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The Road Not Taken

“You have to leave the city of your com­fort and go into the wilder­ness of your intu­ition.  What you’ll dis­cover will be won­der­ful.  What you’ll dis­cover is your­self.”  ~Alan Alda

A warm Sep­tem­ber evening, and I arrive there for a busi­ness trip. 

Let’s take a step back, though.  Back a cou­ple of weeks, and a deci­sion.  Where to stay, on this upcom­ing trip.  It would be just me trav­el­ing, and the clear choice was the chain hotel with all the ameni­ties, just off the free­way.  A choice that had been handed to me, in prepa­ra­tion for this trip.

What about…

What about stay­ing at some­place less main­stream.  What about this place off the main road, at the foothills of these beau­ti­ful mountains.

The infor­ma­tion was sketchy.  No web­site, per se (except the generic bed and break­fast list­ing — and a cou­ple of pictures). 

Or the hotel chain.

You know those moments, those moments when you “just know”.  It’s like your heart is reach­ing out, giv­ing you the answer. 

Do you listen?

Do you lis­ten to that voice within?

Or do you try to block it out, going with the “safe” answer, the “accepted” choice?

Back to that warm Sep­tem­ber evening…

It might not seem like much, it’s just a place to stay for a few nights while I’m out of town.

And yet, it is so, so much.

This bed and break­fast, invit­ing me in as I arrived (with care­ful steps on a dark, dark evening). 

Mid­week, off-season…the care­tak­ers of this old and ele­gant home liv­ing next door…there is refuge in this home, com­pletely alone.

After days filled with work, and some off time explor­ing the sur­round­ing area…I would find myself drawn to the liv­ing area of this place that became home for a few days.  And in that, moments to read, to reflect, to be still, to “be”.…

Just me, and this house.

Two roads diverged in a yel­low wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one trav­eler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And hav­ing per­haps the bet­ter claim
Because it was grassy and wanted wear,
Though as for that the pass­ing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morn­ing equally lay
In leaves no step had trod­den black.
Oh, I marked the first for another day!
Yet know­ing how way leads on to way
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Some­where ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less trav­eled by,
And that has made all the difference.

~ Robert Frost

What are you lis­ten­ing to?  Are you lis­ten­ing to that voice inside, the one that speaks your heart desires?

That voice…perhaps it feels like these diverg­ing roads.  That voice of your heart…the one less trav­eled by. 

What are you choosing?

It makes all the difference…

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Farnoosh says:

    To read Robert Frost again on a Wed morn­ing — that alone is mag­nif­i­cent. Thank you dear Lance for shar­ing your story and for giv­ing the B&B a chance.…and turn­ing it into a beau­ti­ful memory.….(but no web­site, really? ;) ) — Ok just kid­ding. My inte­rior designer — top notch, pro­fes­sional, does mil­lion dol­lar homes, super smart and tal­ented — never to this day has cre­ated a web­site. She barely knows how email works. She gets by just fine :) !
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    • Lance says:

      Farnoosh,
      Robert Frost’s words, and this poem in par­tic­u­lar, are always so good to read.

      Luck­ily I was able to read some reviews about this won­der­ful lit­tle place, and once I got there — fell com­pletely in love with it…

  2. Keith says:

    Awe­some Lance, sim­ply awesome!

    I so “hear” you on this. We can get into auto-pilot mode so eas­ily. We judt do things the way we “nor­mally” would do them with­out even think­ing about it. It’s not that this is wrong, it isn’t, but it can rob us of beau­ti­ful moments like you expe­ri­enced at the Bed & Break­fast. I try to stay aware of this as much as pos­si­ble and will occa­sion­ally do some­thing totally dif­fer­ent just to see what I may expe­ri­ence. Some­times it is some­thing sim­ple like tak­ing a dif­fer­ent route home!

    As you said Lance, lis­ten­ing to that voice will lead us down beau­ti­ful paths…that lit­tle voice is our heart.

    Thank you Lance, for bring­ing back to my con­scious mind the impor­tance of tak­ing the road less traveled.

    Bless­ings and peace to you my dear friend!
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    • Lance says:

      Keith,
      Yes, that “auto pilot” mode…doing what we’ve always done (and get­ting the same results as we’ve always got­ten). And that is okay…there is some­thing to be said about doing what is com­fort­able. Are we chal­leng­ing our­selves, though, also? Are we step­ping out of our com­fort zone part of the time? Are we lis­ten­ing to our hearts???

