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What Is Love, Really

 lovelist

“Look­ing back, I have this to regret, that too often when I loved, I did not say so.” ~ David Grayson

Love.

That strong emo­tion we all have.  It comes from a spot deep within our soul.

Lying in the grass and look­ing at the sky.

Fly­ing a kite with your child.

A camp­fire.

A walk with your sweetheart.

The smell of freshly baked apple pie.

Love can encom­pass a whole num­ber of dif­fer­ent things.

How often do we really rec­og­nize what it is in our lives that we love?

The #Lovelist Project

This is the crazy-wonderful idea dreamt up by Kristin Ten­nant, writer at Halfway to Nor­mal.  Kristin writes very much about sub­jects that have a deep per­sonal con­nec­tion for her, and she speaks with love and hon­esty that is real and refresh­ing.  Recently, Kristin wrote about this idea she’s penned The Lovelist Project, and what this was.  Check out that post, it’s filled with so much good­ness and ways you can be a part of this project.  And there are a num­ber of ways to par­tic­i­pate, some very active, and some much more pas­sive.  In the end, it’s all about help­ing you to rec­og­nize that which you love in your life — in a deeply con­nect­ing way.

In My Words

The Lovelist Project is really you, iden­ti­fy­ing those things in your life that evoke this feel­ing of love.  That’s a feel­ing we all have, and it’s one I believe is at the core of who each of us are.  The thing is, none of us are the same.  And what we love is not the same.  So, there isnt’ some “stan­dard” list out there.  This list is a very per­sonal list for each of us. 

And think about this — let’s say we iden­tify some­thing we love:

Why is it that we love that thing?  Not just “on the sur­face love”, that deeper more mean­ing­ful love. 

So this con­cept by Kristin is all about iden­ti­fy­ing those things in your life that you love.  Sim­ple things.  Com­plex things.  All of it.  And then to think about the deeper mean­ing why.  Why is it that these things have deep mean­ing for you?  What is it that you’re con­nect­ing with?  And through this whole mini-journey into the many loves in our life, we’re get­ting closer to the core of who we each are.

What it’s not:  It’s not just sit­ting down for a half hour and crank­ing out a list (that doesn’t sound too love-filled).  It’s about delib­er­ately being aware of those things in your life that really evoke that feel­ing of love.  And then iden­ti­fy­ing them and why you love them…in the moments of your day.

That List

I’ll go first.

I love choco­late chip pan­cakes on a lazy Sat­ur­day morn­ing
I love get­ting into a sun-warmed car on a cool fall day, and let­ting the warmth work it’s way through my body.
I love see­ing fog  develop, right before my eyes, on a crisp autumn evening
 

Your Turn

What does love mean to you?  What might be on your lovelist?  Feel free to share on Kristin’s site, here, or on Twit­ter (using the hash­tag #lovelist).  And fol­low Kristin’s blog, where she’s high­light­ing #lovelist entries each Fri­day, and encour­ag­ing oth­ers to add their own at that time too. 

Note:  At the same time, what we love can be deeply per­sonal, and not some­thing we’re ready or want to share.  That’s per­fectly okay, too.  Some­times it’s just think­ing about what it is that we love, that helps to con­nect us to a deeper part of our soul.  And then some­times it’s just plain silly stuff that just light­ens our spirit.  It’s all good, and it’s all real. 

Keep up with Kristin by sub­scrib­ing to her blog right here, and fol­low­ing her on Twit­ter.

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. John says:

    Sweet! Great idea for a post Lance. Here are a few of my loves.

    I love going after the things I desire.
    I love going to the beach and soak­ing up some rays.
    I love relax­ing on my recliner dur­ing a slow sum­mer day with the sun shin­ing through the windows.

    I’ll check out Kristin’s site too. Until next time my friend.
    .-= John´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..How to Keep Mov­ing For­ward =-.

  2. Joanna says:

    My turn…: )

    I love my fam­ily with all my heart.
    I love paja­mas, pink hooded sweat­shirts, big chunky rings, and gym clothes.
    I love cup­cakes espe­cially when they are made in the com­pany of my niece.
    I love clean sheets and freshly vac­u­umed car­pet.
    I love a good work­out and chal­leng­ing my body.
    I love God who saves me every sin­gle day.
    .-= Joanna´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Goal Keeper =-.

  3. Suzie Cheel says:

    I love watch­ing the sun­rise
    I love med­i­tat­ing at the beach with the sun rays flow­ing into my heart
    I love curl­ing up with a good book
    I love fresh clean sheets against my body
    I love the revi­tal­is­ing feel­ing that swim­ming in the sea givesme
    Thanks for won­der­ful thought as I head to sleep
    namaste
    Suzie
    .-= Suzie Cheel´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..How An Atti­tude of Grat­i­tude Can Attract Abun­dance! =-.

  4. Hilda says:

    I love it when a plan comes together. Espe­cially when I’ve let go of hav­ing to have it ;-)
    I love cud­dles
    I love it when I recog­nise an amaz­ing syn­chroc­ity
    I love good com­pany, good food, laugh­ing with peo­ple I love

    Wow, Lance, as I was writ­ing the above I felt really good, and more and more things come to mind. It reminds me of the grat­i­tude list exer­cise I used to prac­tice. (Time to resume that methinks) This is a great idea! I’ll be sure to check out Kristin’s site.
    .-= Hilda´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Do things dif­fer­ently =-.

  5. Laurie says:

    I love when I am in God’s sweet spot for me. When I know he is there, I can feel him.
    I love con­nect­ing on a soul level with my hub and oth­ers.
    I love con­nect­ing with nature.
    I love adven­ture.
    I love laugh­ing.
    I love giv­ing.
    I love Lance and his blog!

  6. bobbi says:

    I love being GODS child.
    I love my Hubby
    I love Bosco
    I love my Familia
    I love my friends
    I love laugh­ing
    I love LOVE
    I love PB
    I love PIZZA
    I love LIFE!

