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Sunday Thought For The Day

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“If you want your life to be a mag­nif­i­cent story, then begin by real­iz­ing that you are the author and every­day you have the oppor­tu­nity to write a new page.” ~ Mark Houlahan

 

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Self reliance and opti­mism, yes, these are two key ingre­di­ent for a happy life.
    .-= Miguel de Luis´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Thurs­day Haiku: Great days =-.

  2. Hi, Lance!

    Happy Sun­day! I’m read­ing a Byron Katie book now, rec­om­mended by Tess at The Bold Life, and just last night I was think­ing, “Wow, it’s okay to drop my ‘old’ story and keep liv­ing this new one. I’m not tainted by who I used to be.” I used to sort of look back at who I was and shud­der (even though I know that spir­i­tu­ally I should embrace all parts of myself ). Your quote today rein­forces my belief that let­ting go of those old chap­ters is okay. I wrote them way back when and they were nec­es­sary in the moment, but don’t affect what gets writ­ten today or even tomor­row… And they cer­tainly don’t “taint” me.

    As always, I’m inspired by your con­tent. So thank you!
    .-= Megan “Joy­Girl!” Bord´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..A Happy Mouth = Just Plain Happy =-.

  3. Dr. Rus says:

    Wow! What an amaz­ing thought and a great reminder!

    Thanks Lance!

  4. Miz says:

    It is silly in a way but, before ever meet­ing my daugh­ter, I chose for her the song UNWRITTEN as her song (N.Bedingfield) as it says pretty much the same thing.

    your life is an open book. it’s unwrit­ten. now git to scrawling.

    good luck today and have fun!
    .-= Miz´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..First Per­son Fri­day (give­away post). =-.

  5. Miz — that song is one of my favorites for the lyrics alone.

    So true…we all have it in us to write our own story. Sharpen up your pen­cils! Let’s get ready to write!

  6. Adrenalynn says:

    Thank you, I REALLY needed this today. When I saw your post pop up in my reader I clicked through hop­ing it would help bring me some per­spec­tive — and it did.
    .-= Adrenalynn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Because my life just con­tin­ues to be awe­some. =-.

  7. Evelyn Lim says:

    I love this quote very much. It is true that each of us write the story of our life. We can either choose to fill our pages with drama and neg­a­tiv­ity or with love and peace.
    .-= Eve­lyn Lim´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Love The Man In The Mir­ror =-.

  8. I am going to check out those UNWRITTEN lyrics for sure.

    Super quote, Lance! We are the mas­ters of our own author­ship — nice lit­tle shot in the arm today. Thanks!
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Another video from my CD release show =-.

  9. Chania Girl says:

    The great thing about the story of our lives is that we can change it mid­stream. I feel blessed lately to have been able to do just this, to see themes I haven’t liked and out­comes I don’t desire, and decide that the next chap­ters aren’t going to be writ­ten that way.

    (I like the ‘Unwrit­ten’ song, too.:) In Greece, I played it for my class of all teenage girls, and they loved it! I had tears in my eyes watch­ing them sing along.)
    .-= Cha­nia Girl´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Por­trait of An Artist =-.

  10. Jeanne says:

    Fab­u­lous
    Happy Sun­day
    Bless­ings
    Jeanne?
    .-= Jeanne´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Love is =-.

  11. This reminds me of what my sis­ter yells to her kids as they walk out the door every­day to school. She says, “Make it a great day!” instead of “Have a good day!” It’s up to us. I love this reminder!
    .-= Liz Rosenbaum´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..100% Whole-Wheat Bread =-.

  12. Laurie says:

    Real­iz­ing what this quote says has changed me life. I always thought that excite­ment was for other peo­ple. I didn’t know how to be one of those “other peo­ple” so I thought I just missed the boat some­how. Then I real­ized every­one is one of those “other peo­ple” if they go for it in life. So that was when I gave myself per­mis­sion to have adven­tures and dreams. It has made all the dif­fer­ence in the qual­ity of my life. It also has made a dif­fer­ence in my spir­i­tual life in that I live more from a place of grat­i­tude and thanks­giv­ing. Enjoy­ing cre­ation and life is a form of wor­ship that God loves to see.

