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Sunday Thought For The Day

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 “The doors of oppor­tu­nity are open­ing around us all the time. You have to have the vision to see what is pos­si­ble on the other side and the courage to walk through them. You never know what oppor­tu­ni­ties for great­ness are wait­ing for you.” ~ Erin Prais-Hintz

 Note:  Erin is a per­sonal friend from here in Wis­con­sin, and author at the Trea­sures Found: Inspi­ra­tion is Every­where web­site.  As well, she designs and sells very per­son­al­ized jew­elry pieces at Tesori Trovati Jew­elry.  We have an amaz­ingly beau­ti­ful piece she cre­ated.  And it is, with the love and care that went into it’s cre­ation, just like every piece of art she designs and creates.

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Michelle says:

    I think that is so true. It’s not only open­ing your soul to what you need to do..but at times mak­ing sac­ri­fices and going with your heart/gut. The beauty of life is choice..and at times it can be painful. The most impor­tant thing is not to shut down when doors open. Instead to get more con­nected with who you really are..and then walk through the door that feels best at the time. Most impor­tantly releas­ing any ‘what ifs’ when the deci­sion is made.

    This is some­thing that I am cur­rently work­ing on..huge deci­sions in the next two weeks. HUGE!

    M

  2. Lisis says:

    The vision has always been the easy part for me… the courage is what I’m work­ing on now. It isn’t enough to imag­ine what is pos­si­ble. We must also act, take some chances, start imple­ment­ing our dreams. Right now I’m try­ing to shift my focus from, “I would like…” to “I will CREATE…”

    Thanks for the reminder!
    .-= Lisis´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Inspi­ra­tion from Osho: Three Truths About Life =-.

  3. Jay Schryer says:

    For me, the prob­lem isn’t with rec­og­niz­ing the doors, but with rec­og­niz­ing too many of them. Some­times I get over­whelmed by the sheer num­ber of choices avail­able to me, and it gets hard to focus on pick­ing a sin­gle one to explore in the face of so many options. I don’t like lim­it­ing myself, which is good some­times (keep­ing an open mind), but it can be par­a­lyz­ing when faced with deci­sions to be made.
    .-= Jay Schryer´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Last Boy Scout =-.

  4. Hi Lance,

    Not only does Erin write beau­ti­ful quotes, but her blog posts and jew­elry reflect her orig­i­nal­ity, as well. Thank you for pro­vid­ing the links to her sites.

    I love the part of this quote that says, “…You have to have the vision to see what is pos­si­ble on the other side…” I know for me, I’ve often for­got­ten to look at the pos­si­bil­i­ties and just accepted things as “that’s the way it is”. Matu­rity has taught me there’s more to life than meets the eye. Like Erin say, we need to “see” and then have the courage to take that first step.
    .-= Bar­bara Swafford´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Recipe For Blog Suc­cess =-.

  5. HI Lance and Erin,
    What a lovely Sun­day Thought…from a lovely write blog­ger and Jew­ellery designer. Wow..all these things in one per­son is an awe­some com­bi­na­tion.
    Oppor­tu­nity, vision and courage.…all put together are a sure shot way to achiev­ing great­ness in this world and in our own spir­i­tual jour­ney. Hav­ing the vision is eas­ier than actu­ally hav­ing the courage to fol­low through.
    Thank you for this won­der­ful reminder.
    “Jun­gle of life“Always my favorite place to be on a sun­day
    Am head­ing over to Erins now to read more of her beau­ti­ful writ­ing :) C u there.
    .-= Zeenat{Positive Provocations}´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..On Compassion{Inspirational Quote of the Week} =-.

  6. Not tak­ing things at face value — that’s some­thing that popped into my head when I read Erin’s quote. Bar­bara touched on this in her com­ment, and I’m in the same boat: I don’t always have the fore­sight to see a door of oppor­tu­nity and rec­og­nize what it holds. There­fore I don’t always walk to the other side with the strength and courage that’s needed. I just sit and stare at it, and then it dis­ap­pears after awhile.
    I liked what Michelle said, though, about trust­ing our gut instinct or heart in sit­u­a­tions. Some­times I see a door, which to oth­ers would look phe­nom­e­nal, but I hear a prompt from within me that says, “That’s not your door.” When I can access the deep­est part of my soul and make deci­sions from there, magic hap­pens. I float more freely through life, know­ing that I’m divinely led to wher­ever I need to be.
    Thank you for this lovely quote, and for shar­ing Erin’s web sites. The jew­elry is fan­tas­tic, and her words of wis­dom are touch­ing.
    Happy Sun­day!
    .-= Megan “Joy­Girl!” Bord´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..It’s a Jun­gle Out There =-.

  7. Suzie Cheel says:

    How true, tak­ing the courage to look beyond and see what is on the other side empow­ers to step into our bril­liance
    thanks for the thought and the stretch
    Be Abun­dant
    Suzie
    .-= Suzie Cheel´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What Am I Grate­ful For Today? #130 =-.

  8. Courage is always a big part of liv­ing WHO you are. What you dare to do…defines your inner spirit.
    .-= Bar­bara Ling, Vir­tual Coach´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Today’s Quote of the Day – If life was fair… =-.

