love the atti­tude you have toward time — sim­ply fab­u­lous! That we are the obsta­cle — what an excel­lent point — because it is us choos­ing how to fill that time. We cre­ate the obsta­cles. Henie, thank you for your insight here today!

    @Scott — My thoughts too Scott. The word “truly” is such an impor­tant word in this quote. It says to me — do we really, deep down, under­stand that our time is lim­ited. Get­ting there can really change how we look at life…

    @Natalia — I was just think­ing about this a few days ago. How, even if we think we’re pro­duc­tive and using our time wisely — all of us wastes some amount of time every day. We’ll never be per­fect at it — we can get bet­ter though — and that’s an impor­tant part of the mes­sage. How are we using our time? Is that the best use of it? Good things to think about…

    @Yum Yucky — Hi Josie. So we’ve got like about three years left to get all that laun­dry done then!! And yes, I agree — Henie’s view on this is so good. She really has a great atti­tude about time — one that has me really think­ing this morning…

    @Jay — I know!!! I vis­ited your site, saw the clock — and thought — I just about used a pic­ture like that. And then to read about time — it was almost like déjà vu… Our noo­dles were def­i­nitely on the same wavelength!!

    @Suddenly Slim­mer — That’s exactly it Alia! If we’re liv­ing our life to the fullest poten­tial — then we can say that we’ve done what we can for today. And that’s enough…

    @Rupal — …because we never know how long our time here on earth will be. And it makes me ques­tion what will I do TODAY to live to the fullest. Some­thing worth think­ing about, and then act­ing upon.… You too, Rupal, have a fan­tas­tic rest of your day today!

    @Stacey Ship­man — Death is inevitable. Do we real­ize that? Truly real­ize that? And if that’s the case — then liv­ing in this MOMENT — the only thing we have for sure — how do we want to live that moment? When we get to the point of see­ing life on earth as a finite expe­ri­ence — liv­ing to the fullest, and with­out regret — these become so much more impor­tant. Keep on liv­ing that way Stacey!!

  12. Evelyn Lim says:

    The only sure thing in life is death. When we con­tem­plate on the imper­ma­nence of life and real­ize that all things are fleet­ing , we can only come to one con­clu­sion: let go of our ego attach­ments and live fully today!

    Eve­lyn Lim´s last blog post..What Are The Akashic Records?

  13. Jeanne says:

    I absolutely love your jour­nal the pho­tographs and all the quotes.
    Blessings

    Thanks for your visit and kind words.

    Jeanne´s last blog post..My Beau­ti­ful Niece Michelle Weds Her Prince

  14. Julie says:

    Eliz­a­beth is one of my favorite authors; I’m sorry I was too shy to meet her when I had the chance. The magic of her quote doesn’t, for me, have to do with time but with our aware­ness of our being. When we fully under­stand that time is our own men­tal con­struct, we’ll choose to fill it with lov­ing rather than fear­ing. Worry, doubt, impa­tience, judge­ments, and all the rest of our man-made think­ing will give way to soul-based liv­ing. We will live in love and time will cease to have meaning.

    Julie´s last blog post..In Oth­ers’ Words

  15. Hi Lance

    I would like to hear what have made some peo­ple realise that time is limited…

    Juliet

    Life­Made­Great | Juliet´s last blog post..Over­com­ing The Bar­ri­ers Of Intro­ver­sion: Start­ing The Process

  16. Annette says:

    I think about this often. So many times I lay in bed and think.…..did I show the kids/hubby how much I loved them today? Some­times I get back up and go hug and kiss all of them just in case my time is up.

    Annette´s last blog post..4 Miles of Unin­ten­tional FUN Exer­cise :)

  17. kathy says:

    Some of us have expe­ri­ences that remind us of the fleet­ing nature of this life on earth. Oth­ers of us barely give it a sec­ond thought. Say­ing good­bye to a loved one in death, griev­ing with friends expe­ri­enc­ing loss, these are poignant reminders. Hold­ing my new­born nephew and reach­ing the mid-century mark within a few weeks of one another reminded me of the holi­ness of life and how fast the days go by. It strength­ens my com­mit­ment to live in pres­ence — to spend time with my cher­ished fam­ily and friends — to speak encour­ag­ing and uplift­ing words — to live with the intent to make the world around me bet­ter than I found it.

    kathy´s last blog post..Salt + Sand + Sea = Stress Relief

  18. Diane C. says:

    To me liv­ing life to the fullest doesn’t mean pack­ing more activ­i­ties into each day or work­ing on a bucket list, but rather slow­ing down and appre­ci­at­ing “ordi­nary” moments.

