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What Does It Start With?

“I can think of no more stir­ring sym­bol of man’s human­ity to man than a fire engine.” ~ Kurt Von­negut

Ear­lier this year, I had the oppor­tu­nity to have lunch and get to know another Mil­wau­kee blog­ger, Nate St. Pierre.  What Nate has cre­ated, though, is much more than a blog.  He has really cre­ated a move­ment, based around his web­site, It Starts With Us

What is so unique about what Nate is doing, is how It Starts With Us (ISWU) has really become a place to bring peo­ple together — from all walks of life and every cor­ner of the globe.  Brought together around the sim­ple idea of doing good in our world.  And that’s not to say there aren’t a whole lot of oppor­tu­ni­ties to do that right in our own neigh­bor­hoods — as I’m sure there are.  This is really about small, easy acts of good (mis­sions) that can be done -  with a com­mon con­nec­tion to peo­ple from all over the world! 

Please join me as I ask Nate some ques­tions about what has brought him to this place he’s at today.

1.  Tell us a lit­tle bit about who “you” are (fam­ily, career, any spe­cial life expe­ri­ences you’d like to share, etc.)
I laughed when I saw the word “career” in the ques­tion. I don’t think I’ve ever had a career as most peo­ple would define it. I started out as a jan­i­tor at age 14, then dur­ing high school and col­lege I worked as a civil­ian hire for the Air Force. I went to col­lege on aca­d­e­mic schol­ar­ship to study mol­e­c­u­lar genet­ics and organic chem­istry, then dropped out of school to go work at a fish can­nery in Alaska. When I came back from there, I did some free­lance tech­ni­cal writ­ing and desk­top pub­lish­ing. Dur­ing the dot-com bub­ble I taught myself basic web design and built a topic-specific search engine direc­tory, which I ran for a while and then sold. From there I moved into land title insur­ance for a lit­tle bit, and then I became a web devel­oper for a big com­pany. After doing that for a while, I became the web team leader and ran that show for a cou­ple of years, until I decided to quit and focus on ItStartsWith.Us full-time. Instead of hav­ing a solid career to back me up, I feel that I have a vari­ety of dif­fer­ent expe­ri­ences to draw from, each of which has allowed me to develop a dif­fer­ent skill set and per­spec­tive on life. I can’t say that I’ll run ItStartsWith.Us for­ever, but I can tell you that it’s the first job I’ve ever truly loved.

Lance’s Com­men­tary:  The expe­ri­ence at the fish can­nery in Alaska has to have some pretty inter­est­ing mem­o­ries!  And…I think you have really hit upon an impor­tant thing:  Our life is not just about our career, it’s really about our life expe­ri­ences and the peo­ple we’ve met along the way.  Keep on really liv­ing life, my friend!

2.  What led to the cre­ation of the It Starts With Us web­site?
I was attend­ing a week-long lead­er­ship train­ing course for my job in Novem­ber of 2008, and one of the ses­sions focused on com­plet­ing self-assessment exer­cises. “What are your skills, tal­ents and inter­ests, what do you enjoy doing, etc.” — that kind of thing. After writ­ing all that down, the idea was that you should try to do some­thing in your life that would speak to those qual­i­ties. With that in mind, the instruc­tions were to write for 20 min­utes based on the ques­tion pre­sented on the next page. When I turned to the page, I saw that it was blank, except for the phrase, “Next year, I will … ” at the top. I scrib­bled furi­ously for 20 min­utes, and when I was done, I looked back to see what I had writ­ten. Today I don’t remem­ber any­thing about that page except what I wrote for the first line: “Next year, I will change the world.”

I thought about what that meant for a few months, and real­ized that I could never do very much on my own. But I thought that if I could build a sys­tem that would enable peo­ple to par­tic­i­pate quickly and eas­ily, feel like part of a team, have fun, not pay a dime, and actu­ally see the life-changing results of their work, then they would engage with the project. And with so many peo­ple engag­ing, we lit­er­ally could change the world.

Lance’s Com­men­tary:  Nate, what you have cre­ated with the It Starts With Us move­ment is incred­i­bly soul-touching.  You ARE chang­ing the world — in some amaz­ing ways!

3.  Nate, when I think about your site, I think about how I can per­son­ally make a dif­fer­ence in the world – and how your site helps facil­i­tate a way to do that.  Am I close to what you see your mis­sion as?
Indeed. The vision of ItStartsWith.Us is to change the world. The mis­sion — the way we do that — is to make a pos­i­tive impact in the lives of the peo­ple around us … in just 15 min­utes a week. Any­one and every­one can give 15 min­utes a week towards help­ing out their neigh­bor, lov­ing their fam­ily, work­ing on their atti­tude, or join­ing us in one of  our shared mis­sions, like writ­ing a let­ter to a sick child or drop­ping a Love Bomb on some­one in need. When I assign the weekly mis­sions, I try to make them small enough to be attain­able, but big enough to make a mea­sur­able dif­fer­ence in some­one else’s life, and also your own.

Lance’s Com­men­tary:  What’s so great about this is the min­i­mal time com­mit­ment that is really nec­es­sary to be a part of this.  Any­one can do it!!  And — the whole col­lec­tive of this is so powerful!