  7. Jay Schryer says:

    I love lay­ing in a warm bed on a cold night.
    I love watch­ing the sun­set over water.
    I love long con­ver­sa­tions with dear friends.
    I love sit­ting qui­etly together, doing sep­a­rate things.
    I love read­ing.
    I love writ­ing.
    I love my kid!!!

  8. I love the end of a fam­ily din­ner when the boys SHOULD be off to their home­work and my wife and I SHOULD be start­ing the dishes or chang­ing the laundry—but instead we sit and talk and laugh and tease. Every­one has momen­tar­ily for­got­ten their respon­si­bil­i­ties and is just that small, tight, irre­place­able fam­ily unit.
    .-= Danny Clayton´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Shut UP! Let me wal­low. =-.

  9. Srinivas Rao says:

    I love the feel­ing of glass ocean water early in the morn­ing
    I love the feel­ing of catch­ing a wave and shred­ding it up
    I love the feel­ing of rid­ing waves to the end of the shore
    I love the peace­ful­ness I find in the ocean

    Great post.
    .-= Srini­vas Rao´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Oper­ate from a learn­ing per­spec­tive for mas­sive suc­cess =-.

  10. Evita says:

    I LOVE talk­ing about love :)

    What a great post Lance and great idea from Kristin too!

    So what evokes a feel­ing of love within me.…
    Spend­ing any time, thoughts or moments with my hus­band
    Spend­ing any time in or with nature — all of it, every sin­gle piece of it and every species in it, truly evoke a feel­ing of love within me.
    I love free­dom, being myself and help­ing oth­ers.
    Some­times a sim­ple smile exchanged on the street between a stranger, evokes an amaz­ing feel­ing on love within me.

    I have to say, I am try­ing to keep it short and sum­ma­rize, but love to me is such an infi­nite sub­ject and these days, it is harder to find things that I don’t love, than love — it seems love is more abun­dant today for me more than ever and I love that alone :)
    .-= Evita´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Enter To Win a Copy of the Children’s Book Yndico Is =-.

  11. Keith says:

    Hey Lance,

    I love this idea!

    Here’s just a few things I love:

    *I love watch­ing a smile form on my girl­friends face, my daughter’s too.
    *I love being out early in the morn­ing and watch­ing the sun­rise.
    *I love thun­der­storms
    *I love sit­ting on the beach at night, play­ing my Native Amer­i­can Flute, w/ waves crash­ing
    *I love giv­ing and receiv­ing an “I love you“
    *I love to read, learn and write
    .-= Keith´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Don’t Quit! =-.

  12. Chania Girl says:

    What was so lovely about this post today was being able to receive from oth­ers the love they feel as they share their own lovelists. When it’s love, it just keeps on giv­ing, doesn’t it?

    Here are a very fewof the things I love:
    I love Lance and his blog and the feel­ing of com­ing here in the mid­dle of my busy work day and find­ing peace.
    I love the early morn­ing.
    I love watch­ing the lit­tle spar­rows hop from branch to branch on the trees in my gar­den.
    I love get­ting let­ters in the mail.
    I love bright flow­ers.
    I love low-hanging clouds over the moun­tains I see from my porch.
    I love the first crazy rain in Crete, when summer’s over and winter’s com­ing: the crash­ing of the waves, the feroc­ity of the sea, the bite in the air, and the sting of the rain -> It makes me feel alive.
    I love when my hus­band squeezes me so tightly I squeak.
    I love his tacos de queso.
    I love this amaz­ing incred­i­ble world.
    I love me.
    I love you.

    Thank you, dear Lance.
    .-= Cha­nia Girl´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Note on a Late Sum­mer Morn­ing =-.

  13. This sounds awe­some. Thanks for shar­ing Kristin’s project with us. Things I love right now…

    I love look­ing at the pic­ture of my dog on my desk­top.
    I love the wind blow­ing the leaves around out­side.
    I love that Hal­loween is only a few weeks away.
    I love think­ing about things I love.
    I love that I have a whole book of happy things.
    I love hav­ing an awe­some guest post on my site right now.
    I love doo­dling lit­tle pump­kins every­where.
    I love be happy and smil­ing and laugh­ing.
    I love this post. :)
    .-= Pos­i­tively Present´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..the film­strip: a new way to look at pres­ence =-.

  14. Yum Yucky says:

    I love the quite calm of the morn­ing just before dawn. It’s my favorite time to pray.
    I love see­ing my chil­dren play and laugh, and they don’t even know I’m watch­ing.
    I love to give.
    I love dis­cov­er­ing brand new ful­fill­ment and joy in non-material things.
    I love that Lance is my friend.
    I love my list.
    Lovely, isn’t it?
    .-= Yum Yucky´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Taste Test: Log Cabin Syrup with ZERO Corny-ness =-.

  15. Daphne says:

    I love find­ing some­thing new to try from inspired blog­gers. Thank you for shar­ing this!
    .-= Daphne´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..More Inspi­ra­tion =-.

  16. Lynn says:

    I love the many dif­fer­ences in the per­son­al­i­ties of my friends and fam­ily.
    I love fall air.
    I love the sound of a foot­ball game in another room.
    I love send­ing off a birth­day card.
    I love when my dad calls me “sugah.“
    I love my mother’s sense of humor.
    I love when I wake up and can hear my cat gen­tly snor­ing nearby.
    I love the moment I finally can sink into the sofa after a long day.
    I love the pos­i­tiv­ity of this blog. Thank you Lance, for that. :)
    .-= Lynn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Mr. Keil­lor, The Writer’s Almanac and sing along =-.

  17. FatFighterTV says:

    I love my hus­band — who is also my very best friend — with all my heart.
    I love choco­late.
    I love cud­dling with my BFFF (Best Feline Friend For­ever) — Chancey.
    I love being a jour­nal­ist.
    .-= FatFighterTV´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Spe­cial offers from FFTV spon­sors (you could win $$$) =-.