  13. Yum Yucky says:

    I had a big ‘olé paper bag on top of my head for most of my twen­ties — totally blinded . But I’ve had my pen and paper out for a while now and I like where the story is lead­ing me (finally)!
    .-= Yum Yucky´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Just Added! Carl’s Jr. Cheat Sheet =-.

  14. Mama Zen says:

    That’s just per­fect.
    .-= Mama Zen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Mama Zen — Crime Fighter! =-.

  15. vikum says:

    Hi Lance,
    Really an awe­some quote. An inspir­ing story which is gonna echo in hearts or another bor­ing story? The choice is ours.
    Great work Lance :)
    .-= vikum´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Brick walls are there for a rea­son =-.

  16. Exactly! Check out Pos­i­tively Present from a few days ago on writ­ing your own end­ing.
    .-= Stephen — Rat Race Trap´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Find­ing Your True Self =-.

  17. SpinDiva says:

    Such a timely mes­sage, as always Lance. I do agree that we write our own story and there’s never a bet­ter time like the present to get started. Thanks for the inspirations.

    Terie
    .-= SpinDiva´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Get­ting Fit with the Wii–oh yeah, it can hap­pen =-.

  18. Great quote! You know I love this one after hav­ing writ­ten the piece ear­lier in the week about how we should write our own sto­ries. This quote fits per­fectly with the idea and I’m glad you shared it with us. :)
    .-= Pos­i­tively Present´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..say­ing no to neg­a­tiv­ity is as easy as ABC(DE) =-.

  19. This is such a great quote to read as we start a new week. Thank you!
    .-= Jodi at Joy Discovered´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Giv­ing Your­self Per­mis­sion =-.

  20. Davina says:

    Hi Lance. This is a great per­spec­tive. It’s true, but not always that sim­ple… maybe it’s not sup­posed to be :-) There is a lot of room to be play­ful with this idea. We could write a new char­ac­ter for our­selves and play with it just to see how it feels. Or rewrite the char­ac­ters of peo­ple in our lives to look at them from another per­spec­tive. Thanks for get­ting the cre­ative wheels spin­ning on this Sun­day Lance. Hope you’re hav­ing a good one.
    .-= Davina´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..On the Edge of Being =-.

  21. Lynn says:

    Lance — I like the notion of each day begin­ning with a new chap­ter of ones own story. Thank you for the inspi­ra­tion today!
    .-= Lynn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Futur­is­tic, treat and our song =-.

  22. This is the first step to leav­ing vic­tim­hood behind, know­ing that you are respon­si­ble for what hap­pens in your life each day.
    .-= Patri­cia — Spir­i­tual Jour­ney Of A Lightworker´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Inde­pen­dence Day =-.

  23. Chris says:

    I needed this today. I’m in a dif­fi­cult space… Thank you.
    .-= Chris´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Just Doing My Job =-.

  24. Jenny says:

    It’s funny how you can open an e-mail and see some­thing that is so pro­found! It may not be a lot, but it is nice to be reminded that we are our own authors of our lives! Thanks!
    .-= Jenny´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Still No Title…But Here’s More! =-.

  25. Lisa's Chaos says:

    Deep thoughts but worth putting into use. :)
    .-= Lisa’s Chaos´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Wis­con­sin Wan­der­ings =-.

  26. This is so true and yet, it is harder to take seri­ously some days than oth­ers. I always real­ize when I am recov­er­ing from a sit­u­a­tion when I remem­ber that I have choices to start new every day and embrace the life that each day offers as it unfolds!
    .-= The Exception´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Just for a Moment =-.

  27. We’ve all read or hear it so many times… you are in unti­mate con­trol of how your life unfolds… if you choose to accept it. Thanks again Lance,
    Dar­ren Sproat
    .-= Dar­ren Sproat´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..A Lit­tle Piece of Happy =-.