4.  Tell us about the weekly mis­sions, and how they have impacted you per­son­ally.
I like to think of the weekly mis­sions as a gen­tle reminder to keep our eyes open to the good we can do in this world as we walk through life. There’s no pres­sure to do them or not — nobody’s keep­ing score. It’s very easy to delete the email or unsub­scribe from the list alto­gether. We’ve been run­ning mis­sions for right around a year now, and I’ve done every sin­gle one I’ve assigned. And you know what? It was hard for me. It made me stretch a lit­tle bit. I’m a huge intro­vert, and I’m not the friend­liest per­son (my fam­ily and friends can attest to that). But doing these mis­sions each week has opened my eyes to so many things I can do bet­ter in this life. I’ve found so many ways to make a dif­fer­ence for oth­ers, even if it’s just as sim­ple as a friendly smile, a quick chat on the street, or a small offer of help. And the sur­pris­ing thing is, as much as the peo­ple I serve appre­ci­ate the lit­tle things I do, I’m the one who gets the biggest ben­e­fit. My out­look on life is bet­ter. My atti­tude is more pos­i­tive. My days are more joy­ful. It’s really been amaz­ing, and it seems the old adage is true — when you serve oth­ers, you really do get back more than you give.

Lance’s Com­men­tary:  I’ve been a mem­ber since our lunch meet­ing back in late win­ter of this year.  While I haven’t done every mis­sion, I have done most of them.  And that’s the thing.  Some weeks we get busy, can’t get to every email that comes in, etc, etc.  And that’s what works here.  I do this when I can.  And it’s a win-win when I do.  Some­one ben­e­fits from what­ever “kind­ness” is being put out there this week.  That’s not nearly it, though — I come away from all of this a bet­ter per­son, and am touched by each one of these mis­sions that I par­tic­i­pate in! 

5. Tell us one unex­pected thing that has hap­pened to you in the last year.
I think the most unex­pected thing is what I men­tioned just above — that I was changed as a result of this project. I began it because I believed in the idea and thought I could bring a lot of peo­ple together for the com­mon good, but I was totally amazed by the way it trans­formed me right from the beginning.

Lance’s Com­men­tary:  I love this!!  When we trans­form our­selves in amaz­ing ways, what a great place to be!

6.  If you had to pick one thing as your great­est achieve­ment, what would it be (and why)?
With this project, or with life? Hmm. I’ll pick the “with this project” option, because it’s eas­ier. With this project I’m most proud of the fact that we’ve been able to make such a dif­fer­ence for so many peo­ple. We started out with 18 mem­bers a year ago, and today we have over 2,000 mem­bers in dozens of coun­tries. In just one year we’ve been able to get to the point where we’re now pump­ing hun­dreds of hours of com­mu­nity ser­vice into the world each week in an orga­nized, directed and effec­tive way. And we’ve been able to do it with no fund­ing — just a desire to make a dif­fer­ence. I wish I could share all the notes, calls and emails I receive on a weekly basis about what the team has done — we truly do touch hearts and change lives. It’s incred­i­ble to be a part of that.

Lance’s Com­men­tary:  Hun­dreds of hours.…fifteen min­utes at a time!!  How cool is that!!

7. Any­thing new you have com­ing up?
Dude, I always have some­thing new com­ing up. :) Right now I’m work­ing with a cou­ple of peo­ple on two spin-off sites: Love Bomb and Love Drop. The Love Bomb sub­group is already very active, so we’re going to turn that into a stand­alone project to bet­ter focus the efforts of those mem­bers. Love Drop will be a true 501©3 char­i­ta­ble orga­ni­za­tion cen­tered around the micro-giving con­cept, where inter­ested peo­ple join the group and donate either $1.00 or $5.00 a month, and at the end of each month we ask our mem­bers if they know of any­one who could use some finan­cial help, and then we’ll direct vir­tu­ally all of that money to the cho­sen recip­i­ent. I try to keep the main ItStartsWith.Us team away from any mon­e­tary giv­ing, so this will give inter­ested par­ties the oppor­tu­nity to give back financially.

The biggest thing I’m work­ing on right now, how­ever, is the busi­ness offer­ing of the project. Last month I quit my job to focus on ISWU full-time (putting 30 hours a week into the project on top of my full-time job for the last year was get­ting a bit rough). I’m now work­ing with large orga­ni­za­tions and busi­nesses to uti­lize the ISWU model to mobi­lize their mem­bers to give back in a fun, free and effec­tive way. I’ve custom-built all the tools nec­es­sary for busi­nesses to adopt this model and have the same kind of suc­cess that we’re hav­ing, and I’m doing per­sonal con­sult­ing to help them imple­ment the sys­tem and make a real impact with it. Even bet­ter, when these orga­ni­za­tions con­tract with me to adopt the ISWU plat­form, they also become part of the lead­er­ship net­work I’ve formed, and part of our quar­terly ini­tia­tives … which will be huge mis­sions con­sist­ing of peo­ple from dif­fer­ent com­pa­nies and groups all over the world, where we all work together to do some­thing for one per­son, one fam­ily, or one orga­ni­za­tion … all at the same time. Imag­ine all of us com­ing together to grant a wish for a child in the Make-a-Wish Foun­da­tion, which is one of the places I’m going be look­ing to part­ner with. The world has never seen the kind of things we’re going to be able to accom­plish this year. It’s going to make a huge dif­fer­ence — and be a lot of fun at the same time.