  9. Miz says:

    vision and courage. two key things for suc­cess in all realms huh? from rela­tion­ships to the world of work. I ADORE that this quote is from a friend, Lance.
    Im not a huge fan of quotes in gen­eral and, when a friend grew frus­trated with that once and asked me WHY, I brazenly told her I wish to be the one quoted :) to read my own words OR THOSE OF MY FELLOW WO/MAN.

    some­one who isnt famous but is insight­ful none the less.

    there is so so much wis­dom all around us.
    .-= Miz´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..First Per­son Fri­day (Per­ri­cone No Foun­da­tion give­away post). =-.

  10. Yum Yucky says:

    I love this encour­age­ment. But what’s tragic is when peo­ple don’t even rec­og­nize there is a door to go through.
    .-= Yum Yucky´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Fat-So Inc.: A Mes­sage From the Pres­i­dent =-.

  11. Joanna says:

    So many doors have been open to me just this week. I just wish I had the courage to unlock them a long time ago. But then again, God might have been using that time to pre­pare me for what is to come.

    Some­one once told me, when Plan A fails, we move to Plan B and that we should have no fear because God is already has Plan C already worked out.
    .-= Joanna´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Sun­day School =-.

  12. Lance, the quote is spot-on as usual. When we attach to spe­cific out­comes we often miss the oppor­tu­ni­ties and don’t see the open doors. When we do see them, we are often afraid to walk through them. Feel the fear and do it any­way as Susan Jef­fers would say.
    .-= Stephen — Rat Race Trap´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..How To Be Free, Happy, and Suc­cess­ful – Part I =-.

  13. Won­der­ful quote, Lance and Erin. And com­ments on it. Miz say­ing “there is so so much wis­dom around us” reminds me there are always many more doors around than we usu­ally real­ize. Untold lev­els of love and light always avail­able for the tak­ing at the turn of a knob.
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Yes­ter­day, When She Was Seven =-.

  14. Lance says:

    @Michelle — Well, that’s a great point Michelle. Once we make that deci­sion to go through a door, there’s no use in think­ing “what if”. we have to believe that this new door is the right one for us, at this time. “What if” think­ing only clouds where we’re at. And these next two weeks for you — Michelle, lis­ten to your heart, the the doors you’re choos­ing WILL be the right ones…

    @Lisis — This reminds me very much of dreams and goals. With­out putting action behind them, they’re noth­ing more than nice thoughts. Keep on CREATING the life you want, Lisis. I know you and your fam­ily are actively doing this right now, in ways are very brave and coura­geous. And you’re wel­come for the reminder, how­ever, I really don’t think you need it at all — I see you liv­ing this every day.

    @Jay — Ah, the num­ber of doors there for us to choose from. How to choose the door that’s “right” for each of us? A great ques­tion, Jay. I think some­times we just have to go with what feels right, and then know that that’s the best deci­sion for us, at that moment. I know..easier said than done…

    @Barbara Swaf­ford — Hi Bar­bara. Erin has amaz­ing tal­ents, in both her writ­ing and artis­tic skills. I’m lucky to know her! And this idea of possibilities…that can take vision beyond what we see with just our eyes. That can also mean look­ing to what is beyond and pos­si­ble through that door. And tak­ing that step can take a lot of courage, espe­cially when the pos­si­bilites are always as clear as we’d like. If it’s the door that feels right though, then there’s much pos­si­bil­ity there…

    @Zeenat — Hi Zeenat. I find that every­thing Erin does, comes from the heart. And that’s a pretty awe­some “lovely” for sure! And yes, we can have the vision…and then it’s the courage to step through the door and see the vision unfold. Great thoughts, Zeenat. Thank you!

    @Megan — Megan, this is all so true for me too. It’s like see­ing that door, and maybe only open­ing it part way, and not fully see­ing what could be beyond. And maybe that’s the courage part of this, hav­ing the courage to fuly open those doors and really look into what’s there and beyond. When we lis­ten to our heart, this becomes much eas­ier. Although I know that lis­ten­ing to our heart some­times gets over­ruled by our heads…and then we might miss some­thing that is deeply good for us. I do also think that if we miss a few doors, there are more doors there, too. And there’s much hope in that for all of us! And yes, Erin cre­ates some very won­der­ful pieces of jewelry!

    @Suzie — “…step into our bril­liance.” –> I love that thought, Suzie! It’s there, in all of us…brilliance. The thing is, are we let­ting it out, by coura­geously going through these doors of oppor­tu­nity? Great thought!

  15. Lance says:

    @Barbara Ling — Our inner spirit is really where the real us lives. And it can take courage to let that out, in the face of what’s “expected” of us. When we do, though, what a great place to be!

    @Miz — Thanks much, Carla. Vision and courage can really take us all to new heights, can’t they! And Erin’s quote really epit­o­mizes this. And hav­ing her quote here, it does feel more “real” or some­thing I can relate to. And while I do con­nect very much with quotes, it has to be the right quote to make it deeply mean­ing­ful for me. Erin’s quote really does speak that to me. Thanks, as always, for your insight…

    @Yum Yucky — It’s like we some­times get blind­ers on, isn’t it. And the doors aren’t even noticed. I’m sure I’ve missed my fair share of them in the past. Wher­ever we are though, it’s not too late to really stop and look around at what’s there — for each of us…

    @Joanna — Very cool, Joanna! And maybe things hap­pen for a rea­son, and you’re at this spot now, and it’s the right spot for you to be at. Indeed, God some­times has plans for us that we don’t always see or rec­og­nize. Reminds me of a say­ing that I like…“Let go, and let God”. Joanna, I wish you the courage going through these opened doors!