    Diane C.´s last blog post..Scruffy Deer

  19. Jessie says:

    This is a deli­cious quote. The best part is in read­ing it and decid­ing that I am spend­ing each day to the fullest. That real­iza­tion holds a lot of power for me. Thanks for shar­ing these words.

    Your blog is incred­i­bly inspir­ing. I love it! :)

    Jessie´s last blog post..Divine Inspi­ra­tion…

  20. Audra Krell says:

    Amen Diane C. Some­times with real­iza­tion a panic can ensue and we start try­ing to be more, do more, have more, and force our­selves to pre­tend to enjoy more. I don’t believe aware­ness involves a list of to-do’s, it’s just a sim­ple beauty, the knowl­edge of exactly what is. For me, it’s a detailed, daily knowl­edge of God and the truth of who He is.

    Audra Krell´s last blog post..Find­ing God in the Shack

  21. And yet, at the same time, we need faith we can com­plete life long projects

  22. Vikum says:

    Let me add something.When we under­stand that we have a lim­ited time on earth, then we will run out of time to hate and to be jeal­ous towards oth­ers.
    A great quote Lance( as usual :-) )

  23. Funny, I’ve had two near death expe­ri­ences and both gave great pause for reflec­tion on the wis­dom offered in this quote. Yet with­out a daily reminder we can set­tle for less than liv­ing a large life. Thanks Lance, I can always count on you to high­light the upside.

    Tom Volkar / Delight­ful Work´s last blog post..How To Get the Best Career Advice

  24. Hello, Eliz­a­beth Bar­rette sent me. I must say that I’m glad I found your web­site. I’ll be vis­it­ing often.

    It’s sad to say that most peo­ple don’t appre­ci­ate what they have until they have almost lost it, or it’s gone.

    Maria@Conversations with Moms´s last blog post..Prod­uct Recalls — Dorel Juve­nile Gates and Jerry Leigh Children’s Hooded Sweaters

  25. Henie says:

    Time is FREE! Stop pay­ing for it!” ~Henie~

    Henie´s last blog post..Guess The Photo Char­ity Con­test (12for12k)

  26. FatFighterTV says:

    So true and worth remind­ing often! One of my favorite books is “The Pre­cious Present.”

    FatFighterTV´s last blog post..The Snug­gie workout

  27. That’s a beau­ti­ful pic­ture! The sen­ti­ment about liv­ing fully is also very wise.

    Eliz­a­beth Barrette´s last blog post..Week­end Meet-n-Greet 3−8−09

  28. Quotes like this make me a bit sad and happy at the same time. I’m sad that some­thing may hap­pened to a loved one, but I’m happy because if I keep a quote like this in my head at all times, I know I will live life to the fullest.

    Thanks!

    Hap­pi­ness Is Better´s last blog post..Cool Links for Week of Feb­ru­ary 16th

  29. Evita says:

    Hi Lance!

    First off what an awe­some and artis­tic photo!

    As for liv­ing life to the fullest AMEN to that! Oh you know I am a huge fan and pro­po­nent of that, and again not in the way that most peo­ple may think.

    Each day we have choices of how we are going to pass through a moment and each of those moments can col­lec­tively together add up to the most amaz­ing life or a very dull and empty life.

    As for how long we have, well even though we do not know the deeper inten­tions of our soul, unless we tap in on a much deeper level, we have more con­trol over this than many of us real­ize. There is an ele­ment of account­abil­ity that has been lost over the ages, but nonethe­less it is still there. Thanks for the thought pro­vok­ing moment :)

    Evita´s last blog post..The Two Envelopes We Are All Born With

  30. brandi says:

    I find kubler-ross’s thoughts and quotes to be very pow­er­ful and her work to be profound.

    the photo mir­rors the quote.

    brandi´s last blog post..mis­sion mon­day:: give your­self permission

  31. Just to add a lit­tle spin on this, I must say that there is a dif­fer­ence between what I would be doing if I knew I had a lim­ited time on earth and what I do to get by from day to day. Yes, I do love what I do, it’s not that. How­ever, I’d spend less time know­ing that the bills have to be paid and more time tak­ing vaca­tions not care­ing if the bills will be paid.

    That said, I sup­pose the point of the quote was that it is impor­tant to make the best of what you do on a daily basis.