  18. Carla says:

    Love is,

    Look­ing at a beau­ti­ful rose in bloom after the rain.
    The col­ors of fall.
    Hold­ing hands with a good friend.
    A kiss — roman­tic or pla­tonic.
    Look­ing into the eyes of some­one you’re fond of.

    Great idea, Lance!
    .-= Carla´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Arachno­pho­bia =-.

  19. Erin Brooks says:

    I love spend­ing time with my hus­band who makes all my trou­bles go away.
    I love play­ing with my silly cats and cud­dling with them
    I love bak­ing for oth­ers.
    I love read­ing in the late after­noon.
    I love the lit­tle things that make peo­ple know they are appre­ci­ated and loved.
    I love doing things for oth­ers and mak­ing them smile.
    I love the bless­ing I have for friends who are there for me no mat­ter what.
    .-= Erin Brooks´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Get­ting Out! =-.

  20. This is SO up my alley Lance! I am so in love with keep­ing lists of the things and peo­ple I love and why I love them. (:

    Love is:
    My daugh­ter tick­ling me just because she wants to hear my snort. My hubby dri­ving across town while still at work just to check on me. A grandma and grandpa who SHOWED true love and inspired me to be who I am. Want­ing to see every­one who hurts smile, so you do what­ever it takes to bring them that smile.

    I could go on and on (-:
    .-= Tabitha@ichoosebliss´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Moments of Grat­i­tude =-.

  21. Davina says:

    Hi Lance. I can keep this really sim­ple, which is unusual for me ;-) … I Love hav­ing some­one to Love. Some­one to share things with. Some­one to do things for. Some­one to hug. Some­one to appre­ci­ate. Some­one to laugh with. Some­one to love with.

  22. I love my life.
    I love my fam­ily.
    I love my God.
    I love my freedom.

    There are a lot of loves in my life. Thanks for the reminder to cel­e­brate and appre­ci­ate them!
    .-= Diane Fit to the Finish´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Are Secrets Hin­der­ing Your Suc­cess? =-.

  23. Yum Yucky says:

    .…and I love JESUS. I can’t leave Him out.
    .-= Yum Yucky´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Taste Test: Log Cabin Syrup with ZERO Corny-ness =-.

  24. Laurie says:

    @Yum Yucky– You go girl! You’re right, we can’t leave Jesus out! After­all, He’s the rea­son for love!

  25. Hi Lance! I like your list!
    I love spend­ing time with my extended fam­ily.
    I love the smile on my boys’ faces when they try out a new vocab­u­lary word.
    I love when my kids make jokes that are really hilar­i­ous.
    I love laugh­ter.
    I love the feel­ing when inspi­ra­tion strikes.
    I love the feel­ing of con­nec­tion between me and like-minded friends and acquain­tances.
    I love the blog­ging com­mu­nity we’re all part of!
    .-= Jodi at Joy Discovered´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..My Happy Place, Your Happy Place =-.

  26. I love this blog
    I love my life
    I love my pos­i­tive mind set
    I love being able to move my mom out this house into a man­sion
    I love being free , finan­cially
    Did i day i loved his blog.…
    .-= jonathan figaro´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Re-buliding Your Soul By Melt­ing Your Heart =-.

  27. Marelisa says:

    I love: eat­ing Indian food; going for a jog on a path near my home that winds along the ocean; watch­ing car­toons with my two lit­tle nephews; wak­ing up late on Sun­day morn­ings; going to the beach, sink­ing my toes in the sand, and tak­ing in the sun rays.
    .-= Marelisa´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Lessons from “The Sci­ence of Get­ting Rich” (Part 1) =-.

  28. I love. I mean I really love…
    – Giv­ing my wife a sur­prise gift.
    – Laugh­ing so hard with a close friend that tears come out my eyes.
    – Going for a walk with my dog.
    – Clean­ing the dishes in the sink and see­ing every clean as a whis­tle.
    – Writ­ing a cre­ative post for my blog.

    I could keep this list going for ever. Thanks for mak­ing spurring the cre­ative juices for a future blog post.
    .-= Karl — Work Happy Now´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..21 Ques­tions You Should Ask Your­self Every Mon­day =-.

  29. Jan says:

    Lance, I love so many things, my list would stack as high as the sky. What I love right now more than any­thing is peo­ple being REAL; us tak­ing off our masks, being vul­ner­a­ble, and say­ing what mat­ters most, speak­ing what is in our hearts. This post truly touches MY heart. I believe that when we aspire to love, feel love, ori­ent our­selves toward love, we begin a very pro­found jour­ney to BEING Love — that’s Love with a cap­i­tal “L”—the Love that we come from and that we return to.

    I love it when we keep our hearts open to one another. When we can read through this whole list of everyone’s loves and say, “Cool!” instead of “Oh, he is so weird,” or “She is such a loser.” When we love one another with wide open hearts, my heart does a big, happy dance.

    Ok, one more. I do love choco­late and wish I had a hunk right now. It would just top off a per­fect afternoon…Dark, not milk. Love to YOU! Great post. And I will check out Kristin’s site. :-)

  30. Julie says:

    Oh my, it’s impos­si­ble to make a list. It would never, ever end! Every­where I turn, my senses read­ily see things to love. …tiny moments cap­tured in time-stands-still cap­sules of space where pure delight and won­der and appre­ci­a­tion nearly over­whelm me.