    @Stephen — I like that — “feel the fear and do it any­way”! It can take a lot of courage to go through these doors some­times, espe­cially when they take us out of our com­fort zone. When we do, though, great things can happen!

    @Jannie — Doors every­where, right Jan­nie! It’s just hav­ing the courage to open them up, and then step on through. And when we do, who knows what amaz­ing love and light can come into our life, and the lives of those we touch! Awesome!

  16. BunnygotBlog says:

    I love the quote and Erin’ s jew­elry is beau­ti­fully unique.
    I think oppor­tu­nity is some­times over­looked either we are scared of change or we sim­ply aren’t see­ing what maybe obvi­ous to oth­ers around us. Maybe iden­ti­fy­ing oppor­tu­nity becomes eas­ier as we become older and wiser.

    Who knows ???

    Great post ~ have a fan­tas­tic week :)
    .-= BunnygotBlog´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..I Remem­ber 911 =-.

  17. John says:

    Hey Lance! Sorry I haven’t been here in a while — still work­ing on big things com­ing soon ;)

    As a hint, you could say that I’ve seen one of the doors that has been talked about in the above quote. It’s thanks to my courage that I stepped through in the first place.
    .-= John´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..It’s Sur­vey Time: Per­sonal Goal Set­ting =-.

  18. Jeanne says:

    Fab­u­lous quote and pic­ture as always
    Blessings

    Jeanne?
    .-= Jeanne´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Wom­an­hood =-.

  19. Beau­ti­ful quote from Erin, and Lance I loved the pic­ture. Jux­ta­posed with the quote, I imme­di­ately saw that in my life, the doors are my own cre­ations. What if there are no doors, but just open space all around me like in the pic­ture? Why do I need to sep­a­rated what is whole? Thanks for these thoughts today, Erin and Lance.
    .-= Daphne @ Joy­ful Days´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Why Let­ting Go is Hard and How to Let Go =-.

  20. Great quote, Lance. Read­ing it makes me feel hope­ful, and inspired. Have a won­der­ful week!
    .-= Jodi at Joy Discovered´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Off the Shelf: 365 Tao~Time =-.

  21. Evita says:

    We never know indeed… what is truly wait­ing unless we allow our­selves to take a chance, take a risk, try, leap.…

    This world offers so much oppor­tu­nity for us. Our lives are filled with so much poten­tial. How­ever often our fears and reser­va­tions stop us from liv­ing these out. Thus this is a great quote Lance to inspire oth­ers to think, to just pon­der what may be and per­haps be moved to act on some­thing they have been sup­press­ing all this time…

    Happy Sun­day :)
    .-= Evita´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..My Big TOE Author Thomas Campbell’s Toronto Work­shop — Day 1 =-.

  22. suzen says:

    Hi Lance! Awe­some pic­ture and quote. There are many doors out there (I was as over­whelmed by the choices as Jay stated) but find­ing the right one, I’ve dis­cov­ered, requires that we be still — as in the lovely photo you placed with this quote. Still­ness isn’t some­thing that most peo­ple are that com­fort­able with — we “make time” for it, if and when we can. It’s a hid­den bless­ing of old age to be con­tent being still — wish I had done more of it years ago!
    .-= suzen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Jug­gling Life =-.

  23. Isn’t this just such a true and inspi­ra­tional thought. I often won­der what oppor­tu­ni­ties I miss each day by not watch­ing for them, or being hes­is­tant to fol­low them.

    I know there were many I missed dur­ing my strug­gling years, but am so grate­ful that I didn’t miss them all. Thank you for this lovely thought.
    .-= Diane Fit to the Finish´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..See­ing With A Pur­pose =-.

  24. Lori says:

    Hi Lance and Erin!
    I love com­ing here on Sun­days for a dose of inspi­ra­tion. It is great to be able to peek into your door­way while simul­ta­ne­ously being sur­rounded by all of your awe­some friends here in the com­ments (hi every­one!).
    Erin, good for you! I’m head­ing over to your site for my next stop. Thanks for the lift today, and for the great reminder that just because we may be able to see an oppor­tu­nity, we have to muster the courage to take the next step and fully embrace it!
    .-= Lori´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Lik­ing the Lichens =-.

  25. Really great quote today, Lance! I love it!!!
    .-= Pos­i­tively Present´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..words to live by: send it on =-.

  26. Hi Lance and Erin,

    It is funny.…I have always been the kind of per­son who always had the courage to do what­ever I felt like doing and with time, com­ing to see the doors has become eas­ier. I have recently real­ized that not every­one has the courage and it sur­prises me. I say this not with arro­gance but with sin­cere shock and sad­ness. For years, I have always been the odd one going after all my dreams and I have got­ten a lot of flack over the years for liv­ing that way. It always struck me as odd because I never under­stood their reac­tion. It is heart­break­ing to know that there is so much fear that holds peo­ple back. How­ever, that said, it is great to know and see that there are peo­ple out there help­ing oth­ers to rise above those illu­sions of limitation.

  27. Winston says:

    I love your thought for the day!
    but on the other hand,
    I have found in my life that some of the doors of oppor­tu­nity had to be kicked open
    before I could walk lamely through!
    I never lacked the courage, My bat­tle has gone on for 67 years.
    Winston

  28. Audra Krell says:

    Hi Lance!
    I often won­der how many doors I’ve missed over the years, because I didn’t allow myself to use the vision that would show me what was on the other side.
    The oppo­site of this is true for me to, some doors are just closed, per­ma­nently and I try to cre­ate a vision that will allow me to stay within a closed, com­fort­able box. It always ends up being a mirage even­tu­ally, my vision clears up and I move past my old way of liv­ing, into the truly great unknown.
    This is a great quote for help­ing us nav­i­gate the Jun­gle of Life Lance, I love the way your blog and more impor­tantly your mis­sion, flows.
    .-= Audra Krell´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Back to God =-.