    Nicole “The Card Eagle” Bandes´s last blog post..When the Grass is Grow­ing, Don’t Get Out the Mower

  32. suZen says:

    Great thought for the day! (as usual) :) Treat­ing oth­ers as if its the last time you will ever see them brings a lot of tol­er­ance, love, kind­ness and aware­ness to the way we treat them ordi­nar­ily too.

    suZen´s last blog post..Patience and Change

  33. Mark says:

    An awe­some reminder! Thanks Lance!

  34. Lance says:

    @Evelyn — You’ve said that so well, Eve­lyn! With life here on earth not being per­ma­nent, with this our one shot at life, let’s live it fully!

    @Jeanne — Thanks much Jeanne. And thank you for stop­ping by today!

    @Julie — Hi Julie! Aware­ness of being…I like that very much. It fits so well with the idea of under­stand­ing our own mor­tal­ity, and in so doing — also real­iz­ing that we have a lim­ited time here on earth. How will we choose to use that time? Think­ing about this deeply does get us to that place of soul-based liv­ing, and what a great place that is to be! Julie, thank you so much for your wis­dom on this…

    @Juliet — Hi Juliet. What makes peo­ple real­ize their time is lim­ited? I don’t know that I have any ‘ah-ha’ moment for me. I’m think­ing this could be the loss of a loved one, a near-death expe­ri­ence, the birth of chil­dren. These are pretty big life events. I’m also think­ing that some peo­ple may just evolve into this, where over time, this has started to make sense. I’m look­ing for­ward to more that might come from your ques­tion also…

    @Annette — That’s very sweet, Annette. To make another feel loved, how great a gift that is! Keep on doing it…

    @Kathy — Thank you Kathy, this is won­der­ful insight. Cer­tain age mile­stones can trig­ger this also. Great point. You are doing good works, my friend. Fam­ily and friends — two things to hold on to dearly. Your words here today touch really upon us lead­ing the life we desire. And a life in how we want to be treated ourselves…

    @Diane C — We hear much about cre­at­ing a bucket list, or liv­ing out our wildest dreams. And yet, you bring up a point that is a bit oppo­site of this — the “ordi­nary”. And I love it! I love it because that’s us 80% of the time or more — liv­ing out our “ordi­nary” lives. That doesn’t mean that “ordi­nary” can’t be extra­or­di­nary. What it means is that it’s our every­day lives — and really appre­ci­at­ing those moments. Sure, there’s still room for the big trip, or the crazy idea — but let’s not for­get all of our daily moments — and appre­ci­ate them too. Excel­lent Diane — thank you so much!!

    @Jessie — That’s a great way to look at this Jessie — that we can decide, or choose, how to spend our day. Are we choos­ing to live fully? The choice is ours! And thank you for your very kind words — I appre­ci­ate them deeply.

  35. Lance says:

    @Audra — I’ll sec­ond that — Amen Diane C.! It’s our daily liv­ing “fully” that really makes a dif­fer­ence. “More” is not always the answer. Audra, you are a shin­ing exam­ple of what liv­ing fully means — and I think it’s exactly because of what you’ve said here — your daily con­nec­tion to God and His truth… Con­tinue to let that shine through!

    @Miguel — And that’s a good point. There is some bal­ance here — as we can not only fully live in the everyday-ness of life — also we can chal­lenge our­selves and push our bound­aries — to dis­cover new and excit­ing pos­si­bil­i­ties in our world.

    @Vikum — Great thought Vikum. If we were to some­how know when our time would be up — and espe­cially if that were soon — I do think we wouldn’t focus on the neg­a­tiv­ity in our world. I know that I would want to live out my days filled with pos­i­tiv­ity and goodness.

    @Tom — Wow, well it’s great that you’re still with us Tom! I mean that very sin­cerely — you are a real voice of truth, and your pas­sion for what you do are such a pos­i­tive for me! These near-death expe­ri­ences, yes a great time for reflec­tion. Yet, then do we start to set­tle back into medi­oc­rity? Keep­ing this idea in our fore­front, and in our heart — goes a long way toward mak­ing this become us. Liv­ing fully. All the time.

    @Maria — It’s great to have you here Maria! Com­ing to that real­iza­tion — of what liv­ing fully really means — is not always easy to do. And it’s also not some­thing that’s urgent to do — our life will go on whether we’ve done this or not. And so it gets put off… Yet, we can start TODAY — liv­ing fully. And there’s no bet­ter time…

    @Henie — Great quote Henie! We are all given the same amount of time in each day to work with — it’s up to us on how we want to use it…

    @FatFighterTV — I haven’t heard of this book, thanks for men­tion­ing it here. And yes, this is some­thing I think we can’t be reminded of too often. It’s one thing to live fully today, and another alto­gether to live fully every­day, with every­thing that life throws at us some­times. And that’s when a reminder here or there is just what we need to get back on that track of liv­ing our life to all it’s ability.

