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What Is That Dance In You?

Dance your heart out!
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“We dance for laugh­ter, we dance for tears, we dance for mad­ness, we dance for fears, we dance for hopes, we dance for screams, we are the dancers, we cre­ate the dreams.” ~ Anonymous

Pref­ace

What is that dance in you?

Typ­i­cal days.  Con­sumed by dead­lines.  Com­mutes.  Bills.  Run­ning errands.  Play­ing fam­ily chaueffer.

It’s so easy to get caught up in the mun­dane of daily living. 

Does it have to be that way, though?  Does it, really, have to be that way?

What if.…

We open our­selves up to the dance that is there within our hearts…that touches upon our soul.

It’s there.

And It Begins

An inter­est­ing thing has hap­pened recently. 

I have been work­ing with Katie West and Ina Lukas, from The Lev­ity Project, on a micro-movement. 

Car danc­ing

Danc­ing in your car.  Or…really, danc­ing on your way through­out your day (how­ever that might happen).

And this is about so much more than just danc­ing through the moments of your day. 

Think about this:  Would it feel “nor­mal” to dance in your car (or walk­ing down the side­walk, or nav­i­gat­ing the aisles of your favorite gro­cery store) ?  Or would this feel “weird”, “dif­fer­ent”, “being seen”??

Why is it that we hold our­selves back?

There is a dance in each of us.  The dance to paint.  The dance to sing.   The dance to be a mother.  The dance to coach that lit­tle league team.  The dance to join the local com­mu­nity band.  The dance to dance.  The dance of pas­sion.  Pas­sion for what­ever it is that makes our hearts sing!

To Dance

Car danc­ing. 

In the garage…in the driveway…it feels so safe…to let my hair down.  No one around…and it becomes so easy to be “me”…with wild abandon.

How about…

At a stop­light.  Other cars around.  Or walk­ing down the street.  Or wait­ing in line for the next cashier. 

Exposed.

To be freely expres­sive.  To “dance”.  In that place where I wouldn’t nor­mally dance.  Not alone anymore. 

Raise my arms. Move my body.  Bop my head. 

Sur­rounded by others…in the nor­mal­ness of daily life. 

And to dance?

To express joy, to let the music engulf me…is both strange and a challenge.

Why?

Because this is not the expected place to dance?  Because oth­ers might *gasp* see me?  Because no one else is doing this?  Per­haps I have cre­ated some sort of unwrit­ten stan­dard in my head…one that says I should “fit in”, that there’s a place for every­thing (and this is not it), that it is eas­ier to not risk embar­rass­ment for the song in my heart.

The Cloud Is Lifted

Doing this thing.  Danc­ing in public…in a non-dance set­ting.  The car.  The side­walk.  The neigh­bor­hood con­ve­nience store. 

Doing it.

Danc­ing.  In public.

Wow!

Get­ting beyond the fear, the won­der­ing eyes, the thoughts in my head.

Every­thing seems sud­denly lighter.  The sky is brighter.  Aggra­va­tions melt away.  This mini-celebration does won­ders!  I feel like the world is “right” and “okay”.  I see more of the human­ity behind the masks of those around me.  Life is good.

And Such Is Life

Car danc­ing.  One small thing.  One deeply mov­ing experience.

Life.

Mine.  Yours. 

How am I liv­ing that life?  How are you liv­ing that life?

There is a dance in each of us.  In you.  In me. 

Some­thing that sets our heart on fire.  Some­thing that makes us each dance for life.

What is that dance in you?

Let your dance out.  Be you.  That incred­i­ble, amaz­ing you that sings and dances from your heart!

Join The Move­ment

The Lev­ity Project is cre­at­ing a com­pi­la­tion video of YOUR sub­mit­ted car danc­ing moments!  We have an amaz­ing sam­pling from all over the world so far, young and old alike — get­ting “out there” and danc­ing.  Cre­at­ing change in them­selves.  And touch­ing in some way, those who wit­ness this dance of joy.   Are you up for it?
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•    Cre­ate a short video (10 — 20 sec­onds) of your­self (and oth­ers) car danc­ing (or danc­ing in what­ever mode of trans­porta­tion you use).
•    Click here to sub­mit your video. (Please sub­mit all videos by Sat­ur­day, Feb­ru­ary 27, 2010)
•    Con­tact me via the Con­tact Us page, with your name and loca­tion (to be included in the video).
**
NOTE:  The Lev­ity Project video, of every­one together, will  pre­mière in early March.
 