Lance’s Com­men­tary:  I’ve been a part of the Love Bomb group for sev­eral weeks.  What a mov­ing expe­ri­ence, to be able to offer some words of encour­age­ment and love to one per­son who has a lot they are deal­ing with.  And — how awe­some that you are able to focus on ISWU full-time!  The whole idea of tak­ing this into busi­ness, too, makes so much sense:  what a great way to unite a com­mon group of peo­ple around a com­mon cause!

8.  Deep down, what makes you uniquely “you”?
Had to end with a tough one, didn’t you? Hmm. Okay, how about this? I’m a business-minded ide­al­ist. Mean­ing, I have the val­ues, pas­sion, ded­i­ca­tion and drive of some­one who wants to change the world, but I’m doing it in such a way that it makes sense to those with the money and power to help make it hap­pen. I talk to exec­u­tives about how adopt­ing the ISWU plat­form will help with employee engage­ment, recruit­ment and reten­tion, and about how the real-world results they get with their group will be worth much more in pos­i­tive brand-building than what they’re cur­rently spend­ing from their adver­tis­ing and PR bud­gets. I show them how being a part of this net­work affects their bot­tom line and is actu­ally prof­itable for them, and then when they join, I fly out to their head­quar­ters and show them how to run their own group that touches hearts and changes lives. Yep. Just like what we’re doing now. And since I give them all the tools and all the exper­tise they need for a very rea­son­able price, ISWU becomes a self-sustainable busi­ness … in the busi­ness of chang­ing the world.

So that’s how I feel I’m unique — I’m some­one who believes that absolutely every­one is in a posi­tion to do amaz­ing things for the com­mon good. Pas­sion­ate indi­vid­u­als, small com­pa­nies, global brands, non-profits, edu­ca­tional orga­ni­za­tions, celebri­ties, reg­u­lar folk … as long as we work together in an orga­nized, effec­tive and sus­tain­able way, we’ll be able to do things that have never been done before. It is cer­tainly pos­si­ble. In fact, it’s even eas­ier than you think. And I’m excited about get­ting it done.

Lance’s Com­men­tary: Hey, I can’t make all of these easy!!  You are cre­at­ing some­thing that is very spe­cial and mean­ing­ful for every­one involved.  That, cou­pled with the new direc­tions you have planned — and you are indeed chang­ing the world…in very life-connecting ways!

Clos­ing Com­ments:  Nate, as I read that quote by Kurt Von­negut up above…you ARE the fire engine!  And all these peo­ple sign­ing up to be a part of the team become the water.  Wow!!  From this…WE are all chang­ing the world!  Your cre­ation of It Starts With Us is the cat­a­lyst for bring­ing together peo­ple to col­lec­tively make a big dif­fer­ence in our world, one step at a time!  I am hon­ored to be part of this amaz­ing move­ment! 


You can keep up with Nate and the It Starts With Us move­ment by vis­it­ing his web­site, fol­low­ing him on Twit­ter, and sub­scrib­ing to his Face­book page.

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Hey Lance, thanks for A) join­ing the team B) lunch back a few months ago, and C) this arti­cle. All good things, my friend. Oh, and if any of your read­ers have any ques­tions about the project, I’d be happy to answer them here in the comments.

    I’m now back from my trip out West, and excited to keep mov­ing for­ward with all the new ItStartsWith.Us stuff!

    p.s. Alaska — Ugh. 20-hour work­days, man. No fun. :)

  2. We can change the world. The more action we take the more the world changes around us. It’s the Law of Attraction/Karma or what­ever you want to call it. The inten­tions we put out into the world come back to us.

    I love the con­cept that it starts with us. It reminds me of the quote from Gandhi. “Be the change you wish to see in the world.”

  3. Lynn says:

    My sin­cer­est admi­ra­tion to Nate (and as always, to you, Lance) for work­ing to change the world. I’ve taken classes very much like the one Nate describes and I am so happy that he was inspired to do some­thing with the exer­cise he was given.
    .-= Lynn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Light on the stairs, HGTV and trib­ute =-.

  4. So incred­i­bly deep and rich. Thank you for shar­ing this inspi­ra­tion with us. I will be sign­ing up because mak­ing a dif­fer­ence is one of those things I strive to do. Enjoy the day!
    Erin
    .-= Erin Prais-Hintz´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Inspired by…Flowerless Wed­dings =-.

  5. Lance thanks for this inspir­ing intro­duc­tion to Nate’s work. I’m pumped about check­ing out his site and see­ing how I might be moved to play along. You Lance are truly the bearer and spreader of good news in the world and I love you for it.
    .-= Tom Volkar / Delight­ful Work´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Top Ten Tips For A Con­fi­dent Career Change =-.