      Always good to have you here, my friend…

  3. Emergefit says:

    I know you know I’m usu­ally pretty down on myself because, “some has to be”, but veer­ing from the norm is prob­a­bly what I do best in life., and when I am in my element.

    I sin­cerely appre­ci­ate this post, but more so, I applaud the action that inspired this post. Despite the pop­u­lar edict to the con­trary, vari­ety is not the spice of life. Being brave is.

    Peace Friend!

  4. I just love how you saw a chance for some­thing more and went for it! It’s these lit­tle choices…where to stay, what to eat, how to spend an evening…that make up our lives, for the bet­ter or for the ordi­nary. You are no ordi­nary cat and your life reflects that with its joy and abun­dance. Bravo on tak­ing that road and for shar­ing it with us. You inspire me to keep the blind­ers off and to look for oppor­tu­ni­ties. Thanks for being YOU, my friend. :)
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    • Lance says:

      Emma,
      You bring up such a great thought — these seem­ingly lit­tle things in our life. They are moments that bind the fab­ric of our life together, and there are many more lit­tle things than big things (which really says…perhaps they are all big things).

      Meow,
      Lance

  5. DareToBecome says:

    Bril­liant, as usual.….I am learn­ing more and more each day how to lis­ten to my heart. Sur­pris­ingly I find this much eas­ier to do than I thought.
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    • Lance says:

      Lori,
      I find that, too. The more I lis­ten to my heart, really lis­ten, the eas­ier it is to just keep doing this (and liv­ing it). And that sure does feel good…

  6. Jay Schryer says:

    I love that lit­tle voice! I lis­ten to it as much as I can. Not always, because some­times fear gets in the way, but as often as I can, I fol­low it. I’m almost always pleas­antly sur­prised by the expe­ri­ences I have by fol­low­ing it — expe­ri­ences that I would have missed oth­er­wise. Our intu­itions are truly mar­velous things!
    Jay Schryer´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Giv­ing Up Can Be A Good ThingMy Profile

    • Lance says:

      Jay,
      Ahhh…yes, fear. A tiny lit­tle four let­ter word!! (I’ve got some famil­iar­ity with that word, too!)

      When we can con­nect more mean­ing­fully with our intu­ition, mar­velous becomes the norm (and that’s pretty sweet!)!!

  7. Lynn says:

    What a won­der­ful thing you did by stay­ing at the more quaint place. And I love the poem that goes with it — the road not taken.

    It makes me think of deci­sions I have made and what if moments. And yet it was prob­a­bly all meant to be any­way.
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    • Lance says:

      Lynn,
      Quaint. I really love that word, and how it DOES describe this place on Wild Lane.

      And I agree…our decisions…probably meant to hap­pen that way…and there is much good in that…

  8. rob white says:

    This is a real beauty, Lance. A per­sonal mir­a­cle hap­pens when we trust our inter­nal guide. I believe we all have access to Infi­nite Intel­li­gence and the eter­nal wis­dom it offers. If ever we feel lost for any rea­son, we always have the option to turn deep within and expect right guid­ance.
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    • Lance says:

      Rob,
      Our “inter­nal guide”…now there’s a cou­ple of great words to describe it all. And when we really do lis­ten to that guide, we are offered so much wis­dom and guidance…

      Thanks so much for these thoughts, I love the thoughts you’ve shared.

  9. Dandy says:

    Hi Lance,
    You’ve quoted one of my favorite poets. ( We’ve actu­ally been hav­ing a romance going on for quite some­time, Walt & I). I like to think I’m tak­ing the road less trav­eled. While my peers have been blaz­ing their way to keep up with the Jone­ses, I’ve been liv­ing life on my terms. It defi­nately is not easy, but it gives me sat­is­fac­tion in myself! Thanks Lance!

    Dandy
    Dandy´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Adorn your soulMy Profile

    • Lance says:

      Dandy,
      Robert Frost is quite a won­der­ful poet! (so…you and Walt, huh!!! –> very AWESOME!)