Lance writes sto­ries from his heart, aim­ing to inspire and moti­vate, as you align more fully with YOUR true peak. When he’s not here, you can find him hang­ing out with his fam­ily, rid­ing a bike, or just gen­er­ally act­ing goofy.   Sign up for the Thoughts from the Tree­house newslet­ter and get addi­tional inspi­ra­tion in your email inbox!
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Comments

  1. Lynn says:

    Just watch­ing that video got my day off to a great start! :)
    .-= Lynn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Spe­cial greeter, happy acci­dent and joy­ous =-.

  2. I recorded myself danc­ing in my car and I felt uncom­fort­able at first I wasn’t sure if I should do it. Then a won­der­ful thing hap­pened. The cam­era clicked on and I just went at it. It felt fan­tas­tic. It was a cel­e­bra­tion in the present moment. I was alive.

    We all need to push our­selves out­side our com­fort zones. It’s this area that shows us how we’ve played it a lit­tle too safe and need to take a few more risks to squeeze the fun out of life.
    .-= Karl Staib — Work Happy Now´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Heart or Fear – Car­toon =-.

  3. Hilda says:

    Hi Lance,

    I plan to do this at the week­end with my sis. I’m not sure if I’ll get it sub­mit­ted by Sat­ur­day though, at least not Irish time. It might still be Sat­ur­day some­where in the world though when I do get it in ;-) If I’m late with it, know that I’m with you in spirit!
    .-= Hilda´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Get­ting in align­ment =-.

  4. Yahooooooooooooo.
    Lance! It IS about cel­e­bra­tion of being alive. Of being here. Of hav­ing the amaz­ing oppor­tu­nity to be on this wide beau­ti­ful planet all together.
    Thank you for join­ing in this idea, Lance. And to every­one!
    It can be one thing to under­stand the impor­tance of liv­ing our lives intel­lec­tu­ally. And I think it takes even more bold­ness to bring that intel­lec­tual know­ing into our bod­ies and let it out as hug­ging, laugh­ter, smil­ing, and yes, danc­ing.
    And for me, these expres­sions of JOY feel like the only way I can appro­pri­ately express my grat­i­tude that I get to play here in this life­time.
    Ha Ha Ha…let’s boo­gie!
    Katie
    .-= Katie West/The Lev­ity Coach´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What Is That Dance In You? =-.

  5. Evelyn Lim says:

    I am not sure if I can get to doing the video by the week­end. I have been chang­ing my mode of trans­port lately. Nev­er­the­less, I look for­ward to see­ing everyone’s con­tri­bu­tions.
    .-= Eve­lyn Lim´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..How to Win the Lot­tery or the $10 mil­lion Hong­bao Draw? =-.

  6. Angelia Sims says:

    I can hon­estly say — car danc­ing is an art form, an energy shot, and a mood enhancer. So many awe­some health ben­e­fits. What an incred­i­ble car danc­ing adven­ture we had. We danced ALL day in the car and still do. It’s been a ongo­ing les­son since last summer.

    Thank you Lance and Katie for this free­ing move­ment across the land!
    .-= Angelia Sims´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Wed­ding Word­less Wednes­day =-.

  7. What is dance to me? I thought you’d never ask! :)

    I do salsa danc­ing and it is a very involv­ing, even addic­tive hobby for me. To me, danc­ing is quite a lot of things, which is why I like it a lot: from express­ing myself, to using my energy, to learn­ing, to con­nect­ing with another person.

    Eduard

  8. scheng1 says:

    haha, this sounds fun. In our place, the Res­i­dent Com­mit­tees in each hous­ing estate are actively encour­ag­ing peo­ple to sing, dance and have fun.
    .-= scheng1´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Deceit by James Siegel =-.

  9. Evita says:

    Hello Lance :D

    Hmm car danc­ing, well now I can say a thing or two about it, and it is so true!!!! We hold our­selves back like crazy, we always seem to fear that peo­ple will stare, and what will they think? As if we were doing some­thing “bad” or “illegal”.