  6. Hey Lance,

    I remem­ber you telling me about Nate. So it was cool to learn more about him and his story. I love how it all began with an exer­cise at a con­fer­ence. Goes to show you…you never know where the inspi­ra­tion will hit. Plus, his story and mis­sion are per­fect exam­ples of how we each have the abil­ity to change the world.

    Like Karl said above, it is like the famous quote from Gandhi…“be the change you want to see in the world.”

    Here’s to more love and com­pas­sion in the world! Rock on, Nate!

  7. Thanks, Nadia! You’re right — you never know when inspi­ra­tion will hit. (Or when it does, and if you’ll be ready to get up and actu­ally DO some­thing about it. :) )
    .-= Nate St. Pierre´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..ItStartsWith.Us Is One Year Old Today =-.

  8. Nate,
    It does start with us…I love what you’re doing and, Lance, I love that you intro­duced me to Nate via this infor­ma­tive post. I really believe I am dis­cov­er­ing a lot of won­der­ful des­ti­na­tions and com­mu­ni­ties via Jun­gle of Life. Be inspired…
    Thanks,
    Dar­ren
    .-= Dar­ren Sproat´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..My Num­ber One Stress Man­age­ment Tool =-.

  9. Terie says:

    WOW Lance, thanks for intro­duc­ing us to this amaz­ing per­son. Nate, I’m so glad to have the oppor­tu­nity to read about you and what you’re doing to make a pos­i­tive impact in the lives of oth­ers. I’m all about this project and will be click­ing over there in just a bit. You have some really fan­tas­tic ideas and I want to be a part the peo­ple who make the world a bet­ter place just by being in it.

    It most def­i­nitely start with us!

    Terie
    .-= Terie´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Start­ing Fitness…again! =-.

  10. Sagan says:

    Inspir­ing.

    I think it’s funny how few peo­ple seem to have one set “career” these days… every­one seems to be chang­ing their jobs and doing what suits them as their LIVES change. And that makes so much sense: we aren’t the same per­son when we’re 20, 30, 40, 50 years old.
    .-= Sagan´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Oper­a­tion Lose Five Pounds: Pain­less Tips =-.

  11. Lance says:

    @Nate — Hey Nate!! A) It’s great to be a part of your amaz­ing team! B) Lunch rocked!! C) This arti­cle is what it is, because of YOU!!

    Re: Alaska. Okay — that’s not as fun as it sounded at first. What you are doing now, though…that is all sorts of awesome!

    It’s great hav­ing you here, and learn­ing more in depth about you and the ISWU mission!

  12. Lance says:

    @Karl — We sure CAN change the world…each one of us! And what’s so great about the model that Nate is cre­at­ing — it’s all about our col­lec­tive efforts doing some­thing big…in small ways. I LOVE that idea! And that Gandhi quote is per­fect here…

    @Lynn — Hi Lynn. You are a shin­ing star here…and this con­cept of it start­ing with each of us.…that seems like it fits you so well…and is some­thing you are doing, today. And those classes/workshops can have a very last­ing effect — if we’re open to what CAN be. Lynn, thanks so much for all your won­der­ful support!

    @Erin — Hi Erin. I just want you to know that you’ve made a dif­fer­ence in my life. It is so good to know you, and I believe very much that you touch peo­ple in deeply mean­ing­ful ways…always. The ISWU move­ment will be a won­der­ful addi­tion to what you are already doing.

    @Tom — Hey Tom! You know where else you might like to fol­low along — in Twit­ter, fol­low the hash­tag #ISWU for a few days — and really see the depth of what Nate is really doing! Great stuff! And…Tom — YOU, my friend, are the bearer of liv­ing life boldly! And THAT I love about YOU!! Thanks a bunch!!

    @Nadia — Hi Nadia! It’s great to have Nate here today. He’s every­thing I told you, and more! His story really is a great one of a moment in time that made all the dif­fer­ence! Love and compassion.…two things that you truly shine at, sweet friend!!

    @Nate — Hey there again Nate!

    @Darren — Hi Dar­ren. Your sup­port here over the last few months has been incred­i­bly hon­or­ing! YOU, my friend, make the sky light up with the light you put out into the world!!

    @Terie — Hi Terie!! You know, I pretty much think you shine at this already!! So…joining in on the move­ment Nate has cre­ated with ISWU will only be a way for you to even more fully give that love of yours out into the world. You are awesome!!!

    @Sagan — Inspir­ing!! That’s a great word to describe what Nate is doing! And that’s right — we change. It’s a jour­ney through life for each of us — and along that jour­ney there will be some changes along the path we’re on — and that’s good, espe­cially if it’s a path that’s spo­ken from our heart.…

  13. Oh yes, and another thing I’d like to say to Lance’s com­mu­nity here on Jun­gle of Life: You guys have it really, really good. To be a part of some­thing like this, where Lance puts out thought­ful con­tent, intro­duces you to cool peo­ple, and takes the time to get to know all of you per­son­ally … that stuff is gold, and a very rare thing indeed.

    Lance, thank you for all you do for all of us, man.