    An exam­ple of things that evoke this in me:
    – a fuzzy cater­pil­lar, feel­ing won­drous amaze­ment as I watch it move along;
    – the smell and taste of the fresh apple I just bit into, feel­ing such deep con­nec­tion to the earth and all grow­ing things;
    – peace­ful silence blan­ket­ing me as I sit under the stars in the predawn light each morn­ing, feel­ing bathed in the soft glow from the stars, the stars the givers and me the recipient—and being amazed at the immen­sity of exis­tence and equally appre­cia­tive of that;
    – the sound of a child’s happy laugh­ter, feel­ing their joy as my own that still bub­bles within me;
    the feel of my horse’s breath and soft skin as she nuz­zles my face, rel­ish­ing the com­mu­ni­ca­tion we share, know­ing each other as beau­ti­ful, liv­ing beings…
    – and ditto Davina’s response. :) First, to feel it all within our­selves and then to share it with another, share the love, the appre­ci­a­tion, the con­nec­tion, share the sharing…

    I could go on for hours! This, Lance, this is truly “smelling the roses.” Once one gets the hang of it, it becomes sec­ond nature.
    .-= Julie´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Honor Redux, with a Twist =-.

  31. Wilma Ham says:

    I love increas­ing love in my life as it is strengthen the heart.
    I love wak­ing up slowly, see­ing the sun rise and sip­ping my cof­fee.
    I love the smell of cof­fee waft­ing through the air.
    I love the smell of the grass.
    I love the feel of teh sun on my face.
    I love the sea and feel­ing my body being moved by the waves.
    I love hugs.
    I love life.
    I love us.
    Thanks Lance, I love say­ing what I love.
    .-= Wilma Ham´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Regrets, mind­clut­ter and weak­ness in com­ple­tion. =-.

  32. I love it when my cats crawl on my lap and over my key­board around 2 or 3pm sig­nal­ing for me to take a break and snug­gle.
    I love how light I feel after my yoga prac­tice
    I love a walk on the beach — 12 months out of the year
    I love sit­ting on the back deck with my hus­band, a glass of wine and a fire in the out­door fire­place.
    I love laugh­ing until I cry and my belly hurts.

    Awesome…I could keep going!

  33. Hi Lance — I would love to add a few things…

    I love open­ing the win­dows in the house on a cool day
    I love lay­ing on the couch read­ing a good book
    I love spend­ing time with close friends not doing much of any­thing
    I love the way the after­noon sun­light shines in the windows

    I could go on for a while, but I’ll leave those for now and con­tinue on my own. :)
    .-= Amanda Linehan´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Dis­cover Silence =-.

  34. Tim says:

    Lance:

    I love this post and Kristin’s project…great idea!
    I love mak­ing chicken tor­tilla soup in my Crock Pot on a Sun­day morn­ing and eat­ing it while I watch Sun­day night foot­ball on Sun­day night.
    I love LMAO!
    I love hang­ing out with friends.

    Yep, I can go on…great post to get this all started Lance.
    .-= Tim´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Too Much Advice? =-.

  35. Jennifer says:

    I love God who is way bet­ter to me than I deserve.
    I love the thought of Heaven.
    I love peace.
    I love my hubby.
    I love being with friends who don’t judge me.
    I love feel­ing safe enough to share my inmost thoughts and feel­ings.
    I love being believed in and believ­ing in oth­ers.
    I love SFT Aware­ness.
    I love mak­ing a real dif­fer­ence in people’s lives.
    I love art.
    I love sip­ping on cof­fee.
    I love crawl­ing in a warm bed on a cold night.
    I love sleep­ing.
    I love lay­ing on the beach and watching/listening to the ocean.

    And along with Lau­rie, I love Lance’s blog.
    Thank you for this post. I feel good now. :)
    .-= Jennifer´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What Do You See? =-.

  36. I love typ­ing away at my com­puter and hear­ing my kids play in the back­ground. I love lis­ten­ing to their lit­tle feet run­ning around. My lit­tle one is hum­ming to her­self right now as I am typ­ing this. I love her so much.

    Thank you, Lance.
    .-= vered | blog­ger for hire´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Inter­net Addic­tion Rehab Cen­ter: Do We Really Need It? =-.

  37. Angelia Sims says:

    I love the waves crash­ing on a beau­ti­ful white sand beach.
    I love sun­sets and sun­rises.
    I love to look upon a sleep­ing child.
    I love kiss­ing my dog’s nose.
    I love cold rooms and hot cof­fee.
    I love hugs.
    I love smiles.
    I love laugh­ter.
    I love life each and every day.
    Liv­ing. Lov­ing. Laugh­ing.
    .-= Angelia Sims´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Timely moments =-.

  38. Love the idea of a lovelist!

    I love blog­ging. I love the cre­ative process, the con­nec­tions, and social media excite­ment.
    I love cud­dling with my chil­dren when I put them to sleep each night.
    I love my morn­ing hugs from my boys.
    I love when it’s 72 degrees and sunny out­side.
    I love Ver­mont.
    I love my par­ents beyond mea­sure.
    .-= Stacey / Cre­ate a Bal­ance for Moms´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Type-A Mom Con­fer­ence – Bring­ing It Home =-.

  39. BunnygotBlog says:

    I love God, my hus­band, fam­ily, and friends.
    I love SPENDING relax­ing MOMENTS WITH MY HUSBAND lis­ten­ing to Clas­si­cal music. Beethoven’s 7th espe­cially.
    I love cook­ing up a feast to share with close friends.
    I love achiev­ing goals in busi­ness and per­son life.
    I love to travel and see the beauty of this world and all the peo­ple in it.
    I love the nat­ural high I get when I come up with a new idea.
    I sit­ting on the ter­race with my hus­band late at night and shar­ing com­fort­able silence.
    I love hear­ing the lit­tle girl across the street singing as she plays out­side in the morn­ing.
    I love singing child­hood songs with my hus­band in dif­fer­ent lan­guages.
    I love the Ethiopian restau­rant that my hus­band takes me to when we are in Stuttgart. It is cus­tom there to feed each other the food and the cui­sine is so good.
    This is a won­der­ful post. I enjoyed it very much.
    .-= BunnygotBlog´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Gar­baolge! =-.