  36. Lance says:

    @Elizabeth — Thank you! Liv­ing fully — great reminders for all of us, no mat­ter where we are on that continuüm.

    @Happiness Is Bet­ter — The real­ity is that we just never know what could hap­pen to us, or some­one we love. And there can be sad­ness in this thought. Of an end that is not known. And to the other side — this thought can also really uplift us — know­ing that we don’t know — how would you want to live today if you knew it were your last.

    @Evita — Thanks so much Evita! Liv­ing life to the fullest — that’s to YOUR fullest — defined by you. So, that you define “full” dif­fer­ent than many — that is fine. And even more than fine — that is real, and that is you. And that’s what mat­ters. I hap­pen to think that the way you live your life is a won­der­ful way to live fully. And — it is in the moments of our life that we define our whole life — these moments, how will we choose to live them? Thank you, Evita, for all your con­tin­ued words of wis­dom, and for shar­ing your real love for life here.

    @Brandi — I’m not famil­iar with much of her work, although I find this quote to be very stir­ring. The pic­ture: I bounced a few ideas around on what to use, and then when I came to this hour­glass, it all became clear that this was the photo to use.

    @Nicole — You bring up an impor­tant point Nicole. That of which is — there are things we do daily/weekly/monthly that may not nec­es­sar­ily be what we’d call “liv­ing fully”, and yet they are things that must get done. I guess my take on this is that I acknowl­edge these things exist, and com­mit to doing them, know­ing that prob­a­bly in some way — they are sup­port­ing some­how how I’ve cho­sen to live fully. Does that make sense? I think really that it goes along the lines of your last state­ment — of mak­ing the best of what we do on a daily basis. Thanks for stop­ping by, and for these great thoughts you’ve added to the conversation.

    @SuZen — Thanks much SuZen! If we thought like this with every per­son we encoun­tered, and if every­one did that — just think of how that would change our world so dra­mat­i­cally! Love would rule!

    @Mark Sali­nas — Thanks much Mark!

  37. Mindful Mimi says:

    Lance,
    I think I under­stood that this week. I was so busy at work, run­ning behind sched­ule, not enough time in the day, going home stressed and putting that on the fam­ily, going to bed unable to sleep for all the thoughts still cruis­ing through my head.
    And then I thought ‘Is it all really that bad? Will the world still be there tomor­row if I do not get this fin­ished or if I screw up?‘
    I was able to qui­eten down and spend some qual­ity time with the kids (see pho­tos on Lit­tle Men blog).
    Hope your week­end was great too and have a good start into the week.
    Mimi

    Mind­ful Mimi´s last blog post..The next thing to say­ing a good thing your­self, is to quote one — Ralpho Waldo Emerson

  38. bobbi says:

    This is my MANTRA in life!!! We were meant to live while we’re still alive:)

    bobbi´s last blog post..Sun­day Prep Day & Her First Green Monster!

  39. Lance, I had never heard of Eliz­a­beth Kubler-Ross until I think you did a write up on her for Jenny Mannion’s Heroes of Heal­ing e-book. This is cer­tainly a very wise quote, and it makes me think that for most if us, it is hard to con­ceive that we will die one day. we might know in the­ory, but in our phys­i­cal selves, in our mind, we get lost in the lie that we have noth­ing to lose by pro­cras­ti­nat­ing, com­plain­ing and liv­ing a less than full life. of course, the truth is we are wast­ing pre­cious days that can never be regained. If only we could all remem­ber that more often.

    Kelly@SHE-POWER

  40. Liara Covert says:

    Eliz­a­beth Kubler-Ross is a pio­neer in the field of death and dying. Her words express time­less com­pas­sion and heart­felt joy.

    Liara Covert´s last blog post..15 Unortho­dox answers to awaken soul

  41. LisaNewton says:

    As I get older, this quote starts to mean even more. When you’re young, many peo­ple think time is so far away, but as you get older, time starts to move faster.

    Thanks for the great thought, Lance.

    LisaNewton´s last blog post..Under the Sky

  42. This couldn’t be more appro­pri­ate right now. My mother’s heart is fail­ing and we don’t think she’ll live much longer. I can say with 10 chil­dren, 36 grand­chil­dren and who knows how many great grand­chil­dren her legacy lives on.

    I wish I could say I don’t fear death but I do.

    Tess The Bold Life´s last blog post..A Mean­ing­ful Bold Life: From Me to We

  43. Dr. J says:

    In all hon­esty, I just can’t fig­ure out what she is talk­ing about. It must be my mood or something.

