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Sunday Thought For The Day

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Mom Is…

A gen­tly flow­ing stream, mov­ing me along
A soft and gen­tle pil­low for me to rest on when I should

The sun­set after a long and chal­lenged day
And a sun­rise to start anew

A band-aid when some­thing hurts
A shoul­der, when I need some­one to lean on

Lov­ing arms to hold me close
And wings to let me fly

A sanc­tu­ary, a place to feel “home“
And a hug, as I head out into the great unknown

Mostly though, Mom is…
Love, car­ing deeply through it all
Love, sprin­kled daily in my life
Love, con­nec­tion that bonds two souls
Love, uncon­di­tional and always there…

This is ded­i­cated to two very spe­cial ladies:
My mother, who gave me life and con­tin­ues to be a guid­ing light.
My wife, the mother of my chil­dren, who daily goes above what I imag­ine is pos­si­ble, in the lives of our children.

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Hilary says:

    Hi Lance .. that’s won­der­ful .. bless­ings to you all .. you deserve each other .. have the most fan­tas­tic Mother’s Day .. you’ll make it spe­cial for them both.

    Hilary Melton-Butcher
    Pos­i­tive Letters

    Hilary´s last blog post..Happy Birth­day Mr Punch .…

  2. Rupal says:

    Happy Mother’s day to all the won­der­ful woman in the world!! I love ya ma!

    ~rupal

    Rupal´s last blog post..sorry!!

  3. Miz says:

    You are a lucky man, the peo­ple in your life are so very for­tu­nate to have you AND I know youve worked hard (daily. it’s a choice) to cre­ate it all.

    Happy Moth­ers Day Mrs. Lance of the Jun­gle :)

    Miz´s last blog post..Happy Mother’s Day Weekend!

  4. Daphne says:

    A bandaid when things hurt” and “a sanc­tu­ary to call home” really res­onate with me. My mum is exactly these things and more. What a lovely ded­i­ca­tion to the two spe­cial women in your life, Lance! You are blessed to have them, and them you.

    Daphne´s last blog post..A Let­ter from My Older Self

  5. Wish­ing Laura a Happy Day. And what a beau­ti­ful poem. I’m look­ing for­ward to spend­ing time with my mom today, too. Mom’s are spe­cial, no mat­ter what age! Even today I know that if I need some­thing she will be there no mat­ter what. I’m blessed to have her.

    Enjoy your day.

    Stacey Shipman´s last blog post..Present with Con­fi­dence: Beware the Ner­vous Habit

  6. Beau­ti­ful thought for the day Lance! Happy Mom’s Day to your Mrs.!! :)

    Natalia Burleson´s last blog post..Catch up!

  7. Yum Yucky says:

    A won­der­ful poem to start this beau­ti­ful day. I’ll be get­ting lots of love today with warm smiles, hugs and kisses from my 4 chil­dren. And the sun is shin­ing. It’s perfect!

    Happy Mother’s Day!

    Josie

  8. LisaNewton says:

    Lance, thanks for putting a smile on my face this early Sun­day morning.

    There is no more reward­ing job than being a mother. I love my kids dearly, and am so proud of the peo­ple they are grow­ing up to be.

    To my own mother, she gave me life and she con­tin­ues to be a sup­port sys­tem for me.

    Happy Mother’s Day to all those moth­ers out there.

    LisaNewton´s last blog post..Find­ing Art on the Beach

  9. Def­i­nitely tears in my eyes over this beau­ti­ful poem and your lov­ing words to your mom and wife. You are a true gift to your fam­ily and to this (and all other,) plan­ets — you won­der­ful guy.

    Have a beau­ti­ful day. I know mine is already shap­ing up great.

    Jan­nie Funster´s last blog post..The CDs Have Landed!