  29. Hilary says:

    Hi Lance .. Erin: great quote — some­times it is hav­ing a look through the door and just let­ting things mull through, then you can really decide — that it is a good oppor­tu­nity. I loved the jew­ellery — tal­ented friend .. thanks for let­ting us know about her.

    All the best — Hilary Melton-Butcher
    Pos­i­tive Let­ters Inspi­ra­tional Sto­ries
    .-= Hilary´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Sting like a bee? Dance like a bee? =-.

  30. I read some­hwere that we have to learn to stop focus­ing on the doors that are closed in order to see the win­dows that are open.

    This is a won­der­ful pic­ture and quote for today as I have been work­ing with my daugh­ter on see­ing the oppor­tu­ni­ties — rec­og­niz­ing the fear that open win­dows might bring and see­ing what lies beyond that fear when we make the jump to fol­low our hearts and take the risks. It is some­times easy to see the oppor­tu­ni­ties and yet dif­fi­cult to take the jump. Other times, it is dif­fi­cult to note the win­dows as we focus so hard on con­trol­ing the envi­ron­ment and being safe.

    Learn­ing to trust our gut and heart is so very impor­tant — trust … it is a won­der­ful thing.
    .-= The Exception´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Like the Color Pur­ple =-.

  31. Bella says:

    I love this, Lance ~ it just makes me sigh with hap­pi­ness.
    Thank you for your blog and being you :D
    I always leave here refreshed and happy.

    I’m so sorry that I haven’t been around more lately!

    Smiles of grat­i­tude,
    Bella

    P.S. Totally off the sub­ject but are you on Face­book?
    .-= Bella´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..{ { { { { My Hair Is On Fire! } } } } } =-.

  32. Hi Lance, my Mum always says, “When one door closes, another one opens.” Some­times the door that opens looks scary but if you have the courage to walk through, there is often some sort of great­ness wait­ing on the other side.

    Love the pic too by the way. Very serene.
    .-= Sami — Life, Laughs & Lemmings´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Fri­day Ques­tion – Dream a Lit­tle & Big Dream =-.

  33. Diane AZ says:

    I see every­thing that is hap­pen­ing as an oppor­tu­nity, even if it’s merely the chance to learn and grow. Erin’s web­site and jew­elry are beau­ti­ful and inspir­ing. Have a great week!
    .-= Diane AZ´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Spiny Metal =-.

  34. Mmmmm.…I like this one. Your friend is very wise. And the pic­ture is gor­geous, Lance.
    I think of the oppor­tu­nity idea as a ski­ing metaphor (I was once for­tu­nate enough to spend a win­ter in Alta UT) There are always going to be trees we could hit as we ski down the mountain-just like chal­leng­ing times in life. We can’t wish away the trees; they are a part of the moun­tain. But we do have the choice of where to keep our gaze. When I was learn­ing to ski as an adult, some­one said, “Always look at the spaces between the trees and that is where your skis will go.” And I think of that all the time in my life. I look for the spaces between the trees instead of look­ing at the trees. It takes a trust and a let­ting go. And I always seem to ski my way through to the doors to the oppor­tu­ni­ties Erin talks about.
    well done…Lance-a-lot.
    .-= Katie West/The Lev­ity Coach´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Word of the Week: Out­landish =-.

  35. Liara Covert says:

    One view is you require no oppor­tu­nity to real­ize great­ness. This rev­e­la­tion is some­thing you trig­ger any­time you are ready, and you do so within your­self. It is part of an inward jour­ney to uncon­di­tional love and accep­tance. There is no need to pur­sue hap­pi­ness. It is all you are now.
    .-= Liara Covert´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What if you choose to believe? =-.

  36. I’ve been afraid to walk through so many doors and I’ve almost always regret­ted it. As I age I real­ize that I have to at least walk through the door and peak on the other side. It’s why I started my blog. I wanted to make a go of it and see what would happen.

    My blog is now one of my great­est achieve­ments of my life. Because of this les­son I’ve learned to stop being afraid of those door­ways and just walk through. Well…I’m still afraid, but I accept this fear and face it and try to do what will bring me the most knowl­edge.
    .-= Karl — Work Happy Now´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Do You Con­fer­ence? =-.

  37. Robin Easton says:

    Beau­ti­ful Lance. All of it. I would even add this.

    Some­times we can’t see any­thing on “the other side”.
    No mat­ter how hard we try we have no vision.
    We must still have the courage to walk through the door to the otherside.

    And then SOMETIMES we can’t see what is on the other side AND.…
    we feel NO courage,
    but we must STILL walk through the door to the other side.…
    even if our knees quake all the way.

    To act in the absence of courage is the great­est courage of all.

    Love,
    Robin
    .-= Robin Easton´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Dare to Take Risks =-.

  38. Lance says:

    @Bunny — Hi Bunny. Erin’s jew­elry is very unique, and what really makes it spe­cial is how she cre­ates pieces that speak to the con­nec­tion with the indi­vid­ual it’s designed for. And that IS beau­ti­ful! It can be easy to over­look oppor­tu­nity, just going through the motions of life. And some­times, older and wiser is bet­ter. Other times, young and brave can be just what works too. Who knows, indeed… You too, have a won­der­ful week.

