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This Challenged Me — Part 2

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“He then learns that in going down into the secrets of his own mind he has descended into the secrets of all minds.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

First off, thank you, every­one, for read­ing Part 1 of the interview!

This whole expe­ri­ence has been enlight­en­ing, has been reveal­ing, has been hum­bling.  And it really makes me real­ize, as dif­fer­ent as we all are, indi­vid­u­ally, in many ways we are the same.  Deep down, at our core, we are united.  We are one…

Today, we are mov­ing on to the sec­ond install­ment,  Part 2 of my inter­view with Stephen Hop­son, from the Adver­sity Uni­ver­sity Blog.

Once again, Stephen has chal­lenged me with ques­tions that make me look deep within myself for answers.  He has a real skill for this!

It has truly been an honor to par­tic­i­pate in this inter­view with Stephen, and to share myself with all of you, my friends.

As we pre­pare to say good-bye to this year, and enter our next, I thank you, all, for your vis­its, your read­ing, your com­ments, your time.  Thank you, every one of you, for mak­ing this jun­gle a bit less tan­gled.  You are awe­some, all of you!

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. It was an absolute plea­sure and a priv­i­lege to have inter­viewed you! You have a way with words — I can see why you have such an active com­mu­nity over here.

    Thank you for par­tic­i­pat­ing in the “Stephen Hop­son Inter­view with Lance” and mak­ing a dif­fer­ence with your responses. It is because of peo­ple like you who bring the light where ever they go and that’s what you did for me and oth­ers who were lucky enough to read both parts of my inter­view with you.

    Happy New Year — may 2009 be excit­ing as hell for you.

    Stephen Hopson´s last blog post..Stephen Hop­son Inter­view with Lance of Jun­gle of Life, Part I of II

  2. Davina says:

    Hi Lance. I enjoyed the rest of the inter­view. The Jun­gle of Life rocks! Thanks for help­ing to light the way :-)

    I believe it’s true that we’re all con­nected. It’s a bless­ing to be able to sup­port those we know who need it when we can give it, and to accept help in return when we are in need. What would we do with­out each other?

  3. Hi Lance — I hated to see the inter­view come to an end. It’s great learn­ing more about you, your life, your thoughts and your dreams. I’ve no doubt what­ever you choose, you’ll be a huge suc­cess. You’re a kind, giv­ing and lov­ing per­son and it shows through not only in your inter­view, but here on your blog. It’s a great plea­sure to be con­sid­ered as one your friends. Thank you so much. I’m look­ing for­ward to 2009 and all of the sur­prises it holds in store for all of us.

    Until then, Happy New Year!

    Bar­bara Swaf­ford — Blog­ging With­out A Blog´s last blog post..It’s A Time For Celebration

  4. Cricket says:

    Dear Lance,

    I enjoyed this inter­view so much. You are truly a bless­ing to me. I know I have told you this so many times before. You will accom­plish all that you put your mind too. Just think…you have all of us sup­port­ing you. Your own cheer­ing squad.

    I can’t wait to see what 2009 brings for each of us. You know…we could use a lit­tle more pink in here. Kidding!

    Happy New Year to you and your fam­ily. Tell them thank you for shar­ing “you” with us!

    Tammy

    Cricket´s last blog post..Attacked me today

  5. A great sec­ond half of the inter­view. I enjoyed the per­sonal ques­tions. My favorite answer was “You have shined brightly, my son — wel­come home.” It can’t be said any better.

    Inter­views are great. We get to learn about both peo­ple. You can tell a lot about a per­son by the ques­tions they ask.

    Great job Lance, hope­fully it dri­ves some traf­fic to your awe­some blog.

    Karl — Work Happy Now´s last blog post..Day 29 of 30 – No Com­plain­ing — Lis­ten to Your Fear

  6. avtcoach says:

    I am on my way to the part II of your inter­view and I want to say that I have already been inspired. I men­tioned you in my blog post for Wednes­day, I think what you stand for and what you have to say can be life chang­ing for oth­ers and want as many as pos­si­ble to read your blog and your inter­views. Thank you for what you have done. The WORD is so pow­er­ful, with a blog, that is all we have and we have to make them count if we are seri­ous about our mis­sion. I real­ize that blogs are used for many dif­fer­ent rea­sons, but for those who want to inspire, encour­age, be a light and cre­ate joy in oth­ers we have some­what of an oblig­a­tion to choose our words care­fully. You do that and you have the poten­tial to reach so many with your blog and these inter­views. I wish your fam­ily peace and joy in 2009 and much abundance!!

    avtcoach´s last blog post..Word­ful Wednes­day — 2008 RECAP

  7. Jennifer says:

    Lance, it has been an honor to be part of your jun­gle in 2008.