  10. Beau­ti­ful Lance!
    I will share this with my mom today. Happy mother’s day to your wife and all the moms in your life.
    Much Love,
    Jenny

    Jenny Mannion´s last blog post..7 Tips to Stay a Happy Mom and My Mother’s Day Tribute

  11. Diane C. says:

    Beau­ti­ful Mother’s Day poem. The last line says it all, “Love, uncon­di­tional and always there…” When uncon­di­tional love is hap­pen­ing, all else seems to fall into place, effortlessly.

    Diane C.´s last blog post..Peace­ful Perchers

  12. Happy Mother’s Day..although my mom is in heaven watch­ing us..but you stay in our heart.

    sud­denly slimmer´s last blog post..Shoul­der Exer­cise : Arnold Press

  13. Happy Mama’s Day to all Jun­gle of Life read­ers. May all mom’s remem­ber to take care of them­selves as they con­tintue to give so much to others.

    Stacey / Cre­ate a Balance´s last blog post..Authen­tic Hap­pi­ness Series — Part Four (Career)

  14. Evelyn Lim says:

    Wow.…a beau­ti­ful poem in honor of your mother and wife! How lucky they are! Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers!

    Eve­lyn Lim´s last blog post..Me In Every Thought

  15. Mark Salinas says:

    Won­der­ful Lance! Happy Moth­ers Day to all moms!

    Mark Salinas´s last blog post..Foods that Accel­er­ate the Metabolism

  16. Henie says:

    God made Moms and Moms make God look good!” ~Henie~

    Thank you, Lance, for your spe­cial mes­sage! Your mom is lucky to have a son as won­der­ful as you! :~)

    Happy Mother’s Day to all from my heart to yours!

    Henie´s last blog post..Always Mom

  17. Caroline says:

    Lance, this is just beau­ti­ful. We don’t give Mom’s enough credit…I know from experience…lol. Being a Mother is both reward­ing and exhaust­ing. But what would this world be like with­out the wis­dom of Mothers?

    Caroline´s last blog post..Soul­ful Sunday

  18. Hi Lance,

    Ger­bera daisies are my favorite flower so I absolutely love the pic­ture that goes with this post!

    My mom passed away some years ago so Mother’s Day is a hard day. How­ever, I do have my mem­o­ries of my mom which I am grate­ful to have. The inter­est­ing thing is that even though she is no longer here with me, I know she is with me as I go about my life. So yay for the love that mother’s give! :)

    Nadia — Happy Lotus´s last blog post..Happy News (May 10, 2009)

  19. Laurie says:

    Not only are you blessed to have a won­der­ful mom and wife, but they are blessed to have such an incred­i­ble son and hus­band. You really appre­ci­ate peo­ple Lance. What a gift that is to oth­ers. God Bless!
    Laurie

    Happy Mother’s Day Friends!

  20. Evita says:

    Hello Lance

    As beau­ti­ful as this poem is, I have to say I was most touched by the beau­ti­ful ded­i­ca­tion that you pro­vided to the “moth­ers” in your life! From appre­ci­a­tion comes grat­i­tude and vice versa in our lives.

    So Happy Mother’s Day to Lora and may you all have a beau­ti­ful and love-filled day!

    We just fin­ished hav­ing a nice lunch with my mom actu­ally :)

  21. Robin Easton says:

    Dear Lance, this moved me to tears. So deeply expressed. What you wrote at the very end about your mother and then your wife just pushed my tears over the edge and down my face. Sim­ply beau­ti­ful that you are aware of them both in this way and what they bring to your world, your soul and the souls of your children.

    It also moved me as my mom is dying of Alzheimer’s and is at the stage where she doesn’t rec­og­nize any­one. But what is SO amaz­ing is that she vis­its me in my dreams at night and talks to me. And the love is so com­plete and ten­der that I usu­ally sob the next day. Good clean tears. I know that no mat­ter what goes on in her body, her soul is with me. I still miss her so much and would give any­thing to sit and talk for even one hour. One sin­gle hour.

    I still talk with her and I trust she hears me on the lev­els that mat­ter. My father died many years ago, but he too is still with me and was with me all through the writ­ing of my book. When you read it some­day you will see why and how.