      Liv­ing from our heart cen­ter, that isn’t always easy (but then, how about the oppo­site — while it might appear “eas­ier”, I tend to think inter­nally it is very much not the case). So, Dandy…keep liv­ing from that place within your heart…it’s beautiful…(as you are…)

  10. Joe Wilner says:

    Lance,

    Thanks for such an inspir­ing post! Tak­ing the road less trav­eled is a beau­ti­ful notion and should be a reminder for any­one who wants to really live with pur­pose. I think every­one will be called to do some­thing spe­cial or uncon­ven­tional at some point in their life. It just depends if they will be will­ing to take on the mis­sion or jour­ney. It makes me real­ize how impor­tant spir­i­tu­al­ity is for greater self-awareness as well, as it can be hard to hear this inner voice amongst so much hus­tle and bus­tle. Thanks for the reminder to lis­ten more and talk less. :)

    • Lance says:

      Joe,
      And it’s in those moments…when we feel that calling…what are we choos­ing? This is our jour­ney through life…now.

      This most cer­tainly touches upon each of our very own per­sonal spir­i­tual jour­neys (what­ever that hap­pens to be for us indi­vid­u­ally). And then it’s how true to that are we living…

      Great to have you here, Joe, and for all your won­der­ful thoughts…

  11. Evita says:

    Yes Lance, so yes!

    I like Jay says, love that lit­tle voice! And I love being true to it, and it just feels so good!
    And I love that poem you shared, it has often warmed my heart and spirit, and I always seem to hear it or read it, at just the right time.

    Recently I had a deci­sion, and boy did I know when that voice of intu­ition kicked in. The road I was going to pick, just didn’t feel quite right, and when I con­sid­ered the other road, every­thing fell into place per­fectly!
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    • Lance says:

      Evita,
      I know how well you do this, how true that “yes” is that you’ve shared here! And in that, you really DO give oth­ers a deeper per­mis­sion to shine them­selves (and I want you to know…that is a won­der­ful gift you give so freely…).

      …and it’s so won­der­ful how things just really do fall into place…when we listen…really listen…

  12. Suzie Cheel says:

    I just love that poem by Robert Frost. Yes just choos­ing to be is so impor­tant, along with hav­ing an open heart and list­ing to that small still( some­times not so still) voice inside– thanks for writ­ing this and giv­ing me the time to reflect– this week has been on of joy intermn­gled with fear as I take the time to really really get in touch with who I be
    love and hugs
    suzie
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    • Lance says:

      Suzie,
      “The Road Not Taken” is also a poem that I just really love, too.

      Suzie, I have very much expe­ri­enced you in this place of being…of lis­ten­ing to your heart…and then in shar­ing it. And it is beau­ti­ful and amaz­ing and wonderful…

      …as you are…

      Much love to you.

  13. I love the greater impli­ca­tions of this. Yeah, the B&B or the main­stream hotel, but also the chances we take on other unex­pected options. They usu­ally offer the oppor­tu­nity for deeper con­nec­tions, too.
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    • Lance says:

      Karen,
      That’s it…this seems like some­thing so small. Except. Except…it’s not. Because, in this one choice, I was given so much in those few days. And then, it’s not even just that — it’s that as we con­tinue to take these steps, lis­ten­ing to our heart, these steps become eas­ier to take…and lead us more fully into who we truly are…

  14. When­ever I choose what I “should” do instead of what I intu­itively know is right things don’t work out. So I agree…the unknown is scary, but their are great lit­tle sur­prises to be found! I know 2011 will be full of that for you! I wish you a lot more unknown deci­sions that turn out well.
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    • Lance says:

      Stacey,
      Mmm…yes, choos­ing shoulds over our own intu­ition. That doesn’t always yield what we want, not deep down, any­way. In fact, it can feel good sometimes…on the sur­face (maybe because we’re more accepted, feel more con­fi­dent, etc, etc, etc). What’s below the sur­face, though?

      Stacey, thank you so much for being here…and for your sweet, sweet words. Know that these mean much to me…as does your friendship.

      Here’s to 2011 and beyond being filled with moments that are heart-led…for you, for me, for all of us…

  15. Lance,
    I love the photo and am inter­ested in how to get there and where it is! You trans­formed your busi­ness trip with one small idea. Pen­guin steps on the road less traveled…I love it!
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    • Lance says:

      Tess,
      These pic­tures (and this place) is in Love­land, Colorado…at the foothills of the Rocky Moun­tains. It is such a beau­ti­ful area.