    So I LOVE this move­ment! And your post was so touch­ing and so right on! Yes, what kind of a dance we have each day, ver­sus what kind of a dance we can have are two dif­fer­ent states and we are hold­ing our­selves back so much it seems from being free to express the beauty and hap­pi­ness within.
    We have become such a prim and proper soci­ety in many ways, haven’t we? But it is not the favourable prim and proper if you ask me, it is more on the life­less side.

    Sure not every­body has to car dance, some peo­ple are just not into it, but it is not about that, it is about being free to really express the beauty, hap­pi­ness and laugh­ter within us….maybe through car danc­ing, maybe through pub­lic laugh­ter, maybe through just say­ing hello and smil­ing to strangers!
    Thank you for lead­ing the way! (and per­fect quote yet again ;)
    .-= Evita´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Shar­ing “Me” At The Jun­gle of Life: Inter­view with Lance Ekum =-.

  10. I adore danc­ing. As well as being happy-hormone releas­ing fun, I reckon it’s one of the body’s ways of express­ing what words can’t and it’s almost sacred. Greek wed­dings actu­ally include Isiah’s dance as part of the main cer­e­mony.
    .-= jan­ice | Shar­ing the Journey´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Writ­ing Snow =-.

  11. Caroline says:

    I remem­ber car danc­ing my girl friends in high school…I think I may have car danced only a hand­ful of times since then (but not lately). I need to bust out some tunes and do this…I do love danc­ing!
    .-= Caroline´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..I am… =-.

  12. J.D. Meier says:

    I’d have to say it’s the cab­bage patch. Some­times life’s just like that.
    .-= J.D. Meier´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..How To Use a Coach Effec­tively =-.

  13. zmajeva says:

    Every­body dance now!” :) ))
    Do you remem­ber the song “Danc­ing in the street”, David Bowie and Mick Jag­ger? Great one!
    I love to dance, and singing, too. Some­times I’m annoy­ing peo­ple! :) ))
    .-= zmajeva´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..10 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD WRITE! =-.

  14. You got our cor­rected car danc­ing movie, right? That last time I sent it, it seemed to have gone where it was meant to, owing to the cor­rect exten­sion I think!

    Peo­ple this was FUN!!!! I’m so glad to be a par­tic­i­pant. The Lev­ity Project is some­thing big and beau­ti­ful sweep­ing our col­lec­tive con­scious­ness. Hop on its love train!!

    Lance, you are such a sweet­heart to blog this!

    xo
    .-= Jan­nie Funster´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Har­bin­ger Of Great Things To Come =-.

  15. Lifanatic says:

    Every­one can dance (in their own way), that is what makes life so beau­ti­ful. Love the project btw.

    .-= Lifanatic´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..
    The Mood of Music =-.

  16. Lance, you have cap­tured so much more here than I imag­ined pos­si­ble. You’re right — it’s not just about a small move­ment that one per­son is start­ing. It’s about the rev­o­lu­tion each of us must under­take within our­selves so that we are free to expe­ri­ence spon­ta­neous joy!

    These lines right here moved me: “I feel like the world is ‘right’ and ‘okay’. I see more of the human­ity behind the masks of those around me. Life is good.”

    I really con­nected with that thought, because I’ve expe­ri­enced it, too. When I let my own guard down, I can see past the guard gates that oth­ers have up. I can see into their hearts… And my gosh, what a beau­ti­ful sight to behold!

    Lance, I’m grate­ful to you, for your pas­sion and ded­i­ca­tion to this move­ment, as well as to your desire to cre­ate more mean­ing­ful, authen­tic con­nec­tions with oth­ers through the expe­ri­ences you have and so freely share.

    Much love, and light­hearted danc­ing!
    .-= Megan “Joy­Girl!” Bord´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..SURPRISE! Spread Joy, Have Fun =-.

  17. Adrenalynn says:

    Lance, thank you for bring­ing a lit­tle crazy into our lives! You are a force of nature :) I can’t even begin to tell you how lib­er­at­ing this expe­ri­ence was — espe­cially because I had to shoot the video no less than 4 times to finally make it work!
    YOU ROCK!
    .-= Adrenalynn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Ran­dom thoughts about life and jeans but­tons =-.