  28. suzen says:

    Oh Lance how per­fectly sim­ple and appro­pri­ate! Just like when I’m writ­ing, pages can go into the trash and be for­got­ten — those pages are the “mis­takes” that I may have learned from but do not need to keep re-reading. Every day a new blank page — love it!
    .-= suzen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Coin­ci­dences and The Spon­ta­neous Ful­fill­ment of Desire =-.

  29. So true. I’ve been writ­ing new pages both lit­er­ally and metaphor­i­cally. A very inter­est­ing way to look at life. Thanks Lance!
    .-= Sami — Life, Laughs & Lemmings´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Fri­day Ques­tion – A $53 Mil­lion Ques­tion =-.

  30. Audra Krell says:

    I love what Liz R said in the com­ments. Now, I will start telling my kids to make it a good day, remind­ing them that they have the choice!
    I’ve been so stuck in my writing.…this is great inspi­ra­tion. It reminds me that God is the author of my life and I have the choice to pick up my pen­cil (or go to my key­board more likely) and write out this love story He has given me. His mer­cies are new every day, so it is exactly that, a new, fresh, white as snow blank page every sin­gle day!
    Thanks for being on my page Lance!
    .-= Audra Krell´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Doing their own stunts? =-.

  31. Lance says:

    @Miguel — Good points Miguel. While we can’t always “go it alone”, hav­ing self reliance and being opti­mistic –> these really show a belief in self. And this is so impor­tant as we go forth writ­ing the pages of our life.

    @Megan — Thanks much for shar­ing this Megan. Our past is just that — past. And what we have now, while our past makes up who we are — it doesn’t dic­tate who we will be. So, I think this is really great! You are a mag­nif­i­cent story…keep on writ­ing that!

    @Dr. Rus — Thanks much Dr. Rus! It’s really pretty pow­er­ful when you think about what it says…

    @Miz — That’s a great song (I just lis­tened to it, as I’ve never heard it before). They lyrics are so close to what this quote says. And it’s such a great mes­sage in the song — so it’s not silly at all! What a gift to give your daugh­ter! And if our book is unwrit­ten, then what are we going to write in it? We have the choice of what those words are… Thanks for shar­ing this song, Miz. And thanks for the well wishes today — it was all great (and I was ready for a nap by noon!).

    @Stacey Ship­man — The lyrics to Unwrit­ten as so good, aren’t they (as I said to Miz, this is a new song to me, and words used are so uplift­ing!) That’s right, be ready to write (and write with deep meaning).

    @Adrenalynn — Glad this quote was good for you, Lynn. It is for me too…

    @Evelyn — Choice. I love that Eve­lyn. Because it’s so true, we all have the choice of what goes into our “book of life”. What will we choose?

  32. Lance says:

    @Jannie — The “Unwrit­ten” lyrics are awe­some (I just checked them out), and they fit to this quote so well. Keep on writ­ing your story, it’s a won­der­ful one my friend…

    @Chania Girl — We can always start a new chap­ter –> so true Cha­nia Girl. And the past is behind us, and we can move for­ward writ­ing how­ever we choose. I know you’re choos­ing to write your story in some very won­der­ful ways! And wow! Shar­ing the “Unwrit­ten” song with teenage girls, and see­ing their reac­tion had to be a very mov­ing moment — thanks so much for shar­ing this.

    @Jeanne — Thanks much Jeanne!

    @Liz — Hi Liz! It’s great to see you! The word “make” really does imply that we have a choice — and so that really is a great mes­sage of “believ­ing in your­self” that your sis­ter is pass­ing on…wonderful!

    @Laurie — Hi Lau­rie. Thanks for shar­ing this part of your jour­ney. Yes, we all can choose to write what­ever it is that has mean­ing for us in the “book of our life”, or we can choose to write that which doesn’t have mean­ing, or is influ­enced more by oth­ers than our own inter­nal feel­ings. So, Lau­rie, I think this is awe­some to where you’ve taken your­self. And I know you’re doing this — writ­ing (and liv­ing) that story that is yours, that has mean­ing, and has excite­ment for you!