      Yes, this DID trans­form the trip…one that became much more than the busi­ness of the day.

      Pen­guin steps!! Woohoo!

  16. Sandra Lee says:

    Hi Lance,
    I love the Alan Alda quote and the Robert Frost poem too. I do long to be in touch with my intu­ition and fol­low it along more! This is a ter­rific reminder and gen­tle nudge in the right direc­tion. Here’s a smile for you! :)
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    • Lance says:

      San­dra,
      I hap­pened to stum­ble upon the Alan Alda quote as I was putting this all together, and just knew instantly that this was the “right” mes­sage for me.

      Fol­low­ing our intu­ition more…it’s such a good thing. And, San­dra, I know you do…because you’re here, and think­ing con­sciously about that…and what a great place that is to “be”.

      Smiles and hugs back to YOU!

  17. FatFighterTV says:

    I love that Robert Frost poem! That’s cool that you were able to stay at the Bed and Break­fast. It’s always inter­est­ing to go off that beaten path.
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    • Lance says:

      Sahar,
      I love this Robert Frost poem, too! This place was most def­i­nitely off the beaten path (lit­er­ally!). And that just added so much to the charm of it all. So, so good to “be” there…

  18. Joy says:

    Hi Lance,
    Divine! Yes­ter­day my intu­ition was prac­ti­cally scream­ing at me because I didn’t want to listen..My heart is say­ing please try this very new and dif­fer­ent road, this is what the last few months of work has been for… and my body is say­ing oh no here we go again..So, I gave it to God and the Uni­verse and you would guess what happened..All signs point to the road less traveled..Yep, here we go again! And as I read this, the Beatle’s “Let it Be” is in the background..Divine indeed:)
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    • Lance says:

      Joy,
      Mmmm.…your intuition…and the road less trav­eled. May this road be filled with many moments of enlight­en­ment, con­tin­ued awak­en­ing, and deeper per­sonal discoveries.

      Joy…I’m so happy for you, and for these roads you are trav­el­ing down…

  19. Dave says:

    It requires a dif­fer­ent way of think­ing doesn’t it. On the road less trav­elled, you have to be pre­pared for the poten­tial for dis­com­fort and yet you can equally antic­i­pate some­thing excit­ing and reward­ing. You ran the risk of find­ing a lumpy bed and lumpy break­fast but you rev­elled in the adven­ture of it and saw it as a fab­u­lous oppor­tu­nity. Won­der­ful post Lance. :)
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    • Lance says:

      Dave,
      That’s right — there is some risk of dis­com­fort on any of these roads less trav­eled. And yet, the risk of not doing it…that’s even greater. Espe­cially when it zaps our own deeper soul.

      And that…that makes these lumps along the way so worth it. (this place, though, was very much lump free!)

  20. Katie says:

    Very soul­ful, that voice. We have a hard time hear­ing it in our busy lives, our noisy lives, but when we do it leads us to roads less trav­eled, expe­ri­ences worth shar­ing, a more open heart — like yours. Thank you Lance.
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    • Lance says:

      Katie,
      Ahh…yes, the busy-ness and noise in our lives, it can block out that voice within. And that’s why it’s so good to stop, to quiet the body, and to just let the silence and the still­ness become a part of us (if even just briefly).

      So good, as always, to have you here..and shar­ing your deeply mean­ing­ful thoughts.…

  21. Dr. J says:

    Per­haps this is my favorite poem. Ini­tially when I read it many yearsa ago it had lit­tle effect on me prob­a­bly due to my inex­pe­ri­ence of life. Now it speaks to me in a way that no other does.

    • Lance says:

      Dr. J,
      And your ren­di­tion of this poem…it’s AWESOME!!! Thanks for shar­ing it!! Great choice on your road less traveled.