    Dr. J´s last blog post..Acai makes case as lat­est super­food craze

  44. I’m just start­ing to see glimpses of this now. When I was in my twen­ties I was never in a hurry. Of course I never got as much done as I really should have.

    Now that I’m 32 I real­ize the impor­tance of max­i­miz­ing my time. I’m more focused and ded­i­cated to my passions.

    Karl Staib — Work Happy Now´s last blog post..Your Com­pany Should Do Annual Career Counseling

  45. Jennifer says:

    Very true. I’m get­ting there… Work­ing to real­ize it more and more.

    It’s funny, I was just hear­ing almost this same thing tonight. Maybe I need to perk up and pay bet­ter attention.

    Jennifer´s last blog post..Words of Wis­dom and Peace

  46. This is an inter­est­ing quote for me. I want to live each day to the fullest and I plan on liv­ing a long long life. I sup­pose I need to find a mid­dle ground to live long and to life to the fullest each day.

    Stacey / Cre­ate a Balance´s last blog post..Your Abil­ity to Fly

  47. I was sick with a bad migraine today and sure am glad to be over that. I shall sure be liv­ing every moment to the fullest from the break of day tomor­row until I fall asleep, per­haps even dur­ing my dreams. Noth­ing like being sick to make you appre­ci­ate the health you have!

    Jan­nie Funster´s last blog post..Seri­ously Weird!

  48. I think I may have lived my life to the fullest a lit­tle too hard this weekend!

    meleah rebeccah´s last blog post..Ran­dom Things

  49. Self Love says:

    Unfor­tu­nately some times it takes los­ing some­one close or a close call to make us alert to these truths.

  50. Paul U says:

    That is indeed true. some­times we have for­got­ten how short out lives is and is very busy with what­ever we are doing.

    Paul U´s last blog post..Announc­ing my contest

  51. J.D. Meier says:

    Time is such a lim­ited resource. That’s what makes it so valuable.

    It’s a funny resource too. Some moments can last a life­time, while oth­ers are gone in a flash.

    J.D. Meier´s last blog post..Why Your Tal­ents are Endur­ing and Unique

  52. Vincent says:

    Hi Lance,

    If we live our life think­ing that each day could be our last, maybe we could achieve much much more and spend more time think­ing about things that mat­ter rather than wast­ing our time on things that don’t mat­ter. Thanks for shar­ing this quote.

    Cheers
    Vin­cent
    Per­sonal Devel­op­ment Blogger

  53. Lance says:

    @Mimi — Hi Mimi. Some­times we get busy with the stresses of daily life — and in the end — we get through it — yet don’t feel we’ve lived it to the fullest. I’m guess­ing that’s where you were. And I think that hap­pens to every­one, it def­i­nitely hap­pens to me. Being able to stop, quiet down, and re-group can do won­ders for “you”. And qual­ity time with your two lit­tle boys — that’s liv­ing to the fullest! And, very cute pic­tures! My week­end was quiet, and that was very nice! Here’s to this week being a bit less busy for you…

    @Bobbi — And it’s a won­der­ful mantra to have! Live now!

    @Kelly — Actu­ally it wasn’t me who wrote about Eliz­a­beth Kubler-Ross form Jenny’s “Heroes for Heal­ing” site. Although, I will have to check it out and see who did! Death is not some­thing easy to get our arms around — it is so “out there” and unknown. The thought of the loss of pre­cious days — gone! Say­ing it that way, Kelly, really dri­ves home the idea of how impor­tant this is.

    @Liara — I am not very famil­iar with her, so will have to read more of her works. This quote cer­tainly embod­ies the idea of com­pas­sion and joy!

    @LisaNewton — Age can cer­tainly play a role in the truths of this quote. The older we get, the more this typ­i­cally makes more sense. It’s like this whole idea of what’s impor­tant can shift — and we become more focused on what is really important.