    Thank you dear Lance for touch­ing my life in a very pre­cious and spe­cial way, a very REAL way. I always go away feel­ing more like ME. I am send­ing you, your dear Mom and beau­ti­ful wife much love on this mother’s day…and always. Robin

    Robin Easton´s last blog post..Do You Dream Music?

  22. Laurie says:

    You wrote this Lance? Once again, all I have to say is INCREDIBLE!

  23. So beau­ti­ful! I love it! :) So sweet that you ded­i­cated this to your mother AND your wife. I’m sure they are both so moved by it.

    Pos­i­tively Present´s last blog post..wind beneath my wings

  24. Lance, Wow, I was really moved. That was beau­ti­ful! I tried to take my wife to din­ner tonight but she refused. She said my daugh­ter has to to it. :-(

    Robin, I’m sorry about your mother. My thoughts are with you but I think your mother is happy. She con­tin­ues to live through you I am quite sure.

    Stephen — Rat Race Trap´s last blog post..The Past, The Present, and The Future

  25. Patricia says:

    Very nice Thank you for shar­ing and how for­tu­nate for your mother and your wife to have your expres­sion given to all.
    I love the daisy pic­ture too.
    This is the first year I have not had to get an orchid for my mother and attempt to think up some­thing to let my Mother in law know that she is a worth­while per­son. It reminds me that I took good care of those good caregivers.

    Appre­ci­a­tion and kind­ness are such appre­ci­ated gifts.

    Patricia´s last blog post..Light­en­ing Up the Mother Load

  26. Beau­ti­ful post Lance. I have no doubt that your Mum and wife feel just as grate­ful to have you in their lives as you are to have them.

    Sami — Life, Laughs & Lemmings´s last blog post..Fri­day Ques­tion — Advice from Mum

  27. Lance says:

    To all the moth­ers stop­ping by here today, may today be a very Happy Mother’s Day for each of you!

    @Hilary — Hi Hilary. Thank you! And many bless­ings to you as well.

    @Rupal — Well said! Thanks for stop­ping by today.

    @Miz — Hi Carla. Your words are much appre­ci­ated, my friend. I AM blessed with some very won­der­ful peo­ple in my world — my wife and my mother being two at the top of that list! Have won­der­ful day with your fam­ily! Happy Mom’s Day!

    @Daphne — Hav­ing a per­son you know you can turn to, no mat­ter what, makes all the dif­fer­ence, doesn’t it. You mother sounds very spe­cial, thanks for shar­ing this. And thank you for your kind words, I really am blessed!

    @Stacey Ship­man — I’m pass­ing it on (well…really, Lora’s read­ing it!). Thank you! I hope your day with your mom was a won­der­ful day for both of you. Sounds like your mom is a pretty spe­cial lady, now I know where you get it from…

    @Natalia — Hi Natalia. Thank you, and a very happy Mom’s day to you as well!

    @Yum Yucky — Hi Josie. Thanks much! The sun is out and four kids coat­ing you with their love — that does sound like an awe­some way to spend the day — enjoy! Happy Mother’s Day to you!

    @LisaNewton — Hi Lisa. And, you’re wel­come, glad to bring out a smile. While I’ll never fully know what it’s like to be a mother, I learn more and more all the time of how truly con­nected moth­ers are to their chil­dren. And that’s pretty spe­cial. It sure sounds like you’ve raised your kids in such a way that they are liv­ing out the prin­ci­ples you’ve instilled in them. Happy Mother’s Day to you Lisa!

  28. Lance says:

    @Jannie — Jan­nie, thank you, very deeply, for every­thing you’re say­ing. All these plan­ets you know…I want to know more! I know you’re hav­ing a beau­ti­ful day, in so many ways. Enjoy your fam­ily, and knock ‘em out at the debut of your CD!

    @Jenny Man­nion — Hi Jenny. Thank you! I appre­ci­ate what you’re say­ing very much. Enjoy your day with your fam­ily, and your time with your mother. Happy Mother’s Day to you, my friend.