    @Yum Yucky — Hey Josie. It’s not like we all “get” this from day one of our lives. It’s a process to get there, and the thing is — we can start that new chap­ter when­ever we want to. So maybe you did have a paper bad on your head in your twen­ties — you’re prob­a­bly the one I ran into because I couldn’t see with my own bag over my head (the swelling has “finally” went down…whew…that took a looong time…). I like your story too Josie — although it really doesn’t mat­ter what I think, what mat­ters is how you feel about that story — and it sounds like it’s a masterpiece!

    @Mama Zen — Thanks much Kelli!

  33. Lance says:

    @Vikum — Thanks Vikum! Yes, the choice of what we put into our story — is ours. What’s it going to be?

    @Stephen — I think I missed that, I’ll have to check it out — thanks much!

    @SpinDiva — Hi Terie. Now is all we have for sure — how do we want to use that time? Would it be dif­fer­ent if we knew we had only a cer­taim amount of time to live? It’s so easy to get caught up in the day to day of life — and before we know it another year has passed, another five years gone, and pretty soon we won­der where the last 20 years went. This quote really reminds me that what I have is “now”, and what do I want writ­ten about that. Thanks so much for stop­ping by today.

    @Positively Present — I missed what you wrote ear­lier this week — I’ll have to check it out, thanks for point­ing me that Dani.

    @Jodi — Thanks much Jodi, glad you liked it!

    @Davina — Hi Davina. You’re sure right that this isn’t always easy — it’s sure not for me on some days! I love the cre­ative angles you’re look­ing at this through — we really could go in many direc­tions with this! And that’s a very cool con­cept! Yes, I’ve had a won­der­ful Sun­day, hope yours has been too.

    @LYnn — Each day as a new chap­ter –> like say­ing that each day we can start anew. And that thought just feels really good! Thanks Lynn!

    @Patricia — Spir­i­tual Jour­ney of a Light­worker — Patri­cia, thanks so much for shar­ing this, for all who have been vic­tim­ized in some way. This can cer­tainly not be easy, yet this is so empow­er­ing, I find. We ‘can’ choose…

  34. Lance says:

    @Chris — Chris, thank you for being here today, and for being so honest.

    @Jenny — That’s right, Jenny — we author our lives. I know, that can be easy to for­get sometimes…and when we do, what’s get­ting writ­ten in our book may not be what we truly want written.

    @Lisa’s Chaos — Def­i­nitely worth putting into use — thanks Lisa!

    @The Excep­tion — The choice to start new. Yes, that’s it! We always have that choice, even if the choice may not seem all that grand or pro­found — it’s still a choice we have every­day in how we live out our lives. Well worth think­ing about…

    @Darren — Yes, what do we accept in our lives? Do we accept that we have con­trol over it? Or do we just go through life…going through the motions? Lots of ques­tions, and ones only we indi­vid­u­ally can answer. But so worth think­ing about, and what they mean in our lives. Thanks Darren!

    @Suzen — It’s like start­ing with a fresh slate every day. And I know, this may be a bit of an exaggeration…although maybe it’s not, really. Even if our past has things that are still held over us, we still can choose to start ‘today’ anew. And that’s an empow­er­ing thought! Thanks much Suzen, I love what you’re say­ing here…

    @Sami — Hey Sami. Oh, good stuff! Lit­eral and metaphor­i­cal pages of life. And really — if we think about this — that’s a great way to approach this idea of our “book of life”. It’s not just a phys­i­cal book, and it’s not just a metaphor­i­cal book — but when we use both of these, how pow­er­ful this can be, as we also record our ‘life’ in a real book, a jour­nal, or some­thing sim­i­lar — get­ting those thoughts out of our head and onto paper. Sami, thank you for this. I find what you’re say­ing to be such a won­der­ful concept!