    @Tess — First off, Tess, know that you and your fam­ily are in my prayers. Los­ing a loved one is never easy. Even if the time is right. Leav­ing a legacy unto the world — one of the great things we can do with our life. Giv­ing the world peo­ple like you — your mother has most cer­tainly left a won­der­ful legacy that will live on for a long, long time! You are a shin­ing exam­ple of liv­ing right and liv­ing this quote. Con­tinue to do that Tess! And the fear of death — many fear this. It is so unknown. You are not alone…

    @Dr. J — You bring up a great point — and that being that our inter­pre­ta­tion of lan­guage is really depen­dent upon where we’re at emo­tion­ally when we hear some­thing. So — that this isn’t mak­ing sense — I think that’s per­fectly okay. Maybe it will some­day. Maybe it won’t. What’s impor­tant is what you really and truly believe…

    @Karl — Some of this stuff comes at dif­fer­ent stages in our life — when we’re ready for it. When we’re younger, this might not mean as much as when we get older and start to see life through a dif­fer­ent lens — one of com­pas­sion maybe, for those around us. Then again, if we have some major life event hap­pen to us at a younger age — this might make all this hap­pen that much sooner. I’m com­ing from a sim­i­lar posi­tion that you come from — in my twen­ties this all meant very lit­tle to me. As I’ve been going through my thir­ties, this really has come to mean much more to me.

  54. Lance says:

    @Jennifer — Me too. I’m get­ting there. And the impor­tance of that is — it’s a jour­ney for all of us. I don’t know if we ever really get “there” — we just keep on a path in that direc­tion of where we see “there” to be. And maybe we get to that place, and then we see “there” to maybe be slightly higher up. Or to the left or right. We see that our jour­ney keeps on con­tin­u­ing. You’re doing this, though, Jen­nifer, in many ways, your jour­ney is lead­ing you to a life of liv­ing fully.

    @Stacey/Create A Bal­ance — That’s a great point Stacey. Liv­ing life to the fullest doesn’t nec­es­sar­ily mean we just throw cau­tion to the wind and do every wild and crazy idea that comes into our mind. There is a bal­ance between liv­ing life to the fullest in daily activ­i­ties (like just play­ing with your kids) and doing big­ger things (like travel to some­place far away). It’s the daily activ­i­ties that will have the most impact on your life and those around you. And that’s say­ing the liv­ing to the fullest might be just doing some small things that make another feel special.

    @Jannie — Ouch. Glad to hear you’re bet­ter now, Jan­nie. Good point, some­times feel­ing sick is enough for us to real­ize when we’re bet­ter — just how great it is to be alive — and it gives us an extra bounce in our step — liv­ing to the fullest — go get ‘em Jannie!!

    @Meleah — After a great week­end (good for you Meleah!) — maybe liv­ing life to the fullest today is rest. It can be in the sim­ple things that “fullest” really comes to be…

    @SelfLove — Death of some­one close to us can have that effect — of putting life into per­spec­tive. As hard as that can be, los­ing some­one impor­tant to us — it’s also a reminder of our own mor­tal­ity — and that our life here on earth is lim­ited. And that NOW is the time for liv­ing our life.…

    @Paul U — And when we get “busy” — the ques­tions begs — is it busy for busy’s sake, or are we truly doing what our heart yearns for? An impor­tant ques­tion to ask our­selves. Thanks for stop­ping by!

    @J.D. Meier — There are only 24 hours in a day. It’s never less, never more. And it’s what we all have. We are lim­ited by time and more even than that — our time here on earth. And that’s an unknown value — mak­ing what we do TODAY all the more important.

    @Vincent — Hi Vin­cent. That’s it, get­ting to that point in our lives — where we view the world as though see­ing it today might be our last. Really get­ting to this point can shift our par­a­digm of how we view our own life. In very pos­i­tive ways…

  55. Sagan says:

    I am ALL OVER that picture.

    It’s kind of sad how some­times it takes a real shock to the sys­tem or some­thing to get us to real­ize just how pre­cious our time really is.

  56. Squawkfox says:

    My father sur­vived menin­gi­tis last week. Every day is a new day with dad.

    Squawkfox´s last blog post..6 Words That Make Your Resume Suck

  57. Gennaro says:

    That’s so true, Lance. Com­ing to terms with our lim­ited time on earth is a major obsta­cle to human hap­pi­ness. So many aspi­ra­tions, but so lit­tle time to accom­plish it. Kubler-Ross wrote some of the best work of deal­ing with dying.

    Gennaro´s last blog post..Road War­riors: Blog­gers In Motion

  58. Marelisa says:

    Hi Lance: I think we all need to think about want we want to be said about us at our funeral and set about right away to make sure that we live up to our “envi­sioned” eulogy. Because it´s very true, we never know when our pas­sage through this earth might be over.

  59. Oh yeah. I needed TWO days of rest after my crazy week­end! but it was soooo worth it!

    meleah rebeccah´s last blog post..Ran­dom Things

  60. Katie says:

    How very true! It is so impor­tant to slow down and think about what is most impor­tant in our lives. For me that is fam­ily and friends, so I make sure to set aside a cou­ple of days a week free from work and devoted to family.