    @John — Good for you, step­ping through the door! Look­ing for­ward to what you have coming!

    @Jeanne — Thanks much Jeanne!

    @Daphne — Thank you, Daphne. We cre­ate the doors…I love that thought! Some doors are there, and some we cre­ate. The ques­tion then, is are we tak­ing the courage to cre­ate our own doors? Some great things to think about.

    @Jodi — Hi Jodi. I too find much inspi­ra­tion in this quote.

    @Evita — Happy Sun­day, Evita! Oppor­tu­nity is there, for all of us. Fear. That thing that gets in the way. That holds us back. And when we can step into that fear, and then move beyond it — those doors become more visible…

    @Suzen — Hi Suzen! Being still…that’s a great obser­va­tion. when we stop and really lis­ten to our hearts, the “right” doors become more obvi­ous. Suzen, this is so good, thank you for sharing!

  39. Marelisa says:

    Hi Lance: You quoted a friend of yours, that’s great. I think that many times we have a vision in our head of what we want and when an oppor­tu­nity presents itself, if it looks dif­fer­ent from what we had envi­sioned, we dis­re­gard it. How­ever, it might have been an even bet­ter oppor­tu­nity for us. I believe in hav­ing a clear vision of what you want, but hav­ing enough flex­i­bil­ity to be able to rec­og­nize when the uni­verse is offer­ing us some­thing dif­fer­ent but equally as great, or even bet­ter.
    .-= Marelisa´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..119 Jour­nal Prompts for Your Jour­nal Jar =-.

  40. Lance says:

    @Diane — So, that’s an inter­est­ing thought, Diane. This idea of not watch­ing for them, which really prob­a­bly fits along the same lines of what Suzen men­tioned — of being still. Or maybe even just slow­ing down, some­times. I know I can cruise through life often­times just try­ing to get from point A to point B…and not really see­ing any­thing in between. So, I love this thought — it reminds me to slow down…so I can see the door that are there. And even if we miss doors — we can look to today and for­ward — and what we’ll do from here on out… Thanks again, Diane!

    @Lori — Hi Lori. It’s great to have you here! Along with every­one else, and all the wis­dom, all the hon­esty, all the real-ness shared so openly. Hav­ing courage…that can be a big step — espe­cially when we don’t know exactly where that door is leading…

    @Positively Present — Thanks much Dani!

    @Nadia — Hi Nadia. Thanks so much for shar­ing part of your jour­ney, and how courage has been a real enabler for you. Nadia, I’m always impressed with your words which seem to touch right to the core. These doors, when we see them — we should embrace where they can lead us, espe­cially when they’re doors that have come from our heart…

    @Winston — Thanks much, Win­ston. So, some doors we find aren’t always open. And that means if they are doors we really desire to passs through, then it might take extra work to get them open. Keep believing…that’s the thought that comes to my mind here. Keep on being courageous!

    @Audra — Hi Audra. I’m sure, no mat­ter how coura­geous, or how vision­ary — we’ve all missed doors along the way. I know I’ve missed my share. And yet, I’m also at a place I’m very happy with too. And stay­ing within that box…that place of com­fort — this is very real, and a very great point. Some­times we put up doors with locks, so that we stay where we’re at. And until we’re able to embrace those doors, and open them up, we are step­ping out into that GREAT unknown. So true. And another place I’ve also been. Audra, it’s always so good to have you here…thank you, deeply, for being you…

    @Hilary — Hi Hilary. We all approach life moments dif­fer­ently. And this idea of let­ting it mull around for a bit — this is one that is so worth men­tion­ing. Some­times this can be really good, espe­cially for the right indi­vid­ual. It might mean time spent in quiet, really lis­ten­ing to what you’re hear­ing. And in those moments, the answer will come — and that’s when we know if this is a door that is right for us to pass through. And to Erin’s work — she is an amaz­ing and tal­ented artist — and her work is so filled with love — which shines through so beau­ti­fully in her cre­ations! Thanks so much, Hilary.

  41. Lance says:

    @The Excep­tion — The “doors closed vs. the win­dows open” is a great way to look at this, also! I can relate to this idea of see­ing the oppor­tu­nity and yet find­ing it dif­fi­cult to jump. It’s kind of like stick­ing your head out to see what it’s like, but not sure if you should go all the way out. Hmm…this really has me think­ing how I han­dle these “moments”, really. Trust…such a good word here in the con­text of this quote. We have to trust in our­selves, that what when we’re lis­ten­ing to our heart, that is the right place for us to be…

    @Bella — Bella, so good to see you here! And you always bring a smile to my face! Here’s to see­ing the “doors” in our life, and hav­ing the courage to go through them. And P.S. — hey, you found me!! Awe­some to con­nect even more with you!

    @Sami — In case no one has ever told you, your Mum is very wise! (you should lis­ten to her…more often!) And the scary parts of these doors is really the unknown, or what might seem “dif­fer­ent”. I know you’re walk­ing through some pretty awe­some doors right now…and I think that’s so great! And glad you loved the pic­ture — some­thing about the sun beyond the plat­form really felt like oppor­tu­nity wait­ing on the other side of the door…

    @Diane AZ — Hi Diane. And that’s a great way to view life’s moments — as oppor­tu­ni­ties. We’re sur­rounded by them, and there’s so much there if we’re just open to what might be. And I’m so glad you enjoyed your visit to Erin’s site — I think her work is incredible!