    @Diane C. — Hi Diane. Thank you! Uncon­di­tional love — as a father, I believe I have that. Yet, I also think that a mother’s con­nec­tion with her child is so great, that this is an uncon­di­tional love that is even stronger.

    @Suddenly Slim­mer — Hi Alia. I’m sorry to hear your mother is no longer with you here. Know­ing you always have her with you deep within your soul — that is some­thing worth hang­ing on to.

    @Stacey / Cre­ate A Bal­ance — Hi Stacey. Ah, tak­ing time for our­selves. I have a hard time with this some­times. And I think it can be more dif­fi­cult for moth­ers, in gen­eral, as they tend to focus more on their children’s needs over their own. And you make a won­der­ful point, Stacey, that if we’re not tak­ing care of our­selves, then how can be prop­erly take care of oth­ers. Thanks for shar­ing this — we can’t ever hear it too much. Happy Mom’s Day to you…

    @Evelyn — Hi Eve­lyn. Well, I’m pretty sure I’m the lucky one — hav­ing these two great ladies in my life. Thanks much, your words mean the world to me! Happy Mother’s Day Evelyn!

    @Mark Sali­nas — Hi Mark, great to see you! And…ditto that — Happpy Moth­ers Day to all the moms!

    @Henie — Hi Henie. I love the quote! Mom’s sure do a lot to raise kids that turn out to be lov­ing, loyal, pro­duc­tive cit­i­zens. I said it above, and I’ll say it again — I really am the lucky one here. I’ve been blessed with some super won­der­ful peo­ple — my Mom and my wife are the best! And to you, my friend, may your day be won­der­ful — Happy Mother’s Day!

  29. Lance says:

    @Caroline — Thank you Car­o­line. I’m sure that with­out my wife around, sev­eral things would occur: our kids would go hun­gry, their clothes would be in sham­bles, they’d never fin­ish their home­work, they’d be late for school, and prob­a­bly have been left some­place way more times than I’d care to count. And that’s only the tip of this ice­berg! Mom’s do it all. And I really don’t know how some­times. So Car­o­line, to you today — Happy Mother’s Day — it’s well deserved!

    @Nadia — Hi Nadia. Oh, I’m glad you love the pic­ture — a bright and cheery flower seemed like just the right photo today! Nadia, I’m sorry to hear about your mother, and I’m sure that does make this day espe­cially dif­fi­cult — as it brings up mem­o­ries of her for you. And at the same time, reminds you that those days are past. That you hold her dearly in your heart — what a com­pletely won­der­ful thought. And I think it shows us that our mom’s are always with us. Always. Even when we can’t see them. And there is some­thing very com­fort­ing in that thought.

    @Laurie — Hi Lau­rie. Your words are won­der­ful and know that I appre­ci­ate them very much. Thank you, Lau­rie, always, for being so thought­ful in your words and actions. And a very Happy Mother’s Day to you! (and yes, I did write this..my hand at some­thing poetic…) Thank you once again Lau­rie, you’re giv­ing me a really big head today!

    @Evita — Hi Evita. Thank you. On what is touch­ing you here, the ded­i­ca­tion — I’m so glad this part touched you. These really are two very spe­cial ladies in my life. And glad to hear you had the chance to have lunch with your mom today — a won­der­ful lady, I’m sure, just like you…

    @Robin Eas­ton — Hi Robin. Your words here tonight are very mean­ing­ful to me. And they touch me deeply, as in read­ing your words, I’m reminded even more just how spe­cial both of these ladies are to me. And to think about this and with your mother hav­ing Alzheimer’s, I’m sure there can be dif­fi­cult moments. And you’re remind­ing me to appre­ci­ate the time I have with all those I love — as the truth is, we never know when it may be taken away from us. That you hold the soul or your mother with you — Robin, this is beau­ti­ful. She will be with you always. And I look for­ward to you book, and to truly know­ing more — you are such a soul-connected per­son Robin. And that shines through, always, in every­thing you say. And to your mother, know too that I’m send­ing much love to her as well. And to you, my friend, love and patience, things I know you already have, I add to your abun­dance. Con­tinue to be a light in every place you go…

    @Positively Present — Thank you! Your words are very kind and I’m deeply grateful.