    I thor­oughly enjoyed both parts to the inter­view and get­ting to know you bet­ter. It just helped you to shine forth even more than you already do. All the best to you and your fam­ily in the new year.

    Jennifer´s last blog post..6 Ways to Com­pli­ment Someone

  8. Look­ing for­ward of your thoughts in the com­ing year.
    Happy New Year to your fam­ily and friends.

    sud­denly slimmer´s last blog post..Easy Push Up

  9. Hi Lance,
    Won­der­ful inter­view — both parts. It was so nice to learn more about you and you are truly such an inspi­ra­tion. :-) I wish you and your fam­ily all the best for the New Year!
    Love, Jenny

    Jenny Mannion´s last blog post..End of 2008 Projects to Check out

  10. Hi Lance,
    You are a truly amaz­ing per­son. I love how you choose to see the world and its chal­lenges. You have a very kind and gen­er­ous spirit. I could go on and on. You are some­one I would like to emulate.

    I wish you and your fam­ily a very Happy and Healthy 2009!!!

    Natalia Burleson´s last blog post..New Year Giveaway!

  11. Lance says:

    @Stephen — Thank you, Stephen, for this awe­some oppor­tu­nity! I think we all have a light within us to share with the world. I know that you do, and it has been a priv­i­lege to have crossed paths with you this year! 2009 will be an awe­some year!

    @Davina — You rock, Davina! This whole blog­ging thing really has made the world seem smaller, and more friendly — and isn’t that pretty awesome!

    @Barbara — With those tough ques­tions Stephen asks — I WAS glad to get to the end of the ques­tions them­selves! Bar­bara, you really gave me my shot — and I’ve learned so much from you. You really are an inspi­ra­tion to so many — myself included! So, Bar­bara, my friend, may the new year indeed hold many new and excit­ing sur­prises for you!

    @Cricket — Tammy, thank you, very deeply, from the bot­tom of my heart. You are the one who is the bless­ing. You have a real and per­sonal way with words, a way that touches many. The new year will be awe­some, Tammy. Con­tinue to love your boys and life and every­thing you have in it! Now about the pink…hmmm…that prob­a­bly won’t be hap­pen­ing right away!

    @Karl — Thanks, Karl! I hope that I can live that answer in my life… “You have shined brightly…”. It’s in inter­act­ing with peo­ple like you, Karl, that I get closer toward this spot. And yes, just by Stephen’s ques­tions — we really get a feel for just what kind of a guy he is — how he really cares…

    @Avtcoach — You won­der­ful words here, really mean so much to me! I am inspired by my vis­i­tors, by you, and what is shared here! It is such a tes­ta­ment to the true char­ac­ter of the won­der­ful peo­ple I am lucky enough to know. And to you, also, I wish only the best for the new year ahead, and that it is a year beyond your expectations!

    @Jennifer — It’s really an honor to have you here, Jen­nifer. You’ve added so much to the con­ver­sa­tions, and to my own think­ing. And my shin­ing is really a reflec­tion of those around me, their bright light bounc­ing off of me — I have some very won­der­ful vis­i­tors here, and that espe­cially includes you! The new year promises great things for us all!

    @Suddenly slim­mer — Thanks for stop­ping by Alia, and happy new year to you!

    @Jenny Man­nion — Thank you, Jenny, very much! Whew…I’m glad I’m done with these ques­tions! They were tough for me! That you enjoyed my answers really does mean a lot to me. Thank you for all your con­tin­ued sup­port Jenny! You inspire me with the love your project. The new year promises many great things for you!

    @Natalia — Thank you, Natalia! You are way too kind to me (and I’m lov­ing it!)! To you, also, may the new year be one that leads you down excit­ing and won­der­ful paths in your life!

  12. Kim says:

    Happy New Year to you! I’ve enjoyed read­ing your blog this year and get­ting to know you bet­ter. And in that process I’ve got­ten to know myself bet­ter, too. Bonus!

    Kim´s last blog post..Happy Birth­day Mom!

  13. Hi Lance

    The more I read, hear, see of you, the more I like ;)

    Juliet

  14. Dot says:

    Very inter­est­ing inter­view, and it was nice to learn a bit about you. I hope the book writ­ing goes well.