    @Katie — And I find the wis­dom here is some­thing that comes from the heart…and Erin’s is a heart of gold! Just like yours… Ah, a win­ter in Utah…this sounds so filled with mag­i­cal moments. And your ski­ing metaphor — it’s so good, Katie! Trees…much like the obstac­tles we encounter in life — if we focus on them, they stop us. when we look beyond, though, to the open­ings, to the door­ways, we can see the pos­si­bil­i­ties that lie within our reach. Keep on ski­ing through those door­ways, through the open­ings, Katie — it’s a gift for me to wit­ness this in you! And see you soar­ing to new heights along the way!

    @Liara — Hi Liara. The jour­ney inward…this is such a great jour­ney to embark upon. when we go within, when we touch upon that space deep in our soul, the doors are there.

    @Karl — Karl, your hon­esty here is refresh­ing and real. And that is so appre­ci­ated. I’ve been there too, afraid to go through cer­tain doors. What would oth­ers think? Will it change my finan­cial sta­tus? Will I embar­rass myself? A cou­ple exam­ples of ques­tions that limit us in these door­ways of life. And your blog, Karl, is a shin­ing exam­ple of going to new heights and see­ing the great­ness that lies beyond the door­way. What a gift you’re cre­at­ing, for so many to ben­e­fit from. Keep speak­ing your authen­tic self, and I know it’s the right place for you to be…

  42. Lance says:

    @Robin Eas­ton — Thank you, Robin. And so, some­times it just in trust­ing our­selves in that this is the “right” thing for us to do. Robin, what a great point. When we can’t see any­thing on the other side, when don’t really have a vision of what is — if our heart is still telling us to take those steps — they are so worth tak­ing — dif­fi­cult as they may be. And some­times this will feel like we want to just curl up and for­get all about that door — yet, this is the one that is prob­a­bly most worth pur­su­ing. And that can be an act in the absence of courage… Thank you, Robin, for all your beau­ti­ful wis­dom and love.

    @Marelisa — Hi Mare. And Erin is so won­der­ful, kind, and just sim­ply “real”. Yes, those visions that look one way, and then appear dif­fer­ently — they can be easy to pass up. But just because it’s not exactly as we’ve envi­sioned it, that doesn’t mean it’s not worth doing. Marelisa, this is such a won­der­ful addi­tion to this thought — the idea of being flex­i­ble to the vision — and where that can truly lead us! Awesome!

  43. LisaNewton says:

    I live by this quote every­day. Even though it’s Sun­day night and I’m tired, I will still con­tinue to believe and work toward my goal.

    I just fin­ished tomorrow’s post and am ready for a new challenge.

    Thanks Lance for putting a smile on my face at the end of a long day. :)
    .-= LisaNewton´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Sun­set on Mount Soledad Moun­tain =-.

  44. Davina says:

    Hi Lance. I’ve just checked out Erin’s web­site and her jew­ellery is gor­geous. She clearly has the vision to see what is pos­si­ble… Bril­liant!
    .-= Davina´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Island Thyme Bed & Break­fast =-.

  45. To all the Jungle-lovers…
    I am so hon­ored to be able to play along with Lance today for the Sun­day Thought of the Day. It really was my “some­thing good” when he asked me to participate!

    I have a soft spot for quotes, as I think that there is such wis­dom when you can dis­till it down to the very essence. This quote is some­thing that I have honed over the past 2 years or so…for my own story it comes from hav­ing vision and courage. And lest you think that I am this com­letely fear­less and self-confident per­son, let me tell you that it is some­thing that I have to be con­scious of, to work at. But know­ing this I cer­tainly appre­ci­ate the oppor­tu­ni­ties that I have been given and never for­get that I have many to thank for those chances. I have noticed that when I am more mind­ful of the poten­tial of a sit­u­a­tion, it most likely works in my favor. Per­haps that is just see­ing the glass as half full, but I think that it is more than this.

    When you project a pos­i­tive aura and you open your­self to all the Uni­verse has to offer, it is my expe­ri­ence that it likely will come to you when you need it most, what­ever “it” is for you. Some­times all it takes is to speak it. There is some power in words said aloud rather than just kept in your head. As an example…before I offi­cially started my jew­elry com­pany, I was hav­ing a meet­ing with a woman at a local non-profit about ways they were ask­ing me to help. At the end of the pro­duc­tive meet­ing, we sat around chat­ting when she men­tioned that she was get­ting mar­ried in the fall. Now, I could have said, “How nice for you! Con­grat­u­la­tions!” but instead I said, “I do wed­ding jew­elry!” Never mind that I had never done a wed­ding! A door opened and I don’t even know what pos­sessed me to say those words, but I did, and it lead to the largest sin­gle order that I have ever had (8 brides­maids, 3 friends and the bride), a con­nec­tion with a local cus­tom gold­smith who asked to carry my work in a spe­cial dis­play case for 1 1/2 years, and my first pub­lished piece of wear­able art. All because I was will­ing and had the courage to walk on through that door! So many good things have hap­pened and that ener­gizes me and has me seek­ing more doors.…..

    I am so amazed by the depth of think­ing of the peo­ple who fol­low Lance and The Jun­gle of Life. You have really touched me with your kind and thought­ful words and most impor­tantly for fur­ther­ing a very intrigu­ing conversation.

    Every day may not be good, but there is some­thing good in every day.” ~Anonymous

    Thanks for being my “some­thing good” today!