  14. JoyChristin says:

    Lance,
    Thank you for open­ing up your space to Nate. I appre­ci­ate every­thing you do; *you* absolutely make a dif­fer­ence. Thank *you*!

    Nate,
    I am quite new on your team. I love the projects you are cur­rently involved in and the ones you are devlop­ing. You show that a small amount of time can impact lives, and boldly step­ping out­side of your com­fort zone not only helps you to grow, but inspires all around you to do the same. What we do in our blog­ging com­mu­nity is write, so to spare a few words, a few min­utes to share some love should be almost effort­less for us.
    I have also learned if some­one reaches out for help. then deflects that help, it is not per­sonal toward you, or us, it is fear telling them they are not ready to be healed. Your love-bombs are awe-some and I’m glad that you ini­ti­ate them. In my per­sonal life, I send encour­ag­ing notes to peo­ple, but to think of the impact a love bomb can make..wow!!!
    I am glad Lance gave you space today, and intro­duced you to his readers…may you and your orga­ni­za­tion con­tinue to shine and grow to heights you can’t even yet imagine.…Thank *you* for all that you do–*you* truly make a dif­fer­ence.…
    Much peace to you both…

  15. @JoyChristin — Thank you so much for the kind words, Joy. You’re right; it should be almost effort­less for blog­gers to do, and I’ve been encour­aged by the par­tic­i­pa­tion we’ve got­ten so far. As for how much impact they can have, check out one exam­ple of what we did for a high school girl going through a tough time:
    http://mir-mir-in-the-night.blogspot.com/2010/04/so-i-think-i-might-be-clinically.html

    It’s stuff like this that makes me proud to be a human. :)

  16. J.D. Meier says:

    > an orga­nized, directed and effec­tive way … with no fund­ing – just a desire to make a dif­fer­ence
    That’s pow­er­ful stuff. I like it when effort turns into results.
    .-= J.D. Meier´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..More Spring Cleanup on Sources of Insight – Sim­pli­fy­ing the Expe­ri­ence =-.

  17. Caroline says:

    Thank you Lance for intro­duc­ing Nate! What incred­i­ble things he is doing. It’ s nice to know that there are peo­ple like him (and you) that are sin­cerly focused on help­ing folks and mak­ing this world a bet­ter place to live!

    Rock on Nate!
    .-= Caroline´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Shoot me =-.

  18. Chania Girl says:

    Lance, thank you for intro­duc­ing us to Nate and spread­ing the word about some­thing won­der­ful that’s hap­pen­ing in the world.

    Nate, I really enjoyed read­ing your inter­view, both for what you were able to share about It Starts With Us and for your can­dor about your­self = I liked know­ing you’re not always the friend­liest per­son! ;)

    Will be stop­ping by to see what you’re up to soon. Great inter­view!
    .-= Cha­nia Girl´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Pas­sion and Glory =-.

  19. Hilary says:

    Hi Lance and Nate — how won­der­ful that you two tied up — so that we can learn more ..

    I popped over the Miranda’s site .. and wished her well … not easy for her, and I hope she’s ok.

    Re your thought process .. that’s an amaz­ing idea .. and spread­ing like wild­fire .. I’m off to have a look .. and prob­a­bly join — maybe not now .. but some­time soon .. join first now and do later .. just to be a part of your movement ..

    Thanks — really good thoughts .. Hilary
    .-= Hilary´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Bat and Moth Sur­vey Night — tonight =-.

  20. suzen says:

    Hi Lance! What a phe­nom­e­nal find! Thank you SO much for high­light­ing Nate!

    Hi Nate! Applause, applause! Can you hear it? I get the sense that you’d be the type to “feel” it since you are clearly liv­ing and DOing you’re heart’s desire. I get giddy with excite­ment when I read of any­one who is out there mak­ing a dif­fer­ence — and boy, dude, that’s YOU! What an awe­some inspi­ra­tion you are — and per­fect exam­ple, too, of just what this world needs more of! In my 63 years I’ve not had the plea­sure of “meet­ing” all that many peo­ple who embody the desire to change the world, have the cre­ativ­ity to actu­ally DO it, or the inspi­ra­tional vibe to lead peo­ple and set them on fire! When I think of a cat­a­lyst for change (good change!) I will now think of YOU! Can’t wait to sign up at your blog! Ster­ling job! kEEP ON SHINING!
    Hugs,
    SuZen

  21. @J.D. — Yep, what I’ve learned over the years is that it’s not so much about the idea as it is about the work that you put into the idea. Ideas are a dime a dozen — I’ve got a ton of ‘em — but if you don’t exe­cute well, the ideas don’t really matter.

    @Chania Girl — I’m out to show that you can change the world even if you’re a gen­er­ally unpleas­ant intro­vert, hahaha :)

    @Hilary — Thanks for hang­ing out with us and join­ing the team, Hilary!

    @suzen — Wow, thanks so much for the kind words — I truly appre­ci­ate them.

  22. Lance says:

    @Nate — You’re giv­ing me a big head today!! Wow, I’m hon­ored! And, the truth is — it’s these peo­ple who come by here reg­u­larly and share deeply mean­ing­ful com­ments that are the gold! I’m a lucky guy to have so many car­ing vis­i­tors! And…about those cool peo­ple — you, my friend, have that one nailed!!