    @Stephen — Hi Stephen, and thank you. I’m sure there will be other times to treat your wife to din­ner. Now…to get your daugh­ter to treat…

    @Patricia — Hi Patri­cia. Glad to hear you liked this. There comes a time to move on to a bet­ter place, and they have. May you con­tinue to remem­ber both of these ladies, and what they meant in your life. Thank so much for stop­ping by here today.

    @Sami — Hi Sami. Thank you. And your kind words are very much appreciated.

  30. If it wasn’t for my mom I would be an angry lonely man. She gave me the strength to believe in myself and make the most of my tal­ents. Every day I’m amazed by how much she loves me. Of course I love her a mil­lion times over too, but a mother’s love for her child is a spe­cial love that can never be matched.

    Karl Staib — Work Happy Now´s last blog post..Make Every Employee Feel Cool

  31. Lance– That is such a touch­ing trib­ute. Both sound like very spe­cial ladies. I like the line “Lov­ing arms to hold me close
    And wings to let me fly“
    That is exactly what I try to do every day for my own kids, with­out whom I wouldn’t be a mom and get this fab­u­lous day!
    Enjoy the day! Erin

    Erin Prais-Hintz´s last blog post..Meet My New Friend: Gustav

  32. Hi Lance,

    Hav­ing read the beau­ti­ful words you wrote to your mother and your wife con­firms what a won­der­ful man you are.

    I lost my mom, but not a day goes by that what she taught me, or how her life affected me, doesn’t come into play. There’s noth­ing like a mother’s love. You are blessed to be sur­rounded by two won­der­ful women — two beau­ti­ful moms.

    Bar­bara Swafford´s last blog post..Writ­ing With­out A Blog

  33. Mindful mimi says:

    Lance,
    Every day is mother’s day really — or father’s day for that mat­ter. I find it a bit (com­mer­cially) sad that we have to have a spe­cial day for that.
    If we only appre­ci­ated the peo­ple we love on a spe­cial day, the world would be a sad unhappy place. Know­ing you a lit­tle I know you are aware of this :-)
    Enjoy your week.

    Mind­ful mimi´s last blog post..Sun­day laugh

  34. Suzie Cheel says:

    I Love the poem and it made me think of my mum and the won­der­ful times we did share, the laugh­ter and her won­der­ful wis­dom. I often think that she would have loved this path I have been on since she passed. I know I still have all her lit­tle books of say­ings that I found in draw­ers by her bed.
    Thanks
    Lance

    Suzie Cheel´s last blog post..Super Abun­dant Blog­gers # 9

  35. Lance says:

    @Karl — Hi Karl. Sounds like your mother was a won­der­ful per­son and a big influ­ence in your life. And I agree, a mother’s love for their chil­dren is some­thing that is so strong I don’t know how it can be matched here on earth.

    @Erin — Hi Erin. Thank you, so much! Hold­ing your chil­dren close, and giv­ing them the space to spread their wings — awe­some! Erin, I hope your day yes­ter­day was filled with many lov­ing moments. I can just tell from what you write how deeply you value these peo­ple in your life, and that’s pretty spe­cial. Happy Mother’s Day to you…a day late!

    @Barbara — Hi Bar­bara. You are way kind to me Bar­bara (you always have been!) — thank you! And that your mother is still with you in spirit, that’s a true tes­ta­ment to what a won­der­ful per­son she was in your life. Con­tinue to hold onto that.

    @Mimi — Hi Mimi. You’re right — I’m a father every day. You’re a mother every day. And an excel­lent point — what if we appre­ci­ated all those won­der­ful peo­ple in our lives a lit­tle more every day, mak­ing every moment spe­cial. So…today’s not Mother’s Day any­more, and I want you to know that you are doing great stuff for those kids in your life — keep being a great mom!