    @Audra — I love what Liz wrote too, about ‘mak­ing it a good day’! Such a pos­i­tive mes­sage. Yes, we were cre­ated by our Cre­ator. He has made us unique and won­der­ful, each of us. And when we think our life this way, and how we are truly unique, then so is our story. And how will we write this unique story or our lives? Audra, this is such a won­der­ful thing to think about. I love it all! And thank you, also — for being on my page, and adding your light along my journey…

  35. Bunnygotblog says:

    Hi Lance,
    I really appre­ci­ate what you have writ­ten here.
    I read Dani’s arti­cle ear­lier and have seemed to be quot­ing from it myself on other blogs.
    You have given us a won­der­ful arti­cle from your point of view.
    Great job!
    .-= Bunnygotblog´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Adver­tis­ing Towards Dum­mies – Teenage Illu­sions =-.

  36. Thanks for this. To me it’s a reminder to take respon­si­bil­ity for every area of my life right now, and not to blame out­side cir­cum­stances for any­thing that isn’t work­ing for me.

  37. Cricket says:

    Very nice quote to end my Sun­day. So much truth behind this quote.
    .-= Cricket´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..I wish, I wish… =-.

  38. Jill says:

    I won­der if it mat­ters how many re-writes we have? My story changes con­stantly. I don’t think I’d have it any other way.
    .-= Jill´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Trib­ute to Zach =-.

  39. Linda Abbit says:

    Hi Lance,

    Respon­si­bil­ity for our lives.

    Resilience if the chap­ter is dark.

    Rejoic­ing when the chap­ter is happy.

    Thanks for a great quote. Have a won­der­ful week!
    .-= Linda Abbit´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Feel Good Fri­days — 7÷10÷09 =-.

  40. J.D. Meier says:

    There’s a lot to be said for writ­ing a page at a time. Inter­est­ingly, today I was reflect­ing on how we can improve life a scene at a time … like a bunch of Hall­mark moments. I remem­ber when I got hit by a car and my life flashed before my eyes … I thought life really is a col­lage of expe­ri­ences … a mash up of your high­lights that over­shadow your low lights.
    .-= J.D. Meier´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Dis­cover Your Why =-.

  41. Lance says:

    @Bunny — Hi Bunny. This does fit well with Dani’s arti­cle, and I’m glad this has added to your per­spec­tive. Thanks for stop­ping by!

    @Chris Edgar — Respon­si­bil­ity. I love that word use here in the con­text you are, Chris! Yes, we are respon­si­ble for our lives, for what gets writ­ten in our “life book”. Even though we can’t con­trol every­thing that hap­pens, we still always have the poser of choice. Thanks for this!

    @Cricket — Tammy, thanks so much for being here, and I’m glad you enjoyed this.

    @Jill — Re-writes in our story of life are per­fectly okay. Or, to know that we can always start with a blank page, there’s much reas­sur­ance in this, and in what this means. So Jill, keep on rewrit­ing as you’re so moved to do — and keep mak­ing your won­der­ful story that much more mean­ing­ful to you.

    @Linda — Hi Linda. Great thoughts! The three “R’s” — respon­si­bil­ity, resilience, and rejoic­ing! I really love this that you’ve shared, it speaks to all the chap­ters we’ll have in our lives, not just the “good” moments.

    @J.D. — Moments where our life flashes before us — these can really be moments where we focus on that which mat­ters. And as bad as this can be, there is much good in this also — in see­ing what deeply mat­ters. Look­ing at the “scenes” in our life, another great way to tell our story…the story we want to tell…

  42. What a pow­er­ful quote ‚Lance! It’s so true. Some­thing that I for­get quite often! Thanks for the reminder

    Con­grats on your triathlon, was this your first? Last?

    Natalia :)
    .-= Natalia Burleson´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Happy! =-.