    Enjoy the day!
    Erin Prais-Hintz
    Tesori Trovati Jew­elry
    .-= Erin Prais-Hintz´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Dare to…Count Your Bless­ings =-.

  46. Deb says:

    Lance…
    I do believe that you and your friends “get it”…very highly regarded in my book!
    How­ever, I need to tell you of my appre­ci­a­tion of your PHOTOS…you always chose just the right photo to accom­pany your blog post…you must be a have an eye for it…since med­i­ta­tion is my thing…I adored your photo and thought it was spot on for the depth of quote!
    Keep Rock­ing it Lance! You inspire all of us!
    .-= Deb´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..iphone your­self HAPPY! =-.

  47. J.D. Meier says:

    Vision and courage say it all.
    .-= J.D. Meier´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Power of Pat­terns and Prac­tices =-.

  48. Hilda says:

    Hi Lance and Erin,

    I have to add my appre­ci­a­tion for this won­der­ful quote. For most of my pes­simistic life­time I really strug­gled to see doors, or else I could only see rea­sons to stay where I was rather than rea­sons to open them and walk through.

    Over the last five or six years I’ve trans­formed my out­look on life, and now I see doors every­where :-) Find­ing the courage to walk through usu­ally takes a while, but more and more I take the nec­es­sary steps.

    Erin, I might have to bor­row your quote some­time, cos I do quotes on Mon­days. And I like the “some­thing good” one too ;-)
    .-= Hilda´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Allow­ing oth­ers the free­dom to grow =-.

  49. Lynn says:

    Erin’s quote is won­der­ful. Find­ing courage to walk through those doors.… some­thing my dad is fac­ing right now to find the proper care for my mother.
    .-= Lynn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Com­pli­ment, the cheesi­est and back­ground music =-.

  50. Tim says:

    Hi Lance:

    Thanks for shar­ing this very inspir­ing quote. It is impor­tant for all of us to real­ize all of the pos­si­bil­i­ties and poten­tial for good that sur­round us on a daily basis. I love the really peace­ful photo as well.
    .-= Tim´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Hav­ing Fun With Social Media =-.

  51. Lance such true words! It’s hard to take the leap some­times. I have to remind myself con­stantly that avoid­ing risks to avoid fail­ure is actu­ally.…. me fail­ing! :) Be brave, when oppor­tu­nity knocks fling the door up and jump in it’s lap! ha ha
    .-= Natalia Burleson´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Smooth­ies! =-.

  52. Hi Lance,
    I’m the one who gets so excited I kick down the door and often jump in before being totally pre­pared. I also have had to learn years back how to go from aggre­sive to assertive. Instead of being a door kicker I’m a gen­tle knocker and it’s worked much bet­ter but hey, no oppor­tu­ni­ties are going by me!
    .-= Tess The Bold Life´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..It’s All About You =-.

  53. Lisa's Chaos says:

    Erin is full of inspi­ra­tion and I hope to meet up with her some­day! Can you believe we live in the same town?!
    .-= Lisa’s Chaos´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Get­ting a han­dle on Macro Mon­day =-.

  54. Lance says:

    @LisaNewton — Believing…so impor­tant. Believ­ing in our­selves, believ­ing in our heart, believ­ing in the good of human­ity. Glad to have you here, Lisa, and shar­ing this. It’s so good to really let belief become part of us.

    @Davina — Erin cre­ates beau­ti­ful jewelry…and that’s a vision that I believe comes directly from her heart!

    @Deb — Hi Deb. Thank you! I really put a lot of my focus into match­ing up a photo to go along with the story/quote. In fact, some­times I think I spend too much time on this! It really feels “right”, though, for me to find that pic­ture that speaks to me in rela­tion to the mes­sage. So, know that your words here today are a bit of val­i­da­tion on what I’m doing is the right thing. And thank you for being here!

    @J.D. Meier — Vision and courage together is quite a com­bi­na­tion, isn’t it!

    @Hilda — Hi Hilda. I’ve been there too — either not look­ing for the doors, or not open­ing the doors that did appear. It seems we’re really on a sim­i­lar path through life! It was about five years ago that my life took a major turn, one that has taken me on this path I’m on today. So glad that we’ve got­ten to know each other over these last many months. Keep see­ing the doors out there, Hilda, and know I’ll sup­port you any way I can as you go through doors and into new­ness in your life.

    @Lynn — Not nec­es­sar­ily an easy door, I’m sure, for your father (and for you). Know that I wish your father only the best in find­ing care that is good for your mother.

    @Tim — Hi Tim. Pos­si­bil­i­ties abound, don’t they! It’s in us see­ing them, and then hav­ing the courage to act. When we get to this spot, we are going through these doors that Erin dis­cusses so beau­ti­fully in this quote, and what a great place to travel to!

    @Natalia — Hi Natalia. Oh, that’s good. When we see these doors, and yet don’t have the courage to go through them, espe­cially those doors which speak loudly to us — this is fail­ing. And it is, because we’re giv­ing up on a piece of our heart. So, here’s to being brave, and tak­ing those chances. And really and deeply expe­ri­enc­ing what’s on the other side. Natalia, thank you for this.

    @Tess — I’m laugh­ing, Tess! And I am, because I believe what you’re say­ing very much. After all, just look at the name of your site — “The Bold Life”! And I think that’s awe­some that you get excited by the doors you “see”, and that you jump right in. Way cool!