  40. I love my fam­ily.
    I love life.
    I love laugh­ing.
    I love run­ning.
    I love hik­ing.
    I love being out­doors.
    I love the sun and blue sky.
    I love the beach.
    I love nature.
    I love read­ing new books.
    I love writ­ing.
    I love being grate­ful.
    I love being happy.
    I love being joy­ful.
    I love my husband’s jokes.
    I love South­west Air­lines.
    I love New Bal­ance shoes.
    I love my grand­chil­dren in fact there is noth­ing I don’t love about them. I’ve never had any feel­ings except deep love for them. (don’t know if I real­ized that before!)
    I love my blog­ging bud­dies.
    I love con­nec­tion.
    I love being hon­est. OK I’ll stop now!

  41. Wow, this is great. Such a beau­ti­ful exer­cise to do first thing in the morn­ing. An exer­cise for my heart unlike the car­dio I usu­ally do!
    Here goes:
    – I love sin­cer­ity and how it makes me feel when I hear it in another’s words.
    – I love autumn, and the bit­ter­sweet mem­o­ries it holds dat­ing back as far as I can remem­ber.
    – I love being loved… Deeply, securely, to the core of who I am.
    – I love giv­ing love, which is the best gift I’ve ever offered or received, bar none.

    And of course, I love read­ing the things you write, Lance.

    Have a phe­nom­e­nal week! I’m headed to the moun­tains where (gasp) snow is expected… !
    .-= Megan “Joy­Girl!” Bord´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Unique Gift Awak­en­ing Brings =-.

  42. Lance says:

    Kristin,
    Thank you for cre­at­ing this con­cept and for allow­ing me to bounce ideas off of you as this post was cre­ated. You’ve cre­ated some­thing very spe­cial here, and some­thing that so many peo­ple can con­nect with — love — that feel­ing deep within each of us. It’s our com­mon denom­i­na­tor, it’s some­thing we all have in com­mon. Love in the depths of our soul. Your cre­at­ing this #lovelist is such a great avenue for us all to express that love! Know that what peo­ple have shared here would not have hap­pened had it not been for the vision you had for this project and for tak­ing it to where it is today. Kristin, it’s an honor to have shared all of this here!

    Namaste,
    Lance

  43. Lance says:

    To all of you (friends near and far),
    I am deeply moved by all that you’ve shared. Your words inspire me — inspire me to dig deeper into myself and what love means, inspire me to seek out the beauty in our world — every day, inspire me to slow down and really be more con­sciously aware of all that is around me, inspire me to see the love in oth­ers all around me, inspire me to be more spir­i­tu­ally awake, inspire me to see the love in the ordi­nary of every day, inspire me to con­nect more deeply with my own soul, inspire me to live with love pour­ing out!

    You’ve all spo­ken from spots deep within your heart, and your words all have deep mean­ing. I feel very much that what you’ve each writ­ten, was writ­ten with great care and with deep love. Today, my world is bright­ened, bright­ened by each one of you and the love you put out there for the world to know about! And I know (KNOW) that our world is a bet­ter place today because each one of you is here on this planet! You exem­plify love in so many beau­ti­ful ways, each of you in your own unique form. And what I see is each of you shin­ing your amaz­ing light into the hearts of oth­ers! And that is a beau­ti­ful gift you all give!

    Namaste,
    Lance

  44. Lance says:

    To my fam­ily,
    You are the wind beneath my wings! Lora, your unwa­ver­ing sup­port, care, and love have been the rock upon which I stand. With­out you, none of this mat­ters. I see in you — love, always. And a deep car­ing for human­ity. And that’s a beau­ti­ful gift for me to wit­ness. Because you’ve shone your light upon me, I’m who I am today.

    And to my three chil­dren — each of you, in your own unique ways — have been love in action (hmmm…sometimes maybe too much action!). As much as I hope I’m pro­vid­ing for you a direc­tion into the world, know also that you each help me to see the world through a dif­fer­ent lens — the lens of child­like won­der. And that’s a deeply mean­ing­ful gift from each of you…

    And to my par­ents, you’ve given me the life, and sup­port through all of my years. No mat­ter what, you’ve always been there. You’ve lived a life very much worth emu­lat­ing — a life filled with love, deep car­ing, and giv­ing hearts. I am blessed…

    And to all friends and fam­ily — you all have made an impact in my life — and that has been a won­der­ful gift to have received! Know that I am hon­ored to know each and every one of you!

    With love,
    Lance

  45. Hey Lance

    I’ll just add one — the one that is right here with me:

    I love it when my dog snug­gles up next to me and I feel her warm trust.

    Juliet
    .-= Life­Made­Great | Juliet´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Socrates: The Test of Three =-.

  46. Wow, I love so many things that oth­ers love too — I am going to read more of these but here is mine:
    I love the warmth of my daughter’s hand in mine – the curl of her fin­gers and the warmth of her skin. It mat­ters not what is hap­pen­ing in our lives as hand in hand, we work through them together.

    I love the first bite of a tree ripened peach. The juice wet­ting my lips and chin and the fruit seems to truly melt in my mouth. It is a taste of the sweet­est part of summer.

    I love slid­ing into a freshly made bed and pulling up the patch­work quilt on a cool night – the night warm enough to have the win­dows open but cool enough to require the warmth of the hand sewn quilt.
    .-= The Exception´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Hap­pi­ness and Believ­ing =-.

  47. suzen says:

    What a lovely con­cept — I like the pos­i­tive nature of this since we are often very pre­oc­cu­pied with things we DON’T like! Wow, I love so much it would take up too much space here! I’ll strive to keep this sim­ple while I hold the thought in my head all day long as I work.
    I love my cup of cof­fee and jour­nal­ing time in the morn­ing — alone.
    I love way paint rolls on the wall (this is what I’m doing all day)
    I love your blog
    And I love think­ing about all the many things I love!
    Thanks for this! As always, you bring us the best “assign­ments”! haha
    .-= suzen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..5 Inspi­ra­tional Tips from My Archives =-.