  18. Wilma Ham says:

    YES, danc­ing and being expressed is sooooo good. It shows our heart and only at heart level we really con­nect. There is so much more to this than we actu­ally know, oh Lance and Katie and every­body this is about con­nect­ing at heart level.
    And con­nect­ing is what we are starv­ing for. Although I am not par­tic­i­pat­ing, we hardly drive and we do not have a cam­era I do par­tic­i­pate in real life.
    My daugh­ter last week moved into a huge apart­ment build­ing and I was help­ing. It required lots of doors to be opened, which was awk­ward if you have stuff in your hands. How­ever I was danc­ing with the stuff, I was danc­ing the whole day and you would not believe how peo­ple responded by rush­ing to open doors and even help­ing to carry stuff.
    Nor­mally they do not even notice you, but that day they did. We all danced beau­ti­fully that day and it made a huge dif­fer­ence.
    IT FELT SO GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!! It made them feel good too, I could feel it.
    YES, danc­ing through life makes a dif­fer­ence and video or not, I will keep doing it, YES.
    And as I say, it will loosen up the locked gates to all our hearts and that is where world peace and change resides, in our hearts, so open them up.
    Well, you can see I AM excited AND danc­ing. xox Wilma
    .-= Wilma Ham´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Wilma on Fear of Los­ing Love =-.

  19. You know me Lance, always up for a dance! Car danc­ing video sub­mit­ted, com­plete with a danc­ing freak and laugh­ter from said danc­ing freak AND her freak­ish cam­era­man!! ;)
    .-= Sami — Life, Laughs & Lemmings´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Kick Arse Ques­tion – Which City are You? =-.

  20. suzen says:

    Hi Lance! I love this! We were BORN to dance! To let our­selves go — drop that old grown up façade, that “appro­pri­ate” behav­ior stuff, just dance — YES!!! I will tes­tify right here and now that for me, per­son­ally, danc­ing keeps you young! I never failed to embarass my kids when shop­ping by danc­ing if the music “got me” no mat­ter where we were — God how they ran away try­ing to dis­own their crazy mom! haha! I bop around the house a LOT and OFTEN — I don’t care if any­one sees me or not. Being a free spirit actu­ally REQUIRES lots of danc­ing so YAHOO to all the danc­ing that you are bring­ing out in every­one! Lance you always have the most pos­i­tive, fun, joy­ous blogs! This is won­der­ful! Can’t wait to see the videos! I can dance but can’t do the techy stuff — you’ll just have to imag­ine it — haha!
    Dance On!
    Hugs
    suZen
    .-= suzen´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Look­ing At My Desk =-.

  21. Lance says:

    @Lynn — Very cool…that video of Ina and her kids is!! It’s hard not to smile after watch­ing it (for what it’s worth — I kind of think Ina was born dancing.…)

    @Karl — Rock on Karl!! It’s great to have the recorded “you” as part of this! And it IS a com­fort zone…it sure was for me…to get out of. Any­way, very awe­some what you have shared!

    @Hilda — Hi Hilda. Woohoo!! Hey…if it’s Sat­ur­day some­where in the world, that works!! And it’s all good, what­ever happens.…knowing you are out there doing this is all sorts of awesome!

    @Katie — Yee­haaaaa!!! Woohooooooooo!!! Zip­ity Do Daaaaaaaaaaaaaah­hhh!! Katie…what you are cre­at­ing is so much more than a lit­tle video of peo­ple danc­ing in their cars. It IS cel­e­bra­tion! And it IS fun! And it IS chal­leng­ing us to let that “dance” out!! What a life it is…huh!! So, I’m send­ing out all sorts of hugs, laughs, smiles, winks, funny faces, howls at the moon, jump­ing up and down dances YOUR WAY!! Shiny, sparkly choco­late chip cookie eat­ing friend.…keep always dancing…

    @Evelyn — Evelyn…know that I hap­pen to think you are super awesome…just know­ing you are think­ing about doing this! So…if it works…that would be super great (no mat­ter what your mode of trans­porta­tion)! And if not…I know you are there in spirit with us…and that is won­der­ful too!