    @Suzie — Hi Suzie. Your mother sounds like she was a great per­son, and a big influ­ence in your life. While I’m sure you miss, her, I’m sure you still hold her close to your heart. And that means she’s not really gone, just that you can’t see her. Thanks so much for your com­ment Suzie!

  36. You have the soul of a poet, Lance :-) Beau­ti­ful post.

    You are very lucky to have the two won­der­ful women in your life!!

    Jewel/Pink Ink´s last blog post..Inter­est­ing Phone Call

  37. Audra Krell says:

    I was very touched by this trib­ute to your mom and wife. And then, in your great way, you make it feel like it’s for the rest of us mom’s too! Thank you!

    You tell your mom that she did a won­der­ful job with you. You are a respected man of strength, power and glory. We appre­ci­ate every­thing she did!

    Audra Krell´s last blog post..Aban­doned Inside

  38. Mark says:

    A won­der­ful poem and aware­ness of the love of all Mothers!

    Mark´s last blog post..Be Thank­ful For The Chal­langes in Our Life

  39. Lisa's Chaos says:

    What a great trib­ute to moth­ers every­where! It was hard for me to fin­ish the poem — my kept being drawn back to those awe­some flowers!

    Lisa’s Chaos´s last blog post..A Gummy Macro Monday

  40. what a BEAUTIFUL post! Aww… (and I love the photo too!)

    meleah rebeccah´s last blog post..Monday’s With Meleah

  41. That’s a great poem! :) I love moth­ers day because not only have I been blessed with a won­der­ful mother, I have the best two kids, who MADE me a mother!

    Liz Rosenbaum´s last blog post..Daily Menu Plan: Day 2

  42. Bella says:

    Gor­geous words
    to gift 2 won­der­ful
    women with on their
    spe­cial day ~ love it, Lancerooni!

  43. Lance says:

    @Jewel — Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!! And, thank you!!! You are espe­cially kind with your words, and know that I appre­ci­ate them very much… And I hope that Mother’s Day was a won­der­ful day for you.

    @Audra — Hi Audra. Moms rock! Moms are awe­some! Moms some­times have a job that doesn’t get a lot of praise — and they should — with all they do! So for that, my mom, and my wife — they both are great moth­ers! And so are you, Audra! And…you’re way nice with your words, do you know that… Thank you. Very much. Thank you.

    @Mark — Thanks much!

    @Lisa’s Chaos — The flow­ers are so bright and cheery, they just seemed so fit­ting for this post! Thanks for stop­ping by Lisa!

    @Meleah — Hi Meleah. Thank you, glad you liked it! And a late Happy Mother’s Day to you…

    @Liz — Hi Liz, and thank you!! I can really tell how appre­cia­tive you are of your own mother, and for your own role as a mother today. Your kids are very lucky to have you in their life — I know you’re giv­ing them the tools they need for suc­cess in life. Keep being the awe­some mom you are…

    @Bella — Hi Bel­la­rooni!! Thank you, moth­ers cer­tainly are spe­cial, and deserve to be remem­bered (every day).

  44. Liara Covert says:

    Mother’s Day can also be every­day. Com­mer­cial­ized soci­eties encour­age peo­ple to rec­og­nize mom’s once a year with some appro­pri­ate ges­ture. It is also pos­si­ble to be more aware of rea­sons to be grate­ful for mom and show her you care 365 days of the year. You decide what works for you. Love is the answer. It is the all-knowing guide that sticks by you always.

    Liara Covert´s last blog post..Grasp an unfath­omable mystery

  45. Lance says:

    Hi Liara. You are def­i­nitely cor­rect — we can cel­e­brate our moth­ers’ every day of the year — espe­cially con­sid­er­ing all they do for us. Love is where it’s at…

  46. Cricket says:

    Oh Lance. This was just beau­ti­ful. I am happy that my mom is doing well and that I have her here today to love.

    You are lucky to be in love and both women that you love by your side.

    Cricket´s last blog post..I Pon­der

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