  48. Ahh, what a sweet post. To me it means giv­ing my hus­band the better-looking steak, my daugh­ter the fat­test cob of corn. It means see­ing the best in all peo­ple. Hold­ing a door for a stranger. Let­ting some one into my land in traf­fic. And when in doubt, smiling.

    Now for me I LOVE morn­ing cof­fee, trees, soli­tude, writ­ing songs, hug­ging my kitty. And eat­ing donuts.

    The lit­tle things.
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Like a bord on a wire, 11– Funny Typos =-.

  49. Lori says:

    I loved read­ing all the com­ments here, Lance! Oooohhh, goose­bumps!
    I def­i­nitely need to add my piece:

    I love the moment when peo­ple take the time to make me laugh out loud.
    I love send­ing hand-made cards via snail mail.
    I love writ­ing and read­ing that para­graph that knocks my socks off.
    I love my friends, fam­ily, and blog­ging com­mu­nity (and your blog!).
    I love grilled veg­eta­bles and olive oil.
    I love feel­ing the warm sun on my body.
    I love find­ing a sand dol­lar on the beach.
    I love exer­cis­ing (well, maybe just the endorphins…).

    Cheers and warm hugs!
    ~xo~
    .-= Lori´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Find a Pas­sion for Writ­ing =-.

  50. Audra Krell says:

    I love that I can barely type this because I’m already cry­ing about the things I so deeply love.
    @Danny — We had the same evening just last night. We should have been doing dishes, boys had hours of home­work (Trigonom­e­try!) and we just sat around the table and laughed our heads off.
    @Yum Yucky and @Laurie Amen ladies! Jesus is the rea­son I love.
    I love cool sheets on end­less hot Ari­zona evenings.
    I love that my hus­band loves me so much, he seems to love me even more when I’m at my very worst. The best pic­ture of grace I know.
    @Lance I’m really lovin the jun­gle and your friend­ship!
    I really, really love, when my 16 year old son plays acoustic gui­tar and our 13 and 10 year old boys join in the on bass gui­tar, in my liv­ing room. When they play “Glory to God For­ever” by Steve Fee I won­der if life could get any bet­ter. Don’t think so.
    .-= Audra Krell´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Loved this Beau­ti­ful Mess =-.

  51. Kaushik says:

    oh, it’s all of it, I love life, I love the unknown energy that dri­ves it all, I love fam­ily, friends, being alive, aware­ness, let­ting go…
    .-= Kaushik´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Float­ing… =-.

  52. I love my part­ner and my fam­ily with­out ques­tion.
    I love feel­ing inspired.
    I love to laugh.
    I love the beach.
    I love free­dom.
    I love the blog­ging com­mu­nity (and your most excel­lent blog Lance!).
    I love car­rot cake.
    I love love.

    PS. I TOTALLY loved the com­ments you left to friends and fam­ily Lance. Right back at you.
    .-= Sami — Life, Laughs & Lemmings´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..An Inter­view With The World’s Strongest Librar­ian =-.

  53. Hi all! I’ve been stop­ping by peri­od­i­cally to read all of your love list com­ments, and each time I’m filled closer to over­flow­ing. I knew good things would come from us each mak­ing love lists, and I knew it would be good to encour­age one another, but I really didn’t antic­i­pate how pow­er­ful it would be to read so many things that so many peo­ple love! Amazing.

    Now, if you want to take it a step fur­ther, the chal­lenge is to keep adding to your lists as these moments occur to you, to push your­self fur­ther by ask­ing what exactly it is that you love about these things, and then to exam­ine your life and see if there are ways to fill more of your life with the things that you love. And keep me posted along the way! Don’t for­get to stop by Halfway to Nor­mal on Fri­days to read more of my thoughts, some guest posts, and to share your own discoveries!

    Lance, I can’t thank you enough for get­ting excited about this idea and spread­ing it so much far­ther and wider than I ever could on my own. May you be blessed richly by all this love!
    .-= Kristin T. (@kt_writes)´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Telling Jesus sto­ries at the KGB =-.

  54. Jeanne says:

    Love is all you need
    What a fab­u­lous post­ing
    Blessings

    May we all be show­ered with love, love and more love
    Bless­ings
    Love Jeanne?
    .-= Jeanne´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Pre­cious Child =-.

  55. Liara Covert says:

    Love is all there is. Every­thing and every­one are love. It is con­stantly nur­tur­ing and expand­ing.
    .-= Liara Covert´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Life is not what you think =-.

  56. Suzanne says:

    I love see­ing my two year old’s face first thing in the morn­ing even though I’m not a morn­ing per­son.
    I love a hot bath and a diet dr pep­per after a long run.
    I love the smell of laven­der and clean laun­dry.
    I love the excite­ment of start­ing a new book.
    I love that I had the child­hood that every child deserves: where I had lim­its and free­dom, love and dis­ci­pline, and where all of my needs were met.

  57. Micah says:

    Great post! This is very help­ful. I’m sure I’d visit your site more often. Any­way, you can drop by my favorite online hang out too, at UK Stu­dent Com­mu­nity. Thanks!
    .-= Micah´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..choos­ing your uni­ver­sity.. =-.

  58. VeRonda says:

    Wow… this is pow­er­ful. It’s actu­ally right on time b/c I’m find­ing myself lov­ing some­thing new that is so great and scary and won­der­ful all at the same time. For the time being I can share that I love my mom’s mac & cheese and yams. I will say, I love the why you find your­self con­nect­ing to that thing ques­tion… I’m all about the “why”. Great post.
    .-= VeRonda´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Ain’t No Moun­tain High Enough… =-.