    @Angelia — Angelia!! Your video is way fun and loaded with awe­some­ness! And to have a whole car­load of you…jammin’ away!! I felt the joy and energy!!! You and your fam­ily rock the tunes!! I want to say “keep danc­ing” to you…although I really don’t think that’s needed…I am sure this is a reg­u­lar thing for all of you! WooHoo!!

    @Eduard — Hey Eduard! What a great hobby…salsa danc­ing! My wife and I took lessons in this a cou­ple of years ago…great fun (and a few great laughs too!!). Danc­ing is so expressive…it’s like you let your heart speak through the move­ment of your body…way cool!!

  22. Lance says:

    @Sheng1 — Hav­ing done this…I can attest to the fun-ness of this!! Great stuff! And that’s great that the Res­i­dent Com­mit­tees are encour­ag­ing singing and dancing…what won­der­ful ways to express ourselves.

    @Evita — Hi Evita. I am laugh­ing!! YES, you CAN say a thing or two about car danc­ing!!! Evita!!!! (Or is that Evita times three!!!!) Hmmm.… I loved what you shared! You. Danc­ing. I kind of pretty sure you were feel­ing pretty great (happy, joy­ful, light-hearted) while you were doing this. And the thing is, there’s this whole energy transfer…your pos­i­tive and “alive” energy…that I felt, just watch­ing! And I believe that’s a big part of this — how when we dance (what­ever the dance in our heart is) we come alive in that “dance”…and oth­ers feel that energy! And that is all about get­ting away from “life­less” and mov­ing toward “truly liv­ing”. Evita, you’ve got the moves!! You ROCK!!!!!

    @Janice — Hi Jan­ice! That is lovely! …dance being our body’s way of express­ing what words can­not. Thank you so much for writ­ing that. What a touch­ing way to look at dance…

    @Caroline — I have been think­ing about this, Car­o­line. In high school, there was this group of other kids you were with…strength in num­bers, per se. (I think so, any­way!) And then…we grow up. And it’s not “proper” to do this (as Evita alluded to, also). So…we don’t. What are we hold­ing our­selves back from, though? Maybe a sim­ple car dance…right there at the stoplight…can be just the thing to also get us to take some steps out of other boxes we’ve cre­ated for our­selves. And that IS pow­er­ful! Anyway…before I go off on too much of a tangent…happy danc­ing Caroline!!!!!

    @J.D. Meier — The Cab­bage Patch!!! JD! That would make a great video (…just sayin’…) {grin}

    @zmajeva — I DO know that song!! Keep on dancing…even if you think you are annoy­ing peo­ple. I bet that deep down…there’s this voice within them…wanting very much to join you…and maybe they will someday…

    @Jannie — Hey Jan­nie! You know…I think we are good! I had trou­ble view­ing it…although I now declare myself a dancer and not a tech­no­log­i­cal whiz. The techno-wiz…that is the lovely Ina Lukas! She’s a gem! She can open any­thing with her fancy schmancy soft­ware (well…except cans of tuna…or so I’ve been told). And she says we are good…and we have you just per­fectly (and very won­der­fully)!! I’m think­ing of get­ting her a nice shiny, sparkly, glit­tery pocket pro­tec­tor once we are all done. Don’t you think that would be lovely!!! Oh…and FUN!!! It is buck­ets and buck­ets of FUN! This Lev­ity Project, by our friend, Ms. Katie…much deeper than just the loads of fun it appears on the sur­face! And YOU, sweet Jannie…YOU are the sweetheart!!!