      And I agree…as my life and the expe­ri­ences I’ve had have con­tin­ued — the words by Robert Frost just have that much more mean­ing. Good, good stuff…

  22. Tim says:

    Lance:

    Thanks for shar­ing this story. It reminds me a lot of the restau­rants in Chicago…so many of them, yet I’m attracted to the ones that fly “under the radar.” Yes, some­one from Chicago won Top Chef and recently opened a restau­rant that is gar­ner­ing a lot of buzz. Yet, I’m drawn to the fam­ily restau­rant that has served great food for gen­er­a­tions and might not be in the best or trendi­est of neigh­bor­hoods. Your post reminds me that we need to lis­ten to this inner voice more often. Thanks, my friend.
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    • Lance says:

      Tim,
      Isn’t that a pretty great thing — find­ing that restau­rant which has excel­lent food — and is still off the radar of the masses. I’m reminded of a pizza place we went to when I was a kid, and how their pizza (and envi­ron­ment) were just so good. Yet, it wasn’t a chain, and it was pop­u­lar except not overly so.

      Here’s to lis­ten­ing to that lit­tle voice of ours even more as we con­tinue on in our journey…

  23. Uzma says:

    Beau­ti­ful reminder Lance. Sim­ple exam­ple and such a deep expe­ri­ence. Great post.
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    • Lance says:

      Uzma,
      Thank you. When I left for this trip, I wasn’t expect­ing the expe­ri­ence to be as deep as it was. I’m so glad it became that…

  24. Amy MacLeod says:

    The quote, the fab­u­lous pho­tos (espe­cially the scenery), and the fact that you fol­lowed your instinct…all a promise to every­one who reads this. You are a great role model.
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    • Lance says:

      Amy,
      This was the scenery almost right out­side the B&B. There was a pre­serve just next door, which was a great place for hiking…and just tak­ing in the expan­sive­ness of this gor­geous area.

      Thanks so much for being here, Amy, and for all your won­der­ful support…

  25. Quix says:

    I’ve always loved that poem. I know what you’re say­ing about the “room for the night” sit­u­a­tion — it’s just a tem­po­rary room, but it’s so freaky for me not to have the “right” one. Weird, huh. I spend HOURS research­ing. Love that you fol­lowed your voice!

    • Lance says:

      Quix,
      Robert Frost has such a won­der­ful way of express­ing thoughts through words…

      I spent what felt like too much time on this deci­sion, too. And, in fact, this was my sec­ond choice — the first place didn’t have a room on one of the nights I would be there. Serendip­ity? I just know that I’m so glad it worked out like it did.

      Thanks so much for the visit today!

  26. Audra Krell says:

    I love the way you take chances, it’s inspir­ing. Thank you for the Robert Frost –per­fec­tion!
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    • Lance says:

      Audra,
      Know that I always (always) love hav­ing you here. There is just some­thing about what you share, it reaches me at just the right time, the right place, some­thing. And it’s all good.

      Any­way, thank you, dear friend, for your being you…

  27. Caity says:

    It is funny that you bring up this par­tic­u­lar poem because it spoke to me recently and I even had the last 3 lines as my Face­book sta­tus for a while. I feel that my recent adven­tures are really me tak­ing a road less trav­eled and it really has made a dif­fer­ence for me.
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    • Lance says:

      Caity,
      Those last three lines really are so moving.

      I’m so happy for you, and for this path you are trav­el­ing — one I know that has taken you far from home. And still…taking you to that place within, per­haps, that is even more fully “home”.…

  28. Lance I so love that poem.. LOVE IT! And your post just grabbed me & pulled me in.. short but almost like a novel.…. mak­ing one think too!

    I have taken the safer route most of the time… maybe it is time to NOT! We shall see.…
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    • Lance says:

      Jody,
      Robert Frost just wrote this poem so eloquently.

      And I know that “safe” route, too. Yet, when I’ve veered from it…so much good has come…

      Jody, know I’ll sup­port you any way I can on roads you take which lead into what might feel like the unknown. You offer so, so much…and I’m so thank­ful for your beau­ti­ful support.

  29. What a super-cute look­ing lit­tle place, Lance! I bet you were their favorite guest ever!!

    Jan­nie? Jan­nie is choos­ing to go with the sweet ever-loving flow of all that unfolds. Jan­nie is into non-resistance with her art. Jan­nie is into non-resistance in her rela­tion­ships, know­ing that any lit­tle detours are only valu­able lessons.

    Jan­nie knows the safer route is really not so safe — it is sti­fling. It’s actu­ally unsafe to the heart and mind!