  59. Yira says:

    This is such a great idea, so I’ll add “a few of my favorite things…”

    I love it when my hubby sends me sweet notes via any elec­tronic means avail­able, no mat­ter where in the world he might be.

    I love it when my 19 y.o. boy call me “Mommy Dear­est” because it reminds me of a time when we watched the movie and laughed until we cried as we tried to immi­tate Joan Crawford.

    I love it when my 15 y.o. girl and I sing while rid­ing in the car…we usu­ally end up laugh­ing mainly because I can’t sing as well as she.

    I love it when my 7 y.o. cud­dles next to me early in the morn­ing and shares her dreams.

    I love it when my 2 y.o. says “I love you more” after I tell him I love him.

    So what I’m say­ing is I love to laugh, I love to sing, I love to hear sweet sto­ries, and I love to be loved!

    This feels.…soooooo Good! Ahh­h­hhh! I feel happy. Thanks Lance, the tim­ing was per­fect.
    .-= Yira´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Out­door Wednes­day– Glass & Wine =-.

  60. Lizwi says:

    The thing I love most is being loved.
    I also love help­ing other peo­ple, as long as I can afford to help.
    I love nature very much, espe­cially plants. The smell of plants heels my soul.

  61. Lance says:

    All of your con­tin­ued shar­ing of what love is, and where/how you expe­ri­ence love con­tin­ues to be deeply mov­ing for me to read. And I know that the words shared here are also affect­ing oth­ers who read them, in very pro­found ways. Today, as I con­tinue read­ing here, I’m reminded of a quote:
    “The best and most beau­ti­ful things in the world can­not be seen or even touched — they must be felt with the heart.” ~ Helen Keller

    Peace,
    Lance

  62. Sara says:

    Lance — I vis­ited Kristen’s site and I think is such a great idea. The odd thing is that I had already started this list and for­got­ten about it. I just pulled it up again and was amazed at how many things I had already put down. I loved read­ing it again. Here are some of the things I love:

    My kids
    The evening sun shin­ing through the leaves of a tree
    Dol­phins play­ing in the Gulf
    Peo­ple who make me laugh
    Tak­ing pho­tographs that sur­prise me
    Watch­ing horses run­ning loose in a field
    Peo­ple who keep on trying

    As I com­mented to Kris­ten, I am ever so pleased that you both reminded me of this list:~)
    .-= Sara´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..When You Need a Hug =-.

  63. Hi Lance,

    Love used to be a roman­tic thing for me but then as I grew, I came to see love as a way of life and that is what I strive to do. I really try to be love and spread love every­day. I also love the fact that I am alive and that the world is truly a beau­ti­ful place.
    .-= Nadia — Happy Lotus´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What You Can Learn from a Burger =-.

  64. Hilary says:

    Hi Lance — I’m 66th .. or per­haps 32nd .. or which ever num­ber you chose .. I can’t think right now .. just here — love to me right now — is see­ing my uncle through to his near end .… he always said to me “love is all” — when I was and con­tinue to look after my mother 2.75 years in ..

    My uncle has had a very sud­den decline .. four weeks .. and so love is all — for both of them ..

    Thanks — love to you all .. we need it ..
    Hilary Melton-Butcher
    Pos­i­tive Let­ters Inspi­ra­tional Sto­ries
    .-= Hilary´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Relo­cat­ing — to Mel­bourne, to a Lily Pond, back just 156 feet .…? =-.

  65. Joy says:

    Lance,

    Amaz­ing post! When I read the title, I thought how appropriate…currently in my life my heart has been busted wide open (in a good pos­i­tive, joy­ful way) and I am wrestling with the whole con­cept of love…my list of all there is to love, that I truly love is very very long, and I am extremely grate­ful for that. Here would be a snippet:

    I love my children–everything about them, their lit­tle nuances that make them unique, their laugh­ter, their beauty…precious angels.
    I love my boat. all that she stands for, all that she cur­rently is.
    I love that I can learn and grow and just be. that the uni­verse con­tains such abun­dance and I can truly just ask and remain open and it is all right there in an amaz­ing flow.
    I love nature..the vast ocean, the beau­ti­ful moun­tains, the night sky, the morn­ing sky, water holes, islands.…and all that is in and around it.
    I love myself. all that I am cur­rently right in this moment. my essence, my nature, my faith.
    I love choco­late…
    I love gen­uine shar­ing with oth­ers. words, thoughts, activ­i­ties, laugh­ter, food, kind­ness.
    I love that encour­age­ment and inspi­ra­tion can be found in many forms and if I have a que­si­ton or thought I am wrestling with, some form of inspi­ra­tion is then given if I am quiet and mind­ful (and often even when I’m not!).

    I love the feel­ing that read­ing the above posts and com­ments evokes–such pure hope, love, joy is reflected in all of the words; it’s absolutely con­ta­gious and heart warming:)

  66. Lisa's Chaos says:

    I love the smile on my grandchild’s face — the joy that lights in their eyes when they see me!
    I love being out­doors.
    I love find­ing sur­prises in nature.
    I love the feel­ing of accom­plish­ing the dishes, dust­ing, etc — pretty much any­thing I do, when it’s done — love that feel­ing!
    .-= Lisa’s Chaos´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..the awk­ward stage =-.

  67. Diane AZ says:

    Noth­ing could be more uplift­ing than think­ing about things we love. For sure, I love the smell of pineap­ple upside down cake bak­ing. I feel we all are uncon­di­tional love itself. Great post, Lance!
    .-= Diane AZ´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Sky­watch — Around the Track =-.

  68. Danc­ing!
    .-= Hay­den Tompkins´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Awe­some Post of Awe­some =-.

  69. Peggy says:

    Hi Lance,

    What a fab­u­lous post!