  23. Lance says:

    @Lifanatic — I LOVE this project too!! And the two super amaz­ing souls who I’ve worked with on this — Katie and Ina — both such deeply pas­sion­ate individuals…I love them too!! And that’s just it…we can all dance…whatever that “dance” is in us…

    @Megan — Megan…I just want you to know how fun and beau­ti­ful your video is! See, I watch that, and I instantly feel lighter. So, there’s this feel­ing that you had while danc­ing (and while I had while danc­ing too) of how we can just see a bit deeper beyond the guards that oth­ers put up. And we “see” beauty. And what also so touch­ing about this project…viewing the video (ie. watch­ing YOU dance) light­ens my soul…and I feel that same thing again…seeing a bit deeper into your heart (which is all sparkly and over­flow­ing with love, by the way). And so, this starts to become a two-way street…just by what YOU were doing…dancing. So, Megan, hav­ing you here today to share these thoughts is very meaningful…and to know you have danced…is touch­ing upon some­thing even deeper…that which is good within my heart and soul. Always know that dance is there within you, beau­ti­ful and amaz­ing friend…

    @Adrenalynn — Lynn!! Hey, I’m all for bring­ing friends along when we start talk­ing (or is that danc­ing!) crazy!! And you don’t have to begin telling me how lib­er­at­ing this was…I know!! And four mak­ings to get to the final prod­uct! What!?!?! And you didn’t share the bloop­ers????? Wait a sec­ond! Bloop­ers! No way!! Hey, I have now watched you dance…and you crazy dancer friend…you ROCK!!!! Woo-HOO!!!!!

    @Wilma — Hi Wilma. You are so right…this idea of our deep desire to con­nect deeply. And that hasn’t really been dis­cussed here…and yet, dance most def­i­nitely does this. It’s our bod­ies con­nect­ing with our hearts. And then, it’s our out­ward move­ments that con­nect us to oth­ers. And so it spreads. And Wilma…thank you so much for shar­ing your expe­ri­ence from mov­ing your daugh­ter. Danc­ing light­ens the spir­its of those who see us, too. And look at the good that came from that! And I am sure that not only you were feel­ing good, but also those who helped you, too, were lifted by your danc­ing! And know­ing you are out there, Wilma…dancing…that is enough right there. Very wonderful!!

    @Sami — Hahaha!!! Sami!!! Yes, I know that you are ALWAYS up for a dance! I’ve known ever since that famous (well…famous to me, for sure!) Flash­dance rou­tine! I can’t wait to see what freak­ish sort of dance moves you’ve brought to the car!! Sami, you are loads and loads of awe­some!! YOU ARE!!!! And it si so, so, so GREAT to have you in on this!!! Crazy Dancer Friend…YOU ARE AMAZING!!!!

    @Suzen — Hi Suzen! Born to dance!! I love it!! There are all these “norms” we think we have to follow…because that’s the way it’s always been. Or — that’s what we “think” we should do to fit in. Except…it’s really about being true to our hearts. And if that means we dance when we don’t really think we should dance (accord­ing to who??) …then what a per­fect moment to dance! And…Suzen…it just sounds like you have been doing this always! Okay…imagination is on…and I’m see­ing you bop­pin’ around in your car…and draw­ing big smiles from those who are see­ing you! Way awe­some!! (just like YOU!!!)

  24. Davina says:

    Hi Lance.
    I’ve done this; danced in pub­lic. Well, not a real dance, but a lit­tle swag­ger, a lit­tle jig. Some­times you just can’t help it. Espe­cially if you’re out shop­ping and there’s some great tune play­ing in the store. I think more peo­ple should do this. It gives oth­ers the idea and encour­ages them to do it too. Putting a spring in your step def­i­nitely light­ens your day… and every­body else’s. I loved this post :-)
    .-= Davina´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Just Glow­ing, That’s All =-.

  25. Chris Edgar says:

    Per­son­ally, I like to play air drums in the car. I mean, not only in the car. I play air drums in basi­cally any moment when I don’t have real drums in front of me. But any­way, would air drums qual­ify as a proper submission?

  26. Oh, what a post! Find your dance, be who you are, live from the heart. That’s what life is all about. Thanks for this mes­sage, Lance! I often dance in the car, I’d dance any­where, dance is def­i­nitely my form of self expres­sion. Still need to learn to let go of “what oth­ers might think”, but I am get­ting there:) Your blog is fab­u­lous, loved it!
    .-= Lana — I Give Clarity´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The Truth That Will Set You Free+How To Rein­vent Your­self =-.

  27. Lance says:

    @Davina — Hi Davina! Well, here’s the deal: a swag­ger, a jig, break­danc­ing, the conga…it’s a a form of dance. So it IS real!! And when you do this — it just feels really great!! So, very awe­some Davina!! Keep doing that…keep dancing!!