  61. Hi Lance — I just read Kubler-Ross’s book “On Death and Dying” within the last year, and in some ways it’s a topic that we don’t really pay enough atten­tion to (I guess you can’t blame us!). It’s para­dox­i­cal that you can find your own life within you death — some­times we need a reminder that we won’t always be here.

    Amanda Linehan´s last blog post..Become Your­self

  62. Laurie says:

    It use to be that peo­ple would keep a human skull in their home as a reminder that our time here on earth is lim­ited. It seems, with­out much effort, we live with­out an appre­ci­a­tion for the time we have here and how we will live it. I won­der if that is what hap­pens to so many (myself included) who hit mid­dle age and go through some sort of cri­sis. We real­ize that the game is half over and while we know who has made the next round of Amer­i­can Idol, we haven’t expe­ri­enced the things in life we dreamed about when we were kids. My mis­sion is to stop think­ing “That’s what other peo­ple do, not me.” and live life with pas­sion and full­ness. I will stop think­ing of all the rea­sons why I can’t do some­thing and fig­ure out how I CAN do it.

  63. Pro­found and very true, yet I often worry that we sim­ply can’t fully grasp this and let go of the unim­por­tant stuff. Do you read Tim Brown­son? He pretty much cov­ers the same topic in his recent post and I told him the same… a strong mes­sage, but most peo­ple will never be able to truly get it.

  64. Ribbon says:

    Yes some might live life to the full and oth­ers might just panic!

    Thank you for your visit to my blog. It was a lovely sur­prise to see you.

    for­ever cheeky
    best wishes Rib­bon :-)

    PS my favourite Zen mas­ter Genpo Roshi has been known to quote her

    Ribbon´s last blog post..Fart…

  65. Did you and Jay con­spire on blog posts? Great quote and mes­sage here…

    Car­o­line (the zen in you)´s last blog post..I can’t…

  66. Hi Lance
    This is so true. Some­time I hear peo­ple say, “time is money.” and I always say, “time is more than money, you can always get make more money but you can’t get more time.“
    Thank you,
    Gio­vanna Gar­cia
    Imper­fect Action is bet­ter than No Action

  67. Hi Lance — This sure is a pow­er­ful mes­sage. If only we could all keep that thought in our minds on a daily basis and live each day as if it were our last. I’m guess­ing the world would be com­pletely different.

    Bar­bara Swafford´s last blog post..Where Or Where Do The Blog­gers Go

  68. Lance says:

    @Sagan — Isn’t that pic­ture pretty awe­some! That’s it — some­times it takes some­thing big hap­pen­ing to make us real­ize just how pre­cious our life is…

    @Squawkfox — Great exam­ple, and — more impor­tantly — it’s great to hear he has come out of this okay. And some­thing like this is the kind of wake up call that makes us real­ize just how quickly life can change. Thanks for shar­ing your story.

    @Gennaro — Hi Gen­naro. This is cer­tainly not an easy sub­ject to come to terms with. Mor­tal­ity seems so final, and so unknown. It’s hard to really grasp. And so lit­tle time to do every­thing — and yet — how much of that pre­cious time do we use for activ­i­ties that aren’t in true align­ment with us?

    @Marliesa — Hi Mare! That’s one I strug­gle with — what I would want to be said at my own eulogy. And I think that’s because it makes me think about life and death — the death part being more dif­fi­cult to really com­pre­hend. Still, I agree with you that doing this exer­cise helps put into per­spec­tive what really is impor­tant in our lives. And then, if we can really begin to do these works that sup­port that “eulogy” — we are work­ing in accor­dance with our true being…

    @Meleah — Good for you Meleah, get­ting the rest you needed. And here’s to a great rest of the week and get­ting refreshed!

    @Katie — Hi Katie. Some­times it takes dis­ci­pline to do — yet so worth it! Know­ing what mat­ters to you and mak­ing time with them a pri­or­ity — that’s doing things right and true to your self. Thanks for stop­ping by!

    @Amanda — Hi Amanda! I think the whole idea of death and dying are not easy sub­jects to broach. The final­ity of our time on earth is not easy to talk about — it cer­tainly isn’t for me. And I like that — find­ing your own life within your death. If we really do spend some time think­ing about death — it may help to give us direc­tion on what truly is impor­tant in our lives. Now…living that out daily…

    @Laurie — I think you are absolutely right, Lau­rie. We don’t appre­ci­ate our lim­ited time here on earth. I’m sure I could do much bet­ter at this. Your “Amer­i­can Idol” exam­ple is pow­er­fully true. We do so well at focus­ing on things that are triv­ial — and not nearly enough time on what our own hopes and dreams are. You CAN do it Lau­rie. And I CAN too. And so CAN every­one else! With focus upon what’s impor­tant to “us”, we CAN all make this pos­si­ble in our lives!