    Happy New Year!

    Dot´s last blog post..My First Meme (I’m So Proud)

  15. Of course, I have sub­scribed not only to this blog but also to this par­tic­u­lar blog post and I’ve been read­ing all the com­ments with delight. It seems fit­ting that my two part inter­view with Lance ended just on the cusp of the new year! Pefect tim­ing, wouldn’t you say?

    I found this inter­view to be very much uplift­ing because of the kind of dia­logue we had going between both Lance, myself and the read­ers who have joined in with com­ments of their own. It was such fun.

    Once again, enjoy ush­er­ing in the New Year — it’s going to be a fab­u­lous year, don’t you think? Remem­ber what Henry Ford once said “If you think so, then it will be, if you don’t think so, then it won’t be.” (I’m para­phras­ing of course but the mean­ing is the same).

    Stephen Hopson´s last blog post..Stephen Hop­son Inter­view with Lance of Jun­gle of Life, Part II of II

  16. Julie says:

    Lance, you’re an incred­i­ble role model! Thanks so much for putting your­self SO “out there” for all of us! It couldn’t have been easy, but you surely make it seem so. I’m over to Stephen’s blog, now… ~ Julie

    Julie´s last blog post..Beau­ti­ful Words to Live By

  17. Liara Covert says:

    Lance, one of your gifts is your way of engag­ing your read­ers with issues that they relate to in ways that defy words. You encour­age peo­ple by enabling them to feel and grow at their own pace while you share thought-provoking reflec­tions. I value your per­spec­tive. It enriches the lives of peo­ple you may never meet in per­son. Yet, you con­nect with them through the unseen soul.

    Liara Covert´s last blog post..Rachel Naomi Remen & 5 tools to read­just your sails

  18. Mark says:

    You are one of the best Lance! I hope the hol­i­days have been good to you and your fam­ily! :)

  19. Wow! He did ask you chal­leng­ing ques­tions! In regards to the Pearly Gates questions…you are a light in this world and have made life bet­ter for many people.

    Happy New Year!

    Stacey / Cre­ate a Balance´s last blog post..Send­ing You An Enthuse Muse

  20. Jannie says:

    YOU are the awe­some one, Lance!!!
    Just left my mes­sage over at Stephen’s as to the sec­ond part of the interview.

    Jannie´s last blog post..2 poems, one with pansies

  21. Lance you’re truly a gift! I’m off now to go read Part II. Happy New Year my healthy liv­ing com­rade :)

  22. Marelisa says:

    Hi Lance: I left a com­ment over at Stephen’s site. May 2009 be filled with joy for you and your family!

    Marelisa´s last blog post..35 Cre­ative Ways to Mar­ket Your Blog — Blog Busi­ness Plan

  23. Evelyn Lim says:

    Happy New Year, Lance!! Hope this year will be a fruit­ful one for you!!

    Bless­ings always,
    Evelyn

    Eve­lyn Lim´s last blog post..Law of Attrac­tion Blog High­lights 2008

  24. Cricket says:

    I came back over to say Happy New Year!

    Cricket´s last blog post..Stand by me and I will stand by you…Happy New Year!

  25. sharon says:

    Hi Lance,
    You have done well for your­self and how­ever chal­leng­ing this may have been at least you have got some­thing to show for 2008! Enjoyed the inter­view so much, this is an inter­est­ing jungle!

    sharon´s last blog post..The Top Ten Posts and Thank You!

  26. Mindful Mimi says:

    What a great sec­ond part of the inter­view. Well done. It’s funny but there are two items on your bucket list that are on mine two: writ­ing a book and learn­ing to play the gui­tar. I did climb a moun­tain (almost 4000 m) and intend to go again. Writ­ing a book has been on my mind since I am a kid. I actu­ally did write a children’s book which was of course crap and never go accepted any­where. I just find it dif­fi­cult to start. What would your book be about?
    HAPPY NEW YEAR — may it be filled with laugh­ter and happiness.

  27. Arswino says:

    Lance, I really enjoyed read­ing the inter­view part I and II. Thanks for shar­ing your expe­ri­ences to us. As I com­mented on Stephen Hopson’s Blog, you have given a new perspective/color on self improve­ment blogosphere.

    Arswino´s last blog post..Christ­mas Envelope

  28. Laurie says:

    Awe­some inter­view Lance. You are so gen­uine, the real deal. It’s nice to know you are good with trans­parency even when what shows through isn’t always so pretty. It gives a per­son the safely and free­dom to be more authen­tic her­self. Thanks for that Lance.….….….