    @Chris Edgar — Hey Chris! Air drums sure sound like a form of dance to me!! YES!!! Get out those drums! The air vari­ety!! That’s pretty easy, huh (they are ALWAYS with you!!). Would LOVE to have you join in, Chris!! This would be so cool!

    @Lana — Hi Lana! It’s great to meet you! I think that is one of the really beau­ti­ful ben­e­fits of this whole video Katie and Ina are putting together — that we can see, through each other, that “what oth­ers might think” isn’t so bad after all. That’s the exact feel­ing I had going into this (and to be truthful…I still have that when I see oth­ers around). So, I CAN relate. As Lynn (Adren­a­lynn) men­tioned up above — doing this whole process was very lib­er­at­ing. And it really is! There’s some­thing about see­ing your­self “out there” and doing this that makes me real­ize — that dance…whatever it is in our hearts…is a good thing to let out. Any­way, thanks so much for being here. And know that should you feel moved to join in, we would love to have you. And if not…no prob­lem either. Keep let­ting that dance in you shine!!

  28. Caity says:

    This is such a fan­tas­tic idea! I love the hap­pi­ness and the whole idea of this project… danc­ing and smil­ing and music are 3 of my favorite things. Put singing in with it and it’s every­thing that I love. I don’t know if I’ll be able to sub­mit a video but I am so excited to see this when it’s done. :D
    .-= Caity´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..I wanted soup! =-.

  29. Well, I am only one of many sweethearts!!

    Just glad to hear that you got it okay, well that Ina could make it work.

    See, I can’t find the charger cord to my Sony video cam­era and I had to take the footage on my iPhone and … well, I won’t get into it any fur­ther — a very long story indeed how I finally man­aged to send it off to you!

    All that mat­ters is you guys got it okay and that Ina will get a sparkkly pocket pro­tec­tor and that I am blessed beyond belief with the most won­der­ful won­der­ful friends like you. There is so much love here, I think I just might go crazy and go pour an 8-ounce glass of apple juice!! And DRINK it!!! I usu­ally only have one cup of juice a week — on Sun­day morn­ing, 4 oz.

    xoxo

  30. Quinn says:

    There are peo­ple I term the happy freaks, these are not the peo­ple who mum­ble and gig­gle to them­selves on street cor­ners but hose who have learned to express them­selves in the face of a social order that says con­form. They are a role model for me at times when I for­get to dance, when I for­get tom to move to the beat of the drum that I hear. This is a great call to bw spon­ta­neous and nat­ural.
    .-= Quinn´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..The first para­dox =-.

  31. Audra Krell says:

    Great post Lance and I enjoy your pic­ture selec­tions so much. I believe it is only when we take off our own mask, that we can see behind the mask of another. Have a great week­end!
    .-= Audra Krell´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Some Con­fer­ence High­lights =-.

  32. Lance says:

    @Caity — Danc­ing, singing, smil­ing, music…sounds like a pretty great pre­scrip­tion for a life filled with lots of good and happy moments! And, Caity, if you get some­thing in…that would be awe­some. And if not…I know that you are out there, doing this already and spread­ing all sorts of your won­der­ful shiny beauty in the world! And that is awe­some right there!

    @Jannie — Jannie…you super-duper sweet­heart, you… Yep. Ina. She’s our woman. If she can’t do it, no one can! (I should really be a cheer­leader, don’t you think…Jannie??) (you should see me when I do the splits while call­ing out that cheer!!) Sparkly pocket pro­tec­tors for Ina and YOU! It’s what you’ve always wanted, right Jan­nie! Enjoy the apple juice and that super fam­ily of yours!

    @Quinn — Happy freaks! Great peo­ple, aren’t they! In fact…I want to be a happy freak! It sounds so freakin’ cool! And I know — some­times we ignore that voice inside (that drum beat that calls our name), and a reminder is a great thing! And that’s part of what this is all about — let­ting oth­ers see that it’s okay to be their “true self”…and to beat that drum that’s in their heart.