    And who is this Jan­nie per­son? Just a gal Blue Bunny knows. :)

    xoxo
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    • Lance says:

      Jan­nie,
      Well, this REALLY was a super cute place! And…the break­fast was com­pletely amaz­ing! (I was more than a lit­tle bummed that I had to leave so early the last day, before break­fast was served)

      Non-resistance. Gosh, I’m lov­ing those words as I read them tonight. (they bring me an extra sense of peace) And — that you are in this place, and cre­at­ing your beau­ti­ful life from this place…THAT is beau­ti­ful (as are you…).

      Big hugs to you…and to Blue Bunny.
      xoxo

  30. I felt that I am the one who’s trav­el­ing and going to that house for a busi­ness trip, I’m so amazed how you deliv­ered this story and expe­ri­ence of yours. I will wait for the next arti­cle, Thanks!

  31. Dear­est Lance,
    You get­ting that chance to just “be” is the most pre­cious gift you could give your­self.
    I love how life can some­times be so unpre­dictable yet, so so beautiful…if we only let it.
    Love you lots and lots and that lit­tle voice in you too!
    Z~
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  32. Lance,
    You make my heart sing:) One of my favorite poems of all times. One I can go back to and get some­thing new out of, no mat­ter how many times it has been read.

    So glad you found your lit­tle piece of peace:) Thank you for shar­ing.
    I love those moments where I just “know.” They seem to hap­pen more fre­quently now that I am learn­ing to be more open and peace­ful in my own mind.
    xo
    Love,
    Jen
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    • Lance says:

      Jen,
      Robert Frost’s words in this poem are really so mean­ing­ful to me, too.

      This sweet place…it was like a slice of some­thing divine. And how eas­ily it could have not been, with such a seem­ingly sim­ple choice on my part. Makes me think…just how true the state­ment is that “there are no lit­tle things”…

      Jen, thank so much for for love, care, and support.

      Much love to you, sweet friend.

  33. Too often we get caught up in just sur­viv­ing instead of really liv­ing. I know I’ve been there. It’s eas­ier to take what’s handed to you, but the true job comes from expe­ri­ences some­thing in a new way. A way that opens your mind up to new ideas.

    Next time I go on a trip I’m going to remem­ber this les­son. Thanks Lance.
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    • Lance says:

      Karl,
      May your trav­els be filled with many moments that pro­vide you with clar­ity, peace, and joy.

      …and all the other things that you desire.

      Karl, it’s good, as always, hav­ing your pres­ence here in this space…

  34. Peggy Nolan says:

    Dear Lance,

    I read this the other morn­ing in my email but knew I had to come back and leave a com­ment. I’m glad you took the road less trav­eled and stayed at the B&B =) I just got back from Spain and did more than a few *unknown* things that turned out truly delight­ful. I love tak­ing the road less trav­eled and doing things a lit­tle off the beaten path!

    xo
    Peggy
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    • Lance says:

      Peggy,
      Isn’t it just so great…exploring the lesser trav­eled paths. And…in far away places…very cool (Spain!!)!

      And I find that when I fully do this (head off the beaten path), I also just explore “me” in more depth, too. And that’s a really great thing, as well.

      Wel­come home!

      xoxo

  35. Angie says:

    WOW, won­der­ful and inspir­ing… and excel­lent tim­ing! I just came back from tak­ing a 4 or 5 month net vaca­tion, all I did was lis­ten and take in life, it was won­der­ful! What a nice post to come back to:)
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    • Lance says:

      Angie,
      Wel­come back…and how won­der­ful to read this, and let your own very per­sonal expe­ri­ence soak into my soul. Life hap­pens all the time…and when we are fully engaged in what has the deeper mean­ing for us, that’s a very good place to be…

      …it’s good to have you here again…

  36. J.D. Meier says:

    > drawn to the liv­ing area of this place
    It’s so true. Some places draw us, while oth­ers push us away.

    Some­times we have to cir­cle back to the road not taken, and time changes what’s impor­tant.
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    • Lance says:

      JD,
      Another great thought.…how time can change what’s impor­tant. And…as I read this, I’m reminded…each moment has it’s impor­tances (in our hearts). It’s about listening…always…to that voice within…

  37. Chris Edgar says:

    Hi Lance — I think that’s an impor­tant point — that we can “take the road not taken” when it comes to “smaller” ques­tions, like where we’ll stay for a cou­ple of nights, and not just in the con­text of chang­ing careers, mov­ing to another coun­try, or some­thing along those lines. Every day, we get another chance to go in an adven­ture­some direc­tion, in both the “small” and “big” areas of life.