  29. Laurie says:

    Oh and Happy New Year Everyone!!!

  30. Well I wasn’t a bit sur­prised by your answers, Lance. Your writ­ing exem­pli­fies the type of per­son you are inside, too. Well done!

    I’ve heard other folks say that ‘cold’ thing both­ers them, too. I was born in the midst of a Mon­tana bliz­zard where wind chill tem­per­a­tures were reg­is­tered at 50 below. Need­less to say I now live in the very WARM south­west. I like to visit snow, but I wouldn’t want to coex­ist with it for months at a time. :-)

    G.

    Grace Kleppin´s last blog post..The best advice I gave myself in 2008

  31. Rupal says:

    Happy New Year Lance!

    Rupal´s last blog post..Promises for the new year

  32. Lance says:

    @Kim — Happy New Year, Kim! It’s great hav­ing you here — thank you!

    @LifeMadeGreat | Juliet — Thank you, Juliet — you’ve become a real friend, I’m glad you’re here, and I’m look­ing for­ward to where the new year takes you!

    @Dot — Thank you, Dot. The book writing…it’s a chal­lenge I’m really excited about! Happy New Year!

    @Stephen — Thanks for hav­ing me, Stephen — my time on your blog has been so fan­tas­tic! And, yes, it is the con­ver­sa­tions that get devel­oped on these blogs — that really make the posts come alive. It will be an awe­some year, Stephen — and I know it will be for you too! Happy New Year!

    @Julie — Putting myself out there — this was one very tough assign­ment (well, two assign­ments!) from Stephen. And yet, I’m glad I did — it has been also so good for me. Happy New Year, Julie!

    @Liara — Liara, thank you! The way you use words always leaves me think­ing, ques­tion­ing, understanding…it’s a real gift you have. Thank you for your con­tin­ued pres­ence here!

    @Mark — Thank you, Mark! Happy New Year to you and your family!

    @Stacey / Cre­ate A Bal­ance — Chal­leng­ing ques­tions, they were! Really, Stephen had me think­ing deeper than I have in a long time — it’s a real gift he has. Stacey, know that you’re a light, also. For many. For me… Happy New Year!

    @Jannie — Thank you, Jan­nie! …I’m now going out to “sin brightly”…I hear that’s works won­ders at the Pearly gates…(you bet­ter be right!!!)

    @stephanie — Stephanie, thank you. Really, your words today mean so much. Yet, there are so many who are real gifts, so many whose paths I’ve had the oppor­tu­nity to cross here in the blog­ging world. You, Stephanie, are one, a gift, as well — to me, and to all your read­ers! Thank you for being here! Happy New Year!

    @Marelisa — Mare, you’ve been such an awe­some sup­porter here. You’ve really become a bright shin­ing light in my life — your com­ments, your writ­ing, your friend­ship. Happy New Year to you!

    @Evelyn — Thank you, Eve­lyn, for really help­ing to make this past year as great as it was. Happy New Year!

    @Cricket — Hey Tammy! Happy New Year!!!

    @Sharon — Thank you, Sharon! And thanks for all your sup­port. Happy New Year!

    @mindful Mimi– Very cool — we’ve got sim­i­lar items our lists! And you climbed a moun­tain — that had to be an awe­some expe­ri­ence! Your children’s book — I’m sure it was much bet­ter than you’re mak­ing it out to be. The sub­ject — I’m not ready to get into specifics yet (I’m still work­ing it all out) — although the gen­eral theme will be a book writ­ten in the per­sonal growth realm. Happy New Year Mimi!!

    @Arwsino — Thank you, Arswino! And, I’m glad this has given you a new per­spec­tive. Here’s to a great year ahead for you, my friend…

    @Laurie — Transparency…well, I’m not sure how good I am with it…it’s cer­tainly not always easy! And you are wel­come, Lau­rie. Although I really do believe it’s a two-way street. Maybe I’m help­ing you, yet know also that you’re help­ing me. As are so many of my read­ers. Thanks for being here Lau­rie. And Happy New Year!!!

    @Grace — Thank you, Grace! I’m coex­ist­ing right now!! We’ve just had one of the snowiest December’s on record… And a few days of below and zero! So, I’m think­ing of you right now, with envy, as you enjoy the warmth of the south­west! Happy New Year!

    @Rupal — Happy New Year, Rupal — thanks for being here!

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