    @JoyChristin — Hi Joy! You are sweet and kind…and make this place what it is with your thought­ful words (thank YOU!). And — Joy, I have per­son­ally wit­nessed the gift you have for see­ing the need out there, and look­ing for ways to send encour­ag­ing notes (I’m kind of guess­ing you’ve been a love bomber all your life!).

    @Nate — Top of the morn­ing Nate!

    @J.D. Meier — Hi J.D. That desire to make a difference…can make all the dif­fer­ence in the world. And that’s exactly what Nate has started!! And it IS mak­ing a huge difference!!

    @Caroline — Hey Car­o­line!! Glad to make the intro­duc­tion — Nate’s a pretty amaz­ing guy! The prin­ci­ple of what he’s doing really is focused so much around doing good in our world — and that’s “feel good” all the way!

    @Chania Girl — Hi Carla!! Shoot…maybe I’m un-observant…I com­pletely missed the “unfriendly” side of Nate when we met! Of course, my wife would com­pletely agree that I some­times miss the obvi­ous!! Still, Nate DOES have a friendly side, too! But then, doing all sorts of good in the world will per­haps accen­tu­ate the friendly!!

    @Hilary — Hi Hilary! Nate really does high­light some peo­ple who can really use some love with his love bombs (isn’t that such a great idea — and so sim­ple to do!!). And — def­i­nitely so worth join­ing the ISWU move­ment — it’s com­pletely up to you how active you want to be in it!

    @Suzen — Hi Suzen!! Nate’s an awe­some guy…and that goes for both online and in per­son!! Suzen, you would make a great mem­ber of the ISWU team — you are so much about doing good and bring­ing sun­shine into our world!!

    @Nate — I think it’s time for cof­fee. Have a great day today!! And thanks much for all the fol­low up here!!

  23. Jenn says:

    Lance and Nate, I really enjoyed this post! Thank you for shar­ing! I love hear­ing these sto­ries also of com­pas­sion and gen­eros­ity going full-time in our com­mu­ni­ties ;) What an inspi­ra­tion and a call to action! bless­ings to you both! This was really encour­ag­ing! xx~Jenn
    .-= Jenn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..One Heart, One Voice.….Stepping Up to the Plate! =-.

  24. Cheryl Paris says:

    Hello Lance,

    Thanks for the won­der­ful inter­view.
    The best part which have now changed Nate’s life is ’ the last sen­tence of the self assess­ment quiz’.
    Self analy­sis is very impor­tant to know where we stand and how much more we need to work hard in order to be suc­cess­ful and mak­ing a difference.

    Bye for now,
    Cheryl
    .-= Cheryl Paris´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Act Now: Why You Should Never Wait =-.

  25. lisaschaos says:

    Nate sounds like a great guy! I’m glad he’s found some­thing that he enjoys doing. I’m won­der­ing if he’s heard of Angel on My Shoul­der — it’s a great can­cer sup­port thing here in Wis­con­sin and none of the board mem­bers draw a salary. They are 100% vol­un­teer and really great — we do their pho­tog­ra­phy, and leave feel­ing good every time.
    .-= lisaschaos´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Painted in Ice (Macro Mon­day) =-.

  26. Walter says:

    It is indeed a bless­ing to the blo­gos­phere to have a blog­ger in the per­son of Nate whose inten­tion is to bring peo­ple together for the pur­pose of fur­ther­ing the well-being of this world. I really wish all blog­gers are like that; giv­ing their best, their time, their energy for a noble pur­pose. :-)

  27. Hi Nate,
    Wow what an inspi­ra­tion you are to all of us. When friends and fam­ily fear the world crash­ing down all around them I tell them about my blog­ging friends and how soooo many peo­ple I know are mak­ing a dif­fer­ence. And really out of the mil­lions of blogs I’m not sure I know that many. I do know there are 1000’s more like you and Lance…just because I BELIEVE! Keep up the good stuff. I’m signin up like suZen!

  28. Colleen says:

    “I’m some­one who believes that absolutely every­one is in a posi­tion to do amaz­ing things for the com­mon good. ”

    - Nate sounds like the kind of per­son I want to be around! :)
    .-= Colleen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Homes For Sale In The Pasco Wash­ing­ton School Dis­trict =-.

  29. Tim says:

    Hi Nate and Lance: Wow, inspir­ing story…and Nate, I admire you for this move­ment you’ve started. One of my favorite say­ings has always been “be the change” so It Starts With Us very much fits that phi­los­o­phy. In addi­tion to being impressed with your site and mis­sion I’m happy to read about your abil­ity to re-invent your­self in your career. I’m doing a lit­tle of that myself, but read­ing about how you did it is great. Lance, once again, thank you for intro­duc­ing us to Nate and his mis­sion. Great job!
    .-= Tim´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Lounge Is Open =-.

  30. Lance says:

    @Jenn — Hi Jenn!! Being united with oth­ers around a cause, too, is so con­nect­ing. And that’s really what ISWU pro­vides — both a moment to share some com­pas­sion and gen­eros­ity, cou­pled with the com­mu­nity feel­ing of peo­ple around the globe doing this same thing. And that IS encouraging!!