    @Audra — Hi Audra!! That pic­ture is so light-hearted and fun, huh!! And those masks…yes, to see out from ourselves…we can’t really do that with our own masks up. It’s what is so great about this car danc­ing move­ment — I can’t dance and keep any type of mask up…they just melt away. And then…to see out beyond that…there’s a deep human­ity in that.…

  33. The car, the shower and on a run are when my inner rock star really come alive. I’m head­ing out in the morn­ing, I hope I can remem­ber to make a video!! Maybe I’ll get my sis­ter, niece and nephew to do it with me!

    what if we’re not in the car, does that count?
    .-= Stacey Shipman´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..FGL Stretch Break! Lower Back Stretch =-.

  34. What a won­der­ful post Lance. I was always the child who couldn’t sit still…in con­stant motion, fol­low­ing my inter­nal rhythm…moving is an effort now…but still every lit­tle bit brings me joy. Keep on danc­ing my friend…in what­ever way you can.
    .-= Laura Hegfield´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Sky­watch Fri­day: same sky-same mind =-.

  35. Hi Lance,
    What a fun post! I like how you refer to there being a dance in each of us, and how you listed the many ways it can man­i­fest itself. The idea is to live out­side of the box and express our­selves freely!

  36. My dance in my car was only one of many. I also dance when I am…
    – Typ­ing on my key­board
    – Hug­ging my sun
    – Kiss­ing my wife
    – Run­ning with my dog

    I know not all of these are always cel­e­bra­tions in pub­lic, but I am mak­ing more of an effort to cel­e­brate my life because it makes it so much more fun.
    .-= Karl Staib — Work Happy Now´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What I Learned from Work­ing on My Habits =-.

  37. Lance says:

    @Stacey Ship­man — Inner rock star!!! Woohoo!!! Stacey, whether the video hap­pens or not, know that your enthu­si­asm for life is a very spe­cial thing. And…no…the video does not have to be in a car…however you are danc­ing through life works beau­ti­fully. (and if I have it yet today, that still works).

    @Laura — Laura, thank you so much. And I know that dance is alive and well in you…even in those moments when it’s an effort to really move to the beat of the music…it’s there, within you…

    @Jodi — Hi Jodi! That’s it…really this is about so much more than car dancing…it’s really about let­ting that dance within us shine! Jodi, I see that so much in you…and in the beau­ti­ful way con­nect to your heart…

    @Karl — Hey Karl!! And while this idea behind car danc­ing really has a “pub­lic” fac­tor to it, that’s a great point that you bring up. Danc­ing can be in both our pub­lic and more pri­vate lives. And those are both very won­der­ful places to con­nect to music…and let our inner dance shine! Keep on bringin’ it, buddy!!!!

  38. I see you extended this! Is it still on sced­ule? I would love to post about it when the dates are firm! If you are going to extend the video por­tion, let me know & I will post about that too.
    .-= Jody — Fit at 52´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..What I am Doing Today =-.

  39. Laurie says:

    I love to dance! I have been known to dance at the gro­cery store, in front of my stu­dents and in church. It is a great stress reliever and a super way to express yourself.

    May I have this dance?

  40. Hilary says:

    Hi Lance .. the video was exhil­er­at­ing .. Spring really is com­ing .. I have flat feet and no rhythm .. so car danc­ing would be bet­ter .. one day — I’ll get organ­ised to do it .. Enjoy all the input ..
    .-= Hilary´s Last Fab­u­lous Post ..Alpha, Trea­cle, Beta, Dog­ger, Snow – what do they mean to you? =-.

  41. Hi Lance, going to share this link Thurs­day or Friday!!!

  42. Lance says:

    @Jody — We are plan­ning for some­time prob­a­bly later this week to have the video all done. And…I’ll be sure to let you know!! Thank you so much for all your sup­port of this, Jody!!!

    @Laurie — Hey Lau­rie! Yes, you may have this dance!! Let’s boo­gie!!! And when we aren’t — hey, keep doing what you are, out there in the gro­cery stores and church aisles!!

    @Hilary — Hi Hilary. Isn’t that video of Ina just excel­lent! She’s a nat­ural car dancer! In fact, I think she was born danc­ing. And — should you ever attempt car dancing…I would love to see it!!!

    @Jody — Hi again Jody!!!!! You are awe­some, do you know that!!! You are!!!!

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