  43. Well how per­fect that I get this Mon­day instead of Sun­day. I decided to run a 1/2 marathon in San Jose CA. in Octo­ber. Because our temps are now in triple dig­its I com­mit­ted to get­ting out there by 4:30. I just got back and the first page of train­ing is writ­ten. Way to go Lance. I won­der how many peo­ple you are inspir­ing to write books. And then how many peo­ple will be affected by them and oth­ers will be inspired by them to write their own as well. And new sto­ries will be writ­ten and old laid down to R.I.P.

    I think you changed the world today with that one quote!
    .-= Tess The Bold Life´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Mon­days = 1/7 of Your Life =-.

  44. I prac­tice writ­ing my next page every sin­gle day. I do this through my blog, with my wife, and my friends. My hope is that I keep improv­ing just a lit­tle bit each day. I do this by check­ing in with myself every night before bed. I must say that it’s work­ing. :)
    .-= Karl — Work Happy Now´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..How do I make my peo­ple happy? =-.

  45. Hi Lance,

    Isn’t that the truth?! I always love your quotes and each one is pro­found in its own way. We truly are the writ­ers of our life and I am often amazed at when peo­ple let life pass them by. Life is such a pre­cious jour­ney and time is so valu­able. Sit­ting on the side­lines never does any good, some­times we just need to get out on to the field and get dirty. :)
    .-= Nadia — Happy Lotus´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Hang­ing Out With the Salt­wa­ter Bud­dha =-.

  46. I think you can apply this quote to any com­po­nent of your life…

    - If you want your mar­riage to be a mag­nif­i­cent mar­riage…
    – If you want your job to be a mag­nif­i­cent job…

    It’s mind over mat­ter and the oppor­tu­nity is ours. Thanks Lance
    .-= Stacey / Cre­ate a Bal­ance ´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Giv­ing Myself Per­mis­sion to be Human =-.

  47. Evita says:

    Awe­some thought Lance! I totally agree — we are the authors, we are the cre­ators of our life, so how it turns out or is turn­ing out, is really up to us. Life comes from the inter­nal side of us, not from the exter­nal side, as many peo­ple still believe.
    .-= Evita´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Evolv­ing Being in Action: Julie Rid­dle =-.

  48. Srinivas Rao says:

    I love this quote. This seems to be the advice of so many gurus. Just write your story the way you want it to be, and start visu­al­iz­ing it.

  49. Hi Lance,

    This quote reminds me how impor­tant it is to not only write our own pages, but to allow oth­ers to write their, as well. Oh, what beau­ti­ful sto­ries we can all cre­ate…
    .-= Bar­bara Swafford´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Our Tar­get Audi­ence — Aim­ing For The Bulls Eye =-.

  50. Where do you find these amaz­ing, thought-provoking quotes? I so very much believe in the power of the story that we each have to tell. We are each the star of our own movie.…do we want it to be a tragedy or a com­edy? An action adven­ture or a romance? And why not all of it? I like the idea of start­ing with a fresh page every sin­gle day and writ­ing my story. That is such a pos­i­tive and uplift­ing thought. And it also makes me believe that we have the power to con­trol much of how we react. That atti­tude makes all the dif­fer­ence. Thanks for the inspi­ra­tion, Lance! Enjoy the day! Erin
    .-= Erin Prais-Hintz´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Unlock­ing the Door…What is Your Key? =-.

  51. Sagan says:

    This one makes me giddy. Writ­ingsto­rylove­happy.
    .-= Sagan´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Guest Post: Yoga for Run­ning =-.

  52. LOVE this one Lance! I am try­ing to write a new page each day. Each day hold­ing love, joy, excite­ment and a belief in how I want that book to turn out. Bril­liant as always! :-)
    Love, Jenny
    .-= Jenny Mannion´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Heal­ing Les­son From The Labyrinth =-.

  53. janice says:

    Although this is how I usu­ally approach my life, lov­ing, liv­ing and learn­ing like I’m cre­at­ing a liv­ing, breath­ing work of art in progress, syn­chronic­ity has sent me this mes­sage twice since log­ging on this morn­ing! Time to start fig­ur­ing out why it’s espe­cially impor­tant to sit with that thought today. Thanks, Lance.
    .-= janice´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..How to Breathe Life Into Your Writ­ing =-.