    • Lance says:

      Chris,
      That’s it!! Those big things — these can feel more mon­u­men­tal. Except…that it’s so much more than that. It IS the lit­tle things, done daily, that truly lead us to what those big­ger things can be. And it reminds me…that it ALL matters…

      Great hav­ing you here, Chris, and for you won­der­ful thoughts!

  38. Galen Pearl says:

    Found you through the Life Lessons Series. What a beau­ti­fully writ­ten blog. You have a poet’s heart, I think. I, too, love the Alan Alda quote. Some­times, like you said, I find just the right thing at the right moment. I am a lawyer by pro­fes­sion, so I am trained to use my head. I have had to learn over the years to trust my intu­ition, espe­cially when it required faith in the face of what my rea­son­ing might be telling me. I have never regret­ted fol­low­ing my inner voice, and I have cer­tainly fol­lowed it down some roads less taken. I look for­ward to read­ing more of your blog.
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    • Lance says:

      Galen,
      First, I just want to thank you for your sweet, sweet words (they have much mean­ing for me).

      Mmmm.…faith in the face of rea­son. I love that — because it’s so easy to lis­ten to “rea­son”, and when we do (although it’s not all bad), how much are we lim­it­ing our potential??

      Great, great thoughts Galen. Thank you so much for being here…

  39. Less trav­elled. All the way. This is my favourite poem ever :) I love how you fol­low your intu­ition Lan­cikins, a real inspi­ra­tion!
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    • Lance says:

      Tia,
      Hey sparkly!! Robert Frost had such a beau­ti­ful way of putting words together…

      Speak­ing of intuitions…I hap­pen to think you pretty much ROCK at that! Keep on shin­ing your awe­some out into this world…in all the amaz­ing places that takes you. You are a gift…and it’s an honor to call you friend…

  40. The Road Not Taken has been a favorite of mine since I first read it in a high school lit­er­a­ture class. Hope you are hav­ing a glo­ri­ous trip of explo­ration.
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    • Lance says:

      Patri­cia,
      Beau­ti­ful words from Robert Frost…

      This life…it’s so worth explor­ing. And in that, I believe it takes us deeply within who we are (if we allow that), con­nect­ing us more fully to what truly mat­ters. And that’s a glo­ri­ous trip indeed…

      Thanks Patri­cia, for all your won­der­ful support.

  41. Beau­ti­ful, Lance! I love how you so elo­quently and gen­tly hon­ored that voice within. I find that it’s easy (really easy) to stick to what I know and what I’m famil­iar with. It can even be a bit scary to take a leap and try that road less trav­eled (or not taken!). But our voice inside that is pure and true will always lead us to just the right place…if we lis­ten, and allow it to carry us. Thank you for your kind reminder today. Funny — I’m work­ing on a ‘deci­sion’ at this moment, and your post made me smile and real­ize it’s not as dif­fi­cult as I make it. I already know the answer. :)
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    • Lance says:

      Michelle,
      Familiar…is…familiar!! (and that DOES make it easy…even if it’s not always desirable)

      Lis­ten­ing to that voice, it’s a voice that is all too easy to ignore. When we don’t ignore it, though, and when we really lis­ten — wow! So much possibility!

      Michelle, I hap­pen to think of you as some­one who very much lis­tens to that voice from within…

  42. Jen says:

    Oh Lance!
    I remem­ber LOVING this post when you first put it up. Thanks for the refresher. Some­times read­ing a sec­ond or third time through brings up so many dif­fer­ent emotions.

    Today, it is a great reminder that the road less trav­eled is alive and before me at this present time as I branch out, launch a CD, hold my breath, and explore what lies ahead…
    Ever change, every new junc­ture, brings about a lit­tle fear, and a lit­tle excite­ment. I will choose to truly enjoy the scenery!!

    Thank you friend!
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    • Lance Ekum says:

      Jen…
      I’m excited for you…and for these new direc­tions that are blos­som­ing! And know I’ll sup­port you on this jour­ney in any way that I can.

      Love to you,
      Lance

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