    @Vered — I agree with you Vered, this is such a dif­fi­cult thought to grasp. With­out see­ing the end, with­out know­ing when that end will be here — it’s easy to just con­tinue doing what we’ve always done. And to not tackle those impor­tant but not urgent top­ics of our heart. I did see the arti­cle by Tim. And yes, it does cover much the same topic as this quote — and still, that doesn’t make it any eas­ier to grasp either. Thank you for this thought Vered — it’s a reminder that this isn’t nec­es­sar­ily easy at all…

    @Ribbon — Panic. Good point Rib­bon — it’s all in how you look at it. While we hope to live fully, the whole thought of death can also cause panic in some — and that could be a neg­a­tive. Focus­ing on what mat­ters, maybe with­out think­ing about death — for some this may be a bet­ter approach… You’re doing great things, keep it up!

    @Caroline — Ha! Yep, we were up late Sat­ur­day night con­spir­ing… Well…not really. Our minds must have been on the same wave­length though! Pretty wild!

    @Giovanna — Time is cer­tainly more than money. Our time may be valu­able and worth “money” in the right cir­cum­stances. Still, our time is also so much more — it’s love, com­pas­sion, car­ing, fun, and many more. Our time is what we make of it. I hope that mine is thor­oughly used up when I am done here… Thanks much for this thought Giovanna.

    @Barbara — Hi Bar­bara! It’s hard to keep this thought their daily. And yet, if we could, like you say, we would much more likely live in har­mony with what truly mat­ters. And the world would be dif­fer­ent if every­one did this. Maybe some­day we’ll make steps in that direc­tion. I’m going to work on start­ing to take those steps today…

  69. Spin Diva says:

    You know lance, when­ever I need a dose of inspi­ra­tion I know for sure that I can come here. These quotes about liv­ing life to its fullest is what one needs first thing and then maybe we wont stress so much about the lit­tle things.

    Thank you for this…I per­son­ally appre­ci­ate it and I know my fam­ily thanks you :-)

    Spin Diva´s last blog post..Revis­it­ing my fit­ness routine

  70. Liara Covert says:

    Another way to view this quote is to expand by say­ing each per­ceived phys­i­cal exis­tence is finite, and yet, how many incar­na­tions exist and their nature are gen­er­ally beyond human senses and know­ing. As you tran­scend what makes you feel human, you dis­cover the core of being is some­thing else.

    Liara Covert´s last blog post..7 Lessons to re-orient the wak­ing soul

  71. Bri says:

    That makes more sense to me now that we have a daugh­ter and I can see how much she grows and changes every­day. Part of me wants to hold on to each moment and never let it go, but the other part is excited to see what might come next. Either way, I’ve learned to cher­ish all the time we get.

    Bri´s last blog post..What are You Seeking?

  72. Lizwi says:

    Yes, time on earth is very lim­ited and each sec­ond that passes is gone for­ever. Please remem­ber: While you live you should also let live.

    Lizwi´s last blog post..Cli­mate change

  73. Lance says:

    @SpinDiva — It’s always great to have you here, Spin­Diva! And, thank you! Here’s to liv­ing life fully!!

    @Liara — The whole idea of dis­cov­er­ing our core is hugely impor­tant to under­stand­ing what liv­ing fully means to us, individually.

    @Bri — Hav­ing chil­dren has a way of chang­ing things almost overnight. All of a sud­den, there’s a lit­tle per­son in your life who you’ll do any­thing for, and for whom you have dreams for many won­der­ful things to bless her life. Cher­ish all the moments, Bri, you’ve got it!

    @Lizwi — Yes, excel­lent point Lizwi. Let oth­ers live their lives. We can be there for sup­port and encour­age­ment, in the end, though, it’s their life — and one in which they should come to deci­sions about their life — not that they can’t have help — just that we shouldn’t be there forc­ing some­thing upon them…

  74. Cricket says:

    How true this is Lance. Won­der­ful quote with a won­der­ful pic­ture. I have recently learned this with all that has gone on with mom.

    Cricket´s last blog post..I Whis­pered…

  75. Lance says:

    @Cricket — Hi Tammy. Yes, some­times it takes some­thing big to make us real­ize our life is lim­ited here on earth. I hope all is well with your mother.

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