    @Cheryl — Hi Cheryl. Self analy­sis really can be a great thing, espe­cially when that leads to an even deeper self aware­ness. It reminds me very much of a train­ing pro­gram I attended this past fall, where I really dug into my own aware­ness, with more depth than ever before. So — see­ing what Nate has created.…very awesome!!

    @Lisa — Hey Lisa. Nate really IS a great guy! I have per­son­ally not heard of the “Angel on my Shoul­der” group, and will check it out. It really sounds like a won­der­ful orga­ni­za­tion! And very awe­some that you do their photography!!

    @Walter — Hi Wal­ter. Nate really is focused on doing good. And what’s so great about this — how peo­ple have grav­i­tated toward that.…part of our inner desire, I believe, to do good in this world. So, that ISWU gives a way to do that — awesome!

    @Tess — Hi Tess! We CAN make a dif­fer­ence!! Each one of us, right!! Tess, you do this won­der­fully well, one per­son at a time. So, what Nate has cre­ated — it’s a won­der­ful place for YOU!! Enjoy!!

    @Colleen — Hi Colleen. Nate’s an amaz­ing guy!! And the ISWU move­ment really is all about doing amaz­ing things for the com­mon good!! Great stuff!!

    @Tim — Hi Tim! Nate embod­ies the words “be the change”! And read­ing about Nate’s life journey…it has def­i­nitely been one of re-creating him­self many times over. And in that…what a great place he is at today! Best to you, Tim, in the re-invention of yourself…and all the amaz­ing things that will lead to! Great things await, my friend!!

  31. Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord says:

    Nate, I’ve been a HUGE fan of your work since Lance intro­duced me to it a few months ago. I’ve told friends about you, too, because I whole­heart­edly believe in what you’re doing. Your actions come from a heart-centered place, and in my opin­ion, that’s the direc­tion our world is mov­ing in more and more each day. What an honor to read more about you in this inter­view — thank you! Please con­tinue being AWESOME, as you’ve been, and I’ll con­tinue sup­port­ing your mis­sion with a smile on my face.

    Lance, thank YOU for spot­light­ing another amaz­ing indi­vid­ual who changes my essence, sim­ply by being him­self. We’re all ONE, and with that in mind, what a joy­ful group of con­nec­tions to share!
    Lots of love to you, Lance, and much joy for bring­ing Nate into closer view!

  32. Audra Krell says:

    Nate, you sound like an absolutely bril­liant man and I’ve thor­oughly enjoyed read­ing about your jour­ney and the change you’ve been in the world. Thank you for the oppor­tu­nity to be in com­mu­nity, that is what I see a the most pos­i­tive, ben­e­fi­cial change you’ve made. I’m thrilled that you and Lance have met, there is no stop­ping the two of you!
    Lance, I’m always impressed in the fresh, new posts you have. But hon­estly now, I don’t know how you do it. This was tremen­dous. Thank you friend!

  33. @Megan — Hi Megan, so nice to see you here. I’ve seen you out and about on the ISWU team as we go about our busi­ness, and it’s been a plea­sure hav­ing you around. Thank you so much for all the love. :)

    @Audra — Yes, my goal is to be more community-focused this year, since I’ve learned that that’s where the real magic hap­pens. Very soon (in the next week or two) I’ll be rolling out a new plat­form for the team that will allow us to com­mu­ni­cate in even bet­ter ways.

    Much love to you all — thanks for all the won­der­ful com­ments. It’s been my plea­sure to be a part of this.

  34. Mama Zen says:

    What an amaz­ing idea!
    .-= Mama Zen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Not Hold­ing My Breath =-.

  35. Vickie Frisbie says:

    I am so lucky to be a part of ItStartsWithUs and to know Nate. I hardly ever com­ment or update as my life is soooooo crazy, but I do the mis­sions and the Love Bombs and I am bet­ter for it! I feel like and know that I am mak­ing a dif­fer­ence in very real ways by doing for oth­ers. I agree that the love bombs are phe­nom­e­nal for the soul (mine and the per­son receiv­ing). Great arti­cle on great guy! He is indeed the fire truck!
    Thanks for remind­ing all of Us what’s impor­tant — not every­thing that mat­ters can be mea­sured and not every­thing that is mea­sured mat­ters!
    LOVE!
    Vickie

  36. @Vickie — I get to see you in three weeks; we’ll catch up, girl. I’m excited to hang out!

  37. Lance says:

    @Megan — Hey Megan!! I’m a huge fan of YOU!! (well…and Nate, too) Yep, when we are com­ing from a heart-centered place, pretty won­der­ful and amaz­ing things can hap­pen! Speak­ing of won­der­ful and amazing…YOU ARE! And I know you are work­ing on some things that fit that descrip­tion too! Much love to you, Megan…always…

    @Audra — Hi Audra!! The ISWU com­mu­nity is one that has a whole lot of good works going on. It’s great to see and be a part of! And I did this one…by let­ting Nate write almost the whole thing (that makes it easy for me!!). And you, sweet friend, shine here always!