    (Late to the great party as always)

    I love wak­ing up to the smell of cof­fee
    I love when the tem­pa­ture changes from sum­mer to fall and breath­ing in the crisp­ness that’s in the air.
    I love going to the pump­kin patch and find­ing the right pump­kins for Hal­loween
    I love the moment right after my yoga prac­tice when every­thing is still…including my mind.

    I hope you have a fab­u­lous week­end!
    Peggy
    .-= Peggy´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Favorite Child­hood Books =-.

  70. JenX says:

    Don’t you just love a bril­liant new hastag? Won­der­ful of you to expand some­thing so inspir­ing, Lance. Your heart at work again!! I bet your kids love fly­ing kites with you.

    My lovelist this week — the annual birth­day call from my brother. He’s as Anglo as they come, but speaks per­fect Span­ish and sings to me in that vain. Then, in his WASPy way he tells me, “You’re old.” =)
    .-= JenX´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..gen x hal­loween [casper the friendly ghost] =-.

  71. Mama Zen says:

    First, I love this idea!

    I also love steaks on the grill, read­ing sto­ries to my lit­tle girl, and los­ing myself in a really good movie.
    .-= Mama Zen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Exclu­sive Inter­view =-.

  72. Lance says:

    Thanks so much, every­one, for con­tin­u­ing this on! Love is an amaz­ing thing, and is some­thing we can all relate to. On so many dif­fer­ent lev­els, there is love. Fun love, seri­ous love, roman­tic love, car­ing love, friend love,… And it’s all so good to express and share! You all have, and it con­tin­ues to brighten my days, just read­ing these love-filled thoughts!

  73. Chris Edgar says:

    Thanks for this Lance. Recently I’ve been focus­ing on lov­ing being alive, with­out focus­ing on any thing I want or goal I have. It’s amaz­ing how my mind resists this — “no, it’s not enough just to be alive, you need to accom­plish this and that!” Moments when that judg­ing part is quiet and just exist­ing is okay are won­der­ful to me.

  74. Rose says:

    Great idea for a post. Think­ing back to ear­lier today.….….……I love the rain­bow after the rain.
    .-= Rose´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Pop­u­lar Hal­loween Cos­tumes =-.

  75. I love peanut-butter and I love my Mommy.
    .-= Mya the shih-tzu´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Banana Peanut But­ter Pup­cakes =-.

  76. WHAT?!!?? I’m not even on your Top Talker list any­more??? See what hap­pened when I Mach-Seventeened-ed off to Bul­garia and lost 3 days??

    This will NOT do.

    I’m blam­ing Her­mann Shin­gle­meis­ter on this one, that olde com­ment diluter!
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Hey, How ‘Bout A Show Tune! =-.

  77. Plus, no Sun­day Thought For The Day yet, and I well and truly believe it is Sun­day in many parts of the world, includ­ing Wis­con­sin and Texas.

    Okay, I’ll keep F-5-ing for another 15 min­utes then I’m hit­ting the hay.
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Hey, How ‘Bout A Show Tune! =-.

  78. Oh, that was fast!

    I’m top talker now.

    Wow.
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Hey, How ‘Bout A Show Tune! =-.

  79. Chris Edgar says:

    Oh, geez, Jan­nie, now someone’s going to see your three com­ments and raise you four.

  80. Chris Edgar says:

    That was meant to be a joke, by the way. (This is why Jan­nie writes the funny blog and I don’t.)

  81. Lisa says:

    I love life, learn­ing and writ­ing sto­ries. :-)
    .-= Lisa´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..At the Win­dow =-.

  82. Lance says:

    Again, thank you, every­one, for con­tin­u­ing to share what love means — in so many beau­ti­ful ways! You are all awe­some! And you are all loved here!

    Jan­nie and Chris — you two put a whole bunch of fun into the love here too! And fun love is another awe­some kind of love!!

  83. Angel says:

    Hi lance,

    What an inter­est­ing topic.. Well i really like this sub­ject i should say… nice job… :)
    .-= Angel´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Mov­ing on =-.

  84. Dear Lance, this is such a great inspi­ra­tional blog! Thanks for shar­ing and delv­ing fur­ther into this topic on love! :) I love life, and I adore the mem­o­ries that I carry with me in my heart :) They have shaped me, soft­ened me and inspired me and com­forted, even soothed me and I count them a trea­sury col­lec­tion! ;) Lately, I love those things that stretch me to be all that I can be, and I love this new feel­ing of courage and birthing some­thing new, that even still I do not yet fully real­ize, but some­how I’m learn­ing to be okay with that. I love heart stuff every­thing! ;) I love God, my hubby and my bunny com­pan­ion, my fam­ily. I love jour­nal­ing! As long as I have my jour­nal and pen and well maybe a few books.. I’m so at home in Nature ~I love HER! ;) Well, I bet­ter stop or I could fill up the entire box! ;) I appre­ci­ate your friend­ship in my life also! Your blogs are such encour­age­ment and always filled with ‘spirit’ ;) bless­ings to you, Jen
    .-= Love’s Lead­ing Companion´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Love in a Time of Global (Uncertainty)~Awakening: =-.

  85. Lance says:

    @Angel — Thanks so much for stop­ping by!

    @LLC — I love the energy you’ve shared in this com­ment, Jen! Love is so con­nect­ing and beau­ti­ful, isn’t it. And when you make that con­nec­tion to love at a deeper level — wow! Jen, I’m the one who’s uplifted here today, and that’s your com­ment touch­ing upon my heart…

  86. anonymous says:

    i love wak­ing up on a sat­ur­day at five or six AM to a loud thun­der­storm and then curl­ing up under my blan­ket read­ing a good book and lis­ten­ing to the rain

    I love those pil­lows you put in the microwave then you put on your face that smell like lavender

  87. Lance says:

    @Anonymous — Rain„ and a good thun­der­storm sure can be so sooth­ing to our souls (they are to mine!). Thanks so much for shar­ing a bit of what love means to YOU!

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