  54. Patricia says:

    Lance,
    Very nice quote and I like the sim­ple pic­ture too — I just love to write and I end the day with my grat­i­tude jour­nal , right before I go to sleep I think of what my key word will be for my next day — or story and then awaken ready to go.

    I am so pleased I am able to get on your blog today, I was get­ting an error mes­sage for so long, I think it was my twit­ter button?

    Now today my email will not down­load! This is get­ting to be a story of frus­tra­tion!
    Good thoughts
    .-= Patricia´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Under­stand­ing Agenda For a New Econ­omy ~ David Kor­ten =-.

  55. Diane C. says:

    I always enjoy your Sun­day Thoughts for the Day. Inter­est­ing quote. Even though I’m retired, I love wak­ing up very early in the morn­ing ready to start each new day. I like the idea of hav­ing choices, which I think the quote is refer­ring to. But I’m also open to the pos­si­bil­ity that I am not the doer.
    .-= Diane C.´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Cac­tus Mon­day — Around the Vis­i­tor Cen­ter =-.

  56. jen says:

    I have never heard this quote before, but I believe it’s true. Some­days, it takes great courage to pick up the pen. I won­der if we’re allowed to tear pages out that we don’t like? I love the adven­ture of rein­vent­ing my life!
    .-= jen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Mickey Mouse’s Wilder­ness Period: The Gen­er­a­tion X Child­hood? =-.

  57. carla says:

    I love being reminded that I am the author, archi­tect or builder of my life Some­times I feel like every­thing is out of con­trol or out of my hands and its good to have this reminder that its not the case — unless you want it to be. Thank you for that quote.
    .-= carla´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Link Love: Bot­tled water, organic pro­duce and more… =-.

  58. Lance says:

    @Natalia — In the daily rou­tines of our life, it IS easy to for­get that we do have a choice of what goes on that piece of paper. I know! And the more we can be aware of this, the more we’ll start to actively write the story we want. And thank you re: the triathlon!! This was the first of the year. I have another in two weeks. Fun stuff!

    @Tess — Tess, this is super-awesome! A 1/2 marathon, that’s so cool! You are writ­ing a won­der­ful story, and this is only one part of it. And your story is so amaz­ing (I’ve read your book — so I know you have lit­er­ally writ­ten that story!). Keep on writ­ing it Tess, you are doing such great things! (and thank you, so much — you ARE so kind…but I knew that already!!)

    @Karl — And that’s a great point. Our book isn’t just one book, or one page, or one char­ac­ter. It’s about all aspects of our life, and the peo­ple we have along on this ride through life with us. Keep at it Karl, you’re doing great stuff!

    @Nadia — Hi Nadia. Yes, we ARE the writ­ers of our life. And then if that’s the case, what do we truly want writ­ten in our “book of life”? And yes — by writ­ing our story, that means get­ting out there and liv­ing our pur­pose and our dreams. Thanks so much Nadia!

    @Stacey/Create A Bal­ance — We sure can! We write all the sto­ries of our life, and by neglect­ing one of them, it means that story is one that’s maybe not what we really want. And I think that’s a great rea­son for balance!

    @Evita — We write our life story, whether we real­ize it or not. So by con­sci­u­osly mak­ing the choice in what goes into “our story”, we develop the story in the amaz­ing ways our life is designed to be led! And that is def­i­nitely an inter­nal choice that makes all the dif­fer­ence. And when we get there, that’s so awe­some, isn’t it!

    @Srinivas — Visu­al­iza­tion can really be a pow­er­ful tech­nique to start see­ing the life we want, so that we can also start writ­ing that story. Great thought!