    @Nate — Look­ing for­ward to the new changes you’ll have com­ing out in the next cou­ple of weeks!!

    @Mama Zen — Hey Kelli! This is an amaz­ing idea…and one that the world is embracing!

    @Vickie — Hi Vickie! It’s great to “meet” you! And you’ve really high­lighted the beauty of this — when we do these mis­sions (or love bombs, or what­ever else lies ahead) — the touch us also very per­son­ally, and in a won­der­ful way. Nate rocks!!! (you already know that, though!)

    @Nate — How awe­some it is when you get to meet mem­bers of the team, in person!!!

  38. Lauren says:

    Hey Lance and Nate,

    What a fan­tas­tic con­tri­bu­tion. I love this so much — how inspiring!

    Nate, I’m amazed that you wrote change the world as your first line on the paper (I can’t wait to do this exer­cise when it’s not 1:30 am after hours of writ­ing :-) ).

    Lance, you bring us such won­der­ful inspi­ra­tion. Nate, I am excited to join this uplift­ing adventure!

    What a great thing to go to sleep to — chang­ing the world a moment and an act at a time.

    A big thank you and a big hug to you both.
    Lauren

  39. Greet­ings Earth­lings Of The Love Bomb Mission!

    I have not headed over to Nate’s but that’s where I’ll be as soon as I post this. And I’ll be sign­ing up to hear more about the weekly missions.

    This is too big, beau­ti­ful and boldly boun­ti­ful to miss!

    AWESOME, you guys!!

    xo
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Let’s Drink Up The Stars (lyrics draft) =-.

  40. SnaggleTooth says:

    Way cool project!
    Thanks for the Info! Great interview–

  41. Lance says:

    @Lauren — Hi Lau­ren!! Have fun with the writ­ing exer­cise. And def­i­nitely — join in the ISWU move­ment! It’s great hav­ing you here and shar­ing in this!!

    @Jannie — Greet­ing fel­low earth­ling!!! Hey, I hope you’ve had a great visit to Nate’s site! And the beauty of it is really in the mis­sions that come out — and how mov­ing it can be to be a part of these. Jan­nie, you are a shin­ing star of good­ness in our world.…this ISWU move­ment is so fit­ting for YOU to be a mem­ber of!!

    @SnaggleTooth — Hey Snag­gle!! This really IS a great project!!

  42. Sandy Salle says:

    What a beau­ti­ful mind­set Nate!

    I see a lot of sim­i­lar­i­ties between you and I in terms of our vision and shar­ing that vision with oth­ers. You are truly an inspi­ra­tional char­ac­ter and I know you will do well now and in the future to come!

  43. Lance says:

    @Sandy — Hi Sandy!!! Great to see you here today! Nate sure is an inspi­ra­tional guy! And — I see that in you, too (except the “guy” part!) — you are one very excep­tional and spe­cial woman — and it’s awe­some hav­ing your pres­ence here!

  44. ~~Lance~~
    Hi Lance how are you?

    This is the first time I stum­bled upon your blog and could not leave it until after read­ing this entire blog.
    Each sen­tence was so grip­ping and so I had to fin­ish this inspir­ing and hum­bling story of Nate’s.

    Bravo to both of you (Nate/Lance) for start­ing and con­tin­u­ing on your jour­ney of life and shar­ing your thoughts with us is very appreciative.

    ~~Nate~~
    I read your link about help­ing a girl cope with her chronic depres­sion from high school. I read your post to her too and it was heart­felt because I believed and felt every word you expressed to her and to let her know that every­thing will be ok is just so pure and beau­ti­ful.
    Pure awe­some­ness and rock on Nate!
    .-= Vin­cent Nguyen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Mind­set of a Win­ner =-.

  45. Keith Davis says:

    Hi Lance
    “It starts with us” is so true.
    I organ­ise a char­ity col­lec­tion for Chris­t­ian Aid in the UK and per­haps that should be our motto.
    When you’re doing a house to house col­lec­tion on a dark wet evening — and we have lots of those in the UK — it’s easy to think that your small con­tri­bu­tion won’t make a dif­fer­ence.
    I’ll have to try and remem­ber this post and in par­tic­u­lar the words — It Starts With Us.
    .-= Keith Davis´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Laugh and the world… =-.

  46. Sandy Salle says:

    Awww thanks so much Lance! You are too sweet!

  47. Lance says:

    @Vincent — Hi Vin­cent!! I’m doing great, thanks! What Nate is doing really IS inspir­ing!! And it reminds me very much that there is a whole lot of good going on in this world…when peo­ple like Nate TAKE ACTION.

    @Keith — Hi Keith!! “It starts with us”…so true! Every lit­tle bit helps.…whether we’re col­lect­ing money for some cause, lend­ing a shoul­der to lean on, help­ing to rebuild a home, offer­ing a hug, etc, etc. It might seem small…yet it really is SO much!! Keep up the great work with the Chris­t­ian Aid!

    @Sandy — Hey Sandy!!! It’s just awe­some to have you here!! Have a won­der­ful weekend!!

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