    @Lisa’s Chaos — Hi Lisa. Erin is full of beau­ti­ful inspi­ra­tion! And that you two live in the same town is way too awesome!

  55. Lance says:

    Erin,
    It has been so won­der­ful to have you here and shar­ing these beau­ti­ful words you’ve crafted. Like every­thing else I’ve wit­nessed in you, this too comes from deep in your heart. And that’s what makes it so won­der­ful and filled with beauty!

    And this idea of open­ing our­selves up to all the Uni­verse has to offer — this is just filled with so much abun­dance when I read that! The Uni­verse has more than enough for all of us — espe­cially when we’re lis­ten­ing deeply to our hearts in all of this. Erin, just like your exam­ple with the wed­ding jew­elry, this IS pos­si­ble for every­one. It’s in see­ing that door of oppor­tu­nity, being brave, and pass­ing through that door.

    Erin, once again, thank you for being here and shar­ing this quote. It has been an honor for me to have your pres­ence here, and know that you have been, and con­tinue to be, some­one great in my life!

  56. Walter says:

    I love oppor­tu­ni­ties and I’m very aware that it’s all around me. But often­times the curves of life pre­vents me from explor­ing it. I have to focus to grab it back. :-)

  57. Angel says:

    It’s hard to be coura­geous when you are scared.

    Thanks, Lance, for your role in help­ing me be less of a chicken.
    .-= Angel´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Team Love Eshe =-.

  58. FatFighterTV says:

    Love it. You also have to remem­ber to look for those open doors when it seems like there aren’t any.
    .-= FatFighterTV´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..ME Sparkling Bev­er­ages give­away =-.

  59. Liara Covert says:

    The jour­ney inward empow­ers you to remem­ber the mean­ing of heart con­scious­ness. Oppor­tu­ni­ties are every­where you choose to cre­ate them and dis­re­gard them.
    .-= Liara Covert´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What could hap­pen with a pole shift? =-.

  60. janice says:

    Hi Lance, it’s good to be back. I enjoyed the quote. It reminds me of one of my favourite parts of life coach­ing; open­ing the door for other folk to enter and explore new ter­ri­to­ries if they want to. Some­times they may not have seen the door or had the brav­ery to open it or ven­ture in by them­selves.
    .-= janice´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The House of the Thou­sand Hor­ror­moans =-.

  61. Vision and courage. Now what a world this could be if we all lived with those two qual­i­ties!
    .-= Ian | Quan­tum Learning´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..You make a dif­fer­ence =-.

  62. Yes, doors are always knock­ing and open­ing. The chal­lenge, I think, is qui­et­ing our­selves long enough to hear and see them!
    .-= Stacey Shipman´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Tak­ing a Break to Man­age Day to Day Over­whelm =-.

  63. Lance says:

    @Walter — Aware­ness of oppor­tu­ni­ties is the first step, so that’s a great first start!

    @Angel — Angel, I know (know, know, know!) that you are filled with much courage! And it shows in both your daily work help­ing peo­ple to become stronger and health­ier, as well as in the big one-time chal­lenges you’re tak­ing on (which I think is so, so awe­some!). Angel, you put a great big smile on my face today…rock on, my friend!

    @FatFighterTV — Hi Sahar. Yes, some­times those doors aren’t always so easy to spot, and that means tak­ing the time to really “notice” what’s out there around you. Great point!

    @Liara — The jour­ney inward…is where these true doors are revealed.

    @Janice — Jan­ice, it’s so good to see you! And thanks for bring­ing up life coach­ing. Hav­ing worked with a life coach myself, I know exactly what you mean about this. Hav­ing another set of eyes, eyes that aren’t jaded by our past — to look at where we are and where we’re going, can really help to bring into focus some doors we may never have noticed being there before.

    @Ian — Yes, if we could all live by fol­low­ing our true vision, and then have the courage to live that — what an even more amaz­ing place this world would be!

    @Stacey Ship­man — And This is so true, this idea of qui­et­ing our­selves down to see the doors, because when we don’t — we go through our days focused on the “room” we’re already in. And in the rush that life can become, how can we notice these other doors, if we’re run­ning so fast already. We can’t. And that’s why what you’re say­ing is such a great point. We have to con­sciously focus on slow­ing down and qui­et­ing our minds and bod­ies, so that we can “hear” that inner voice, which is the “key” to doors all around us.

  64. Mark says:

    Lance,
    Great quote! Yes, we must be aware to see the doors and then sum­mon the courage to cross the thresh­old.
    .-= Mark´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Allow­ing Oth­ers To Be – Not Forc­ing Our Beliefs On Oth­ers =-.

  65. CG Walters says:

    thank you, Lance, for what you give to those all around you.….
    blessings.…CG
    .-= CG Walters´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Gift of the Bear =-.

  66. Caroline says:

    Yes…courage and vision. Love this quote Lance! I have always been fas­ci­nated by doors…always won­der­ing what is on the other side…
    .-= Caroline´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Offer­ing =-.

  67. Lance says:

    @Mark — Thank much! Aware­ness is the first step…and then courage to take those steps…which can some­times seem a bit scary, not know­ing where they’ll lead to.

    @CG — Thanks so much for being here, my friend.

    @Caroline — Doors, and what’s on the other side. Car­o­line, that is really intrigu­ing — this con­cept of curios­ity for the other side. Yes, I think we are won­der­ing — yet when we can’t clearly see — it becomes easy to “hold back”. I’m really lov­ing this thought!

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