    @Barbara — Hi Bar­bara. Oh, what an excel­lent point. How easy it can be for us to ‘force’ our thoughts and ideas on oth­ers — and when it’s their story to write, not ours. Bar­bara, thanks so much for bring­ing this up — it’s so easy to for­get. Keep cre­at­ing you beau­ti­ful story…

  59. Lance says:

    @Erin — Would you believe me if I told you a lit­tle bird deliv­ered these every week?? Okay, I didn’t think so! Really, I just look for some­thing that speaks to me, in the moment — that’s such an impor­tant part of this for me. I love the thought you’re shar­ing about us being the star of our own movie, and what would we want that movie to be. And to think of each day as a fresh start, as a chance to start anew…what a lib­er­at­ing thought! Thank you for being here, Erin, and for really adding to this con­ver­sa­tion with your beau­ti­ful thoughts…

    @Sagan — Write on, my friend! Write that won­der­ful story of yours…

    @Jenny Man­nion — Jenny, I know that you are writ­ing a beau­ti­ful story, and one in which I so much enjoy fol­low­ing along with. You exude love and joy, and I can only think that every new page you “write” has these two as pil­lars. Jenny, thank you for being so “you”…

    @Janice — I do believe very much that this is some­thing you do, Jan­ice. And I wish you well on your jour­ney through today, as you weigh the true impor­tance of this mes­sage in your life. Indeed, we each have to take this on our­selves, and it means dif­fer­ent things to dif­fer­ent peo­ple. Thanks for shar­ing this today.

    @Patricia — What a won­der­ful thing you’re doing writ­ing in a grat­i­tude jour­nal, and then focus­ing on a new key word each day! To your prob­lems you were hav­ing — I did some updates this morn­ing to fix some minor prob­lems on the back end, so maybe they were affect­ing you also? Any­way, it’s great to have you here today!

    @Diane C. — Early morn­ing hours are my favorite time of the day, I find much peace in these hours. Yes, I see this as relat­ing to choices also. And even if we’re not the doer, we still have the power to choose what is done in our lives — and that’s a big part of the life story we’re writing…because truth­fully we wouldn’t get far in this life with­out oth­ers there with us along the way.

    @Jen — I believe we can cer­tainly tear pages out if we want to. Or if we want them to reflect back on some day, then keep them there just for that. And yes I agree, not every day is this easy stuff to do. But it is impor­tant stuff. If our life we’re talk­ing about. How do we want that story to be when we’ve reached our end here on earth? jen, these are such good thoughts, thanks for sharing!

    @Carla — You’ve hit upon some­thing so key to this all — that life can seem topsy turvy some­times. And while some things are out of our con­trol, there is still so much that is — so much even that we think isn’t that really is — and this is so good to remem­ber. What are we allow­ing in our lives? Carla, thank you for this thought…

  60. Marelisa says:

    Hi Lance: So many peo­ple carry their past scripts into their present daily lives. Like the quote says, we need to real­ize that every day is a fresh new begin­ning, and we can write any­thing we want in its pages.
    .-= Marelisa´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Free­dom, Non­con­for­mity, and Uncon­ven­tional Liv­ing =-.

  61. I used to hate to journal-the idea of writ­ing what is already in my head just didn’t make sense until a fel­low Guardian Ad Litem vol­un­teer sug­gested it would help relieve the stress of help­ing abused chil­dren. And it worked! So now I write every day and I have to say, I feel less tense about a lot of things in my life.

    Thanks for shar­ing your ideas.
    .-= Cyn­thia Christianson´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Hurry Up and Relax! =-.

  62. Lance says:

    @Marelisa — Mare, that’s a great point…that we some­times carry our past scripts with us. And they can also hold us back from our full poten­tial. Each day CAN be a fresh start!

    @Cynthia — Hi Cyn­thia. Thanks so much for stop­ping in here today! Journaling…something I should do more of… So, hear­ing this from you is so good for me. And I also think it’s great that you’re help­ing out abused children…what a gift to share…

  63. Henie says:

    Thank you for remind­ing all of us to be the best writ­ers that we are!
    .-= Henie´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Mir­a­cles Within =-.

  64. Lance says:

    Henie — What­ever our story…whatever we’re “writ­ing”, we all can cre­ate that new page every day!

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